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[quote author=Maria-Goretti]dat isnt necesary at al since i alridy v somone wo wants to marry mi n if nt for d condition he put mi dad in, i shuld b puttin tings togeda for mi marriage ceremony. He even made mi skip service dis july to tke kia of mi dad. As it is nw, everytin is on hold, till mi dad recuperates.[/quote]so if you are getting married, y den are u bothered abt him nd his requests?, or are u havin a change of mind cos i dont see y his requests are disturbin to you as much as for u to create a thread abt it.lol

as far as am concerned i dont knw y u r bothered sef, age na number guy.i was in a similar situation like urs, she was older(2yrs) ,i didnt even mind cos bt she had issues wit it.if she isnt concerned abt ur age then pls good ahead if she has qualities u r lookin for in a wife.trust me.all u need is some you will be happy with nd vice versa.

talk true:
Is it possible for one to shoot himself in the chest with AK-47

ahahhaha, i like ur sense of reasoning, bt its possible sha.

afam4eva:
Thank God they've decided to bring him out from where they hid him.

, u guys wont kill person wit laugh for nairaland.

obitobe:
let us don't be quick to condemning her, i would like us to be easy on her, the fact she was caught does not prove that she is guilt as charged, and beside it could have been implanted in her bag back in Nigeria by anyone not necessary to frame up but for her to be the transporter without her knowledge or maybe she is fully aware of the whole deal and her luck just ran out. Well there are many sides to the story, please its a shame that it was associated to Nigeria and the UKBA are just making a big noise about it, i guess if its were other developed western world there wouldn't be much fuss about it, but just simply because its Nigeria i guess.

dude i have a friend who is an air  hostess with arik on their international route and once during discussion she told me that they have been trained not to accept packages from pple and to double check their luggage hrs  before traveling.she told me that even she would  think twice before accepting any package from me, so the case of the lady in question being framed is rubbish, she carried it either thinking/hoping she wouldn't be checked and caught.

ummmmm, well if u can deliver wat i need no probs with the charging aspect.basically its an application to help the school manage/maintain all facilities(that's the basic function anyway) but i guess it could include alot of other features.

Hello programmers, i need help with developing a web based application for facilities management using php and mysql.tried searching online to find out what such an application might consist of but havent found useful info.so would be grateful if anyone here has any ideas to give me or has done such before.thnks.

Jarus:
Self-employment is good, in fact very good, but I'm afraid it's been overrated with all these shouts about it and continuous demonization of salaried jobs.

Some questions:

1, Where do you get capital to start your business?
2, Where do you get experience to manage your business? Or you think you can just graduate from school and run a business like that?
3, Where do you get the network to sustain your business?
4, What do you fall back to if, just if, the business fails?
5, How many people will trust you - at least in the beginning - if they know you've not been tested somewhere else before?
Questions, questions and more questions

Truth is less than 15% of self-employed people actually made it without being on someone else's employ before.
Most of them started as salaried people and even there is nothing absolutely wrong in spending all your career till retirement as salaried person. A salaried person that rises to become a bank CEO, will be better off than many self-employed business owners.

There is also the risk factor. Some people are just risk-averse and cannot take all the risks associated with owning the business.

Instead of demonizing paid employment, I think emphasis should be on how to strike a balance - invest your income while under paid employment(preparing for rainy day); if possible, run your private biz while still on another man's employ and break out when you get your footing; if you can't get paid job at all, then try strive your way to identify self-employment opportunities, rather than die looking for paid job.

this is the best response that i have read/heard by anyone. especially the highlighted, the key is to strike a balance between both cases.thnks jarus.

i know the guy, he runs a marriage ministry and was once invited by chaz-B on his late night radio show to talk and ended up confusing himself, that was the day i realized that there are Nigerians who would not take the words of a pastor hook line and sinker.
He says that courtship is a worldly thing and that Christians should not be involved in courtship.when the calls started coming in, the guy got confused and chaz-B had to help him out.

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=793787.msg9455746#msg9455746 date=1320114877]ShOULDNT THE LADY BE the one ON THE HORSE?

Nice wedding. [b]But bros, that your tuxedo [/b]get as e be, 2x oversized.

