₦airaland Forum

Odewaleadesoye:
These boys moved away from their comfort zone and utilise their talents well.

I'm very happy for their achievement.

They refused to join Slawormiir in duping the oyinbos

Despite being recognised. Some people with zero talent still call them local

So nairaland can be this quiet, emotional, sympathetic and empathetic? Chineke, im pleased to observe that there are still some soft spots left in us. So let's not allow hatred that stems from religion, politics, bigotry, ethnicity etc transform us to something else. This thread has really taken us where we might not want to go but life goes on and i believe they want us to be stronger and better than they were. To those that have lost their dads, my condolences.

anewchapter:
My partner doesn't have a job I pay for everything to keep the family body and soul together but my little toddler of 16 months sees me as a stranger always running to suck mama's breast but doesn't know I feed and shelter mama who provide the breast milk

Its the stage his in now. Later will be your turn. When he is maturing

2dice01:
Almost every commentor papa don die

I observed too.

ednut1:
people no dey hear word.

The situation of this country will make one lose sense of reasoning aswear. Pls lets help if theres how to recover, please! Its desperation. At all at all is 'badder'

Mthewwww, its taking so long abeg. Long long overdue, you attack innocent citizens instead. Mumu people

letitrainnow:
“I am N48M richer” – Peter Okoye rejoices after winning bet following Chelsea’s victory

Music star, Peter Okoye reveals how Chelsea’s victory over Real Madrid got him richer, stating the certain amount of money he won.

"I am $100k richer" - Singer Peter Okoye reveals the amount of bet he won after Chelsea's victory over Real Madrid

Chelsea put in a dominant display on Wednesday night to book a place in the Champions League final at the expense of Real Madrid.

However, the victory which means Chelsea will be facing Manchester City in the final made Peter Okoye $100k richer. The talented singer revealed this via a post on his Twitter account.

He added that he might be winning more money during the finals if Chelsea ends up victorious against Manchester City.

Peter Okoye tweeted:



https://mobile.twitter.com/PeterPsquare/status/1390059004941021187

U better take that one and relax before you lose it

WhiteRuler:
First of all, apologies for any errors you may come across as I am not at the right frame of mind now.

Secondly, this post is 100% real about my life. So nothing is fake in it.

I'm a man, precisely 33 years old. I graduated from the University in 2019 at age 31. You may ask why I was still in school till that age. Well, I have realized that family/parental background matters a lot in a child's life no matter how people try to twist the fact. My family/parental background wasn't a good one educationally and financially as my parents were just petty traders and this has contributed negatively in achieving my goals and aspirations in life. With the above, you can deduce that there was no sources of funding for my tertiary education so I had to find a job after my secondary school while very ambitious about my furthering my education because I always believed in acquiring education up to university level. This led me to doing several odd jobs such as construction site labourer, security guard, cleaning, barbing, hawking, even to remove soak away and many others just to feed and see myself through school. Let me also add that @33 now, there are some jobs I can't do again because of some changes in my health system occasioned by some of the odd jobs I exposed myself to. For example, any strenuous job now is not for me as it makes me breath heavily like an asthmatic patient; any job that requires standing for long or bending down not for me due to broken waist (although these might be solvable issues but for now, I can't tell cos I have no money to visit health facility).

Moving on, while I may be thanking God for the academic success (even though the school is yet to issue me certificate) but I'm having strong feelings about myself. I feel like I have failed in life. I feel like I am a failure. My mates who got admission into university immediately after secondary school are gainfully employed today, living in comfortable apartment (built or rented), married with kids, have their own car and generally doing well. Even the ones who didn't further but venture into learning trade are doing well too. On the other hand, at 33, I have virtually nothing to show for it. Still living in one thatch house, poor, hungry and starving, no wife, no kid(s) (not even a serious girlfriend), no job, no car and nothing to show for my 33 years on earth. This is why I'm feeling like I have failed in life and it has made me to always be ashamed of myself and always trying to avoid meeting my mates who are doing well.

Also, looking at the country Nigeria, most employers recruit under 30. @33, what are my chances of
landing a good job if I refuse to forge age and go for service but collect exemption letter? What are even the possibility of getting a job as I have no capital for business? Note: between 2019 and now, I've learnt several online money making skills but yet to make a kobo out of it all. Note also: ordinarily, I wouldn't seek employment (private or government) because I'm multi talented e.g in football, entertainment or business but these talents need money to develop which is what I'm lacking.

My questions:
Please what do you all think? Do you think I have failed or I'm a failure in life? What is the future holding for me? As at today, the only thing I can boast of is "I am a graduate". Nothing more...like I said, poor, hungry and starving.

Help me with good pieces of advice please before my mind begins to consider evil as fastest way of making money. Thanks.

