He shouldn't have reacted like that.That is wrong. Men these days are looking for strong and independent ladies .Now that he has one, he is acting weird .Kindly move on with your life if does call you .Many guys are here waiting to grasp you with both hands.No dulling!

SchoolPedia:
Let's have an open discussion here please.



Matured minds only.

I believe we will learn a lot here and help build better homes and families which will bring about better societies too.

Let's get the discussion running please.

Happy Sunday all.

The role of social media has played a lot of negative impart on the life of couples .When you compare yourself with those on social media , your marriage will not last. Your marriage will not last when you keeping singing these songs " if you nor get money, hide your face", "Assurance " etc.People forgot that the things that musicians use to sing are just for fun and not for real.
Couples should stop comparing themselves with others .When you work together as a couple, you will accomplish much .But when you compare your wealth,your accomplishments with others, then division will set in.
Finally ,men or women should be contended with their spouses. After getting married to your wife, you are still looking for ladies with long legs ,big buttocks and boobs .You are married and you married ,stop looking at other people's future wives ,stay with your woman .Women should assist their husbands to greatness .Stop comparing him with other men.Make your own money as a woman and add it to the marriage .Some women will never buy matches of N50 naira with their money .Everything is man.That is appalling.Even if they buy the matches for N50, they will tell him they bought it for N500 naira .That is a lie

Laughnow419:
When we get a free trip for two to Dubai

My belle ooo...I won laugh fall for ground oo

Lashist:

Shutup...visits doesnt mean bringing gifts...cant one go and visit and greet someone without giving bread and fruits..is she sick that OP must bring mangoes for her to lick...can u swear with your life that u visits your friends everytime with fruits

They want to leech the young man .Your mum could not commend on his behaviour, whether he is a gentle man or not .What about his background? Nothing. Sister you fall my hand .You don't love this guy at all

TransAtlanticEx:
Are you sure you really wanna do this?
Cos I'm ready when you are.
Feed me and my family( a whole my family ooo) for ages yet your mama dey want kill herself say your fiance no buy bread for am?.
Why not use that money weh you want use am feed me and my generation buy your mama provisions keep for house na
And somehow its from this miserly,miserable existence that you wanna feed my family(really rich ) from?
My eldest sister got married in 2004,in 2003 when the man came for introduction,he wore shorts and was empty handed.
You know why?There was nothing he could bring that we don't have and he knew it
What you could have done sef to even cover your bf is send some money to your thirsty mom and claim your bf sent it,but instead you fought with him over it,maybe because you and your mama don plan as una go share the stipends weh the guy suppose bring,
Yet a bottom feeder like you wants to feed my generation?

Chairman your head get plenty oil.Take 30000 likes join , your teeth complete. They want to leech the young man .Your mum could not commend on his behaviour, whether he is a gentle man or not .What about his background? Nothing. Sister you fall my hand .You don't love this guy at all

Please both of you should take it easy, we just started this year.As for the cockk, it is very big.It would have cost more than 15k in Nigeria during the festive period

Ishilove:

I am surprised men are still searching for wives in these last days of 7 women shall hold on to 1 man. Be that as it may, change your circle of friends and take it to God in prayer.

Alright I will do just that,may be that is where the problem lies

Ishilove:

My comment is based on what your bothers write on social media and people's experiences. They are the vocal majority.

Babe it is not always like that .For example, I have been seriously searching for a lady to marry for the past two years ,all to no avail.But if it is sex, na 30 seconds call, the babe don arrive ( when the money is right ) even if she lives in another state .That is problem we are all having ,not as if we don't want to marry

DamnnNiggarr:


Una never see something!
This is just the beginning,
Isaiah 4:1 comes to mind.

Men are afraid to come, as if you'll give a damn to any guy that'll summoned the courage to say hi

Make she relax, the man has gone to look for money .Give him ten years so that he can make enough money for the family .If a young man comes now she will not agree so either she waits for senator Ned or she wants for that young guy yo make money first .

