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mekybabe1:i suggest you get the necessary help/guidance that you require because, thinking this negative way, will only/always have you fail in life. |
TOWNCRIER2015:no... i am saying that my partner has all the rights to talk with her ex, so long as it is done in a respectful way towards me and our r/ship. there are many reasons why people break up, and whether he was good to her (or not) is down to her... and if she wants to keep that person as a friend, so be it. (2).why should a married woman log off her phone, when ever her hubby comes around? If there is no hiden agenda.yes, there is definitely a hidden agenda but that is not automatically cheating... the hidden agenda could be other issues that i mentionned earlier. (3).so the person you ve made up ur mind to spend the rest of ur life with, should not tell u who she was speaking with? So bros dat is low esteem?again, you are now shifting this discussion to some other issues. the reason why she LIES to you (or not) is irrelevant, because LYING is not the same thing as CHEATING, dont confuse the two... a wife could be lying to you for many other reasons than cheating. and this is my point: just because your wife lies doesnt automatically means she is cheating on you! 4). So a responsible woman should hide things from her hubby? What about if it eventually leaks from outsider, is that a good wife?again, we are not here to derail this thread and discuss about why a woman would hide stuff from her man or/and what are the definition of a responsible wife... the subject here is about what would constitute cheating in r/ship-marriage, and hiding stuff from your man does NOT automatically means she is cheating. but hey, if you want us to talk about what makes a responsible wife then open a new thread on the issues and i will be glad to join in the discussion. |
Czar01: 5minsmadness:did you guys missed the part where it says there was NO BULLET in the gun? |
again, NONSENSE BS posted by NLers A) this photo has been photoshopped (original photo below) B) this boxer's name is DENIS LEBEDEV and this photo was taken after he LOST against GUILLERMO JONES. Don king only lifted his hand because he fought hard during their WBA title match. C) here is below the photo of the winner of the bout and a photo of them in the ring together
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people should stop buying these BS Chinese low quality products! not worth the energy/price! |
the guy should have automatically gone to another Western Union branch to verify the information given to him by this possibly crooked bank employee (You can even check online). also, when contacting the bank, make sure they CONFIRM the time of withdrawal and if it does match the time you were at the branch. if the money was already collected then it is probably gone! |
mobile, tablet or laptop/pc? |
Swiftboy:i wouldnt... back in the days, my brother in the UK once did receive a large amount of money into his bank account. it was an error from the bank but he went and withdraw every single penny before they realise their error. they later contacted him and he said he already spent the loot, and agreed to repay the bank about £50 a week. they blacklisted him all over the country and he couldnt open an account in any UK bank, no credit/debit card, NADA!!!! he had to cash his paychecks in the dodgy places that charges you 10%-15% of your checks, and keep all the money at home... at the end, the hassle isnt worth it! |
chinnyonwu:lol, exactly! she wants the "likes" and the "FB popularity" with the high number of BS friends, but not what comes with the territory. she acts like a desperate woman but is offended when equally desperate men treat her exactly like the type of woman she portrays to be. |
jessejagga:kinda of sagging in a strange way... maybe wasnt her 1st butt implant. RichDad1:how did you realise she was a lesbo, and most importantly how does that makes any difference?! |
INTROVERT:isnt that the photo taken by whoever moved the corpse to confirm her injuries, after taking the 1st pic? |
Swiftboy: |
she is gone, the love don finish, bye!!!!! |
dblaisepascal:again to each their own, but if my woman is lusting after another man then she is indirectly cheating... and the only problem is that the OPPORTUNITY to be with that other person has not come about "yet". beware, there is nothing wrong with complimenting a person about their possible attributes, but when you start daydreaming/being turned on about having intimate relations with that person, thats what i would view as lusting. |
tete7000:you are absolutely right, but you are continuing to stray away from the subject at hand. Two people dating can use it as platform for testing the faithfulness or otherwise of their intending partner but abstinence is an essential ingredient in checking faithfulness or unfaithfulness of an intending spouse.1) abstinence got nothing to do with faithfulness, and all to do with each and everyones PRIORITIES in life. 2) abstinence cannot/shouldnt be used as a medium to know if your spouse will be faithful (or not) in the future. 