₦airaland Forum

notok:
I believe the guy was wrong for forgetting her birthday .
If you go through the post you'll discover that on no account has the OP done anything romantic or special for this guy , why should she expect the same ?
if you also go through the post again you'll discover that the OP has never said anything about loving this guy , all she talks about is how he doesn't give her money , the OP doesn't look like someone who has romantic interest , she only has financial interest in him .
In summary : the OP is one of those women who expect men to move mountains for them but won't offer anything in return .

kweenfash:
Hello nairalanders. I've been seeing this guy for about a year now. I'm 22 and he's 38 and doing very well. For this 1 year I've been with him, I've been getting some redflags which I'm not happy with. I'm an independent lady, I have a very lucrative business that I do of which he knows but he doesn't know how lucrative it is. I'm not the kind of girl that begs for money but as a man, even your girl doesn't ask you for money, I think you should give her something once in while but since I started dating him, he has given me nothing. Towards the end of last year, I decided to test him and ask, he started lamenting about how he has been helping a lot of family and friends blah blah blah.... But he will see what he can do. The next day he sent 7k when I asked for 10k. I don't know if it's because I don't sleep with him because I told him no sex before marriage. I want to give my virginity to my husband. Now during Christmas and new year, he didn't even give me a dime and I didn't ask either. Yesterday was my birthday and I reminded him on Wednesday and he didn't even call me on my birthday. It really broke my heart. This man is very wealthy and he's behaving like this towards me, I don't what to think anymore. Guys, how do you see this?

DapKing:
His logic is flawed with regards to cheating but not men's polygamous nature

I Got complains of black men especially Nigerian (men) who hate giving their wives or girlfriends a head and they expect the (women) to give them a (BJ) . Guys defend yourselves (Do you give your babe a head ) Ladies (Do you love getting a head)

Femzaremz:
Op hope you know that going by this your logic,your wife wont be exempted from the women that men will cheat with!as you go about cheating it will also reach your doorstep!this is simply the law of cause and effect!

ChizzyBuna:
you can't reject the truth
Truth is timeless from King Solomon time till now the truth has never changed.
There is Nothing on Earth that can stop your husband from cheating..
I'm just letting you know,so when it happens and you might not even find out. Just know your husband will cheat and there is nothing wrong with it. It's a hard pill to swallow but life is not fair.right?

chinedumc91:
My dear people in this great forum. I seriously need your advice.
I'm dating a deeper life lady, we have see each other up to six times but four of our meetings were at eateries while the remaining two we met was her own house and I always go with gifts like shoes, sandals, slipper, clothes etc.
The issue now is that, I wanted her to at least know my place since we are both living in the same city. But she said no, that her parents wouldn't approve it even though, I told her to come along with her two sisters if possible. She insisted no is against her church.

In this last Xmas, she asked me to buy her Ankara materials, which I did but she was expecting me to either take her out and use the opportunity to bring the gifts I bought for her. But I used covid19 as an excused. As I'm writing this now those gifts are still in my house.

Now, she urgently needs 50k to register her carry over courses and her parents said no money and she crying everyday because Tuesday next week is the deadline.
She begging me to either give her or borrow her the money. But I told her that there's limit of what I can do for her now since we have not yet marry. in fact I told her it is against my church to be spending on her when we are not yet to marry.

Note, we are getting marry this year even though we have not started our church courtship.

what do you advice me to do.

Kriss216:
Wearing an expensive hair on a head that can’t recite 36 states and capital should be treated as a criminal offence.

fuckingAyaya:
If my girlfriend ask me for bone straight, hair I will bone her out of the relationship in a straight manner.

Princessjoke:
How can I buy the expensive one...I'm broken...

BigShishi:
I came across this post in which ladies talk about all their sexual exploits just go through for yourself

heniford2:
will love to shave it off though i enjoy touching it when am alone

lkillbrokehoes:
This girl is really cursed, you guys should check all her topics, it's either she's mentally imbalanced or her village people are using her destiny, this is so terrible and worrisome

Preciousgirl:
Most husbands cheat on their wives.
But why is it that, when a wife cheats, the husbands can't take it?

Is it not the same?
Guys, what do u say
Do u guys feel more human than women?

Tenk u

Wuchereria:
I recently got married, and for over 10 years before my marriage, I was so much interested in boobs. I was never really keen on sex but my interest in boobs was overwhelming. I spent years fantasizing on how I would enjoy my wife's boobs after marriage.

I have always fantasized on round or at worst slightly droopy boobs, but I have never like saggy boobs. When I met my wife, she had a good size of boobs which made me very happy. After we got married and I saw the boobs, I realised they're saggy (we got married as virgins and never saw each other's unclothedness during our courtship). I haven't been very happy since then, not just because they are saggy now, but I fear that they would get much worse as she grows older and after having kids.

Married men here, does the shape of your wife's boobs matter to you? Do saggy boobs affect sex drive? Will I still be able to enjoy romance with my wife in the future if her boobs get much saggier? Already, the tips are nearly at the level of her belly button when she is sitting down, but still get shapely when she is lying on her back. Mind you, cheating is never going to be an option.

NB: You are free to insult and abuse me, but I still need a candid advice. Thanks.

BaddieFreak:
I had a similar case, step dad was always maltreating my mom and I. I agree with you, people like that don't change, they only grow old.

BaddieFreak:
My advice to every woman out there:

Never tolerate a woman beater, leave a toxic relationship and marriage before you die before your time.

Fati2001

Cholls:
My brother na body odour their husbands dey use chase toasters away from their wives

atilla:
Funny man and woman.
Me I go laff o but if I get this note again second day I no go find am funny

Cerebellum:


1. 'Klaus Michelson ----- ORIGINALS ( I was intrigued by his ways of doing things which gets me angry and also his Facial expression is Epic, it gets me rolling;

Harry Potter----HARRY POTTER(This movie was one to linger in the heart of most of us in our childhood, His character was full of courage and at the end ended in success)

3. Merlin-----MERLIN ( Believe me, this film was watched by almost everyone when it came out, Merlin's act was quite a deep and full of magnitude... You know what I mean)

4. Shola Sobowale---KING OF BOYS (I must confess, the
Nigerian movie industry is getting world wide recognition day by day, this film is so interesting and judging by Shola's character in this movie, you we always wish to see her Act)

5. His name,The Igbo character-----Living in bondage ( you know his name, the protagonist, I love his act too, he acted so wonderful in that film).

Mention yours, let's catch fun

Sundrus:
Oyibo go say u be pervert . But me, i go call u werey.

CuteMike01:
Well done o. Nairaland robot. Every Nigerian girl is useless. I can see you're jobless. No offense

praiseneo:
I just forgive my gf after I caught her cheating and she admitted all her wrongs
I love her sincerely and I’d help her with her flaws.

Burgerlomo:
Okie dokie madam gynecologist

dollytino4real:
that is wen u are talking about pregnancy test result to show positive or negative! as long as she is in her ovulation period seconds is enough 4 her to be pregnant

PrinceofAgoAre:
isnt wet dreams when u wake up in d morning nd u find cum spilled on u. I dont think wet dreams is when u have sex in d dream

Burgerlomo:
It's absolutely possible if the semen traveled to her ovaries by bullet train (very fast train)