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i used to know a gal in China that i was fukcing ONLY up the aaaass because she wanted to remain a "virgin" until marriage.... that gal was the true meaning of a slut, yet someday some man would marry her and believe he got some "tear rubber" lady, while in reality he is being played.

and nowadays, with all the surgeries and what not available out there, a woman can Bleep 10 thousand men and still get married with a toto looking as clean as a gal who has never been touched (Labiaplasty), a toto as tight as that of a virgin (vaginoplasty), and with a hymen "intact" that will have to be broken again (hymenoplasty)

madridguy:
Such a bad news..... Enough of killing our brothers in Asia........I think it is time our politician will call themselves in order and use our stolen wealth to develop our country so that our brothers will stop all these illicit business.

God will rescue you all.

as if politicians give a damn about these criminals.... lol!
even if 100 billions of $$ is used to develop Nigeria, there would still be lazy people out there wanting to cut corners, and who will do illegal activities to enrich themselves, in the name of "frustration" etc... NONSENSE!!!

these criminals will/should get what they deserve from marketing and selling death all over the world.

@OP
i think she is just letting you know that its time for you to get your own place, and live your own life.

ronald4lif:
Although women plays an important role in shaping a man's life and determining the outcome of his decision-making it is not always the case that women are behind their success.

For starters, there are a lot of successful men who aren't married and aren't even interested in getting married. Some don't have girlfriends and even the ones who are in a relationship don't seek for the input of their woman in crucial decisions of their business or career.

Let's also not forget the fact that atleast 80% of our women are all out searching for a ready-made man, a man who's all doing well for himself. How then can this statement be true?. I would have taken it as true if most women were interested in dating that poor guy who's still trying to survive. Not the ones who are doing well for themselves.

Statements like this could propel a woman, for instance, who met a man who have a business capital of 10mil and after 3years the man capital increase to 15mil to think that she's the reason behind the profit growth. Forgetting the fact that the man was doing reasonably well before they met and could have still experienced same growth without her.

I'm aware the statement is hyperbolic but still it's pertinent we address it.

well said!

MrsChima:
MBJ....what do you know about twerking?

lol, enough to know that virgins are worst than a plank of wood.

Jackeeh:
All you need to be a successful man is ONE good woman behind you. Increase it to more than one, and bring in chaos into your life.

you do NOT need anyone by your side to be successful, its just that if you have a GOOD woman by your side to share your fortunes then its better than being alone, sampling different women on a daily basis. having multiple women is like having different companies, its a headache but many manage it perfectly.

sadly, the reason men cheat is simply because they are weak and has nothing to do with how many women are by their side. a man with 10 wives would still cheat, if thats the men he is.

Tosinville:
shows folks like u can even marry a prostitute from the brothel ?Lol d thots gon love a dude like you a lot that deliberately settle for less than more or you tryna say this for for dem thots to like you comment and feel comfortable here ?

bro Tosin, you must have some comprehension issues.... where in my post did you read that A) a woman fukcing other men will ever make me feel right B) that i gave a flying fukc about what women/men on NL thought of me or C) that i needed to be comfortable on NL?

bwaaah, I am MrBrownJay (aka MBJ, aka i dont give a flying fukc what people think of me or my comments), i have been on NL for the past +6yrs, you need to read my comments here to understand that i am not here for "likes" and what not, but simply to give my undiluted opinion. i am a proud fornicator, i dont go to no fukcing church, i do NOT believe in marriage, i am pro abortion, i am pro gay/lesbian, i am a proud member of the association of stingy men of NL and am quick to let them broke aaass hungry begging goldigging criminals know what time it is, got 6 kids from 5 baby mamas, dislike virgins because they are lame in bed and i aint got the time to teach some newbie how to twerk on me, dont believe in juju or any of the African "harry Potter" wizard and witches nonsense, (edit) OH and i will never value women with fake hair on their head... so no, i certainly dont come here for popularity contest.

funny as i didnt see you complain when i wrote the following: www.nairaland.com/2292215/no-romance-without-finance#33391508

@OP
so long as these women (or men) let their partner know they are double/triple or quadruple dating, then there is nothing wrong in the act. let each discover how best to find the perfect mate. not all women can settle for the RIGHT man, even if that (somehow) perfect being was in front of them "slapping them in the face". some people always want more, or always believe that the grass will be greener, and subsequently, they are never satisfied. love is no more enough for most of these women, they want to live the Kardashians lifestyle at all cost.... and who are we to talk them down from their dreams?

i dont think any of this has to do with beauty, but all to do with a fukced up state of mind where materials is now the foundations of most r/ships, instead of proper characters etc. there are still gems out there who dont double/triple or quadruple date and instead seek for the right characters before jumping into any r/ships.

most good women out there dont stay too long on the market, they are courted by many men but they know how to act RIGHT and respect themselves towards men. therefore men MUST be at the top of their game in order to catch what is known as the BIG FISH.

frenzymirakk:
Certainly tru.wats ur take on dat....she wnts my opinion on wether she culd go on wit d plan on not..although frm her stand she dosnt wnt any of such,,she is more intersted in setlin don wit me but frm d stand now am certainly not ready for marriage...av not said i dnt wnt to marry her

the one and only question you should ask her IS: since you dont want to marry this stranger, how do you intend to stop this charade?

jmoore:
Hello, I can never ever put my brand new di** into a second-hand *****.

