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well these dogs are EMPLOYED and WORKING while criminals aint. do they expect the dogs and their owners to do it for free?
also, who would want underfed dogs to guards these criminals?!

^^COKE is the least of her worries, CRACK and HEROINE is the stuff that is destroying her!

dstiva99:
@MrBrownJ, thank you for your comment, it is nice to hear a guy's perspective.  I have done so much to be apologetic and even though I know he cares about me, I was very hrut by the fact that he has not responded to me at all.  That does make me question how much he cares but I will wait to see if he comes around.  In the meantime, I will just focus on myself as livedit has said.

pls, no matter what you do, STOP BEING APOLOGETIC! you said something on the phone that was RIGHT, this is how you felt about this r/ship so why should you be sorry about that?! be yourself, dont try to become someone you are not or accept stuff that you normally wouldnt (in the name of being in a r/ship)

judge people by their actions, not what you wish they would/could do, therefore you will have a better understanding of their motives. reality has its on power  and, no matter how long you wish to overlook the facts, it will always finds a way to smack you right in the face. . . . . . . . . . . .  and your inability to cope with it will be your downfall.

^^^banned , of course!

^^ only the day they get down their high horses about that silly "second largest movie industry in the world" crap, would they be able to move forward.

THE AMAKA:
^ ^ ^ lol, you have a point. btw, were you banned?

yes thanks to the silly spambot. . . . . . aaaaaah NL!!!

^^bro, i hope you will feel "calm and secured" when your gf disappears from the face of the earth without a word.

its called PIMPING, dont y'all get it twisted, Hugh Hefner is a P I M P!!!!!!!! lol

@poster
its not entirely men's fault. its how the world goes round. simply open your bible and look at what it says about husbands and wives.
Ephesians 5:22-24 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands.
Proverbs 21:19 It is better to live in a desert land than with a quarrelsome and fretful woman.
1 Corinthians 11:3 But I want you to understand that the head of every man is Christ, the head of a wife is her husband, and the head of Christ is God.

so, i am safe to say that some men out there would expect their wife to be as expected by their bible!!!!

^^^sista, there is a huge difference between telling (someone you are dating) intimate details about your life AND telling them the reason why you can't be with them. a simple text or call would do instead of disappearing.

@poster
i suggest you accept your fate: this guy doesnt give a damn about you.
see how many times you said I AM SORRY(text, phone, door etc) and yet not even a pip from this man. . . . . . . . . . . .  how more clear do you expect it to be?

think about this for a minute (or two): this guy didnt care much about telling you anything BEFORE, and thus didnt find it important to dwell on what goes on in his life TODAY. what does it say about how he feels about you? especially when you have already told him that you want to be aware of whats going on?

ps the fact that you were born in the US and him in Africa has nothing to do with the issues at hand!

when did she ever perform WITHOUT being high?! lol

@poster
your tongue ring has nothing to do with anything, in this matter.
YES you could be infected by this person through kissing (although the chances are slim)

^^^you are absolutely right but i still blame these actors for not pursuing their "art" elsewhere, and rather sit on the BS they call Nollywood as the "top of the world".

some of them have never taken an acting class in their lives, let alone study this art fully. yes, many can play their role, who wouldnt when working with directors who (themselves) dont know shiit AND/OR dont care about what it take to be a great actor.

adalynda:
They are just intimated.(the men) That's just it.

did you mean INTIMIDATED?! unless "TO INTIMATE" is the verb you did intend to use. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .

harakiri:
I'd rather settle with a beautiful angel and put up with the BS later than settle for a "plain jane" and still face the same BS. A lot of cheating wives/gf's aren't exactly models you know. I've witnessed one who's way to ugly for her good looking husband and she still cheats on him coz she's "bored" with the marriage. Whether you marry a super model or a Whoopi-Goldberg look alike, there will always be guys ogling your wife and phucking her in their fantasies. For real brah!

well said!!!!
unfortunately many out there just settle with the first one that comes their way, to get the "Mr & Mrs" title.

@poster
if men dont ask her hand in marriage then why should that be HER problem? should she make herself look ugly for the sake of insecure men out there?! lol

- if YOU claim to be beautiful and YOU are married then what makes you think that your friend's beauty is the reason for not walking down the aisle?

- have you ever thought that maybe a less "appealing" women would say yes to the ONE AND ONLY offer she ever got, while the really beautiful woman has to choose between the 100s of proposal she got?

