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dimples2:
At the end of it all, I think to each his own

Whatever an adult chooses to do with their body! We should let them be anyway!

So long as they ain't kids when you are terribly sick or someone u know dies, you realise this life aint it and all this "wahala" we carry for head is absolutely pointless...

true!

so people think its better to have two miserable people raising children together, hating on one another, lying and cheating on one another, acting foul in front of the kids, fighting, possibly taking their frustrations on the kids etc instead of two HAPPY divorced parents that live and raise their children separately?!

we are certainly doomed.

dimples2:
Also in some Asian countries eg India, a fair woman is preferred to a dark one, most of the dark ones are treated like 2nd class citizens.

there is a simple answer to that... in China, the darker ones are the poor ones, the ones that work in fields and/or in the street. so the lighter the lady is, the "better" in that society she must be. that is why many chinese women in the summer refuse to get tanned and instead walk around with umbrellas under the sun.

In America and European countries, most men prefer blonde women to brunettes!!
It's a global issue

yes sadly, many women have inferiority complex and would rather go through plastic surgery to look like what they are not, and look like zombies. many women go and have breast implants because they have "low self esteem" due to their bodies. thats because they are bombarded in the media etc with these perfect looking women (mostly photoshopped) and they all feel bad about their own small breast or tiny aaass, so they foolishly go and do plastic surgeries. the unfortunate truth is that, in a dress, these women look wonderful with the "new" big tittays and banging bootays, but as soon as they are nekkid next to you, you realise that these ladies looks like zombies.

men are no different, so many want a big cokc to be the men in the bedroom, and they will do whatever nonsense to hope to get it....pen.is enlarger, sex pills and even injection into the pen1s....kai!

@OP
forgiving someone who is not sorry for what they have done is pointless as they will surely do their mistake one and one. you have to let go of that ungrateful disrespectful person, unless you are willing to catch whatever she is going to catch from her lovers (HIV/AIDS, PREGNANCY, EBOLA etc)

@OP
kai... see that ghost's hands!!!!! all my condolences to her and to whichever man will be attracted to that thing.

@OP
NONSENSE, any man who claims he "love" a girl and thats why he wants to date her is a damn FOOL! what exactly does he love about this stranger that he barely knows?! thats where the main reason is why a gal may not want to date you, because you are talking nonsense.

if your application was genuine then you wouldnt need some to "help you suggest anything".... therefore they were right in denying your application. sorry!

ChynoBEATS:
These 3 get 2O billion n them look like ote Hmm.......... Nawa o.......

do you actually think they are the kingpin of this scam?! these are just the "mules", the true kingpin/big boss must be back in China chilling while fattening his bank account, one naira at a time!

most people who are hands on and get caught are generally just petty worker at the bottom of the food chain!

these people are going from one celebrity to the next.......

kai, is that a Renault 12?

this man is trying to be relevant after failing miserably at boxing...... he should go and get a life, instead of bringing irrelevant excuses as to why he LOST. "my shoulder was hurt, i had my period, Mayweather was running bla bla bla" nonsense!

Lamispaco:
Lol...no problem with that,you wonder when some ladies also list qualities his potential husband must posses,was having a chat with a female friend she said her future must have at least two cars preferably sport cars ,a comfortable 4 bedroom apartment.

where is the problem in that? these are her priorities, and possibly some beast in human form will have that and marry her..... and she will deserve nothing less than the miserable life she hope for herself.

so now people shouldnt kiss on the cheek?!

he should lay down smoking marijuana, as it obviously made him delusional!

DONHYMAX:
Previous cases of a similar nature have seen men use a prosthetic penis with their unwitting partner –something they can get away with by insisting on having sex in the dark and limiting touch.

only very foolish women would fall for the above.... NONSENSE!

pecothecash:
WHICH OF THESE CAN SAVE LIFE PERFECTLY ?
(1.) Nurse
(2.) Doctor
(3.) Sex
(4.) God
(5.) None of the above

it depends on the life at hand......
- if it is someone with a curable disease then 2 will be the answer
- if it is the life of a sex addict, then 3 will be the answer
- if it is the life of a convicted drug dealer in Indonesia, then 5 will be the answer

Pebcak:

Na to punish them according to Chinese laws, I guess that will be death penalty. Thats how they will treat any Nigerian with a similar crime in china

how can you punish them according to ANOTHER COUNTRY's law?! you are funny. they should be punish according to 9ja laws, et voila!

just because China kills 9ja drug offenders doesnt mean we need to kill any China man who does a crime in 9ja, get real!

Skillfullulu:
man I ain't talking pride, its DIGNITY here bro.

if you cant feed your family therefore it is normal for "some" people to lose respect for you, because in Nigeria caring for your family is an honourable thing to do. therefore, (in Nigerians mind) you already lost your dignity when you couldnt feed your family and had to beg for help, and even though it's her father, the money would be for the FAMILY (so you should at least be there as a "family" when she goes to beg her parents).

Hila12:
It is not wrong! Just an easy way to lose all respect the father-in-law has for you.

if you cant feed your family then the father in law has all the right to do so... it will be your duty to regain that respect by getting back on your feet.

He would question his choice for entrusting his daughters welfare with you. He might laugh over it, but deep down in his heart would see you as an incompetent man he let marry his daughter.

if you cant feed your family and had to beg for money, is that what "competent men" do? sadly, this is an episode in a person's life and yes, at the time, they may be incompetent, BIG DEAL! the catch is to make sure that this is temporary and not permanent. life is made of ups and downs, you just have to make sure that there is more ups and less downs.

