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vivian chinaza: I'm from a very humble background or should I say poor? Yea poor sounds like it, "humble" just makes it bearable, Lol, ok. But rich guys keep coming for me, and no one has ever cared about my family's financial/social status. In fact, that's the first thing I tell them, I'm always like "dear, don't let my looks deceive you, I'm from a very humble background o." I'm Vivian, and that should be enough!
So contrary to your opinion, majority of guys don't actually care.

A lot of ladies who have misplaced their priorities actually care about how rich a guy is before they consider him and I just pity them. I just hope they realize that the life of a man is a mystery. A man's life can change in a twinkle of an eye.

I'm friends with a lot of people who at one time couldn't even afford a decent meal, but just one phone call changed their lives for best, and vice versa.

Last year, I did a job for this couple that had no house. The groom is my friend and as at then the most valuable property he had was his laptop. In fact, when he told me he was getting married I was like "are u crazy?" Cos he didn't even have a house. Few weeks to the wedding someone gave them a room in his flat and they were squatting there. Whenever I went to the house to discuss their wedding I was always like "how could this girl get married to a man that doesn't have a house?" Honestly, I couldn't understand, I couldn't even think of myself doing it. Well, there marriage is a year old and they are now living in one of the beautifully furnished house I have ever seen.

Stories like this humble me, and I of all the things I have seen in my few years on earth, I have known that riches cannot be guaranteed. I have also known that life is a mystery.

So if you fall in love with someone from a rich background good, if you fall in love with someone from a humble background good too. Marrying a rich person is not a crime, marrying a poor person is not a crime either, provided that LOVE is the driving force.

u still dont believe what u just posted,u re still like all of them,u re no different,an unbeliever. i still see no changes

CrazyMan: Why not take your time to read a thread properly before hitting the reply button...those pictures are part of his land he went to inspect.

there is nothing to inspect in that land oo

Fredrick909: [b] How can my heart break when i still have my pride and ego with me tell me how. ...Let me tell you guys a story i will try to cut the long story short... it all started in Jss3 there was this very beautiful girl tall and fair in complexion. She started showing interest in me cos i was very handsome (if you doubt me check my facebook profile www.facebook.com/fredrick.akhigbe ) and i was very cool guy i didnt like her at first so i decided to return the feelings. So in 2nd term i left the school and went to another after 2years i came back to write my waec. Damn i was very happy that i am gonna see her after a long time so on the first day of school the guy i sat with my gf came and started talking to the guy before i know what was happening they started kissing i was startled but all the same i just play cool then during break time i went to meet her friend and asked her why is she behaving this way. She said i should forget about her that she has changed. That i should focus on my waec exam it was somehow but after sometimes i have totally forgotten about it cos after all she is pretty i am handsome i gat my pride and ego after all i dont have anything to loose. So i let her go jor pride wont allow me beg a girl never ... Sometimes let people know that you can do without them.[/b]

did u pass waec or na kiss u go sch,see taata,world don spoil oo

Have you ever looked back at an ex-boyfriend and asked, how did I ever date that person when we were so obviously incompatible?

It's not necessarily that you were incompatible...then. According to a survey conducted by Match.com over the past year, your tastes have simply changed over the years.

Is your family keeping you single?

Men must possess certain qualities to be considered "the perfect man," and those parameters change drastically as women age. In the survey, called "The Ages of Man," what women want from their relationships with men is broken down according to age range.

"[The research] also disproves the notion that standards drop later in life, as women over 55 were shown to be most picky about who they date," a Match UK rep told Yahoo! Shine.

The results of the study are summarized below. You can see the full study results here.

Age 18-24:

Women's main concern in their late teens and early twenties is that their partner gets along with their friends. "47 percent said they would look for a relationship with someone their friends would approve of."

"This is a very relationally social time in a female's life. I refer to it as the 'fit into me' stage. Women want men who will fit in to their lives," Dr. Karen Ruskin, a licensed marriage and family psychotherapist, told Yahoo! Shine. "A key way to fit in is to be viewed positively by one's social network, and to have shared interests. It is less about future and more about what feels good right now."

Also, women this age are far more likely to date a man in better physical shape than them, but shared tastes in "books, music, and film," are extremely important.

