NEWSREPORT: This video about Nigerian man living in UK with his wife, but suddenly due to civil matter, his calls the police. Guess what, they are asking the man to leave the house. What's your take on this
Nobody in this forum knows the matter 100%. But people will ignorantly rant and call the woman names while some men will bring their bossy attitudes to 'obodo oyibo' thinking its Nigeria where women do not have a say. Deal with it, men have upper hand in Africa while in the west, its the women. MY OPINION
If it takes slap to your reformat Nigerian girls brains, I endorse it. You bleeding genders must have sense by force!
Nothing wey Palestinians no go see for Israel hand. Which one is bleeding genders again? How will you feel when i call you guys 'wetdreamers' ? They are all natural occurrences. Calmdown, Slapper!
olaboy33: He/she/they doesnt want to identify himself/herself/themself as a male or female. I wonder what lies in between or beyond. One of the cons of this so called enlightenment era we are.
My fear is the abuse of this abnormality when it eventually becomes popular in africa, then Nigeria especially.
Shes deceiving herself because shes a female. Let her go an cut off her breasts and change her vagina. And she shouldn't forget to remove all female hormones from her body. Rubbish
prettyheart: The hypocrisy in Nigeria is terrible, and with this gigantic hypocrisy, God may hardly hear our prayers. Why do I say so? Do you know some people will be so happy if evil happens in the east or if the ESN people are killed in Mass. I am not talking about just people in the North. I mean some people in the South may be so happy. I am not saying that what is going on in the East is palatable or how they are going about it is the best, but the joy some people derive when the news from the East is unfavorable is very bad. Now you can see that taraba is attacked and people are losing their homes, but if a group comes out in the east to defend themselves so that what is happening in taraba does not occur, some people from the South may start criticising them. I am not in support of doing things recklessly in the east or doing stuff without consulting or respecting the elders in the east. But the joy some people derive when the news is bitter in the east is terrible.
SECONDED! And the plans they all have concerning the east will always backfire to them in thousand folds. I dont know how its a crime to protect your selves and reject the nepotism and tribalism ravaging us. The oppression is too mush. God almighty will keep on protecting the eastern part of the country, Amen.
I know if it was in my sec sch, she might be in trouble because its a boarding school and a fed college. The thread must be full of hypocrites! Abeg i waka pass
The nurses could be working on instructions. People are already blaming the nurses. The nurse can not go and disconnect the incubator on their own. Theres hierarchy in hospitals. May God preserve the baby, Amen
Yesterday I was having a conversation with my fiancée about my mum's suggestion about how to go about our wedding which is scheduled to take place Jan next year. My mum suggested that we do both trad and white wedding on the same day to cut cost. She opined that we do the white wedding in the morning and hold the traditional marriage as a reception in the afternoon. I pretty much see reasons from her perspective considering the harsh economic condition in Nigeria.
I was relating this to my fiancée yesterday in a phone call, when she flared up and said I should have consulted her to seek her opinion on this marriage arrangement before going to my family to seek theirs because I said my mum's advise seems okay.
What I deduce from her plight was that she wants the trad marriage at the village (south-east) while the white at the town where we base (South-West). That was what I initially wanted but due to high inflation in the land, I'm actually tilting towards my mum advise because I can't go bankruptcy just because I want to satisfy her. Why not use a stone to kill two birds?
She wants a cream-de-la-cream kind of wedding but she's not ready to assist financially to make that happen. (she's an awaiting corper)
I told her that the cost of transportation and lodging people from the village (hers and mine) to the city for our white marriage alone is gulping about 500/600k. That's transportation & lodging alone ooo.. I'll now spend if not x2 of what I spent on trad for white.. Why not just do everything in the village and move on with our lives? We can actually have it in the village and it will still be all nice and glamourous.
She said she wants to have a say in how her marriage will look like. Her imput is welcomed. But if she still insist on having the white wedding and not putting finances into consideration. I'm thinking that she want the white wedding on the city because of her friends who will attend which is not enough reason to go bankruptcy for.
It was a heated argument yesterday. We both went to bed angrily and not in talking terms till now
Pls advice accordingly. Thanks
Wow! Shes disappointing honestly. Just keep up with the communication. Stand by your decision which is wise. Im surprised that shes not being reasonable in this harsh times. Negotiation is key at this point. I believe she will have a rethink or shes just immature. You no go blame her, she has not started working. Body go tell her soon.
