sapphiere:
Op hmm this your question is hard to answer o. I can't really tell what I will never engage in. Anything can happen.

Situations make people change. I remember when I was young, I'd tell myself that I will never follow a man to a hotel. If he can't take me to his house he should forget. But situation changed things.


Also, I vowed never to involved myself in abortion but a guy I dated sometimes ago after getting me pregnant gave me abortion drugs to take.

So this your question is hard to answer. Anything can happen. I'm always praying for the best while being prepared for the worst.

These were the 3 things I vowed never to do when I was young but I did them due to situations I found myself at that time. And since I've done these 3 things, I can possibly do anything.
1. Sleeping with a man in a hotel.
2. Doing abortion. (Did my first abortion at the age of 16. I was naive. Did the last one at the age of 19)

3. Sleeping with a married man. (my lecturer who disturbed me a lot and frustrated me academically till I bowed to his pressure).

I'm always praying for God's help and directions.

Being a girl child is not easy. Once you're 16 you buy almost everything for yourself. And girls things are quit expensive.
For instance, you need at least 1500 to make hair while a boy would cut hair with 200. You need to buy body cream and soap while a boy can survive without cream. Not to mention buying of pads.

To be a woman is not easy.

My dear is true about women .Being a lady is not easy most especially the attraction from men and so one.However, women want everything. A guy can manage but a ladies for not want to manage.They want everything that their neighbours have.That is why most ladies will tell you I have not wore this dress for three years now.Una want everything
OP as for me, I can't drink alcohol and smoke.I have never tasted alcohol since I was born

AsherAmari:




Yes, very risky. The pains and emotional wreckage it causes can be very traumatic. I learnt my lesson though.

But my dear, if I find you in my compound and it turns out you are very attractive, I will date you

AsherAmari:
Dating someone in the same compound and when things went South, he started bringing different girls home and would always hoot the horn of his car so loud at the gate so I can hear him from inside and then I'll peek through the gate and see them. It wasn't funny.

It took me years before I could date again after then.
I learnt a big lesson and it's never to date anyone from the same street talk more same compound.

Sorry about that .But the best relationship I had was dating someone in my compound. The romance and kisses were something else .The relationship went south when she left that state.We never really broke up.Though she is married now ,she still calls me and we joke about what happened then

healthbing:


Well.. Don't conclude yet..
I pray u find your dream woman so your perception can change

Amen to that

healthbing:


Is like you have met every girl between that age??

My dear that is not true but when you spend 2-3years looking for a lady, you can deduce such statistics

healthbing:
Well character and attitude differs.
Some girls are after money while some are after Love..
So it depends..It's not just the poor girls that bill guys..

Babe forget about love.How many girls are looking for love ? Where will you see a girl that is after love ? Every young lady from 19-26 years is looking for money

Ekejoestar:
This question keeps ringing in my head after a girl am dating for close to two months stopped picking my calls and didn't reply my text even going as far as blocking my number with the phone I gave her. And the reason why I gave her the phone was because she's complaining that her exs' are still disturbing her and her phone doesn't have the block option.
Glory is her name and she is from Delta, and we never had a quarrel neither did we fought.
Well I've taken back my phone though it was a hard thing for me cos I was hoping that she will come back to her senses....


Pls has anyone experienced this, you dated a girl and got her a phone and after 2 days she stopped picking ur calls neither will she reply your text,,,,
Is that a sign of multi personal disorder?

My guy it is not a case of multi personal disorder. That is most ladies in Delta and Lagos behave these days .They have smelling and nonsensical attitudes.That is why we have many unmarried ladies in their 30s and 40s these days.

uruba23:
Your Pastor or Priest looking at you both: hmmm Children of now a days, then would say they are rehearsing now, you have kukuma kiss the bride maybe we skip that and you read your vows alone.

Congratulations to you both.

No need for you may now kiss the bride .Make dem.continue

Vokians:
Thank you. Do you mean Jakpa? Please can you help with his contact?

No, I mean Izakpa ,Headquarters. I don't have his number

Vokians:
Please someone in warri should connect me for a good home lesson job. I need it augently. Thank you.

Meet one of the pastors of Winners in Warri Branch at Izakpa .He has home lessons that pay close to N50k- 60k .He has even built a house

OmovuduTheBeast:


'Dey do am till better job come, dey do am till better job come, na so Bros Ororo take turn 48 years for inside teaching job.

