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NairalandDotOrg:
Will you also tell the girlfriend , if your guy cheats on her?

i dont have any duty/affiliation towards the gf... but if my close friend happens to be the lady being cheated on, then i will tell her.
if both are my close friends then they are on their own

since i want my friends to tell ME if they see my girl cheating, then i have no choice but to tell them if i see theirs.

because 9ja is a hotbed for scammers and what not, i can certainly understand why companies want to protect themselves from any nonsense lawsuit.

thats DEFINITELY not a van, more like a semi-trailer
here is a clue: you dont need a special license to drive a van, but you will need one to drive that semi-trailer

^^^ you fukc her til you eja.culate= 1 round

autocorrect could be the culprit

you want to play "big guy" by offering to this lady what you can hardly provide.... be yourself bro before you hurt yourself.

trapQ:
masturbation and porn always do more harm than good. he masturbates that's why he sees his wife as being useless in that area.

it all depends on why the person watches p0rn... if the guy/girl is into sad0mas0/bestiality/kinky stuff etc while their partner aint and dont want to hear about it, then i would understand why a person would be sexually lacking/unsatisfied and watch p0rn to get off.

HerexG:
Have considered giving him a head ?
After a good head, u can now lead his d*ck straight down to ur porny, women you really need to be creative with sex.
If ur hubby so love IndecentStar then act like one with him.

head is a just a preliminary to get the "engine running" or to complete the job... but what is in that person's mind (when he is about to explode) is what is important. many men have to close their eyes and fantasise about other things that turn them on before they can explode.
a lady could be the best lay in the world and yet still not satisfy a man who desires other men. so no matter how creative a woman will be, she can never satisfy such man. sadly the African society is so fake that many rather marry for the wrong reasons with women they aint attracted to, and settle sexually by watching p0rn. its as simple as that.

yep the cake has a "curvier" figure than the real thing.

@Durent
has the beating solved the problem? NOPE
did you in anyway helped the kid? NOPE
will your actions make a difference in this person's life? NOPE

many men (and women) use p0rn to fullfil the void within them. they are sexually empty and desire things that their partner cannot (or dont want to) provide, due to social/religious beliefs etc. so many men (and women) are into sexual practices that they cant openly practice with their partner, and therefore they use the internet to get some sort of satisfaction. sometimes a simple talk can make all the difference but many people out there are simply too stuck to remotely satisfy their partner... or too shy to let them know what turns them on. a man (or woman) who has an healthy satisfying sex life wouldnt need the internet to get their groove on.

Bolajihefty:
Am a 31 years old guy dating a 24 years old lady,I graduated 5years back after searching for job for 2 to 3 years I decided to go into my own small scale business which I believe is going to get bigger in the nearest future.
My parent and siblings expect me to settled down and start my own family very very soon like this year or latest next year,
The lady am dating told me she will like to complete her education which will take her up to 3 to 4years to achieve it and every attempt to persuade her is not yield anything good, with my age to add another 4 years I think is a bit late moreso I like to settle down this year or the coming one
Pls ADVICE me should I leave her or should I wait for another 4years would I regret my action later on in the future moreso am I into a wrong relationship

- does this lady have the same religious beliefs as yours?
- how long have you guys dated?
- what do you know about this lady?
- obviously you guys dont have the same aim in life, so why want to marry her?
- if these are the reasons why you want to get married then, i am sorry to say that you want to get hitched for the wrong reasons... what do YOU want?!
- you are desperate due to family pressures, and subsequently, pressuring a lady who barely knows you. marriage is not a gamble, beware of what you wish for.
- there is only ONE thing to do here, and thats to take it easy and get married when you will find the RIGHT lady... this one aint it!

Awoofawo:
Are you sure that Konji will not hold......and put some heavenly thought for your mind?

come on now?! do you think that this lady is in a state to remotely think of sex?!

Dharniel:
you're just a wh0re who is getting paid for the services rendered...

exactly!!!!

how did his EYE got injured while eating aaaasss?! did he put his eye in her anus?!
NONSENSE!

aigjoey:
Please advice a Friend
She got married 7years ago with a girl and a boy to show for it. It was the suggestion of my husband not to have kids again which I kindly oblige to. But after my last child I have had six abortion because he wouldn't want me to deliver the baby and now I am pregnant for the 7th time he still wants me to abort it. But I said no to him and he has threatened to throw me out of his house if I don't do as he had instructed. I think this is wrong and what do I do. Note that I will never abort this one. And also note that he had refused all forms of birth control I suggested to him. PLEASE I NEED UR ADVICE AS I AM SO CONFUSED.

if you knew fully well that your husband didnt want any more kids then why didnt you start taking contraception?! you guys make no damn sense but i guess you will soon be OYO. good luck then!

get her on my boat and get her to safety.

forget it!!!!!
there is too many issues here, find another girl.

thats what happens when you try to turn a hoe into a housewife!

