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NYSC is not by force.

If you're posted to a danger prone region, write them a letter that you will not be going to that camp, and Request for a transfer.

I repeat, you will not be penalised for it.

Don't endanger your life unnecessarily. The service year experience and allowee is not worth the risk.

osuofia2:

many daft Naira landers commenting that what the man did is not a crime, na because many of nna never serve or go jail before. A law is a law. Why the hell will you text married woman babe.
FYI
''INFORMAL
a sexually attractive young woman.
"he's been pumping up his pecs to impress the babes"
2.
INFORMAL
an affectionate form of address, typically for someone with whom one has a sexual or romantic relationship.
"hey babes, I know it is unscrupulous and underhand, but don't blame me!

We know "babe" is informal.
However, that law cited is for PUBLIC breach of peace and the man in question has not coonstituted a public breach of peace, and not applicable in a context of marriage. Marriage is a private domain and such act can not be said to have constituted breach of peace to the woman in particular. She can only get a restraining order from d Court against the man.

osuofia2:
Stop been stupid. You should read that what he did is capable of breaching peace.
Offence Contrary to and Punishable under Section 249(d) of the Criminal Code, Revised Laws of Ogun State of Nigeria, 2006
Is the police the magistrate?

It would only stand, if he intruded their privacy.
Phone number does not constitute a private entity since it is being shared and displayed on most social platforms.

Anyone could have sent it to her in error.

Heck I will bombard her phone number with sms, if they dare to publish it.

If you as a man is contemplating suicide, what then do you expect of the woman who will bear the physical pain and shame?

If you feel incapable, just tell your woman and do the best you can.

Be there when you can to support her
Give her when you have.

But tell her never to pressure you to do anything, weda your responsibility or not, else you will disappear coz you're at your break point already.

Accept your responsibility but you dont have to be fully financially responsible as long as she is the one wiling to keep the child.

...and why should we care??

This is my fear for Biafra.

With the way things are going, if we get Biafra in this state, we'd have coups upon counter coups.

Sudan should write a good success story for African secession.

sirjamesjnr:
I refuse to be deluded as the vast majority of men are. I grow up in a church environment. I know what many of us did with different women at that time. In the university, I know what my eyes have seen. How we all camp girls in our hostel and lodges, how boys and girls exchange themselves with restless abandon. 4 in every human in the university has done some sexual exploits. For men, it becomes a bragging right while women do this to mitigate their needs.

Is it a workplace where we make some kind of sexual arrangement in form of parties and functions? In a country like ours where 3 in 5 persons live below the dollar rate, the vast majority of women do a lot of things to put food on their table that including having sex with different men. I am old enough to apply logic rather than emotions. I am exposed to know that 4 in 5 girls out there have a very ugly past.

We live in an environment where survival is forged by doing unprintable things which include having sex to "meet up". I'm not surprised by most comments on this thread. Do the maths, 3 in one Nigerian is a stark illiterate who are brainwashed by religious views.70% of those who claim to acquire education are educated fools who refuse to explore and adapt to modern realities. It takes a woman to have sex because there was a man who has sex with her. It is foolishness to slut-shame a lady when both of you engage in the act. I will always blame the religious leaders and our parents for this height of hypocrisy. I refuse to live in that kind of arrangement. My post doesn't support 'irresponsibility' neither did it support exchanging the female body with material things, a woman is an adult. Let her make choices as she seems fit, if you are not comfortable with it then find your square roots. Sexual exploits are less of my concern and for some persons, I know. I will like to think that for an ideal home and family, a lady who know the basics of making a decent family, a kind of person that can contribute ideas that can make life journey easy, who work smart and is supportive is what every man should go for irrespective of her sexual past. Either you adapt to modern realities or you conform to your cave mentalities. The world doesn't revolve around your ignorance.

Keep promoting sexual Immorality.

If ladies are ready to own their hoeness, then let them...afterall, men world over have owned up to our promiscuity.

A man can hoe around and get away with it...no emotional damage, no health damage, except he is careless.

We do not measure a woman by her body count. However, we'd like to get married to one who has not been mentally and emotionally and physically damaged by her past.

Kobojunkie:
Cornelius did not have Truth on a wrong foundation. If he did, he wouldn't have asked God for His Truth but would have sort out men, false teachers and prophets of his own understanding to suckle from as many today do.