Ernerstdavid55:
i finished building my house ,now am looking for wife neva knew is dis hard to find a wife

Congratulations to you .As for wife the thing hard o. Na babes easy to get ,even if you want them to travel from Sokoto to Lagos, they will do it .But to find a lady to marry ,is like you are looking for the heart of an ant

Wiseandtrue:
Rice and banga soup! Enough of jollof/fried rice!!!

Urhobo babe

fehintiola324:
They look at you from head to toe and assess your destiny if you can afford urgent 2k

Now na urgent 5k

streetpaddy:
We know you have been eyeing that bone straight wig on your timeline for about a month now. You have sent it to all your men and women and they are all airing you. In fact, even anon is suddenly quiet. All of this shame and disgrace for what? Ordinary bone straight? That is why we have compiled a list of things you can sell so you can buy it for yourself.

1) Kidney
You have two of them for a reason dear, and one kidney is going for about a hundred to two hundred thousand dollars on the black market. Do with this information what you will.

2) Nigeria
Look, we all know this country is moving one kind. You can put it on Jiji for about 60 million naira. That is more than enough.

3) Your actual hair
Do you even need hair on your head when you can have a 24 inches bone straight wig? You can even calculate how much your hair is worth here. Make the right choice today.

4) Eggs
No, not the kind you fry for breakfast. Donating eggs can earn as much as twenty five thousand dollars. How much is the bone straight again?

5) Lagos
In case Nigeria is too much to sell, have you thought of selling Lagos state? Put it for sale for like 20 million. Maybe whoever buys it will finally fix the traffic issue.

6) Your mansion in heaven
With the world’s population, how are we sure everyone that goes to heaven will find mansion? Why not just sell yours now. Heaven might be eternal, but so is drip. Also, did you not see Jesus’ hair on Earth? The original bone straight.

7) Your partner
Shebi they have refused to buy you bone straight? Sell them!!! Let them be useful.

https://www.zikoko.com/her/7-things-you-can-sell-for-a-bone-straight-wig/

You are too funny

Sarita01:


Ehya, sorry o, many babes dey wey like to dey wash clothes, e be like Say you dey search in the wrong places, change your search location, you go jam your spec. Wish u luck

Lol.

Sarita01:


lol, unfortunately I don't have any sister for you, and I never said I can't clean my man's house or cook for him,I said I can't wash his clothes, I don't wash people's clothes, never.

Are you trying to tell me that there are no girls in your whole neighbourhood, that are romantic and like washing clothes to marry, you want me to sacrifice my sister, bros why na

Lol..Na babes like you full here .That is one of the reasons why guys like us are still single

Sarita01:


God bless you my sister,especially washing of clothes, who does that, I once knew a girl that was already washing clothes 2 weeks into the relationship, shame catch me for her matter.

To you it is bad but if I see a lady that will wash my clothes, cook and really romantic , I will propose to her before December 31st .Any lady who cannot clean a man's house should be ready to endure in that relationship till he decides to let her go.
So if you have a beautiful sister with good characters and can clean ,wash my clothes or be romantic please send her to me ...I want to marry her asap

propynich123:
Love can make someone sometimes mad; believe me, I was a victim, the person in love can do whatever it takes to please the person that he is in love with, no matter how much it takes.

Today, we will be discussing 9 foolish things Nigerian ladies do everyday in the name of love.

1. Marrying an older man:
I don’t think i will marry someone that is old enough to be her father, if not for love. Will you?

2. Pleading, begging and crying for men to marry them; Dear sister, you don’t have to do all that to make him marry you, if he is interested he will ask you himself, you don’t have to beg or plead; By doing so, you will tarnish your image in his eyes.

3. Cooking for the guy you are not married to Just to cook for him once is not the problem, but if that became a regular thing that is foolishness.

4. Not quitting an abusive relationship:
My sister, the guy that is interested in you will never abuse you in any way because he loves, and he is willing to spend the rest of his life with you.