God bless the mariage.[/quote]madam take am easy, no be tuxedo him wear .

amblors:
ok if you don't recognize the nigerian 'hip hop' community

perhaps you would recog people like Asa, Bez, Adol, 2face (or you think he's not a good singer too), hell OJB's good. You heard music from Age Beeka? that's worldclass music.

bracket makes music for people to dance to.
i havn't heard anything reflective from em,
mayb i'm not listening,mayb u'll tell me beta.

what ever happened to that guy, he would/should have been the best in niaja by now, guess he came at a time when naija music was still struggling to get acceptance amongst nigerians.he was good.

amya- u sound just like me, only difference is am both quiet and talkative.i also love to be alone by myself and tots.this also has contributed to  failed relationships that i have had.nd its so bad that now am so scared of getting into one and in my thirties now .i guess most time the probs is  finding someone to accept u for who u r nd u also going the little extra mile to show some level of commitment. The last relationship is had started of nicely but now, i find it difficult to communicate with her.
i guess  the key would be communication ,if u find one who would accept ur "shortcomings" and u also try to step out of ur shell once in a while to let him see a different side of u, then i guess he would accept u for who u r fully knowing that there is an interesting side to u as well. but 25 is not to old girl, so go easy.

interesting, well since MEND has taken over the waters(creeks) and BOKO HARAM has taken over the land, i guess it only fair that MASSOB should take over the "AIR" and use it to do their own form of damage.
useless group ,i wonder wat they would ask for--- implementation of traditional religion across the eastern states and complete abolishment of xtianity lol
guess the govt shld treat this threat seriously cos that how the other groups started. God help us al

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=686061.msg8487246#msg8487246 date=1307633044]When you found out which one of the two, let me know. [/quote]instead of simply answering his question, u just showed ur bad knowledge/use of the english language

blank:
@ Dozieson and Fnep2smooth, your English is atrocious. There is a thread in the Education board that teaches English, search for it. How did you pass the 'KPMG conducted test'? They should have screened and checked for ability to communicate in English.

u wan finish me with laughter, dozieson try small na fnep2mooth finish the matter , no wonder the gov scrapped the 10,000 job ponzi scheme

lagboyz:
hey wait a minute, ibidun ajay!!!isn't that the lady that won, was it face of lux abi na Miss nigeria pageant, that owns one event management company in lagos, abeg someone should please clarify for me
Na she , Formally Miss Ibidun Ajamy

guy be like say e don tey wey u don dey eye/stalk the babe  , u r right sha, she was the first winner of the lux pageant.

well this is a sad end for the man, if only he had heeded to the old saying" a wise man does at once wat a foolish man would finally do". but that said, the war if very far from over cos there are still pro-gbagbo militias roaming the streets with guns and matchets, and am not sure the are ready to stop fighthing.now quattara would also see rebels emerging from the south to make the country ungovernable. as for you guys blaming the french, i assure u that wat the have done is wat most countries who has colonies and have nationals living in those colonies would do, protect ur citizens.The only got fully involved in the war after gbagbo's force attacked them and un forces as well.so the backed the rebles with heavy gunfire and stormed the presidential palace.but how would quattara bridge the divide between the south and the north, xtians and muslims etc. I think the civil war has only just begun.

obongtunji:
Buhari is a fanatic who is coverin up his evil deeds. How wil a man kickd against democracy & 2day he want democracy 2 embrace him. If dat metro project was 2 b in kano, he would hav signd it immediately.Let him xplain why PTDF project is everywhere in d north&no state in d South kan point @ wat they did. Afta watchin d NN24 presidential debate i fell in luv wit mallam Shekarau, dat man has vision&mission, he is nt a fanatic,a question was askd abt Hisbah(Islamic Police)& he anwserd convincly,satisfactorly&truthfuly. He has my vote,pls nairalandas he need your vote.Shekarau is wat we need in dis country,blieve me he kan deliver. Vote ANPP.

bros if u have nothin better to tell us than for us to vote for ANPP, den find something else to do, have u been to kano state, if he was that good, then how come nobody mentioned him before now, he comes up blowing sweet words and u fall for him, pls go and check kano, then convince us on y we shld vote for him,  