3) abstinence is NOT essential in dating, what IS essential is a compatible state of mind between the two intended partners. A woman or man who claims he can't do without sex before marriage will not be faithful even in marriage. How does he or she cope if work takes his/her spouse out of town for long or if his/her spouse becomes indisposed to sex for a long period in marriage?most people in r/ship mutually decide to have sex because this is something that they BOTH desire/require in their r/ship. you are making it sound like someone is forced against their will to have sex here, lol. people have the right to decide what is important to THEM in r/ship (or not). sex is good in maintaining a certain bond/affection/closeness between lovers, and is therefore good for the union. so sex is not done as a vital necessity that should be done with any Tom, Dikc and Harry out there, but more as a mutual attraction between lovers. when they are together, they desire one another sexually like that, and when they are away from each other, the sexual desire for each other is lessen. dont try to paint men like sexual beasts that can NEVER be faithful, nor have control over themselves. A person who has remain a virgin into marriage, yes might not necessarily end up being a faithful spouse but however stands a far better chance of being a faithful spouse than one who has slept around with many.that is NOT true simply because cheating has absolutely nothing to do with your virgin status on the day of marriage. most people who cheat do so because they are weak, and as much as you will be quick to say that people who have sex before marriage are weak, it certainly aint true. many have been pressured/brainwashed into a certain way of life, and when they realise that all was a dream, they then end up doing extraordinary things in marriage... ask any woman in loveless/emotionally or physically abusive/disrespectful/dishonest/childless marriage. What you have endured before, you can always endure again. What you have lived without is easy to live without again if need arises.again, do NOT take sex as a burden in dating but rather a mutual choice by two lovers. a newly married woman who has high sexual expectations (and ends up with a lacking 2mins man) would seek for what she was made to believe she will get after marriage... aka affectionate love making from a caring and dedicated experienced partner, mind blowing 0rgasms that has her lose her damn mind, sexual satisfaction, sexual freedom, or simply dirty nasty long lasting sweaty sex (to each their own)... and she will seek for just that (at home) until she may be weaken to the point of cheating. btw, a virgin who has sucked all the neighborhood cokc for money, will you view her as a potential great faithful wife? I am however not saying virginity is a must for marriage, abstinence is and virginity is a virtue that must be praised and encouraged. That is my own thought.again, there is nothing wrong with abstinence IF/WHEN this is what a person desires in life, JUST LIKE there is nothing wrong with premarital sex (to each their own). morality is based on each and everyone's own view of life, and you are entitled to yours, BUT this is not a religious debate, right? we are simply discussing about when/how cheating is viewed as cheating, and therefore lets stick to the subject at hand and remember that abstinence got nothing to do with cheating in marriage |
tete7000:remember bro, we are not here to discuss whether cheating is right or wrong, we are here to discuss WHEN/HOW one should believe that his/her partner is cheating. now, dating is as important as marriage because it is the FOUNDATION that you require to have a strong and healthy marriage. this is what you will use in order to decide/evaluate if you want to marry someone or not, so it is just as important as marriage. dating is like a test drive before marriage, and the wedding is just you agreeing to buy the car. people in r/ship dont have the freedom to do what they desire because there are rules and regulations to follow in r/ships, just like marriage (even if many disregard them). the moral obligations that dating people have is exactly the same as the obligations that married people have. a cheating wife is a lying wh0re who dont give a damn about moral obligations (just like a gf) pls get your facts right: faithfulness in marriage has absolutely nothing to do with premarital sex. a virgin wife could cheat after marriage just as much as a non virgin. |
ConfessionsNgr:you are right... but therefore she was childless for 20yrs, and not 16. |
bebe2:i dont know about you but i am the only person my woman should hold hands with... because it means much to her and I, it shows the bond/care/affection/trust/respect we have for one another; it also shows that we are there for one another and are not afraid to show the world. now, if my woman feels this way with another dude then something is very wrong in our r/ship tete7000:so what you are saying is that if you date a lady, she can do whatever she wants and sleep with whomever she desires until the day of marriage?! with no worries from your part?! TOWNCRIER2015:1) her ex will always be part of her past, and may be the reason she is the great woman she is today, you can never change/erase that. so why should reminiscing about her past (whether good or bad) be viewed as cheating? lets say he helped her achieve academically or protected her from ritualist. just because they aint together any longer does not mean they cant be friends. 2) whats wrong with that? especially if she has already told you about these issues but you havent changed... the lady is telling you about what she feels about a particular issue, and you should act accordingly to solve it. if you dont then she will carry a worry and may open up to friends and family about such issue. the fact that you only care that it is a male friend shows us all that its your ego which is getting in the way here. 3) she needs to give you all her attention when you are around so therefore she SHOULD log off... especially if you are the jealous/insecure/low self esteem type of guy. 4) it all comes down to the r/ship you guys have. lets say you dont want her to speak to her family who hates you, but she talks to them in secret because one of them is very sick and she is worried (it aint right but would be understandable), would you call that cheating? 