Again...What the house of Cornelius had was more than good intentions. They had truth and we sought God for more of it.

What many who claim to have good intentions do is seek out men to feed them this truth. They enter into yokes with men who claim to be of God but peddle instead lies and deceit through their doctrines and traditions. Jesus Christ warned against such men - Matthew 15 vs 1 - 14.

Consider this... can you say you whole heartedly seek God in prayer when you blatantly ignore God's very Word and commandments where seeking Him in prayer in concerned?

For instance, God commands that when you pray to Him that you do so in secret , where no one can hear you and no one can see you. He also commands that you avoid vain repetitions, and He also taught you to pray the Lord's prayer when you want to pray - Matthew 6 vs 5 - 15. Do you think God was being foolish when He commanded these things of you, this instead of what you currently do today for your own selves ?

Jesus Christ said His friends are those who do as He asks , and that those who belong to Him are those who submit to and obey His teachings and commandments - John 15 vs 14 & John 14 vs 15 - 25 & Matthew 24 - 29. God's standard for good intentions was set over 2000 years ago. Either you rise to it, realizing your current standard is not good enough by Him,or you accept that God is not for you.

Now I see your angle...and it is a very good one.

We should seek for God in prayer, in our secret place, and not in men or churches. That's sometimes where the confusion and indoctrination starts from. That's where we give them access to thwart our minds and spirit with their skewed truths misconstrued from the Bible.

This is very salient.

However, what now happens to the promised Holyspirit that was sent eventually.
The whole book of Acts and the subsequent books of the Bible....what do we do with that volume of information?
Are they doctrines, especially since they are recorded events that happened after the death of Cnrist...?
Because they contain some deep teachings on the part of the Holy spirit in Christianity.

How do we believe the 4 gospels only- the actual life of Jesus Christ...and disbelieve the other bulky parts...including the old testament?

Well, if you have enough faith in just the life and teachings of Jesus Christ, and it's working for you, great!

But it will be hard for me to invalidate the rest of the bible...because the same Catholic canonical compiled the full books.

We either believe them all in its entirety, or invalidate them all.

I can not pick and choose.

Kobojunkie:
True Speaking in tongues, which is the speaking of an actual human foreign tongue, is none of what is practiced in your churches at all and it is not invoked either nor as controlled.

The scriptures shows that Speaking in tongues is not only human foreign language but also Includes language not understood by anyone...tongue of angels.

The scriptures also shows it can be controlled and initiated at will.

I would have been quoting plenty but that material has done all the quoting necessary.

You think the spirit makes us mimic the false teachers, but the Truth of Christ as is in the Bible, shows we are actually on the right track and perhaps, our teachers are not false in that regard.
The preachers might show some imperfections but this practice is the truth of the Bible.

Kobojunkie:
How can imbibing more of the doctrines and traditions of men, the same lies which Jesus Christ warned you is an abomination where the Truth of God is concerned, settle this?

Traditions of men?

That material cited the scriptures in a constructive manner, showing us the linkage between both types of tongues.

This thing you call gibberish has been in existence since the bible days. It is not new. Speaking in a foreign tongue and speaking in unknown tongues both existed at same time, and Paul addressed this explicitly.

How are you guys not seeing the truth of the scripture?
Are you guys being intentionally biased or you do not understand what is written in plain English, even when the connecting dots have been shown to you?!

What is your idea of the true and false tongue? Perhaps we can discuss from your angle of belief.

Kobojunkie:
What the house of Cornelius had was more than good intentions. They had truth and we sought God for more of it.

House of Cornelius had truth on a wrong foundation...gentile.
David had his wrongs, yet he produced the lineage of Jesus.
Abraham lied. Moses killed. Elijah was arrogant.
Jonah. Joshua. Solomon. Paul. Peter.....all has their frailties but the heart towards God was what made them stories to reckon.

Paul was persecuting the church as a rightful law keeper...until God showed him the right way to do RIGHT.

If I'm in a wrong path but with heart towards God, it is His standard to set me on the right path too.

Meanwhile, xenoglossia and glossolalia are both biblical experience.

And I've found out that I'm actually on the right path. However if I'm wrong, let God be the judge on the last day. We know in part and I have not refused knowledge. I suggest you open your mind to see what was really happening in the book of Acts.
(See attached image in my last post)

uvalued:
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God bless you.

