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Its not that bad but it has a limit. Remember you can never force anyone to be what they do not want to be because we are all free and belong to ourselves and not anyone else

tonnieblaise: When u hav a good heart u love 2 much,u trust 2 much n u gıve 2 much..nd u get hurt 2 much.......chaı see wetın heartbreak wan cause na wa o.
I'll rada kıll myself dan commıt suıcıde..*grıns*

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loosing anything in life be it love, money, work, friends, family etc can be traumatic and bouncing back can proove to be a difficult task but one thing we have to understand is that loss is part of life and there is nothing we can do about. We can never avoid it because even if you would avoid relationships for the fear of break ups, there are other things you will still loose in life like the death of a loved one, bzns not working out etc so the best thing is to to always remember that as much as you can loose anything in life, through it all the one thing you can never loose is yourself so after a break up dust yourself and move on. Never try killing yourself for someone who left you, people lv for a reason and you must learn to let go. No need to go all mad about it as that is not the first or the last thing you will ever loose in life

When people stay together its only natural that they will have issues with each other and some might even lead to hatred and now it makes it worse because you are not married as marrige is glue that keeps yols together most of the time. Maybe you must kindly ask him to move out for peace sake)

i think woman should learn from this and realise that God did not make a mistake by creating them the way they are. As much as people can go all out to find ways of improving themselves, there should be a place where you draw the line .

edo and igbo

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bigV maybe you shouldn't have posted his pic because that is invading someone's privacy hey

If you truely blv all that you are saying. Maybe you should keep her in your prayers but stay away from her. Your safety and sanity comes first

never write off love because of a few unfortunate circumstances. You will never know when real love is coming your way so just be patient and know that sometimes we do not meet thee one because we are probarbly not ready. Everyone deserves love and your time will come. In the meantime try also to pray about it and be specific about the kind of a situation you want. Remember that before you meet that 1 good soul that was meant for you , you might have to go through a million heartbreaks first but do not force and do not give yourself to anyone. Do not compromise as well. Remember that if people walk away from you let them walk maybe they were not going to be good for you in the long run

haitto99: at 1.65 u are just averagr am 1.84,u see d difference?

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Ohh i forgot to mention that maturity is key as well.Obviously a young fragile soul or someone who is not matured enough might try stay away from sex as it is a very emotional thing which has the power to sometimes make sensitive people fragile. If one is not ready to face the ups and downs that come with introducing sex in a relationship i would suggest they just postpone it. I am actually worried about the maturity part as sometimes its not much about physical maturity but actualy mental, spiritual and emotional

Sometimes people can be sleeping with each other but can't understand each others personalities and sometimes they can not be sleeping together but still do not understand each other. I blv sex should be respected yes. You can't just give it all up in the early days. What is more important is mutual respect and understanding but waiting till wedding day for it sometimes is just asking for too much.

you said he is a graduate, respects and loves you. Just finished school and looking for a job. The only reason they seem to pressurise you ( according to my understanding) is that they feel him being jobless currently is tying you down. Babe i have learnt that no one knows tomorrow. He sounds like a cool guy and would advice you to hold on as he is not just relaxing. He is still looking for employment. What if you dump him today then the next thing he gets employeed? you would have thrown all this goodness away for what? what i love about nigerians is that we also are business minded people, maybe he can start his own bzns. I have seen people go from nothing to big ( all in good time). It is hard to find someone who understands you and who you also understand in life. Do not throw it all away just because of a temporary disorder. Remember that behind every succeful man, there is a very strong intelligent woman who knows goodness when she sees one. Hold on child. Its gonna be alright

calm communication is key in every situation

M a tall girl so i don't think it would be ideal to be with a guy shorter. I am 1.65 and ladies always ( well mostly) prefere to date someone taller than they are but i have noticed how most short guys actually like tall sisters

It is better to marry when both yols are in love with each other. Love is a two way street and its hard to be in a situation where there is only 1 person giving the love and not receiving it back

[quote author=Atheist:-D]Good morning babes, hope all is well today?

BTW, are you sanboy [/quote]Heyyyyy Ath all is cool babe. How is your thursday coz mine is sooo super chilled

deasy: Hello Nairalander,
This question is to all guys & ladies in here,especially to the ladies...who is a real man?
I mean to you,who is a real man...is it a strong man with muscles,a man with money and job?
Please,give your answers.

Am an with all the above

[quote author=tpia@]you opened a thread insisting all men are dogs, yet to defend your wacked opinion on this one, you produced a picture of a naked man displaying his private parts.


are you confused much? Or those are simply the type of men you roll with.



why are you going out of your way with the excessive negativity?[/quote]this is where i draw the line. real winers known when to quit. I have learnt that if you argue with a fool you also seem like one so i will not waste my energy on people who clearly seem to lack intelligence. chouw

[quote author=tpia@]Seriously though, why must you post a picture of a naked man as your reason for not considering someone manly?





Thats too crass, imo.

If you only dig black males, just say so without acting ridiculous, sheesh. Nobody is forcing you to like non-blacks, so what exactly are you developing feelings over?[/quote]what are you saying exactly?