5) there are many things she may want to hide from her husband within her phone, and there would be nothing wrong with that... things that may have nothing to do with other men/sex/cheating etc example: she may have lost her job and dont want you to know; she may have spent money that she doesnt want you to know;she may have a surprise for you and dont want you to find out etc, ps dont confuse LYING/HIDING THE TRUTH with CHEATING, these are two different things! Divaj:the priority to solve any emergency issue should be to talk to the professional, above all... he is the only one whose views matter on certain subjects, and wifey would certainly understand that he (lawyer/banker etc) was contacted 1st. if there are fraudulent withdrawal from my account, then the bank manager is who i will call 1st and foremost, then my partner thereafter. if my daughter faint in the middle of the kitchen then i will call the doctor immediately, and thereafter mama will be contacted; if my son calls me to tell me that he has been arrested, then my lawyer is who i will call 1st to get this kid out of there and/or the proper guidance, and then mama will be called thereafter. its called PRIORITIES in life! bennyann:so what you are saying is that... if my woman loves to sing and want to be a singer, but she is shy to sing in front of me since i always belittles her singing; but she isnt afraid to sing in front of others, and does so behind my back, that means she is cheating? |
@Stupidity may i ask: what do you actually "love" about her? and what do you do that is so special that would have her fall for you? |
DJ2HOT:what i wrote above describe exactly what you are doing... you start with some supposed innocent flirting online and then it leads to more, provided the right environment, therefore i am safe to "assume" that: 1) you are obviously lacking in your r/ship, because if you didnt, you wouldnt have the need to meet/flirt/date other women at the other side of the world. i mean, you even say yourself that flirting is sweet with stranger but not as with your partner, lol...if you are "supposedly" not lacking then simply ask your woman to provide you with whatever this Australian lady is bringing to your life, et voila! 2) you say that your woman should NOT worry but guess what?! she probably does, and this is where the issue lies. you say that "you" are ok with it but you are not alone in a r/ship, so i suggest you think on how your actions may affect her. your woman dont just want your body while you share your mind with women all over the world, she wants/deserves it ALL (body, mind and soul) 3) you bring confusion into your own life by lusting for some stranger online. wouldnt you go if she paid for your plane ticket to meet her? wouldnt you meet her if she was to come visit Nigeria? if your answer is NO, then you have no reason to keep contacting this lady, unless of course, as i said earlier, something is LACKING in your r/ship, and you need the buzz/excitement or whatever. |
i would have replied: although i understand how you may feel about her abandoning you, you have to remember that she is your BIOLOGICAL MOTHER and will always be. nobody is perfect and most people make mistakes (some bigger than others) but anyone can/should be forgiven with time. so i will suggest you guys start by communicating via email or chat, then see how it goes, and take it from there. there are many questions that may be bothering you and this is the time to put your mind at ease and ask them. at the end of the day, nobody can force you into having a r/ship with this stranger BUT, as long as it wont hurt you in anyway, then you might as well have one with her. btw if she was childless for 16yrs and you are 20 then either she had you in her life for 4 yrs or this story is BS! |
another NONSENSE thread from obvious clueless peeps: love2nicee: |
DJ2HOT:bro, here is something to consider: at what moment would you consider that your wife has cheated on you: A) is it when her hot and handsome colleague gives her a compliment, and she flirts back by seductively say "thank you dear"? B) is it when her hot and handsome colleague brushes pass her and puts his hand around her waist and whispers "you are welcome sweety"? C) is it when she sends her gf a message telling her that she is wet and hor.ny just thinking about him? D) is it when she tells that same gf that she now think of him when making love to you? E) is it when she sends her hot and handsome colleage a msg that reads " i would love 2 kiss you just one time" and he replies "meet me in the bathroom"? F) is it when they meet in the bathroom and start kissing? G) is it when he starts to handle her tittays and yansh and she gets excited? H) is it when he brings his cokc out and she starts playing with it? I) OR is it when he lifts her skirt, pulls her wet panties down and ultimately bangs the hell out of her on the bathroom sink?! |
Keepshining:the house should only be fumigated AFTER the dogs have been treated. if the dogs are not treated then fumigating his house is pointless, as the ticks will simply return. |
evil mad selfish ungrateful she-goat of a woman |
ammyluv2002:#4 you are absolutely right about that #5 i am sorry but there are many other people a partner should confide with... it all depend on the issue. i would rather confide in my lawyers/banker/family for some issues, rather than partner, simply because they may be more FIT to help solve the issue at hand. #7 although a partner is IMPORTANT, he/she is NOT a priority in life, come on now! it all depends on the issue at hand. if your parents/kids are sick for example, then THEY should become the priority in your life. if a woman has to chose between caring for her child and her husband then the CHILD should always come 1st (so long it aint an emergency, daddy can wait). your priority as parents is to make sure that you BOTH support your children emotionally/physically/financially above anything else! |
ammyluv2002:#4, you mean intimate time, right? #5, you mean not letting your partner know about important family stuff, right? #7, shouldnt this be down to priorities in life? |
IMHO kissing/lusting for someone or having any intimate physical contact whatsoever (holding hands etc) is also cheating |
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bro calm down we could go all text nd no physical am ok with it......