This is a rich material that settles all this debates.

When I read posts like this mehn, I just conclude that it is hard...very hard.

Which one we never meet??

The one that's engaged and you know her man?
Engaged and serving NYSC in another state?
The one that works with you buh has a man?
The one that had small quarrel and goes out for random bleeping?
The one that is married to a man she doesn't enjoy sex with?
The one in your compound that you pound regularly without commitments?
The babymama that is comes for you just because you seem caring to her and her child?
The customer that admires your personality?
The one that likes you because you're in a position of small power?
The one that's stranded and wants to crash outside d house?
The one that you ask out in a tricycle and you both arrange to meet for kpekus...no love/like talks?
The one that came to the pub alone and wakes up in your bed d next day?

The stories plenty.
In every scenario, ladies just make themselves so available.

How man wan take trust again?!

Kobojunkie:
The intent isn't what matters but the source and this because those who speak it have allowed themselves be deceived by the very same false teachers and prophets that Jesus Christ warned vehemently against.

There is indeed spirit behind the speaking in gibberish phenomenon and I know this because it had happened to be in my own past as well. That spirit, mimics the authentic in causing a set of syllables to flow out of one's mouth. The catch is the spirit is rooted in lies and not the Truth of Jesus Christ and this because the hearts in question are filled with the doctrines and traditions of men , lies, rather then the Truth of God -Matthew 15 vs 1 - 20

True Speaking in tongues, which is the speaking of an actual human foreign tongue, is none of what is practiced in your churches at all and it is not invoked either nor as controlled.

If there is such a spirit, then I dare say most of us are yoked then.

But like the House of Cornelius, if we have good intention towards God, and we are going about I the wrong way, God will be just; to show us a right way and take us out of the wrong.
We can't be wholeheartedly praying to our God in a wrong way na...e beta say make we continue to dey pray in our understanding, if God Himself will not intervene and lead us aright.

Kobojunkie:
What is speak is gibberish tongues- glossolalia as described by the OP.

It could be gibberish for all I care (Glossolalia) but the trends these days shows that people don't do it with an intention of mischief but with the intent of communicating with God; and its usually done while praying, not in unproductive talks just to prove a point.

Like I don't think of a line or a next word. I just make up my mind to speak and the words come out as I keep releasing my vocal expressions with the same emotion I put into praying in known language.
It's all a frame of mind/spirit.

obinna58:
People don't understand that simping is in nature

Redpill is inborn, it comes with a lot honesty.

Bitter truth.

True that.
I've never had breakfast yet I've never loved truly.

But here's a side effect...I've also not been able to serve God in faith.

You'll just find yourself calculating every move.

Too much of "using your head" is not good- I guess.

Biko what's her full name?

I don't know her.

ChemicalReaction:
Yhh... 100% true. I attended Christ embassy once and almost everyone was speaking in tongues even my friend that i know to be a chronic sinner. Twas later i got to know that they learn it.

How do they learn it?
I've heard this accusation of Christ embassy countless times and it shocks me to the bones...coz I attend same church yet I've never been told such Jack yet I pray in tongues and most of my set that joined the church at the same time still pray in tongues and most have had a deeper rship with God.

It's not taught in Christ embassy, however, you can claim that it is learnt by association; one begins to pick up the words from what is heard and can gradually speak in such manner.
Yet, speaking it consistently doesn't take practice, it's a state of mind or spirit, that allows you flow comfortably in unknown tongues without any doubts or questioning your actions.

dankorode:
you ready trying to ignore the device of Satan? hmm I pity u oo

I admit it is a device of the devil, both to watch and to break such news as a newscaster.

It does more harm than good to the society.

But we must admit that some people view adult content for different reasons and that reason is what drives the result.

Intending and struggling couples are professionally advised to watch kamasutra to help their sex life.

Does it constitute immorality when rightly used??

I say again, "man" is tempted only by their lust.

Jeromejnr:
Stop typing rubbish.
They need to view abi as a Christian? So if an organisation tells a female marketer she can sleep with a client to gain business, because its her job she should do it?
You havent heard of exemption for religious reasons in job roles abi?

And your talk on curiosity and cravings makes no sense.

Religion is subjective; however, morality is a more unified course.
You can act based on your moral belief.