Philipmighty:
Is She Telling Me Truth, Please Your Advice Are Been Needed, I'm Confused

Guy's please I'm confused here, there is this girl i started dating last year December, she really loves me and i know that? Have asked her of sex for sometime now, but she keeps telling me she is not ready for that.

Her story goes this way that she was raped when she was 7 years old by there neighbour then, and the guy was arrested and later realised after much pleadings from his people, and ever since then her mother have been so closed to her even up till now due to the rape experience, and more over she also told me that she has dated three Guy's before me, and they all broke up because they are all after sex, and she is not ready for that, and now after, talking to her, showing her true love, making her to believe me that I'm different from other guy's out there, and she has now agreed to give me sex when next we see, only on the condition that whatever happens, I shouldn't leave her, no matter what even if she gets pregnant for me, but the truth still remains that i don't actually need the sex, i just what to know if she is telling me truth.

But the problem now is this please how will i know that she is telling me the truth, that she has never had sex ever since then, as I'm yet to trust her on that aspect, this rape experience happened 12 year's ago.

How will know she is telling the truth, cus I'm ready to find out the truth by all means

Please help a niqqa brothers

Sorry for the long write up!

O bobs! See lie oo . This lie carry cap oooMy guy I can tell you for free that she is telling you a sophisticated, constructive and concrete lie.Many girls have told me that before and I later learnt they are for everybody and for nobody.

Ezennia101:
Onye Education thank you very much,he just told u that it almost had their goat for dinner and the father managed to kill it with cutlass n u are here telling me WILD LIFE CONSERVATIVE......If u are good at catching big snakes come I have location for u n ur ndi Natgeowild

You dey listen to that guy?Na person wey dey alive dey complain about headache o

2mercy:



https://dailynigerian.com/husband-charm-faint-sex/

O bobs ! 10k for feeding three people for a month? I will rather stay with my father make alarm nor roast me

Romanoff:
Instead of the girl to focus on whether you have an intimate relationship with God, she's bothered with you not going to church.

Church is a place where you'll find drunks, wife beaters, rapists, thieves, ritualists, fornicators and adulterers and Children of God in the same building claiming to be worshipping God, a God that many of them do not know.

May God epp us.

Babe let him start from going to church.He should go and hear the word of God first before having a person relationship with Him

Zzor:
Awesome God,I want this too when I'm ready

Babe you won't be able to slay again after the children are done with your boobs.

Dailymice:
Its nice for a start but I am tired of Nigerian movies that focus on love, fake living, dry jokes and all.. Cant they invest money or partner with a movie producer abroad to make a movie that makes headlines worldwide..

No disrespect, we are actually trying but lets do better movies that cannot be predicted..
If you've watched the 2020 Action Thriller movie TENET one question you'll ask yourself is, How did a human being on earth sit down to think of such a movie.. Its pure genius! And you can never predict such movies.. That particular movie began at the end and gradually narrowed to the beginning!

My guy stop comparing a Nigerian movie with an American movie.Can you compare the technology of year 1731 to the technology to be used in 2095?

jasonex4:


The testmi folks know that is practically impossible for anyone to have scored zero if he/she actually wrote the tests and submitted....so i think that's why they allowed them to rewrite

Truly spoken

Elpadre22:
Mehn...those retaking the test are just cheating with style...cause they already saw the questions the first time.

Not fair!!

Chairman, talk wetin you know.When you have 0%, then you will understand

darealbabe:
Say the truth! You don't really like this girl.
This girl is obviously doing this to avoid the temptation of falling prey to what she is not ready for, and you can't even sense it?
Leave her alone pls if you are not truly interested.
If you choose to give her the 50k fine, if you don't fine...the world no go end, she go survive.

Exactly! Op nor give her the money because even if you give her 5million today, the day you don't give her, she will still leave you

Cholls:
My brothers should we tell him?

No oo..don't tell him that he is now a confirm maga .OP you dey fall our hand for Nairaland

That is a wonderful idea.But to burn the house go easy especially during the crisis period in the North

kweenfash:
Hello nairalanders. I've been seeing this guy for about a year now. I'm 22 and he's 38 and doing very well. For this 1 year I've been with him, I've been getting some redflags which I'm not happy with. I'm an independent lady, I have a very lucrative business that I do of which he knows but he doesn't know how lucrative it is. I'm not the kind of girl that begs for money but as a man, even your girl doesn't ask you for money, I think you should give her something once in while but since I started dating him, he has given me nothing. Towards the end of last year, I decided to test him and ask, he started lamenting about how he has been helping a lot of family and friends blah blah blah.... But he will see what he can do. The next day he sent 7k when I asked for 10k. I don't know if it's because I don't sleep with him because I told him no sex before marriage. I want to give my virginity to my husband. Now during Christmas and new year, he didn't even give me a dime and I didn't ask either. Yesterday was my birthday and I reminded him on Wednesday and he didn't even call me on my birthday. It really broke my heart. This man is very wealthy and he's behaving like this towards me, I don't what to think anymore. Guys, how do you see this?