Josephamstrong1:
What are you saying? Itching is just a sign of fungi infection that doesn't take a second to manifest.
Although vaginal itching is the hallmark of yeast infections and other vaginal infections (including sexually transmitted diseases [STDs]), itching in the vagina and vulvar areas has multiple causes. Vaginal itching can also arise due to chemical irritants that may be found in detergents or soaps, douches and vaginal creams, toilet paper, bath products, feminine hygiene products, and vaginal contraceptive products.

lol, and the white discharge is also due to the above?! keep lying to yourself when you know your girl been barebacking other guys!!

swemzkid:
hey fellaz am a pretty cool and very funny dude i have friends as well as female friends but there is this particular girl average hight proud boobs killer curves every thing beautiful about her her name is jenet.we are actually church members after church we and other guys and galz aways stay and gist even visit each other at times.am a very funny person so them girls love coming around me but her's is different.when she is laughing she aways rub my head most times sit on my lap, hugs me real chest hug and makes me feel her solid organs numerous times we are every close.so i concluded that she loves me but was wating 4 me to make 1st move.so i told her i love her nd want us to start a relationship to my suprise she turn a very hard face and warned me never repeat that again...my question is why is she that physically close to me but reacted to the toasting that way please i need your advice

so, in your world, being friendly means she wants you?! what do you actually "love" about her? you concluded wrongly that she "loved" you while she didnt. you mistook her friendliness for something else, is it a crime today to be friendly? must a person want you simply because they are friendly?!

go back to the drawing board, YOU FAILED!

@Josephamstrong1
let me be the bearer of bad news... if it happens last weekend then there is NO WAY she can have symptoms so soon. so either A) you are also infected because she had that infection long before the weekend and/or B) she must have had sex prior to this weekend with whomever infected her. so pls go back to the LovePeddler (no offense, lets call a spade A SPADE) you call your gf and ask her to REALLY tell you what has been going on in her life.

btw the fact that she has unprotected sex with whoever shows you that you best be careful with this demon!

freecocoa:
Lol, I'm glad reading this, you need to understand that I don't support what the woman did, neither do I support cheating, I am well aware that cheating is no mistake, we are having this conversation because
you implied that she may have given you the condoms to shield you from desperate women, I was just trying to show you why that statement is flawed.

that statement is not flawed sista, because we all know the tricks some women use in order to catch/entrap weak men out there. so yes, some women use their charms/body etc to entice WEAK men to sleep with them (important word here is WEAK ) and therefore some wife/gf would give condoms to their partner in order to protect them form these biatches... but, that would strongly suggest that my woman thinks i am a weak man (if she gives me condoms), and that in itself is THE MAIN INSULT.

SUGARBEE:
Tell me. . Are we in a relationship with the shoes and bags? Using that as an example is totally off. . How can satisfaction and content of shoes and bags compare to real relationships?

satisfaction is SATISFACTION... whether shoes, women, sex, shopping or food. you are the one who think that that satisfaction in r/ship is different than other satisfactions in life, while i can assure you they are all the same.

freecocoa:
B. She needed the condom just incase, which is the reason why she gave it to you too(still your theory), the event has not happened, so you can't say she's cheating,

lol "just in case"!!!! you are talking about cheating like it was some accident bwaaaaah! here is a clue for you: 110% of men who cheated did so because they WANTED to. they may regret their actions afterwards but AT THE TIME they willingly decide to cheat. so pls, stop making it look like something that is unavoidable, because that is an INSULT to all the real men out there who can control themselves and RESPECT their partner.

you lost the right to be mad the instant you collected the condoms with no qualms, if you don't see any wrong in taking the condoms whether you cheat or not, you shouldn't see something wrong in her holding onto some too,

again, if she is insecure and believe i may be cheating then thats all on her, you cant FORCE trust into someone... it should come naturally. so although i may not say anything, there is something wrong in this womans ways and there is very little i can do about it. me accepting the condoms doesnt confirm that i will cheat, it only confirms her insecurities, BUT the minute she needs condoms herself, means that she believes that she may be in a situation where she will need them.... and that (imho) is UNACCEPTABLE!

after all, just like you can be persuaded, so can she, or is temptation gender specific?

i can NEVER be persuaded to cheat, and anyone who tells you that they are is a damn fool. unless you were raped, having sex with someone is a willing conscious decision that each and everyone take. stop making it seem like an accident waiting to happen... and instead people should stand proudly for who they are.

Why can't you trust her enough not to use the condoms?

listen to the garbage you are writing!!!!
i CAN/WILL only trust my partner to be FAITHFUL to me and our union. cheating or anything deceitful will NEVER be accepted! what world are you living in that suddenly cheating is "ok"... or better yet, what happened to you that you believe it is "ok" for your partner to cheat, so long as they wear a condom?! so now wearing a condom makes cheating "acceptable"?!?!?!?!
MY PARTNER DOES NOT NEED CONDOMS, AND NOR DO I!