Virginity is among those qualities she must have.

Let me reiterate for those who got low comprehension skill. Virginity is not the only thing I am looking for. She should be a virtuous virgin

My bride must come in a tear rubber, no negotiation.

bro, would you therefore feel offended if your perfect bride demands that you are a "virtuous virgin" also coming in tear rubber?

Ralphlauren:
Smh.

Tiger Woods needs to leave these white women alone and get himself a black woman.

NCOIM:
This Guy is A joke!!
The earlier he leave white Toto and red bosom the better for am

you guys really think its going to change anything? that man is a dog, you cant cure dogs, you just have to let them be the dog they are freely. whether the women he dates are white, black, yellow or green, this man will remain who he is inside.

bamite:
Look else where? That's a total no no for me, i'm not gay and never will be.

bro, pls dont get offended once again, but if women dont bring the passion/desire that you require then it may be that you are looking at the wrong place. in 9ja being gay is socially wrong therefore it would be normal for a gay person to unknowingly block such feeling (due to how you were raise, how they are viewed in society and/or how they are possibly lynched).

so look deep within yourself as you are the only one who has the answer to your own questions... YOU are the common denominator out of the women you dated in your life, therefore the problem is YOU. the answer is within YOU, and it doesnt matter how much you keep going back in circles, YOU have to change whatever you are doing in order to have a different outcome. so whether it is because you are emotionally blocked, you dont hang in the right places OR you seek for "more", its all down to YOU and you have to change. so since we dont know you, YOU are the only one who can solve this out.

coputa:
The only save route is to resign,since you have soil your hands from the onset.

even if she resigns, she will get caught and possibly go down for hard time (depending on how serious this is).

@ OP
these are the consequences of her actions that she surely was fully aware of. we didnt see her complain when she was enjoying the fruit of her crime.

there is nothing wrong with how you are feeling, you just havent met the right person for you to fall in love with.....it could be because you hang in places where the wrong women hang out, you are not ready emotionally to fall in love or simply that (no offense) a woman doesnt have what you desire/require to fall in love..... and you should look elsewhere (aka men).

sadly i cant, simply because A) i dont do things just because i am influenced by others and B) even if i did, i would certainly find ways to save someone with such money.

look around you...... go to any hospital and you will find someone who needs medicine/treatments to get better; go to any streets in 9ja and you will find someone who needs a meal, some warm clothes or somewhere to sleep..... so even if he doesnt want the money, he can surely find someone who "needs" the help that such money can bring. it may not be much, but it may be the difference needed to one person out there.

beware: do NOT give it to any of the criminals in robe out there, like pastors/preachers etc who will just buy private jets or fancy cars with the money.

then he should give the ticket to the first beggar he will meet on the street and be done with the headache.

prettythicksme:
money is not everything!! :Dwhen there is love money is nothing.Just dat i am allergic to broke lazy guys at least u must b hardworking and get little.

so long as hardworking and "get a little" doesnt involve sharing "it" with you, then its all good...but the minute you desire such men in order for them to care for your possible inabilities in life, is when there is a huge problem.

we see it everyday on NL, so many women are quick to call smart men stingy, just because they aint stoopid enough to spread their cash on women with no future or aspiration.

McEwen:
Many girls are gold diggers and, this is a fact that is not surprising at all. When girls or women are looking to enrich themselves through relationships, the value of love goes down. The depth and sanctity of romance is abused.

cc: MRBrownJ

as i always say, we men are the reason why so many of these broke and hungry women can possibly think of doing what they are doing. its just toto and, if we (men) look around closely, we can see that many of these women are desperately throwing these totos at us "freely", out of desperation. there is no need to pay for a women to be by your side (just because men are hor.ny), nor should anyone degrade themselves by thinking that its the way to go today. they have to remember: what you get with honey, you will surely lose with honey too.

sadly, you will hear everywhere in 9ja:"get money and the ashewos women will come falling"........ i do weep for the deluded brothas that have already been brainwashed by these animals!

each and every one of us have different level of desires and requirements.... some would say 1 man is too much while others would say 10 or even as much as she wants. if a lady is down with such lifestyle then thats her business, and since she aint hurting anyone, doing anything criminal or against the law, then so be it. to each their own!

as for me, so long as she makes me feel right, i dont care how many guys she has had... but if i discover that she is the neighborhood skank, then dikc is all what she can possibly get!

its a known fact that gazillions of Nigerian ladies are sex workers in Italy and all over european cities. sadly, many more will be fooled into going to Europe for "secretary" jobs and end up like the lady in the photo. the Nigerian mafia are sending young and old women to do ashewos to europe since decades, its just that now the business is more and more lucrative to them so they have been sending twice as much "merchandise".
to each their own as many of these ladies are not complaining, so why should we?!

