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Protein0:
which high end phone are you eyeing?

Any nice Samsung edge

bobo65:
Wats ur budget first?

Do you sell? Or have u bought before?
Budget is 30k

Hi all, Please who has bought a UK used phone before? I want to buy a high end phone but no much money at the moment so I decided to settle for UK used of high quality.

Are used phones generally good? Someone told me that parts are usually removed before they are sold and there are always faults that you find out later because they hide them at the point of sales.

Please advice me, should a I buy the phone or is buying used phones a bad idea?
Thanks

adeniyisamuel59:
You mean age limit for duration of working in government hospital or age limit at the point of entry; whichever, it is 65 at retirement and 30 @ recruitment.

OK thanks, I wanted to know the one for recruitment.

Please what is the age limit for working in a federal government hospital?

Poor Collins

Reduce the sugar in your/her diet to barest minimum. I heard that too much sugar aggravates it. Eat healthy but remove useless sweets if your still breastfeeding.

olubankemi:
Get silverbird, add a little quantity of it to her cream or shear butter and mix, apply to the affected part. You may also always add silverbird to her body cream, by so doing you won't withness any of these irritations.

Worked for my daughter, after all consultions, treatments, medications, nothing worked. A nurse at their vaccination clinic saw her skin and advised i mix silverbird with her cream and apply, since then i have never had to waste money on creams/consultations and medications.

Ensure you are getting the original silverbird, so many fake ones out there. To ensure i am getting the original one i always buy at medplus/heathplus. So you can try to get one at any of those health stores.

Is silverbird not pepperish on the skin? My mother told me it irritated the skin of one baby she did omugwo for after she mixed it in his cream.

Hahaha, after reading the title of this thread on Frontpage I was expecting to see another display of frustration from broke men who got rejected by women but what am reading is far far better.

Good job to all the women that read that Toks for filth. The truth is that he doesn't know shiii about relationships, he just starts misogynistic threads because he is hurting from his bitter experiences and want to hurt women back. Am glad this attempt backfired.

babasolution:
only African men have more baggage and dont care about well being and responsibilities,all other races of men do care,buh African men are so lazy and wicked,they refuse to do the right thing,am a man,and am not a feminst,neither do i pedestalize women,but the truth as to be said,African men have failed,its time for the women to take over,since we refuse to do the right thing

I completely agree.

Men and women are equal.
The fact that Bible and Quran makes husband the head of house does not mean men are automatically superior. It made sense in the olden days for the husband to lead cos women are naturally gentle and loving and men were the rough risk takers that did hustling for the family so they were supposed to have more exposure. Women were not even allowed to be educated back then.
So if any man believes he is automatically superior to every female on earth because of his penis then he should go and tell Ngozi Okonjo Iweala or Kemi Adeosun or Queen of England or Angela Merkle that their penisess have granted them automatic superiority from birth.

dadark:
thats why you were drowned in water back then....

the black race is a failed experiment....

the black man is a disgrace......

Big disgrace, no sense of self worth at all. Smh

Follygunners:
BS! You know that's NOT true...

Black guys are the sexiest and most physically attracted male of all races. You wonder why white girls willingly throw themselves at us..

I was in the Bay area during the NBA finals for a Dubs game last summer and guess what? I had me two thick blondes for two nights at the Hyatt. It was heaven indeed. . I cannot come and kee myself with some black lady's body odor, abeg!

White women only see you as sex objects.