5. Moving in with a guy that you are not married to, thinking that moving in with him will make him love you. My sister, you are mistaken that will never happen. Sometimes, some even take-in for the man.

6. Dating a man for a long time without talking about your future together, or where your relationship stands.

7. Living in a man resident, that you are not married to:
This is common in our higher institutions today, even outside our unis, and poly, you find this life style too.

8. Sharing secrets:
Girls are always victims of this, they always like to share their past stories with the men they barely know.

9. Unfriending your friends because of a man you are in love with:
Believe my sister, if you are doing so believe me you are in a deep mess.

Have you witnessed this before? Do you really think it's normal?
LET'S HEAR FROM YOU

Hmmm..Though you are correct .But if I see a lady that can do 2,3 and 7, I will love it

MummyD2020:


U have been meeting the wrong women. Change ur circle

It is true .To move away from the circle is a problem because when you think you have entered another street, you may just be in a roundabout.
However to see a lady that is not part of the roundabout is like looking for a heart of an ant

tyup:
Without going into much stories. My sis in the UK bout last month or so once shared a link to me bout the Hospital she works in had Vancancies for some foreign qualified Doctors or Nurse either practicing or internship worker. I had these besties one happened to be my Ex but we still vibe real good whilst the other happened to be a good friend of mine at school.

To cut the story short, after reading of how 9ja girls are really not appreciative of favors and reading of stories of how guys go the long length to help either their GF n friends and they later get to change in a shocking manner and especially those guys that would be like after all I've done for her she did this bla bla. I later got to finalise these girls are all the same no matter how close you think you're to them or what doubt you have bout them. Another problem was I had no Nursing Male friends, I really wanted to share the link with a guy but I checked thr I had no Gee who did or studied Nursing, the other MBBs friends I have are still in school/ serving. Well that was how I let the link slide and my sister probably found other people to fill in IDK sha

But do y'all think I wasn't at all fair to both girls?? Insults of any kind are welcomed sha

OP I won't blame you for doing that .I know of a babe that refused to help her own jobless boyfriend to get a job in the company she works even when she knows the guy is very intelligent. The question is bow many girls help their boyfriends to secure a job these days ? When you are broke can you ask any of your female friends to send you money and she will do it ? Even if they have 10million naira resting in the account, they won't send you 1k .
However, you should have helped because you are not just helping her, you also helping those close to her e.g her family members

tylerboy1501:
Good day fellas, I need your suggestion or idea on step to take.

My wife that stays with me at home, though I have not paid bride price yet, planning doing it next year by God grace just opened up to me today that our neighbor who stays in the same compound approached her when she went out to brush her teeth and started telling her that he will like to befriend her and that he heard when we were quarrelling at home, that I'm not supposed to santion her for whatever reason, that he loves her and sees her in his dream that he will like to friend her.

So she told him that he has someone already which he knew and she told him that if he didn't stop he will tell me, he now begged her not to let me be aware of it.

This incidence happened about a month ago, so I was surprised when she opened up to me today.
I was not happy at all. I need to take an action before it's out of hand.

Meanwhile we are only 2 Tennants living in the compound

Pls guys what do I do?

Woman wey you never pay N1 for her head you dey call wife OP .Go and pay her dowry.I will do it next , I will do it next year, that is what you people will say until she will give birth to children and have ancestors like father Abraham .Sit down there and be doing my neighbour is talking to my wife , very soon na the community go talk to her since no ring dey her hand

Misslilbootay:
I am not a virgin because the guy I dated before made it seem like sex was the only thing that could keep him.
Unfortunately, that is another story of its own.


Recently, a friend of mine came and asked me if sex was necessary to keep a relationship. She told me the guy has given her everything she needed in a man but he couldn't stop asking for sex. She said that she wasn't ready to compromise her faith that premarital sex was a sin but she didn't want to lose this guy as he felt that her refusal to have sex with him meant she didn't love him.