@OP
you should have simply replied:" if thats what you think of doing when i am not in the mood for sex (whether phone or other form of sex) then let me just drop you right now and go on my merry way. what kind of BS answer is that? do you think i MUST ALWAYS be in the mood to satisfy your every whim and desire? do you even know what a r/ship is? why would you even want to have any form of sex with someone who is not in the mood? how satisfying or rewarding would that be? if your cunt is on fire, go take a cold shower...... you better be joking?!?!?!?!"

@OP
sadly, thats what all them hungry broke aass wh0res out there would have men to believe, and so many foolish men fall for this nonsense.
the reality of it all is that there is no LIFE without finance. in the world of today that we living in, you need finance to feed yourself, finance to clothe yourself, money to house yourself etc.... many women know that and instead of finding their own mature and independent ways to get such finances, they have decided to hustle men for it; and since many men are desperate for toto/women, their minds get clouded and they do stoopid shiiit in order to have someone/anyone (even these goldigging criminals) by their side. these part-time ashewos that will be there by your side when you have money, and leave you if/when you aint got it any longer, are NOT what men should set their standards upon.

these animals, who only think about finances, dont deserve to be next to any man who they were not valueing when he was struggling, but now appreciate because he has made it. settling for such woman would only be the downfall of ANY man. it is easy to find down to earth women who will appreciate you and the little you have to "share with them".

a man who is remotely thinking of dating, should FIRST have enough money to care and support his own self (feeding/housing/clothing/entertaining etc) and, the minute a gal comes into his life, he can share his own meal with her (no need for"extra" finance), he can let her stay in his "face me face u" (no need for "extra" finance), he can continue spend on himself while she continues clothes herself the way she did before she met you, AND finally, you dont need extra cash to entertain each other and instead you spend the little you "both" have on going out together (no need for"extra" finance). now, this is how it should normally be in the real world...

now, if you aint got money to support your own self (to begin with) then you have no business hoping to date someone, and should first work on improving yourself into the responsible and independent man you owe to be (this has nothing to do with being rich), and then when you have attain that status, can look at yourself proudly in the mirror, and dream of finding someone to date.

so can there be romance without finance, YEAH if the gal you meet lives in the real world and not FANTASYLAND!

it can mean a lot of things:
- when you are dating someone and filling a form, wouldnt you write "single" in the civil status?
- when you are dating a woman that does NOT appreciate, notice, care or even value you, arent you really "single"?
- when you are a cheat that does not value your woman and would lay with anything with a toto that comes your way, then technically you are dating but calls yourself single.
- when you are dating a golddigger/ashewo/runz gal that is pretending to love you but in fact is with you solely because of your money/status etc, you may fool yourself into believing that you are dating but, the truth of the matter IS: you are single.

@OP
they were not married

@all that replied
here is the deal: many rapist dont just rape people because of sex, all the terror and the overpowering/taking advantage of a "defenseless" person is also part of why they do it. they are cowards and therefore the problem is not really ALL sex.ual, their minds are fukced up too....if you only get rid of their dikc then they would still be able to cause terror while putting a strap on.... its their fukced up mind that leads them to do such heinous crime, not their dikcs. so, the only way around it is either death or death!

sammieblaize:
Most nigerians dont even know what a nerf gun is fam expansiate for em!

you should have said: most Nigerians dont have fun in their marriage so they wouldnt understand the photo.

Bamoha:
this arguement came up between me and my co-workers, there is a man there that said he wont pay back because her money is our money, and there is another that said her money is her money but my money is ours... so whats your take on this issue?

if her money is his money indeed then he wouldnt have to borrow it then.

many people who think Pacquiao was robbed dont know much about how boxing is scored..... Mayweather fought a highly strategic match, he did only what he needed to win this match. yes it would have been better for the public if someone was knocked out , but when you know you cant, you have to use everything in your power to WIN (and thats what he did).

@OP
each and every human being has the right to decide what criteria he or she require and/or desire in order to choose a future mate. it doesnt mean that the value of a woman is only down to her virginity, it means that this is what is important to this man. if someone out there is solely focussed on virginity then so be it (its their lives and therefore their priorities). what is wrong here is when someone wants to force their ideologies onto others. there is NOTHING wrong in someone wanting to marry a virgin, and so long as what they require/desire aint criminal or against the law, then let it be.

to each their own!