Pornography has glamorized black men and made them seem like they have the biggest joysticks (research shows that they actually don't) so they want sex from black men. If you think they consider you a black man to be equal to them or on their level as a race then you are seriously kidding yourself. White people generally see black men as inferior species, they just want to have sex with you and keep walking.

zaynie:
For eela, I've never experienced it with any of my babies cos they are always skinny booboos. But I heard plenty testimonies with the red alcalypha plant. You book it and bsyhe your baby with it. It stains so avoid using white towels while st it. You can also drink it (I don't subscribe to babies drinking agbo) and hopefully a good dose of it will pass on to the baby.
Also avoid using certain creams or steroids (eg Funbact A or skineal or baby tribotan mixed with ori is thought to maintain a good skin color), it actually disrupts the normal flora (the bacteria that are part and parcel) of the skin and leads to skin diseases. These normal flora serve as the first line of defense (cos they are like the area boys of the skin so that any foreign bacteria that settles will be quickly chased off, when the foreign bacteria is too strong, then the immune system sets in, when the immune system cannot handle it, you need drugs). Steroids and some creams disrupt the normal flora.
I recommend any natural oils, because it is natural just like we are (from nature) so there is a high tendency that our body is familiar with these oils and easily absorbs them. The oils are also rich in vitamins that are really good for skin and hair (all oil-based vitamins are great for skin). There are a lot of natural oils, google and choose one which will be easy for you to make or buy and will be just right for your pocket.
Other treatment for eela that has worked for some include use of steroids (please stop as soon as the symptoms disappear), cacatin is herbal (caca bark), keeping the affected part clean and dry (eela is fungal and fungi can only grow in moist place which is why you'll find eela in hidden or folded skin). You can keep it clean by wiping with a water based wipes or just a damp rag, you can apply powder ( be careful so powder dust/particle doesn't settle on your child), and you can try to dress minimally for the baby.
Another culprit could be your bath water.




For rashes, its simple.
Don't overswaddle. Biko let the child breathe but not to over expose to cold o.
Secondly, I noticed that my daughter got a rash while she was using Aveeno in the first few weeks of her birth, we switched to coconut oil and no issue till date.
On hot afternoons, don't overdress the child and a quick shower when he's hot and stick won't hurt.
Sometimes I use Rising raving powder when the heat is overbearing.


If you don't mind, use Funmicoconuts, I know of people that use her cold pressed coconut oil and have only great reviews. It might seem expensive but trust me it lasts for a longer time and is worth every drop.



Choi when did I become Alphahandmaiden

Thank you very very much for the detailed response, you are too much. May Allah reward you.

I had already gone to buy an antifungal cream to rub and even rubbed it twice already but I will stop immediately. I didn't know its bad to rub it on baby's body.

I will also go and find red leave tomorrow, insha Allah. Thanks again.

nanakgh:
Some people on this forum are stark raving mad. it's like any chance is taken just to abuse women. and you still get some no self esteem women backing them. sometimes some of you ladies deserve to be treated like trash since you have no respect for each other and your gender.

Those stupid women are looking for friendship and praise from men, they want to hear things like, 'o this girl you are so intelligent, o you are very smart, i like women like you etc. So they sell their self worth while deceiving themselves that they are just being objective. Very sad lot.

Boland started a topic the other day to tell men that it is their duty to provide, not women's and they all came into the thread to shout and suffer convulsion ontop the Mata.
These same people want women to carry the entire responsibilities for their husbands nutritional health. What are the men themselves now good for? You don't want to provide for women but you want them to bend backwards and kill themselves to please you. Look at the long annoying list that man wrote and asked women to follow ,if a woman had written that kind of list asking husbands to do everything she wrote they will rush in and insult her but its ok for their lazy arses to make demands.
I hope laziness and entitlement will not kill some Nigeria men sha.

zaynie:
Its your uterus shrinking back to size.
Pele.

Please can you give me advice on how best to treat eela and heat rashes in a 4month old?

Thank you. I appreciate all your effort to help people on this page whether you know them or not, you are really trying.

2buffagain:
So now you have resolved to start insulting women who are also fine and independent by alluding that if she is fine then she must be a dummy?
.

Where did I say this

Hanseel1:
@bolded civilization and feminism has already changed that in America, Europe,Australia and Asia and it'll do the same in Africa.
Have you ever travelled out from west Africa?