You could have used the money for schooling to establish your self. Who school help now adays?

NwaAmaikpe:




Every ex is an extra to me.

But I must commend Bill Gates for staying true to his ex despite his fortune upgrade.
Unlike girls of nowadays, just because they're lucky enough to marry a guy that drives 'Camry spider' they'd stop picking the calls of their ex-boyfriends.

Those who know know that there are certain exes that come into our lives and remain there for a lifetime and there's Okafor's law to contend with by the way.

What if your wife does that to you. will you still maintain this mindset?

IgiveFreebies:
Be like when I was 14, I went to spend the long holiday at my elder sister's house. My sister asked to attend to the provisions shop in the front of the house. Naso my longer throat took my eye to vitamilk. I checked to make sure no one is coming and opened it and drank but the taste was horrible - I thought it was milk. To wash the nauseous taste from my mouth I had to open a peak milk tin, afterwards, I hid both containers.
Unknown to me, the neighbors across the road were watching me. One of them - a girl of about 20+ - crossed the road and took a bottle of viju milk and crossed back without saying anything to me. I followed her sharply.
"Aunty pls give me my money for that drink"
"If you don't get out of here I'll go and report you to your sister for those things you drank" was her reply. "You think say we no dey watch you?"
I crossed back the road, straight to my big sister
"Sister, one girl from the compound across came and took viju milk without paying, I asked her the money and she threatened to report me to you for eating things from your shop"
Big sister tie her wrapper and said " come show me the person"
We crossed and I pointed the girl out, she's drinking the viju
"Patience give me money for that drink"
"Aunty let me tell you what this boy..." My sister didn't allow her to finish
"I didn't ask you to monitor anyone for me, give me my money now now!" I was just smiling like Smeagol
"Okay Aunty I'll send the money later"
"No! Give me now, don't annoy me o!" Big sister was on fire!
Patience commot #200 and gave my sister.
"Oya let's go" to me "he'll bring your change" to the girl
We crossed back and I came back with #80 for Patience. She called me bad boy

So young man abi your friend, should go to the elder brother and report the little rat first but no tell him say you do am o! Or first of all give that 15 Year old boy a hot slap and drag him to your brother. You should appear really angry and accuse the boy of trying to blackmail you. Turn the table on him.

Àhh u bad gan. Good for the boy that wants to blackmail

Billionsclub:
thanks for the your advice. she has ended the relationship

I cant blame her for being very careful this time.. it could have ended both ways. Guess her instincts are keeping her . As they say, once bitten, twice shy. I dont blame her at all

frozen70:
It's late to pull out but it's not a difficult situation

Let her take her time to study him before anything and if UT happens that she can't cope, they can go their separate ways

Late!! Its not late. People in marriage pull out even after having kids. When she dies now from beatings or aids you will say she should have left

She already knows its not going to work. She just needs a push. I get the confusion. How do u cope knowing all this points? U just prefer to be sad and scared all the rest of your life in marriage . Is it by force to get married?

helinues:
Don't you people want UGM to be a thing of the past..

It seems like some of you people are confused about your position regarding this miscreants called UGM abi na UGU

Is it your confusion? Leave am like that

helinues:
Me sha know say there days are numbered on this crust

How about your people boko haram? How many days are left for them?

Abegi i don comot from here jare. That is how dey make other tribes call us proud people. I dont know how status is connected with Cooking ..

Oyiboman69:
just look at the legs of a millionaire....

Honestly una don teach me bad thing for here! Wicked people

MetroBaba1:
Chief Investor, you are cooking with charcoal oven? And your house isn't tiled?

Warren Buffet of Osogbo

I thought i was the only one that observed the observable but i no come fit connect am with the status. I kuku weak!!!!

SportsHD:
I'm not even married yet but i know I'm getting a divorce.
As a future divorcee, life's good. yunno banging pretty beaches, my kids going to the best school. My ex wife receiving her allowance every month.

It's nice to finally have freedom.

Marine beach abi lekki beach? Dem plenty

Pavore9:
How does beating up someone you are probably physically stronger than help you maintain continual wellbeing?

What "offense" will justify you beating up your pregnant wife or your brother-in-law beat up your pregnant sister?

Someone must justify him here

Deeedeee:
My doctor recommended 2.5ml I - I - I daily.
Pls ask ur doc also

Its written on the pack.

[quote author=Tinudesi post=101296720]How do I go about it mama.
Is it the tongue alone or the whole mouth[/quote

I use their small towel that was recommended at the hospital. There are i think 7 of them in a pack. So i got one, dab it in water, squeeze out the water then clean the tongue and gum gently. I dont do it daily though. Shes 6months old

BruncleZuma:


Did these goats read the constitution or are they running this based on their understanding of it?

