₦airaland Forum

Lol..If you see the signs, begin to detach...

Every other can fail you, but not your Instinct.

It is finished completely...


Their was a country.

faithfull18:
Yes, satisfying. Stop discouraging chastity in order to sound woke. Those who slept around, leaving a part of themselves with everyone they had sex with were once virgins. It's better for partners to be virgins and they both get to learn.

I am certain if everyone adhered, the rate of infidelity and stories related to it won't be as much as we have it now.

OP, you are doing well.

Lol..People don't like to hear the ugly truth..

But it is what it is...

Woke ke? Most abused word on social media.

I am more of traditional man.
Woke,wake, weak or week anything you call it is out of the context.

Dmacqh:
Right now , I’ve no justification. I was too stupid I was considering the shame ( and my age ) instead of been humane and looking at the bigger picture . I consider myself a failure .
I pray I’ll meet her soonest .
And yes we already parted like more than 2 months before she discovered the pregnancy.
Part of my fear or caution then was that maybe she got pregnant elsewhere and and wanted to hang it on me .
She left me , knowing I wasn’t serious. I was a playboy then. She discovered I wasn’t serious with her. She blocked and deleted my contact .
I want to know if she’s alive first . She got depressed and traumatized with that incident .
The big challenge why I denied her then was, over brokenness. Managing my life in school was a hell already. I was managing to sip garri once a day then . I begged her to go and stay in her family house . She refused and ran away .

Bad.

AnthonyAk:
Perhaps , but it the wrong time, my girl and I would have probably dropped put of school.

Life would have been soo much harder right now. I regret it but given the conditions at the time I would probably do it again.

Even if we are older now we are in a much better place

That circumstances beyond humans control...

Mariangeles:
There was a time when it was duty for every able bodied young men to fight and defend his country.
Then, it was a matter of duty, and not of choice.

Not nowadays when most have been spoilt and reduced to mere keyboard soldiers.

You are looking for trouble from ndi ogwu red

Missiles ha ga abia zoo ka mmiri.

War is already depleting the male population.

Their is a situation, all male will be rushing arms just like in Ukraine...Where some are returning home to pick arms.

It is as if they were prepared for the war as well...Because the word thought by now Ukraine will be in Putin's pocket.

baby124:
Don’t mind them. Average life expectancy of men in years past no pass 25. Because of wars! But now, they can get fat, live long, wear makeup and pretend to be women. SMH.

How old was Alexander the Great when he conquered the world? 25. Died at 32. Today Alexander the Great will be wearing 24 inch hair, 6 inch heels, with makeup and fighting to use women’s bathroom. While talking Redpill online.

Bobrisky and sissy men have made you reason all male are the same

Just put a bullet on the men.

Mariangeles:
Am I Ukrainian or a man?
Why should I kill a snake when I have a man to kill it for me?
Who am I trying to impress? Heck! I don’t want to be brave.
I can’t even kill a cockroach!

Believe it or not, it is men’s responsibility to protect and care for their women when duty calls for it.
I don’t subscribe to that equality sh!t.
I am a female, not a feminist, so I must be protected and treated special.

Lol.

Mariangeles:
In spite of everything, try not to hate her.

When the whole situation is calm, prostrate and say sorry to her.
Tell her it’ll never happen again.
Then buy her something she’d find hard to reject.

Onye mummy..

Mariangeles:
She should start roasting and packaging groundnuts in posh pouches, instead of begging for an 18k job.

O wu ya!

So i mahu na just few humans are enterprising.

Majority want to be in an existing job despite the peanut pay...

And o wu nwaanyi, she no get problem..One average guy fit see her and marry her tomorrow..

O di la settled.

Mariangeles:
Why are you asking me?

Lmaoooooo

You will pass for a comedienne..sometimes...The question is a rib cracker.

Mariangeles:
Na wah o!
Na where una dey see these types of ana gan?

you can't relate abii?

Anyway in such cases, some people are facing their karma...

You will begin to see reaaons why I believe in karma.

Mariangeles:
Call it a joke or whatever, but it is what it is.

Yes, everyone should be treated special, but females more than males. Period.

Heheheheh....Okwa i bido la.

Dmacqh:
This topic bring back memories. Exactly a year ago . My problem is I denied her . She blocked me . Almost a 4month pregnancy.
The truth is we broke up around March last year , and she came with pregnancy by May . There’s no way I will know if it’s me or not . Yes the pregnancy duration tallied during our time together .
Now I’m trying to reach her , but she blocked my line and my siblings line .
I wish there’s someone who can help me and trace her . I just want to see her and know if she’s alive or not . My nights have never been the same .

If you are serious, you will meet her...Many ways to go about it.

Just make a move...Women are understanding in this kind of situation.

So as you are sure you were responsible.

But una get mind, At least if you must breakup, don't do it with burden na ..pregnancy is a burden..And you denied her that shoulder to relax on

AnthonyAk:
It does haunt me, kid would have been almost 12 now. But it's okay when it's time to have kids will really cherish them

Chai...And you would have been happy looking at him/her..

Mariangeles:
I once read a man’s comment here on nairaland on how he wanted his daughter aborted at all cost.
They later had the baby, and according to him, she’s the sweetest girl.
The thought still haunts him every time he looks into her sweet eyes.

Like I once typed; it is hard enough to uproot a growing plant, how much more a growing child.