Put yourself as a news bearer...Will you not talk bout the TRENDING leaked sextape? And perhaps, throw a moral light to it.
And for you to talk bout it, you have to confirm the source of your information.

Well, the moral call is yours but don't tell me about sexual sin as a result of watching a leaked sextape.

You can only be tempted by your lust...so check yourself well.

Kobojunkie:
How can they be happy when they were raised by parents like yours to believe they need to have a man in their lives to complete them in some way?

A companion doesn't complete anyone.
If you are not completely comfortable in yourself, you don't have business with companionship. It would be very travail to place your completeness in the hands of a frail mortal.

However, the OP is 41 and well read. She knows what suits her personality.
She wouldn't be lamenting bout childbearing if it is not her personal desire to get a child.
She's just lamenting the process that had her at a disadvantage.

Marriage is beyond just beauty, intelligence, or character.

You have to have a combination of all of these in various degrees.

A companion doesn't complete anyone.
If you are not completely comfortable in yourself, you don't have business with companionship. It would be very travail to place your completeness in the hands of a frail mortal.

However, the OP is 41 and well read. She knows what suits her personality.
She wouldn't be lamenting bout childbearing if it is not her personal desire to get a child.
She's just lamenting the process that had her at a disadvantage.

Marriage is beyond just beauty, intelligence, or character.

You have to have a combination of all of these in various degrees.

How bout those that work in the media and needs to view such materials to stay abreast of trending information in their space.

It's just your polluted minds that view sextape and masturbate to it.

It is just a news material that satisfies CURIOSITY, not sexual cravings.

PerfectlyPerfect:
Keep at just 2M for your ransome in case.
And also write your will

Baba, no talk so na...Western rail line dey safe.

Safety is of the Lord sha.

Thank God we don't look like what we're going through.

Best believe man, you don't wanna take a walk in our shoes.

Just keep pressing on.
Na who give up, fvck up!

It's simply because they have not given themselves WHOLY to the Word.

Let your conscience judge you that have doubts....have you truly surrendered ALL and God didn't take over?

That thing you are still struggling to lay down, is the reason Christ hasn't taken over.

Sheuns:
The train runs 2 schedules. First is morning 8am. Second is evening 4pm. You need to be at the train station early enough. I’ll advise be there 30-45 mins before take off time. The train leaves at the exact time. Total ETA from Lagos to Ibadan is 2hrs45mins. The coaches are cool, neat and chilling. You’ll enjoy the trip.
Tickets are based on class/coach.

Economy 2,700 naira
Business 4,000 naira

Oh thank you so much.

Let me arrange my budget for a wknd getaway.

Hope say d Ibadan area get closeby joints and hotels....mk d journey for mk sense wella

delpee:
If you're in Lagos, the train leaves for Ibadan at 8.00am. on weekdays. The return journey is at 6pm. I think it's 8.30 am on Saturdays. You can confirm on their website.

Tickets are sold at the Stations...Mobolaji Johnson in Yaba and perhaps Babatunde Fashola in Agege.
Omi Adio and Moniya stations in Ibadan.

I've travelled to Ibadan on the train. Nice experience.
Clean, cool environment with adjustable seats if you want to sleep. Sockets for laptops/ phone charging. Clean toilets, boxroom for heavy luggage apart from the overhead racks. Security personnel on board.

The First class and Business Class look virtually the same to me...maybe a little more leg room in the First class compartment.

Thanks so much.

This year will not pass me by.
Make I go begin find Ibadan girlfriend online �

Person suppose go for this train ride ooo, even if na just lagos to Ibadan on a wknd getaway.

Pls where can I purchase tickets and get travel info?

soso208:
When it comes to politics, Igbo people are not smart at all....
How can you people be killing yourselves and destroying your properties simply because some people are against your believe...
You people have to learn the game of politics from the northerners or you will never achieve anything...
NB: You people need to settle your affairs within yourselves first before agitating for Biafra or else it biafra is given to you people today, una go just kill una selves finish, that's if una no kill una selves finish before dey give una biafra oo

When that Ghanaian president killed all corrupt leaders in order to sanitise Ghana, was he not applauded?

Now igbos are sanitising themselves from within so they can make good progress

Elsodeeq:
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Sell on Trove.

Do your due diligence.

You can Google them before opting.