Romance › Re: Why Women Should Not Shave Their Eyebrows by MrsChima1(f): 4:45pm On Jan 27, 2012 |
Amya: Close? Not close? Account update: Amya, you have used 1 guess today and you have 199 available guesses.  How would you like to proceed?  |
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Romance › Re: Why Do Naija Women Look Less Attractive With Clothes Off & Otherwise. by MrsChima1(f): 4:34pm On Jan 27, 2012 |
This Nigerian man I know looks damn good without his clothes on! Thank ya Lawd!!!! |
Romance › Re: Naija Boys. What Chicks Do You Prefer? Ethiopians Or Somali by MrsChima1(f): 4:31pm On Jan 27, 2012 |
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Romance › Re: How To Love An Igbo Man by MrsChima1(f): 3:48pm On Jan 27, 2012 |
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Romance › Re: Why Women Should Not Shave Their Eyebrows by MrsChima1(f): 3:23pm On Jan 27, 2012 |
Amya: I always picture Mrs Chima to look like the lady by the left. Delusional imagination is a mofo huh?  |
Romance › Re: How To Love An Igbo Man by MrsChima1(f): 3:20pm On Jan 27, 2012 |
hornipipe: mrs chima whr hv u bn? Riding. Why? |
Romance › Re: How To Love An Igbo Man by MrsChima1(f): 3:18pm On Jan 27, 2012 |
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Nairaland General › Re: Please Help Nairalander Perx - And She Went Home: RIP Perx by MrsChima1(f): 2:14am On Jan 27, 2012 |
Nice. I will see what I can do after discussing with my husband.  |
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Romance › Re: How To Love An Igbo Man by MrsChima1(f): 1:48am On Jan 27, 2012 |
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Romance › Re: Why Women Should Not Shave Their Eyebrows by MrsChima1(f): 1:46am On Jan 27, 2012 |
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Crime › Re: Meet Jezebel On Earth by MrsChima1(f): 1:43am On Jan 27, 2012 |
r231: you not going to support my charity again this time Did I say I wasn't?  How many charities you got now? |
Romance › Re: Standard Of Beauty Of Yoruba Men Vs. Igbo Men Vs. Hausa Men by MrsChima1(f): 1:39am On Jan 27, 2012 |
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Crime › Re: Meet Jezebel On Earth by MrsChima1(f): 1:37am On Jan 27, 2012 |
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Romance › Re: How To Love An Igbo Man by MrsChima1(f): 1:23am On Jan 27, 2012 |
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Romance › Re: How To Love An Igbo Man by MrsChima1(f): 1:07am On Jan 27, 2012 |
jedisco: I'm beginning to feel for the op If she was my sister or child I would have told her to end the union right away to prevent further trauma because as you said I really dont think he loves her Did your cousin marched around with a trumpet for his wife with your family? |
Romance › Re: Should A Man Help Out His Wife/Girl-Friend In The Kitchen? by MrsChima1(f): 12:06am On Jan 27, 2012 |
Flashaldrin: Hehehe, thank heavens you know you're a man, and errrrrm you know the person I'm talking about  You KNEW I WAS A MAN and YET you wanted me to cook you some pancakes?!!!  You gay donkey! |
Romance › Re: Should A Man Help Out His Wife/Girl-Friend In The Kitchen? by MrsChima1(f): 12:01am On Jan 27, 2012 |
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Romance › Re: She Got violated By A Relative Nlders Advice Her! by MrsChima1(f): 11:56pm On Jan 26, 2012 |
[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=856033.msg10056457#msg10056457 date=1327618544]@Mrs Chima, nobody is talking about the birth issue here but if the man finds out elsewhere, it will be worse[/quote]IF you say so. |
Romance › Re: How To Love An Igbo Man by MrsChima1(f): 11:55pm On Jan 26, 2012 |
OP Stay away from Sexkillz. He is an area boy on okada.  |
Romance › Re: Should A Man Help Out His Wife/Girl-Friend In The Kitchen? by MrsChima1(f): 11:53pm On Jan 26, 2012 |
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Romance › Re: Should A Man Help Out His Wife/Girl-Friend In The Kitchen? by MrsChima1(f): 11:49pm On Jan 26, 2012 |
MsDarkSkin: i NEVER disagreed with you in the first place. lol just offered my opinion on the subject to the OP. Sure. |
Romance › Re: How To Love An Igbo Man by MrsChima1(f): 11:45pm On Jan 26, 2012 |
StarFlux: What if he demands money ritual?  Only a crook would even subject his family to those type of events. |
Romance › Re: Should A Man Help Out His Wife/Girl-Friend In The Kitchen? by MrsChima1(f): 11:42pm On Jan 26, 2012 |
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Romance › Re: How To Love An Igbo Man by MrsChima1(f): 11:36pm On Jan 26, 2012 |
jedisco: I hardly reply on this forum but I just want to because i didn't like your mothers story and I feel you deserve better I know I might sound sceptical but as am Igbo man I noticed somethings that I am worried about 1. He is Igbo and his main reason of going abroad might have been to make money 2. You said he is quite new in town and is settling down. Hope he is not using you to achieve that purpose or get his papers 3. He said he just ended a relationship with a 'witch' with which he had a child. See Igbo men value their wife and kids. If the other lady was Igbo I am almost certain he is married to her and sees her as his true and only wife. 4. His refusal to introduce you to his family means alot. This most likely may be because his other woman is in the care of his family and they will be shocked to know you exist. 5. He has political ambitions and its almost certain he will come back to achieve them and the fact is you might not help him much in achieving them due to family support and a different political environment. 6. He most likely will speak in Igbo language to his relatives meaning you will not understand their discussion which makes it tougher. 7. You should also observe how often he sends money home. This will show you how soon he wants to return as they may be for some projects or his own family
My advice for you is 1. Try as much as possible to speak with his family especially his mother and sisters as they are the main people involved in family issues 2. You did not say whether you have a child for him. But if you dont then dont get pregnant until you are fully aware of family background and his family also know you 3. Just be careful as i have my reservations toward this man 4. Also dont allow external interference in your family but listen to your parents advice as most times they speak the truth from experience that your peers dont have and you wont get on this forum. But the problem comes with sifting out their natural selfishness, bias and love from the truth they give. Wow. You are on point.  OP, trust me Igbo men take GREAT pride in their wives, children, and family. It is IMPORTANT that his family approves you ESPECIALLY if he really loves you. The ENTIRE FAMILY will know you exist before you even know they exist because an Igbo man in love will shout it with pride. We are not saying he doesn't love you but some of the things you have shared are alarming. Shine your eyes. |
Romance › Re: Should A Man Help Out His Wife/Girl-Friend In The Kitchen? by MrsChima1(f): 11:30pm On Jan 26, 2012 |
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Romance › Re: Should A Man Help Out His Wife/Girl-Friend In The Kitchen? by MrsChima1(f): 11:25pm On Jan 26, 2012 |
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Romance › Re: Nigerian Men Why Do You Dump Some Of Your Foreign Kids by MrsChima1(f): 10:58pm On Jan 26, 2012 |
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Romance › Re: Why Women Should Not Shave Their Eyebrows by MrsChima1(f): 10:48pm On Jan 26, 2012 |
smh. |
Romance › Re: She Got violated By A Relative Nlders Advice Her! by MrsChima1(f): 10:40pm On Jan 26, 2012 |
kokoye: Why do I need to find out? It happened before I met her
worse, I go vex small . . but later come to my senses that it really is not my business.
Again, that is not the reason why the lady is yet to conceive. You are a rare gem.  |