Age 25-34:

At this stage in their lives most women are focused on their careers, but physical attraction and sexual compatibility are most important. They also consider a man's level of "ambition" to be important. Two-thirds of surveyed in this age group say this is a key trait.

"This is the 'can you add value or will you take-eth away' stage. Women are starting to think about having kids someday and they certainly do not want a man who is mooching off of them," Dr. Ruskin explains. "They want someone who can be a partner with them so that their children can have the life they want their children to have, and so that they can have the lives they want to have."

Age 35-44:

Older men become more attractive to women in their late thirties and early forties, according to the study. This could be because they are looking to settle down and start a family, says Dr. Ruskin. "Women are mindful of their biological clocks ticking, which is why they want someone established, stable, and successful." They are no longer dating for attractiveness, for fun and to see where it goes, or for social fit with friends, she says.

According to the study, "73 percent said they would be willing to date someone more than five years their senior," and a man's manners at this age is essential. "Less than one percent of the women surveyed said they would date a man with bad manners."

Age 45-54:

The key word at this age is security. "95 percent of women said they were looking to find a partner with whom they felt secure." Women are also less picky at this age than at any other age, but still look for a man with a high income, which is always important to women no matter their age. Fascinatingly, 54 percent of women said they'd be interested in dating a younger man.

Age 55+:

Intelligence and personality comes to the forefront in later life. Women look for men who share their values and have a good sense of humor. Sexuality doesn't fall by the wayside, however. "45 percent of women strongly agreed that sexual compatibility was important to them in forming a relationship at this age." Women over 55 are pickier about their partners than at any other time in their lives.

"They are tired of the irritating little day-to-day ticks and feel it is not worth it to spend time with someone if the entire interaction from start to finish is not pleasing." Dr. Ruskin says her patients over 55 years old aren't really interested in companionship unless it's a perfect fit.

Of course, the ideal relationship is one that grows and changes with you. If you're lucky, the man that got your attention in your twenties with his good looks is the same man that makes you laugh in your fifties.

once in a lifetime and neva again,am now PAINLESS and HEARTLESS,so untouchable with firewalls for every situation.in my opinion

vivian chinaza: My ex paid my 200L school fees. I was really having a tough time and he helped me out. Then earlier this year, my kid sis was really sick, and he contributed again.

Till today, he doesn't joke with my family, he has this bond with them.....even tho he is still a jerk!

u still have the guts to call him a jerk? ok see u with a non jerk soon, ediot

when i called the owner of NL son of a LovePeddler after a tribal bashing,i didnt regret it,if am moved by his kind

Xplodes2700: Age is definitely an issue, it makes me sick hearing a 25yrs old girl even dating a 35yrs old guy, in my own opinion i feel the age difference shud be @ least four years

listen to urself,atleast 4yrs atmost what? mufu

i tried to like but could not find the place to click pls check it well

she looks so un happy,she is confused and into drugs,i guess fame has its price

yes i will and will invite her to our union

[quote author=~Bluetooth]ibos in bini are great ! keep the flag flying. [/quote]ibo full ur mouth,na wah ooo

pam pam pam

read ur book

Julieccentric: You need to work on yourself..you have been attracting the wrong kind of persons.

is dat ur opinion?

abiL: I remember when I used to cry me a river whilst listening to Adele non-stop.

Thank God I can look back now and laugh at my foôlishness.

ya love is foolish,in my opinion

9ja babes no send just be their atm(fool)

Jotonio: Na pot belly or six packs we go chop?

wetin u wan chop balls?

nonsnse

i dont see a Future for both of you,unless u really want to be miserable.IN MY OPINION

lets go there

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Where do you feel pulled?

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IN MY OPINION

it encourage BULLYING and America is fighting bullies;Dont be a bully be a star,in my opinion shaa

i think u are a nagging lady,but u fail to understand that its ur family too so spend to keep it up,u are working and y will u not use ur earnings to take care of ur kids,what of those that dont have husband and work? yet they sell akara to feed the kids,I DONT THINK UR HUSBAND NEED ANY adjustment but u need attitudinal modification to make him see reason,and if u think its killing u try divorce and u will live to regret it. in my opinion

answer the question,how old are u mr girlfriend to be,so we now have gf to be this days,i spit on your thread

Nonsense