Timehin:
Can anyone explain why no flyzone in bharain, yemen inspite of the crisis there? Talk of double standard! Oil and more oil like oliver twist.

it's going to be quiet difficult to impose a no flight zone in bahrain especially as america has bahrain as its ally, as for yemen, there is nothin the can do in that country but to watch becos the dont even have a good rapport with the current president and the faction fightin the president are tendin towards al-queda , so there is nothin the can do both to watch. pple seem to forget that part of the reason y the no fly sanction sailed thru is becos it had the backing of the arab league. so the is nothin america /un /eu/nato can do in the arab world witout the vote of the arab league.they dont want to make more enemies as things stand.thats y america is to eager to pull out of the libyian crisis as quickly as possible.

[quote author=buJu-234 link=topic=630488.msg7983464#msg7983464 date=1301052786]I am not a supporter of Gaddafi`s action but I am against the western-dominated UN.

WHY DIDNT THEY IMPOSED A NO-FLY ZONE OVER ISRAEL & GAZA; hypocrites, UN

with this i believe other dictators will start to build their own strong defense system that can shoot down any aircraft that wants to fly across
their airspace all in the name of UN-no fly-zone or NATO.

Gaddaffi shouldn't have destroyed his weapon of mass destruction (biological weapon) because assuming he still had them; no country no even the US;
will have try bombing his country.

why didnt they place a no-fly zone in North-Korea and Iran; next morning u will wake-up and hear of the first nuclear war.


They tricked Gaddaffi; waiting for a moment like this to pull him down,

WICKED WESTERN NATIONS,[/quote]bros , the fact that pple are posting their tots does not mean that u shld do like wise, wat the hell are u ranting about.is the isreali govt at war wit its pple abi north korea.was the no fly zone imposed on libya before or after he turned his guns on his pple.guy get ur facts right before u start spewing trash abt the place. one more thing search for situations where no fly zones have been imposed and u wld see the similarities with the situation in libya.

Deep Sight:
I would like to ask the President -

- Why he would refer to an antediluvian recidivist such as IBB as his "Father" "Mentor" and a "great son of Africa"

- Why he would surround himself with the most corrupt elements in Nigerian Society

- Why he would seek to avoid a free and fair debate with other contestants (his PHD notwithstanding)

- Why the grossly illegal acts of the Governor of Ogun State have escaped his attention

- Why Nigeria is witnessing decreasing reserves at a time of increasing International Oil Prices

- Why he exculpated MEND from the October 1 Bomb Blast and is now prosecuting its leaders for that same offence

- Why as the symbol of law and order in Nigeria, he would yet celebrate and frolick with Bode George

- Why he has an illiterate wife, whilst he yet advanced his own education up to the level of a doctorate degree

I would like to ask Buhari -

- Why he thinks he should benefit from a democratic dispensation after commiting treason by truncating a democratic dispensation in the eighties

- Why he has resiled from his previously religiously-bigoted statements: notably his statements in the past that Sharia law should be applied in all states of Nigeria and that no Muslim should ever vote for a Christian (he was not a child when he made these statements)

- Why he had no respect for human rights as Military Head of State

I would like to ask Ribadu -

- Why he is frolicking with a man (Tinubu) who (whilst EFCC boss) he specifically and publicly stated deserves to be in Jail for Corruption

u harsh ohh bt very serious questions, especially the ones directed at buhari and ribadu.tryin to imagine ribadu answering the question

TewMuch:
Se bi na to try am remain make we see. MEND should try it please:

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They have also learnt something from MEND. They also now carry sophisticated weapons. Try it at your own peril, we will see who will lose more. Una sha get many Ijaw for Lagos, no be so? We go help them emancipate wella. Besides most of these militants have family and houses in Lekki, no bi so? But they pretend to be fighting for some ND they have probably not been t in years. Their people are not safe in Lagos, at their own risk.

hehehhe, na lagos opc wan fight there own fight guy abeg no make me laugh, i bin think say na creek them go reach.if u fight on ur own land, na u go loose pass

TewMuch:
This time has passed in Nigeria. No one will sit down and pray. This will be a fight to the finish. They cannot bomb Lagosian's, it will never go down well. Tell your brother's not to try it. OPC has warned them. Because OPC does not go around with bombs doesnt mean they do not have access to them or can get financier's to deal with those creek rats. Many rich people will contribute money because they definitely do not want to lose thier investments. ND is not Lagos. If they want to protest there are many pipelines in ND for them to blow up.

