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The lady shouldn't have cheated but what her ex did was totally wrong also. Only a foolish man will cheer him on!

Samantha123:
If business fell during pregnancy, then I'm sure you had already saved some money because you can't decide to impregnate a woman without saving some money first..

You save first and when you feel that you're ready, you then start working on bringing a baby to the world.

They don't follow this, they believe in "the child will bring what will sustain him/her" myth. I don't pity people in such situation.

Y'all should stop breeding like rodents without any financial back-up plan.

My next life, I'm coming as an alien and would be in Mars.

I can't donate my kidney for nobody.

Kobojunkie:
Most folks down there don't even realize or understand that at all.

No, they truly don't. Most are in deep shit because of pleasing the society.

Kobojunkie:
Isnt that the case for the majority? The general formulae must live by remains once you are of age, begin pursuing marriage after which must come children...

It's not a must to follow what others do.

opeyy:
Yes, isn't that the norm in 9ja?!...after marriage everyone will be looking at your belly, and even some bold enough to ask Lol. If I had a choice without any potential pressure, I would have probably done things differently.

You had a choice. Everyone's got a choice.

I'm the only child and I don't fucking care about any societal expectations!

Helpmyprivates:
I went to a proper hospital oooo. I’m serving so payment was covere by NHIS. Funny things is I have never had sex in my life, still a virgin so I don’t know why this.

Hence the reason you need to revisit the clinic. The physicians knows best!

Helpmyprivates:
I visited already, gave me drugs but It’s 4 days already and it’s not going.

I wanted to say you should revisit the physician. Don't go to any pharmacy or roadside "chemist shops" for drugs.

Visit a physician at the clinic. Good day!

opeyy:
Culture/society expectation after marriage. I am grateful for my kids but in my next life, I'd probably adopt instead, I think

Apparently, you have kids because of societal expectations?

Not having any kids feels so great!

Man's enjoying his life. No stress, no drama.

The LGBTQI+ community are humans also. They deserve to explore their sexuality. Let them be!

Y'all should stop this spiritual or demonic bullshit!

Baronthecelebri:
That girl fine o,if she grow she go sweet to fuxk

YOU'RE A PERVERTED CREATURE!

That's very good. Lazy folks with "quick money" syndrome.

Hushpuppi will join them soon!

What outreach? Medical, religious, legal, etc.?

Well, it's a good idea to visit correctional facilities. I'm much interested in criminal justice but I haven't visited any correctional facilities. You can check Nigerian Correctional Center website for their contact details.

That's his opinion but however, I don't share same view.

Nobody owe them apology.

That was not a miracle! Don't be deceived.

Jesus or God didn't do anything.

Kingsmm55:
Sixteen years is an over ripe woman....what was the age of your mother when your father started hammering her kpekus inform of marriage,,,? Abeg the girl did the right thing... She even deserve Oscar or any award if it were in a sane clime...

A 16-year-old woman is "over ripe" for sex?

Y'all perverts can never hide your shame.

WTF? Some men deserve to be killed painfully but slowly.

I doubt if this old man is a 25-year-old.

Jovialjune1:
Naming a part of the cause of kidney failure doesn't mean it is the only cause.

Get sense.

"...instead you gave a man that care less for his life and kidney one of yours..."

Those are your words. You clearly concluded he was careless with his kidney.

You don't need to insult me. Learn to have intellectual conversations and not insult people. Good day!

Jovialjune1:
Senselessness, husbands and wives are not suppose to donate kidneys to each other, weren't they properly advised?

God that gave us 2 kidneys knows that two is better than one, instead you gave a man that care less for his life and kidney one of yours knowing you both have three little kids depending on you, risking your life in the process, what if the kidney you gave him shuts down 2-3 years later? What if yours also shuts down, what will happen to the kids?

Carelessness is not the only cause of kidney failure. Get enlightened.

Amb1045:
this story teaches men not to carry love over family. Women will natural abandon when things are going bad. Love shouldn't be all you dream about.

Same way Eedris Abdulkareem's wife left when he had kidney failure?

Righteousness2:
This ekweremadu's daughter's case is a moi- moi case for the God of Chosen.

Unfortunately, Some people do not value what God has given to humanity in these Endtimes via The Lord's Chosen.

I Have seen God of Chosen give women with damaged and removed womb carry their babies.

I Have seen people with Medically certified dead kidneys get new ones by just a simple prayer

I Have seen people with cancerous cancers have it terminated from their bodies by just an encounter with this Great God of Chosen.

I Have seen people with All manners of terminal sickness , Diseases and problems made whole without too much grammar.

I myself have received incredible and unimaginable miracles. I Remember I used to have a very terrible Heart defect that defiled all medications. But God of Chosen Healed me.
Medically speaking, my wife should not be able to conceive talkless of carrying a baby. But the Great GOD of Chosen, the Only Good GOD crushed all medical grammars, gave us a baby and carried the baby for 9 months without us knowing.

Listen! What GOD cannot do! Does not Exist.
GOD has given the world something Special and Heavenly via Nigeria and The Lord's Chosen. It is not by grammar or long stories. Let us make use of what GOD has given Us.

YOU'RE A SACK OF LIES.

This is so beautiful!!!

The Queen deserved it and more!

This is highly laudable!

Giving back to the community is one of the best things a successful human should aspire to do.

Klass99:
I wasn't judging the boy's character at all rather I was questioning the lack of guidance and training at the time. That was a prime opportunity to teach the young boy valuable lessons on division of labour, lending a helping hand or simple acts of responsibility. Why carry all the bags between you and your daughter alone, when your son could have carried some too? That was the prevailing thought in my head.

Oh, I understand better, now.

Klass99:
You answered my internal query as well, thanks. I was wondering about the name Sarah too.

@ Topic, that's a fine young gentleman in grooming, I am more than impressed. I was once at a restaurant waiting for my order when a woman walked in with two of her kids (one male and one female) mother and daughter had shopping bags in both arms they were struggling with, while baby boy walked behind them with just a bottle of water in his hands.

They ordered take away meals and left the same way they came in, with baby boy strolling out with his bottled water while mother & daughter struggled with the additional bags acquired. I sat down there and thought to myself na so e dey take start ooo.......the poor grooming of the male child in Africa. Where some grow up expecting more baby sitting and hand holding.

Yes, you're right about the little boy exhibiting a good character.

Well, about the one you witnessed, I believe parents of such kid and many other parents of such, have a lot of parenting to do. However, we really can't judge the boy's character by just that because it might not be as we see it.

I'm actually trying to picture how the little boy was enjoying the moment. Funny but not funny.

fman:
But na must for here!!
Na who do us this thing?

Africans are Africa's problem.