- have you ever thought that maybe she just hasnt find the RIGHT person yet?! or do you think she should just marry any donkey out there, just because they ask her hand in marriage?

- have you ever considered that MAYBE she just aint ready YET to get married

@poster
there is no such thing as a "real man", thats the garbage people come up with to try to act/look better than others. even a man who has absolutely NOTHING to his name can be a man(real man)
some biatches will try to use that on you to belittle you:"you cant buy me a BB, you are not a real man because wale could" etc dont fall for this crap!!!!!!!

just because you cant pay your bills, it doesnt make you less than a man.
just because you can drive a fancy car or own your own home, it doesnt make you less than a man.
look at yourself in the mirror every morning and, as long as you are proud of the person you see, then all is good!

dont believe the damn hype, as long as your are doing everything in your power to live a righteous life then ALL IS WELL.
stop trying to fit where you dont belong.

thats what happen when desperate women do desperate moves to keep a man!
i guess she tried to "trap" that guy with a pregnancy. . . . . . . . i hope her plan dont backfire on her stoopid asss.

IMHO they should NOT get married! they have already made ONE mistake, no need to make a SECOND one!

if any of these 9jaactor/actresses were THAT good, they would be given roles in international movies by international producers. just because they shot NOLLYWOOD movies abroad, some people now think they are international, bwaaaaah!

none of them has what it takes to BE an actor/actress. just because they are the best 9ja got doesnt mean shiit!

@sorrytoo
There is nothing wrong with their dikcs reacting to something pleasant to the human brain. The catch is to make sure that it stays that way rather than trying to have your way.

A man who cannot control his actions when facing other females is DEFINITELY NOT ready to be in a relationship.

Depends whether the msg said:
"Hi hun
Thanks for being a great friend. I appreciate the help you gave me in solving my problem with my gf.
X"

OR

"Hi hun
You fukced me so good today that I just can't go to sleep without telling you that I am looking forward to taste you again.
X"

Now Poster, which one was it?

H o t s h a r e . N E T (between the www. And the /)

Oh boy, I saw a video a few days ago on NAF about a guy who caught his gf cheating. So he had her, and the guy she was cheating with, have more sex while he videotaped it and then uploaded it online. The jilted BF was with a friend of his who had a cutlass so the cheaters jejely did what the "director of the movie" asked them to do (even spreading her leg to the camera).
The poor cheating guy was BEGGING for his life the WHOLE time.BWAAAAAAH PRICELESS. . . . .
ONLY IN 9JA!!!!

Here is the link to watch(or download) the vid and crack your ribs:
http://www./video/334442-937656791e.html

^^ shouldn't he rather work on HIMSELF if he knows that's a worry to her?!

There is a huge difference between love and physical attraction, SO if you aint attracted to that person any longer, in the long run it will/may affect your love for them.

Being big affect not only the way he looks but also the way:
- he will perform in the bedroom.
- he will be around the house (no more running to help you carry the groceries).
- you guys use to socialize (no more dancing the night away at some party).
- you spend money(more money spent on food/new XXL clothes)
- you thought you would raise your kids (no more running around playing sport with the lil ones)

So as you can see, its a huge difference!(No pun intended)

If you already told him that you are not attracted to him physically any longer, and he is not willing to do anything about it then, I suggest you walk away.

No need to force yourself being with someone that is a sore to the eye with pot belly etc

No women can "snatch" a man that doesn't want to be "snatched". So if she trust her man then she has nothing to fear, and I would also suggest that she gets better friends in the future.

Dreamland, fantasyland.

Aca77
May I ask you:

- are you saying that because you have never seen something happen therefore it CANNOT happen?

- who does these decent girls automatically end up with then, if rich guys are not for them?!

- are you claiming that rich guys will automatically be "wahala" and that no girl can possess their heart?! (what a sad life they must have, if that were true)

- if I understand what you wrote correctly, a rich guy can ONLY end up with a GD? Is that what you are claiming?
- if not, then can you share with us who are the "big boys kind of girls"?

-have you never heard of women that DEMAND to go on shopping spree, payment of tuition fee/rent, BB, recharge cards before you can A) date them or B) sample the toto?

Just like rich guys, their action will for itself and you would surely understand what kind of person they are.

^^well said Mrs Chima!
Not everybody get along as good with their "sex mate" as with the opposite.
If you genuinely trust your partner then there shouldn't be any problem.