The question I'm throwing now is
1. Can a man stay without sex in a relationship and wait till she is ready. (As in this case, she wants to wait till she is married)
2. Why is sex so important to men in a relationship? Do they see it as reciprocating of love especially when they spend heavily on the lady?
3. Also, most men wants a decent lady. Here is a lady who wants to keep herself for her husband but the boyfriend sees it as she manipulating him. Since you guys want a lady that isn't a borehole, why do you demand for sex when you are not sure if it will work out?

Your intelligent opinions will be appreciated.

No sex before marriage is okay .But the question is , if that guy ask her hand in marriage will she accept to get married in few months from now ? Will she not say she is not ready for marriage now ? See, the reason why most guys involve in serious relationship ask for sex is they are not sure of the women staying with them for long or the women are demanding too much .Come to think of it, I have seen some women asking men for sex too

NewBeijing:
Those phones are actually far beyond your regular infinix and Tecno. The costs are high and the functions are worth it. You should see a picture taken with a Sony Ericson phone
Sony Xperia 5 II
Then you'll know what a camera is

Gbam! I support your comment with a carton of wine

NewBeijing:
Those phones are actually far beyond your regular infinix and Tecno. The costs are high and the functions are worth it. You should see a picture taken with a Sony Ericson phone
Sony Xperia 5 II
Then you'll know what a camera is

Gbam! I support your comment with a carton of wine

Onyi22:
Am so proud of you Musa, keep it up..
That's the kind of guys I love associating myself with. I love successful guys.
Not all these poor, frustrated guys we have on this forum.

It is all about the money

Mitsurugi:
That's how I married my wife. She was the first lady to tell me to return my father's car and start taking transport till I buy my OWN. Predictably fair weather chics fled . She even gave me T. Fare to keep on at a job that was owing me till I got a better one. Bought me gifts too. That was when I knew she was THE ONE. I married her without a job, we slept on the floor for the first few months. But today, our home is a pride and I bought that my own car and I don't think it when it comes to spending on her. And yes, she's a Nigerian Igbo woman Jumoke is right because some specie of slay things we have these days ehn...

My guy, your wife get younger sister wey dey think like her ? I won marry her chap chap

Deathissweet:


I think this is the most reasonable comment so far. I am not shaming him because I have suffered and I know what it feels not to have. But my problem is why bring up another child when you can’t even take care of yourself


The problem now is with everything he his going through. He is still womanizing

Op that man is not a serious person .Stop giving him money, you are contributing to the problem .He now sees you as a bank .You don't have money yet you are still womanizing.However, I won't support you OP for saying government should regulate the number of children in the country. Are you talking about the same government that is the major contributor to the hardship in the country? .

Dalil8:



Lmaooo! Move mountains indeed


U go surprise say wen u get that $22k, problem wey go dey na like $200k go fit solve am.

As ur money dey big ur problems dey big follow am. Money no dey ever dey reach person.

Funkyswagzz:
This is roughly a year and four months I have decided to find someone to marry. It's been so dramatic all along and I'm getting tried already. I want a woman who I am compatible with. I don't need anyone that is hot tempered or stubborn. I want a woman that is hard workin who loves me the way i am. Is it so difficult to find? I came out from a crazy relationship and I don't want to experience something like that anymore. I don't want issues all the time.

The funny thing happening at the moment is that am "tryin to"(still at the process) date my ex's high school mate. The way our part crossed again was just ironic. Sometimes I feel stupid for tryin to date her tho she's not the reason why we broke up. Salute to those that got married. Abeg how una take do am..

Guy the thing is hard.My own is officially one year now.I am begging God for a wife now because it has been hell
Ladies will be praying on the altar for a man but when you approach them, then you will know they don't want to marry .Some of them their characters are smelling. The thing tire me

Emeka71:
Since the boys are shy to approach them; they have to help the boys.

The boys are not shy, they are just trying to prevent excessive rejection letters due to no bar

Brownpeanut:


Well, before you purpose to a lady in public and risk embarrassment, you must be sure that she will accept you.

That is true though but one can never be too sure .Anyways, you can still propose to her on the bed or in the sitting room,nothing spoil