bros the truth is dat even if OPC like make them carry bomb, e no make difference cos them no get mind. na to dey fight amongst dem selves be there strenght. and to dey chase small small thieves.i dont support the idea of bombing anywhere at all, bt if it happens, bros OPC will do nothing.

omo9ja1:
attack lagos and meet youR waterloo, OPC will not fold her hand while some gold digger will want to disturb the peace of his people, what nonsence this so call mend can they match up toe to toe with the army, if only WE have a leader that can acert authority, there were still pending report to SMOKE THE MEND OUT IN THE HAND OF THE ARMY THEY NEED JUST ONE ORDER GO AND WE CAN ALL FORGET ABOUT THIS UNACCEPTABLE MANNER THAT SOME PEOPLE CAN JUST BE TALKING NONSENCE ASK THE IBO DURING BIAFRA THEY HAVE STORY TO TELL, IJAW BOYS DONT CALL FOR ANOTHER IJAWFRA TO FALL ON YOU, THE MILITRY FIRE IS SO HOT THERE NOT BRING WHAT YOU CAN NOT STOP ON HER HEAD AND THE INNOCENT PEOPLE OF THE COMMUNITY,

ON THE OTHER HAND YOUR BROTHER IS IN POWER WHY NOT ASK HIM IF IT WAS HAUSA MAN YOU GUYS WILL BE MAKING NOISE, NOW YOUR OWN BROTHER HE DOES NOT CARE ABOUT YOU THAT MUCH IF HE DOES HE WILL SORT THE ROOT OF THE PROBLEM BY ASKING THE OIL COMPANY'S TO ENGAGE MUST OF YOU WITH JOB RATHER GIVING YOU SOME FEW $$$$.

BUT ANY ATTEMPT TO ATTACK LAGOS YOU RISK LOSING YOUR ,

IGBORAN O SAN JU EBO RIRUN O0O00

I TALK MY OWN

wetin una go do sef, always making noise, swim una no fit swim, use gun  no way instead na cutlass and charms una go dey carry run around.my prayer is dat the attack shldnt even take place and in the event that it does, OPC no go do nothing

Kobojunkie:
You scored very low in your English Comprehension class, didn't you Seriously, all you need to do is calm down and READ . . . . That is all!! I could not even read past the line in bold cause it is all clear that whatever follows after that nonsense retort is more rambling from one accusing me of being the rambler.

The worst part of it all is the person who the respond was directed at, has yet to come in to even respond to the post. But you have taken it on yourself to spew useless information upon me? Please, learn to READ or quit. It is rude when people make no efforts at all but expect to be taken seriously.

People, our education system is producing more and more people who are incapable of understanding simple statements and this is a huge problem.

hahahhhahha

bunch of crap from one who has nothin else to put up as defence.i cant believe that u wasted time writing that crap without wit defendin ur bolded statment.  i tot u were smart but wit this post its obvious that ur IQ is so low that i cld trip over it. so am off.hehehhehhehehheh.DONT WANT TO BE CAUGHT ON THE LEGS BY UR IQ.

kobojunkie,very strange girl u r, once cornered u start rambling, u challenged the man's intentions askin for proof  if he went to church to give thanks, if he had actually repented or listened to the sermon and u ask me where u commented on the state of  his salvation.   if asking those silly questions wasnt a comment on the state of his "new found faith/salvation" then i wonder. maybe u dont understand simple english especially the onces written by u.

next time read between the lines as many times possible(take ur time) before u start throwin crap abt.like a poster said, u ramble wen cornered.

let me let u becos my ppple say becareful while arguing with an insane person or pple might take u to be insane as well.

Kobojunkie:
Read my texts please . . . . I don't care if he has found a life or not found a life in his Christ. That is between him and his God, and even YOU have no right to comment on that portion on his life since you are just as CLUELESS on that yourself.