Some circumstances they think is beyond their control might have pushed for the abortion thoughts then..

A friend told me how his Dad made it a case for the mum to abort him..As he was the fourth pregnancy and his Dad said he wanted just 3...

He is in USA doing his PhD in Engineering....A lucky guy and a blessing for his family..

I used to support aborting if you know you can't raise the child properly...But, adding more years, came with more wisdom and Looking at some stories like this and that of my friend has changed that..

I can only encourage it, if it is a life threat to my woman..If medics say she can deliver fine...no problem.

I was with my friend yesterday, immediately we greeted the sweet news was that his girl is pregnant.. Me those days will worry for him.

But, I no believe say I was legit happy for him..The lady ticks his boxes and it goes to satisfy the saying of the elderly people " Mete onye dinma enyi, maka olulu..

I will only support abortion if it stands in the way of a woman's life.

obiekunie01:
the problem no be buying NFT for $300 na to sell am be the issue!

when u wan sell u go hear different tori!

SCAM!!






dont be surprised Don Jazzy was paid to promote this NFT scam.

If it was that cool for purchase, it will be cool for a resell.

You don't know we have too many money miss road in this life..

Mariangeles:
What’s this NFT all about?
Some people are cashing out already o.
Is it only about art?

Digital assets...Just like we have painting of Monalisa by Da vinci as an art work/asset, if it were to be in digital, it goes to NFT stuffs.

Some one like zuckrberg, his first face book post might come up as auction unto NFT...And rake millions of Dollars..

Crazy world...unserious things of wayback, are becoming cash cow.

Hydronium:
Lol. Thanks tho but I don't believe in that. My fiancee & I are 'certified' virgins and looking forward to a satisfying sex life.

Satisfying you say For two novice? Super story.


Anyways to your question..They said marriage is an Institution you will never graduate from...Just prepare your mindset and have good understanding, develope ability to listen more than you talk.

Pray for wisdom to make critical decisions and lead the home as the man with equity and fairness.

chatinent:
Wale Adenuga Production...

It's a superstory..


We are nothing but pencil in the hands of creator.

DenreleDave:
Bought today at AJah market for just 2k

Guys, don't you think i be correct husband material

cc: my.nd44, pocoh.antas, gboy.egaD, Se.un, Lalasti.clala

Unto street purchase na..

Even 10years ago, 2k won't buy those items.

lordmayor2013:
I have an interview on Monday at lasuth , I applied as a scientific officer. What are the likely questions I would be asked and what's the start up salary

Scientific officer kwa

All this state universities though.

pocohantas:
Scientific questions.
Ordinarily I think your duties should be research oriented, but this is Nigeria. I suspect your role was created to accommodate the side-chicks and family members of Ogas at the top. I won’t be surprised they would be sending you to buy ofada rice and chilled coke.

As for your salary, e go be between 100-150k. Na wetin I dey see for my crystal ball.

Lmao..

You be case.

sync:
Go for vasectomy

I hate this...Condom or withdrawal...

Vasectomy is somehow.

JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.


I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?

Are you not the one pounding?

Enjoy the kids coming jaree..At least they will still grow to adults.

Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,

I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.

Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.

However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.

I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.

I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.

Thanks.

God used you to secure the job for her...

Most ladies have a way of disappointing the very guy that they use to climb the social ladder..Or anyother height.

Just pray you don't find yourself in that situation..Very bad she is drifting..That's if romance is not happening already..

If chats are cleared, Sorry man...Just sorry.

If Any thing happens, just accept she isn't yours..But if she is yours, nothing will happen.

Uncle96:
Why would you allow another man to be dropping your woman off at work everyday ?

As in eeh?

Na small thing dey hook women.

FalseProphet1:
I'm currently single and focused on my calling which is God's work, so no partner for now.

This I have seen.

Lmao..

False comment.

MadeINchenzen2:
Guys that will always be in control of a ladys attention, respect and loyalty are the ones that does not give half a concern about what she does, where she goes, or who she's flirting with.

You can both be dating... but try to give her as much space to explore all her fantasies. Stop asking her useless questions that gives her the impression you are insecure...

when a lady knows you are insecure, you give her the impression that indicates she deserves a better guy than u !!! And trust me, it's a matter of time before she abandons that relationship.

Perhaps she thought she was dating the hottest guy in campus, but your insecurities has explained to her that you actually do not have the guile and guts to carry yourselves as the number one trending guy in campus... your insecurity will automatically put her on a mission to find the coolest and hottest lady's guy in campus and date him after dumping you.

She loves the fact that you feel insecure, she enjoys seeing you miserable like that... sweating on your balls to keep her all for yourself... you are the newest clown in the circus

You always call her phone to ask her whereabouts, you always want to know where she went and who was the guy she was talking to, you want to see who she's chatting with on Facebook or WhatsApp.

My guy stop all that and give her space... focus on other things and give yourself more attention. The less questions u ask, the less attention you give her... the more respect you command, the more attractive u will appear to her.


Be wise

In summary, he should get busy.

DropsMic:
Yawn... MAN WEY WAN SIMP GO SIMP

The meme used by Insidelife_411

Toks2008:
This is very apt. Well articulated.

You can modify the topic to something more catchy like


Guys, if you want your lady to respect you, Do this.

Then lalasticlala will do the needful.

Cheers.

Front page format....

As expected, no serious man should keep a woman who cheated on National Tv or else where.