Your wife can always collect on your behalf, if condition is that critical.

not being able to stand up to what you are at the time, and instead cowering and sending your partner to do your (both of you) JOB....that is the reason why many people would certainly lose respect for you FOR GOOD, even if you get back on your feet later on.
it is not easy to beg for money for YOUR family, therefore you may not have to ask her parents directly but you certainly should be there with her when she does.

@OP
thats just the response from the"bitter" sister he has refused to bring to Europe, what do you expect from her?!

My sister Lucia Adebayor keeps telling people that my dad told me to bring her to Europe. But what would be the purpose to bring her to Europe ? Everyone is here for a reason.

Zohan:
Lie Lie.
It's written on their passports.

didfy:
Is on your traveling documents before you board a flight

abatically:
It is also written in RED in the Malaysia and probably Indonesia tourist visas. Really anyone on death row for drugs has no excuse. U see the warning in the visa, u see the warning at different sections of the airport, they even announce it in the plane, so what other excuse do u have?

again, you people didnt understand what i wrote, so i am going to explain it to you guys slowly:
1) the OP showed pictures of warnings of death penalty for drug carriers AT THE AIRPORT in Indonesia (important word here is at the airport)
2) the OP therefore asked how people could still be knowingly carrying drug to that place
3) i then explained to him that "by the time they see THESE BANNERS (that he posted) IT IS TOO LATE TO BACK TRACK".
4) so, your minds should have made the following conclusion: by the time a criminal lands in Indonesia and see these banners (which is what the OP asked, isn it?), it is much TOO LATE for these criminals to change their mind.... aka these banners at the arrival side of the airport are useless.
5) i am explaining a simple fact that these banners are useless because these criminals cannot change their action by the time they read THESE BANNERS (completely different than when they read what is in their passport), and certainly not condoning what these criminals are doing. my stand on the matter of drug dealing remains the same: if caught in a country where there is death penalty then they should die, plain and simple!

samplegirl:
I believe that if one enters there and sees warnings, he can quickly run to a police officer and report himself, assuming he never knew the consequences before. But the ugly truth is that they all knew before boarding the plane. They rely on their connections and baba lawo assurance.

But GREED is the name and death is the penalty.

no they cant, and it will be very difficult to prove your innocence in this matter. here are simple questions they will ask you:
- when you were swallowing these pellets, what did you actually thought it was?
- if you thought it was something legal, why swallow them then?
- if the banner scared you then that means you KNEW that you had drugs and you knowingly decided to be a mule, but since you (now) saw that it carries a death penalty in that country, you want to report yourself. at best, you may avoid death and get life in jail!

BornnAgainChild:
I'm Suspecting you to be a carrier also
Cos i wonder how you know exactly what i know

yeah i am a carrier, currently on death row and posting from Indonesia jail.

themodernman:
You mean person no fit talk sey hin 4get sontin 4 naija wan go back immediately

of course not, to do that you will have to go through custom and therefore they will check you out because your story will make no sense

themodernman:
But person still suppose fit run back once he sees ds pictures now...abi na one chance once you land?

where can they run to when they land at the airport? the only time they can back track their evil plans is on the plane...... as soon as they land that plane in these places with death penalty, THATS IT!

Nigeria and its backward thinking......so let me get this straight: because she was naked therefore she was ra.ped?! kai, what if it was some jealous GF who beat her to death because of some misunderstanding, cult etc? didnt we hear a while back about lesbianism being rampant in them schools? if a woman wants to send the cops on the wrong direction then she would UnCloth the victim and make it look like ra.pe.
people have to use their brains and stop judging until the facts are there, and as she was buried in accordance with islamic rules, the culprit may never be found (unless her phone/laptop can lead to an arrest).

Ngokafor:
...Anyway,after all said and done,I am yet to meet the so -called male that calls himself male that will beat me and go scot free..except perhaps armed robbers or something..

if you act right, there will be no need for ANYONE to lay hands on you. important word here is "act right".

...My brothers alone will simply reset your cowardly brain..nonsense.

so you think that you are the only one who can bring people? again, if you act RIGHT there wont be any reason to bring anyone, if you act a damn fool and put your hands on your husband then he MUST put you back at your place, so you dont "mistakenly" disrespect him like that again.

@OP
in the UK, this sort of nonsense would have guaranteed a one way ticket to the police station with a sound warning, sadly most women in such predicament let it "slide" and therefore these men continue to do these crimes unpunished. it is WOMEN's fault if some men continue to beat them for no damn reasons. so blame her and nobody else.

now, IMHO if some deluded woman decide to disrespect her partner and lay hands on him, then this man has all the rights to defend himself and beat the crap out of her so that she stops. whats good for the goose.......

in China, if you are caught with a small amount of drug, as a user you get a small sentence, its only the heavy drug dealers caught with big amount of drug used for selling it to addicts...... these are the ones that mostly get the death penalty, especially those caught importing the stuff into their country.

Jackie chan is not an hypocrite and therefore says what he believe is right, whether his son is a junkie or not.

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MKO4ever:
This can't be true naa

true and worst is happening to our sistas all over the world, due to their desire for money and riches!

Thugnificient:
Come, let's have some drink togetheR

lol, make it a caipirinha (with maracuja and lime) for me.