So, please get back to discussing the actual content of the post, rather than bringing in angles even YOU have no clue on.

if u dont care abt his life wit or witout christ ,then y are u bothered abt the reasoon he went to church, the church is for everyone, ,i agree that i am as clueless as to if he has changed that as u r.bottom point is it is between him and God which i stated.so pls stop throwin around silly arguments

Kobojunkie:
We do not have PROOF that he went to Church to give thanks to God? We do not have PROOF of his REPENTANCE in all this? Even worse, we have no way of verifying that the message of the sermon even got to him. He probably spent much of that time massaging his ego. . . who knows? ROFLMAO!

I mean let's not try to pull the wool over our eyes in a bid to come off as 'good' people in all this when even Jesus himself did not sanction everything that went on in the church as being of God. So, no, the church is not for everyone. We are to Judge --- We need to learn to read the bible in context as it does not say outrightly that we ought not to Jugde at all. From the old testament, on to the new testaments, and even in the words of Paul, it is clear we are to Jugde, only we do so according to God's word. Any idea that Christians are not to judge is an idea that is not based on Biblical understanding at all since the whole book is filled with judgement,not just that of God on man, but also that of man on man and sanctioned by God in the case of many of the judgements carried out by his own.

u dont need proof "now" becos u r not God and u have stated that God will judge . as for judgin ur fellow man, u can do dat only wen u have the right facts or info, and i can say for now that neither u nor i knw if he has really chnaged or recieved the sermon wit his whole heart so my dear kobo, u cant judge him. so pls stop ranting.

kobojunkie, did u read the sermon dat was delivered by the preist,I asked him just before the service in my Vestry, why are you here today? Why are you doing this thanksgiving? Is it for you to justify yourself, to say oh I didn’t do it? He said, no, God protected him he didn’t allow him to die in prison, and for the encounter he had with him; for the relationship he developed with Jesus Christ and that you should not let go.
so if bode says he has found a new meaning to life in jesus ,let that be between he and jesus.it is not for u to question becos u will get no answers for now.only time will tell.GOD has forgiven worse pple and used them to for his purpose, so give the man a chance to prove himself that he is now a new creature in christ.

guys, i see nothin wrong with the dude going to church for a thanksgiving service, that is why we are nigerians.we are religious people.that said , i think the only reason people are angry is because of the fanfare that trailed the thanksgiving.it was not called for. he shld have just gone to church quietly wit family and friends. but i love wat the officiating preist told him, the preist didnt mince words at all. he told him straight in the face. Infact i hope that the words of the preist would sink into his heart.that said i hope he stays out of politics and lives the reminder of his life in the service of men and God (wishfull thinking i would say lol )

aisha2:
Did the nanny make a ransome demand? how then do you just label her a kidnapper, she may be a suspect now but nothing more, they could have been hurt or involved ina an accident, and i say this to people especially Nigerians who like cheating people they employ, the sooner you learn to treat your employees with respect and courtesy the better and safer your kids will be. No more words for now. I hope they find the baby and nanny

sweetheart, my reply to turbo man was in response to his case that y did the family employ the maid if they didnt trust her and i gave the example of sharon. so the truth is this , the nanny is the first and only suspect. i havent labelled her a kidnapper yet, but in due time i would becos if feel (personal opinion) that this is wat happened.
Y did she take the babe out? and has she done it before?as for employers who cheat their employees, well that a story for another matter.cos even if u do treat them well, they just might get greedy and want some more. thats human nature my dear.I personally dont trust anyone.so find the suspect and we get to hear the full gist.

turboman:
Hope the family have enough fact to indict the nanny; did she drop a note, or has she called for a ransom. Going out with the kid and not coming back is not enough reason to indict the nanny. Hope she has not been wasted and the kid kidnapped. Afterall if they never trusted her why employ her in the first place.

bros i tire for you, did u not hear about baby sharon who was kidanapped by family member that had lived with them for over 10yrs.the nanny is the first suspect period. afterall ,where would she want to take a 10 month yr old baby to, on a date ? her pix shld be upload and when she is eventually found she can then tell the family and police what actually happened to her and the baby.but until she is found ,she is the ONLY SUSPECT in this case.

nonsense, now he is pointing fingers at obasanjo, but wen the going was good between both of them , he kept mute, foolish man going around playing regional politics.
this gist shouldnt even have appeared here in the first place.