#NoNigerianIsMoreNigerianThanAnyNigerian

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But some are allowed to take laws into their hands than others baa?

samwriter:
why you dey laugh. I just want my face to return to normal

Abeg which direction the face shift go? East, west, north, south, up or down so that i will know the kin advice i go give. And the koko big or small?

smasher1:
True, but to make it in life is hard work. I know so many of my friends who inherited properties over ten years ago and are very broke now even selling the inheritance.

That's where hard work pays. Yearly, you'll see yourself growing and inheritance would only compliment your wealth.

Both of us do not know the guy's status. He just stated that the guy is overshadowing others to take the inheritance alone. Thats the mistake you made. The guy may be working or schooling or hustling. Whatever, i dont know. No offence, you just concluded that the guys is idle. Its not fair on him for stating what his relative is doing like he is not entitled. Are you supporting the selfish relative?

I hope they peel off his bony back. Anumanu

smasher1:
Go and work hard and leave family inheritance.

Naso, some people need a push to make it in life. Its not a bad thing if he wants his inheritance. The selfish guy that has the whole family's inheritance is worse than the devil. I wonder how he sleeps. Tomorrow now the slowpoke will come out to claim 'hard work pays', 'money answereth all things' and 'I'm a big boy'.

Follow up story?

Ndi saboteurs kwenu!!!

OfeAchi:
BACKGROUND:

I had a decent job before I met her and I was responsible for all the decisions I took, which mostly led to favourable outcomes.
However when I met her and began a relationship, I wasn't having the freedom I needed. Any decision I wanted to take without her authorization always ended badly. For example there was a period I wanted to jointly rent an apartment with a male friend of mine. She strongly opposed this but I still went ahead to pay rent. Unfortunately for me, within four months my friend had some issues with landlord and we were both evicted from the apartment. (although I got compensated)

Another instance was when I got paid some bonuses from company and decided to invest in some crypto projects during their ICOs (in 2017). I did some market analysis of these crypto projects before my decision to invest, only for her to advice me against it. She said we should instead, use the money to start farming. I didn't listen to her and went ahead to invest. THE RESULT: the investment that was supposed to take me to the moon now became more worthless than tissue paper! I shed tears because of this.

I now decided to get rid of her, but all plans of mine proved abortive. The more I tried to get her out of my life, the more we were brought together. Can you believe that the day I finally proposed to her was the very same day I tried to make out with an old girlfriend?

A friend of mine went to consult an ifa priest, who told him that my fiance has a cloud of good fortunes around her. But I don't believe in those spiritual mumbo-jumbos! I was determined to leave her. This made me begin applying for jobs in other states and towns, but nothing came forth. I even went for interview/test but didn't scale through. Some weeks later, she told me that she wasn't in support of me getting job in another town (she says she was scared of losing me).

Did you know? the time I decided to remove the thoughts of leaving her from mind and fully accept her into my life, was the time that I finally got a better job in another city!

MARRIAGE
We got married in 2019 and I was of the mindset that since she may be an ogbanje, therefore things would work in my favour and I would become a millionaire very quickly, but that's not the case.

Since marriage, any decision I take without her approval always leads to disaster!
I wanted to invest in a partnership deal and told her about it but she disapproved and said I should save the money instead. I went ahead to invest and I lost 400k! Same for other decisions in the house, the outcome was always negative whenever I don't heed her advice.

I hate all this! I'm a full grown man. Why should my life be based on the decisions of a woman? I feel like I'm no longer in control of my life.
I'm about to take a car loan from my company in order to escape this constant public commute and trekking but she has vehemently disapproved, that I should instead save for another year or two before buying car. But I still won't listen to her! If the loan ends in a disaster, I have decided that I would abandon this marriage and relocate to another country. A country where voodoo and religious mumbo-jumbo do not exist, so that I can be in full control of my life!

.......PS: we have a year old baby girl. Maybe I could be sending monthly upkeep from this new country I intend to relocate to.

Able readers, is my final decision a good one?

But she gives you good advise na. Its not as if she is foolish in her thoughts. Are you sure that its not hpride that is disturbing you? What is there if you let her know your plans? If you dont trust ifa, why not go the Christian way? Has she displayed any ogbanje like character at night? You are wearing the shoes

Hahhahaha, we are looking for money to borrow from china. You are telling them to pay which money?Make i bend if they honour this verdict.

adewumiopeyemi:
It wil surely backfire to you


Rememer that you also have mother
And she brought you up to this level

A woman has to eat the fruit of the womb no matter what


No matter what



I love my mother

No woman can control me

Never in this life

But she is using his generosity to harm herself. If something happens now, the guy might feel guilty for been the one sponsoring the addiction. Infact i dont even know what to say sef. This people can be dangerous to even come close to