Hello all, please can i apply for registered practical nursing program in canada with my Msc in HRM? I heard one has to have o level science subjects and i was not a science student in my sec sch. Thanks guys
CalvinGaye: Whho mentioned money here now? Nigerians and STUPID obsessions with money eeh! Don't know what's more disgusting. Any small thing money this, money that. No be bill Gates and him wife just divorce recently? Why your "money make Love sweet" no work for them? Bunch of dumb assholes.
You are very correct but owing to one's level in life, there are scales of preference guidng the stage one is in a particular point in life. The guy you referred to isnt influenced by money but the person you quoted is. Theres a huge difference btw the two people. So in summary, money is a motivator for one while it isnt for the other. You are right though.
I met this lady long time ago before I got married to my wife and we were in love back then. She refused me when I actually proposed to her and I moved on afterward but each time we were together, our love was quite evident in the air which became noticeable to people around us.
Eventually, I got married and we distant ourselves for the sake of both of us and then, we reduced our phone talks but we were still friends.
And now, each time we were opportune to talk on phone, the feelings keep coming back. It is irresistible! The day we eventually met, we almost make out but we got ourselves under control miraculously and we distant again for a while. The truth is I can't stop talking to her at least we don't even do that often as before. What is wrong with me? i need help! What do I do?
By the time you finally lash, you will find out that there is nothing special there. Your wife is there but you chose to cheat on her even though its not yet physical. Imagine if its your wife that is doing such. Cheating is not meant for men only. Forget about that temptation and delete her number. Its not worth it. The thought of Sex is intoxicating but its not worth it after the act.
ReubenE: Egypt and and the Arab league is largely responsible for the ordeal the Palestinians are facing... Those lands were not stolen, majority was acquired through conquest after the Arab-Israeli wars
Israel only expanded its grip on Palestinian lands (formally a British mandate) after the defeat of the Arab coalition in 1948 and 1967.
If the Arab league had allowed reason to prevail when the UN Resolution partitioned that land to Two States (Jewish State of Israel, and Arab State of Palestine) in 1947, perhaps by now, Palestine would have been a thriving country on their own with her own army.
But Egypt and the Arab coalition felt Israel was too small and feeble. Egyptian Generals even boasted that a war with Israel would be like a parade from Cairo to Tel Aviv, that Tel Aviv would be overtaken in two weeks. They opposed the UN Resolution for Two-State Solution by invading Israel, a battle they lost. Israel ceased more lands far more than what was given to her by the UN after the war. Can Israel be blamed for doing this? The answer is No, the the land is a war bounty.
Syria lost the control of Golan Heights, Jordan lost the West Bank, Egypt lost the Gaza Strip after the 6 days war (3rd Arab war with Israel) in 1967. Israel obviously and overwhelmingly won the war and consolidated its grip on Palestine. Can Israel be blamed for controlling a land they conquered through war? No, cause in war, everything is fair.
The Two-State solution the Palestinians and the Arab League opposed vehemently in 1947, is what they are now clamoring for, but unfortunately, Israel and her western allies especially the US is no longer keen on doing that.
One very important fact to note is that, no country is a good country in the International System of power play. Palestine would do the same to Israel if she finds herself in that position because international politics is always about National Interest.
Russia has been annexing Ukrainian lands (Crimea, Sevastopol etc), Russia has been making attempts to annex Georgia, Turkey has been muscling Armenia etc. No country is a good country, it is always about self and National Interest.
PS: The land Israel is occupying is not entirely Palestinian land. They have historical ties to that land right from the time of Egypt and Babylonia. Israel only ceased Golan Heights, West Bank, East Jerusalem, Gaza Strip after the war with the Arab Coalition
Kudos to your knowledge of history. They think they the only ones that grab lands. Abeg let Israel level the modafukers to the ground
This one is just efizy. Both economies are not comparable so why are you disturbing our ears with the cost of things? minimum wage is around 2k in canada while here its 18k. So why are you earning in dollars and comparing in naira? Noise
DaddyRochie1642: If he starts complimenting you, your head will over swell up because of his complimentings, he knows this and that's what he's avoiding
Coronabirus: Ohhh...another bomb shell! What of the case of Chief whip of National Assembly from Kano State who went to NASS with his 4 wives and claimed his children are abt 40? Aren't they educated, fresh, well fed, well sheltered? But what were the response?
Its way more rampant over there. You and me know that. And theres nothing you can do about the present status quo. You can keep arguing