Sister Mary, you are very funny .You were testing him yet you did not return the 7k.

JovialJune:



I don't understand, if it was a Saturday morning, all she bought was ideal cos it's a weekend, some peeps grew up or are used to eating bread, egg and tea in the morning even if it is Saturday or Sunday, so I see no wrong in what she did, if he had told her what to prepare, that would have been a different case entirely.

Babe if the guy wanted bread and indomie, he would have bought those things by himself .She should be aware that the guy wanted to eat a real meal and not bread and indomie
However, I can't break up with a woman because she did that

Jessepaid:
Hehehe...

Reminds me of my nigga..

His babe came around...

He gave her 4k to cook what they will eat..

The gyal used the entire money to buy eggs bread, indomie sardine and tea things...

The nigga ended the relationship there and then...

Hahahahaha haba na Typical 21st. century Nigerian babe

stanliwise:

You seem to be more concerned about the woes of the one been killed than the killer

Not like that, just that the ladies will still live a struggling good guy for a bad rich guy .That is just the problem

tutudesz:

8 out of 10 boys in Delta are Gboys. Everyone is suffering in Nigeria if everybody decide to start killing for money, will there be anyone left in Nigeria Just last week a 12 year girl was almost killed in the same Abraka, what about 200 level girl that killed some year back.

But still, the lady prefer those that have money compared to those that are struggling to make it genuinely. That is why it is difficult for a struggling guy to have a babe than a too much money guy .She does not care where you work, provided you have the pepper .That is why they are dying here.Right now, I can't count how many yahoo boys live in my compound. In fact, it is like a normal thing here in Delta

Queenlovely:
stupid adults behaving like children is what we have in Nigeria,

let us just think for a minute, use ur brain do small mathematics.

have you ever heard rich white guys complaining about women.

when you decide to befriend a shallow thinker what were you expecting.

this SMAN thing means all our girls are gold diggers

My dear being stingy depends on the lady .When I was dating my ex girlfriend. I didn't know there was anything like being stingy ..until we broke up and she immediately got married.When I started looking for a replacement that was when I knew the good ones have been married off.To see a lady that is not stingy now is like looking for the heart of an ant .Have you realized that it is very difficult to borrow money from a female friend than a male friend ? Why is it that guys give to ladies but when it is time to borrow, you borrow from your guys ?

tutudesz:
Okowa need to address the high level of Yahoo boys in Delta State, what am even saying most of his young special advisers are Gboys

My guy it is not only in Delta state.They are all over Nigeria now, most especially in Lagos .People are suffering in this nation and we are all have to survive.The yahoo guys have decided to live their 70 years in 5years, that is if they will last for five years.
These days most girls assist their guys in the yahoo business .That is why you will be chatting with a guy on Facebook while the girl will be answering the calls .It is all part of the business.

djon78:


I don't understand how some of them don't understand this.

Most marriages that you hear divorce and break up comprise of the type of ladies you mentioned.


The ones that give a man peace are those the article highlighted
The person may not be a maid but a well domesticated woman
She can be a graduate but highly domesticated

These are the kind of women that will give a man peace in his home
Not the ones that have become toxified by her environment and upbringing
Bringing only sorrow to men that marries them
It's all about wisdom simple

Exactly

TeemahBeddings:
Okkkk.

If you want someone who will do all your chores for you. Hire a maid. You are your partner helper. Simply because you are the man doesn't mean you should turn your wife into a slave. During our forefather's time, the sole responsibility of the woman is to hold the home front and help on the farm once in a while, the man brings the food and money to the table. But now, you want a maid and someone who brings money to the house.

Shameless bunch of men

My dear men are not shameless.You don't expect me to leave a beautiful, a good cook, decent etc lady for an educated Zee world, ROK TV, Telemudo ,Instagram and Facebook lady with ear rings in her nose .Na wife person need nor be babe.

Sister, that guy has left that ship .You better enter another ship .A man can't be too busy for his woman all the time when they are in the same ship .Please look for another guy .Next!