₦airaland Forum

Tingotoe:
Oga he's a human being just like you and I and I just wished my old friend a speedy recovery and you are pained. Okay go and die

Tingotoe:
My good friend and secondary School classmate Buhari's ADC Colonel Yusuf Dodo tested positive for covid too. Wishing him and the others a quick recovery. Amen

OfeAchi:
A lady friend of mine recently got a job offer with a multinational in Maiduguri. It comes with accommodation and take home is around 700k.
I advised her to decline the offer because from the news, those areas are hostile and there's a 75.65% chance a bandit would raape her or 80% chance she could be hit by a bomb.
She finally declined the offer and thanked me for saving her life.
I hope I did the right thing?

delpee:
According to reports in other news, they knew each other before but lost contact for a while only to meet again at NYSC camp.

KingOKON:
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U don't know 1/4 of the story u r here writing rubbish, even the camp commandant exonerated the girl....don't be be fast with fake news beside they have known each other b4 camp

Oksman:
They were both dating before he lost contact with her according to the boy's family source.

Barryseal:
So it is against the military policy to propose to a soldier? What the actual nonsense are you talking about? You have no legs to grand stand on this matter. Even your general is embarrassed enough by this episode that he went out of his way to see to the soldier's release but here you are defending the entire nonsense, even shamelessly attempting to draw parallels with a university policy.

Barryseal:
Sorry to say this, but you sound incoherent trying to compare classroom and orientation camp.
The two are nowhere the same. School involves examination and grading, so it is understandable to put up policy that levels the playing field for everyone.

The main issue here which people like you are playing the ostrich is the religious undertone of this episode. In the more liberal South, Ebonyi state, precisely in 2019, a Corp member engaged a female soldier, it made headlines here on Nairaland. Nobody was court marshaled, nobody was reprimanded, it was a sweet story for those those involved.
Here we are, in a Muslim controlled caliphate state of Kwara, a female soldier kissing a man in public, is Haram, all hell broke loose.

This is yet again, another prime example that we have 2 countries existing in the same place called Nigeria.

Druss:
It is based on observations that some people talk crap and make assumptions without proof.

Druss:
Rather than assuming why not find the policy?

Englandboy:
Baba keep collecting big dough time no dai o , after u retire don't go for coaching job ,be like Beckham and delima Ronaldo that bought football clubs and also have big investment

Druss:
Rather than assuming why not find the policy?

Barryseal:
When you say trainee, you make it sound as if the the young man in question was underage or an elementary school pupil. Please let's grow up.

Freestainworld:
Babe no even do anything, marriage na bad thing?

Bola146:
As for me I don't see anything bad in that, it's a way to show honour and respect to him, it's just a visit not forever, he will soon go to his house.

NB If you truly want a happy home, don't seek advice on social media, those kids who can't maintain a week relationship will advise you astray. What works for A might not work for B.

Even with your modifications, it's the same thing!!! Is the man living forever in your house? Why come here to rant instead of telling your wife directly that she did something wrong?! You see why I always said good communication with intimacy are good in every home especially with this teens getting married everyday. I know he will still come back to ask if it's good for his wife to be greeting him every morning or late in the night orishirishi Dear Lord have mercy on us all

Truvelisback:
Bros, it's just 40cl, just once in a day. Is it too much? I just managed to resist the urge yesterday even though resisting the urge wasn't that easy. By the way, i like to use am step down my afternoon food, like rice, BB(Bread and Beans) etc.

jaeyking:
Crazy people everywhere
When u look at it
The older generation poses more problems to Nigeria than the youths

Staying with old landlords is a big NO

Yankee101:
1 Corinthians 7 8-9

To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is good for them to remain single as I am. But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion.

Exodus 22 16-17

If a man seduces a virgin who is not betrothed and lies with her, he shall give the bride-price for her and make her his wife. If her father utterly refuses to give her to him, he shall pay money equal to the bride-price for virgins.

Yankee101:
The rule is this, the bed must be undefiled. So both must not try sex before marriage and must marry as virgins

It's easier to tell a man no as a virgin. If you're not, he'll say after you've finished sharing it, you're denying him

So avoid stories, remain a virgin and any reasonable man will marry you without sex

Thanos5555:


Then they will come and post aircraft for us and tell us thier state is becoming like DUBAI, last last all those things are Media.....

heniford2:
We are going to import our culture to the world soon e remain our local foods

youngest85:
Whatever
I still love him die

ayandee:
A family friend whose wife is also a nurse moved to the UK. There has been no issues. The man takes care of the kids when she is at work. He is looking for a job but there's no pressure whatsoever from his wife. They've both been having each other's back from way back. It's just a phase. If you have married a good woman, you have nothing to fear. Join her, take care of the kids while you search for job opportunities. It may entail doing some short time courses to fit into the job market. Be determined that you will make it in the UK. Have a very positive mindset.

NaBanga:
I'm just going to be honest with you, there is a high chance you will end up divorced if you are the lazy type. What we call work in Nigeria is the reason the country is not working. If you go 3 months without bringing in money while your wife, is working, you are going to regret the day you left Nigeria. Women are not made to take care of men.By the time your wife is working, trying to clean house and take care of the children in between, you will become her enemy. She will then realize you are not needed and that her life is much better with only the kids. Work and bring money for bills at all costs. Talk to your friends about childcare that will help your wife. Also, be thinking of a course that you can take that will make money in the UK. I wish you the very best and pray your marriage makes it.

Ficient:
I'm a federal civil servant, wife just got a job in the UK as a nurse. This has been our plan, although she initiated the idea which I supported especially bcuz of our kids. As the time is getting closer I'm developing some cold feet, but eventually I'm sure I will move. Don't really know if leaving my civil service job and farming business is a good idea, I don't really have an Abroad game plan yet.

desiredhome:
Both tinubu and atiku are same Nigerian politicians, that cares less about the people but want to grabb power for there self/selfishness.....so why having headache for the criminal polithiefians

louqas:
Id rather vote a man who with Lagos in his pocket made Lagos the 4th biggest economy in Africa.....
Pray tell......what is Atikus achievement?

desiredhome:
And Atiku is the reason Nigerians economy is the best today...... because Atiku is a saint that didn't loot Nigerian money...... Obasanjo's voice......

desiredhome:
And how did you come to that conclusion? Atiku ko.....Atiku ni

BlaqJosh:
High on Dr*gs probably