Understand that a woman who hands her man condoms(when they aren't in an open relationship)is suspecting him of cheating, no two ways about it, well except maybe a very dumb woman, who believes that it's a woman's fault should a man cheat and according to the OP, the woman in this picture, is very far from dumb.

again, her insecurities is the problem here and this man is (so far) not guilty of anything. she can suspect all she wants, but unless she has confirmation of unfaithfulness, this is all in her head.

sadly, the problem here AGAIN is women who, instead of solving an issue, they desperately trying to sweep it under the rug. if you suspect your man of cheating, dont hand him condoms because it certainly WONT solve the problem... and instead you should sit him down and sort this issue maturely!

SUGARBEE:
Wow you gave me something to rummage on there... But still I ask.. Why the need for all the games when you already enjoy everything thereis to a lady?

as a woman, you know the answer to your own question but pretend you dont. here it is:
- why would you buy +10 designer bags when some women are perfectly fine with just one?!
- why would you buy +15 pair of shoes and still claim that you aint got any?!
- why would you go shopping every other day, yet claim every weekend that you aint got nothing to wear?!

the answer is SATISFACTION, and if one woman cant satisfy a man then he will always yearn for more. so women need to FULLY understand what their partner desire before they should foolishly think that being with someone means you guys automatically fulfill one another. sometimes you are just a temporary solution in a man's life until he finds the type of lady he is seeking.

@SUGARBEE
not every men desire the things that YOU desire. you may be searching for a husband while some men out there simply want to sample as many toto as possible.... and there is nothing wrong with that so long as they let you know what time it is. sadly, many dont because they are ashamed of who they truly are. but then again, when you know how "desperate to marry" some of you women are, its is understandable that some men would use that against you in order to take advantage of you lot. as much as this is aint right, i dont think beating the man black and blue would solve anything, far from it!

btw dont mistake a PLAYA with a CHEATER, thats 2 different type of men entirely:
- a CHEATER will hide and crawl at the dead of night like a bandit in order to go meet other women, hoping that you dont catch him. you would know very little about this man, although you believe otherwise.
- a PLAYA would fukc with your mind so much that you would unwillingly accept his cheating. he would even tell you when he is going to meet other women, but you would be so taken by his "brainwash/game" that you would accept it. a playa would make you do/accept things that you wouldnt normally do... thanks to the power he has over you.

kilokeys:
Besides.. I blame d husband's joystick..
Condemned her centre of gravity..

Things fall apart when d centre cannot hold

lol, so what you are saying is that she didnt fukc in the past, right?!

freecocoa:
You know you are my darling any day MBJ but c'mon now, she's trying to protect you? You are now a minor that's needs to be shielded from women against molestation or what exactly? Let's agree you are not cheating or haven't given her any reasons to think you are and the problem is her insecurity, collecting the condoms without letting her know you are disappointed,only to ask her to leave because she also wants to shield herself from men (using your theory) is a cause for concern, I mean, you can't just ask her to leave because of her self esteem issues, especially not when you had no problems with it while she was trying to protect you, after all, she hadn't used the condoms, no?

Btw, you don't have to make a scene when angry, you do know that, right?

sista, you've got this all wrong!!!!
A) she wouldnt be out of my life because of her insecurities, thats why i wouldnt get mad if she hands me condoms (although it is an insult if i am not a cheating man)
B) she would be out of my life simply because SHE is not strong enough to say no to strangers/men (thats why she needed the condoms too, right?).
C) her insecurities is her business, and we can live with that, but i know the kind of man i am (aka a man who can say no to coochie), and therefore, as much as she knows how persuasive some women may be (when they set their mind on a man), she SHOULD trust me fully. without TRUST there is no point in wasting your time with such woman.

thats why she would be out of my life that instant!

Ilekeh:
How would she "be gone" if you both own the house?

stop assuming nonsense and instead STICK TO THE ISSUE at hand. as i said and repeat, that woman will pack her shiit and get herself out of my life. i'll even drive her to that fool's house, lol!

She's only reacting to your reaction, she's beingv vindictive.

but of course, men should be happy that their women are cheating, right?! BWAAAAAAAH women and their double standards!
its funny how you are focussing on BS instead of focussing on what is important here: the "obviously" cheating wife who is being vindictive while she is the one who is cheating?! arrant nonsense!

this cheating woman should be gone to be happy with her lover, instead of wasting her time with me, duh! whether she gets half of the house or not is irrelevant here. again, stop focussing on nonsense.

Please be honest with yourself. You's likely be the one to pack your bags.

as i said, she would be gone from my LIFE, that same instant
stop being bias here... the guilty/unhappy party is the one who should take a hike and be merry with whomever she newly desire.