Men in those countries still pay for dates unless the woman offers to pay and they are very feministic. Men in those countries still woo women by buying gifts like roses and jewelry.That doesn't make them insult women or look down on them like our Nigerian brothers.
I haven't traveled abroad but I do a while lot of online research on how they live and I have relatives who live abroad that tell me things.

Hanseel1:
civilization and feminism will change that...


Nigerian ladies are very lucky that there are guys who still reason this way.. Go to south Africa, Zimbabwe, Kenya, Lesotho, Zambia and Ethiopia their men don't impress ladies with money.. if you're a lady in those countries and you expect a man to spend for you you'll surely go hungry because they won't part shi for you.
This is one of the reasons why African women all over the continent don't think thrice before agreeing to date a guy if they know he's from Nigeria because they know that most Nigerian guys are fools and are ready to spend any amount just to make you their girlfriend.

enough said

Civilization and feminism will change biology?
I no fit laff abeg.
And which told you men in other African countries don't spend on women? You clearly have no idea what you are talking about.

Rosay15:
D only tin I understand is dat is nt right for a lady to demand too much from a guy.. Although a guy shd knw dat being in relationship he will ve some responsibility to carry bt nt all cus a lady shd also try as much as possible to strive for herself although I did nt believe in feminise cus I always asked myself y do u want to b equal with ur sponse?, God has already made dem d head so I don't see any reason u want to compete wit them..
My own view is dat lady shd try and work hard to stand on their two feet dat even wen u need something ur sponse add to wat u have nt demanding as if if u are nt in relationship u won't live.. By so doing ur relationship will b last and d guy won't afford to loss u cus u did nt put stress on him and understanding matters a lot..

I can see so many men coming to praise you and even propose marriage to you for thinking like this. Of course men like when women say things like this, they want you to provide for yourself and still be very obedient and submissive, you should only ask for money from them on very few occasions.
The truth is that once a man notices you have money to spend on yourself he will expect you to join him in taking care of finances while he himself will never ever join you in daily cooking or share authority with you.

Many if these people are just so selfish.

Hanseel1:
Relationship not marriage o
are sure you're all right?.. the reason why men and ladies go into relationships is for the man to provide? provide what exactly?

TO EVERY MAN READING THIS POST:
Money must be spent in a relationship but it should only be when you're taking your gf out for a date and when you want to purchase gifts for her on certain occasions anything other than that you're a disgrace if you spend money on any other thing....

One of the worst countries to be a man is Nigeria.

Many Nigerian men are just funny. Nobody is talking about taking over your girlfriend's responsibilities or being her sole provider, you provide in the sense that you woo her with gifts, you take her out and pamper her by buying gifts to make her fall in love with you.

I know men hate to read things like this but guess what, women are wired to like being provided for and protected and catered for. That is basic BIOLOGY, complaining endlessly in Naira land won't change that.

Hanseel1: I don't think there are men who're doing 50/50 with their wives not even in America.. the highest is 60/40.

LOL, guy, You are just pulling statistics out your bumbum. You have to show me the online survey or census you did to come to that conclusion and please don't say your 60/40 thing is based on your personal experiences because that doesn't count for anything. Anyone can claim any lie on Naira land.

It's only in Nigeria that females equate sharing of bills to being unsubmissive.. ladies in western countries share bills and still submit to their husbands

Another load of crap. Go to any American online forum and ask the men if they believe their wives should 'submit' to them. You will get laughed at and mocked for having archaic misogynistic thinking. Try it. Go to reddit.com.Its the biggest American online forum. Start a topic in their 'Ask men' section and ask the men if the want their wives to submit instead of being equal partners. Their responses will shock you.

Boland, don't mind these people telling you you are wrong, you are very correct it's just that many men of nowadays have an entitlement mentality.

The basics of a male/female relationship still remains that the man has the duty of providing and, the woman does any housework and childcare. They might decide to assist each other but the fundamentals remain the same.

If you cannot provide Co's your girlfriend or wife is demanding excessively then dump her and get a low maintenance partner. Simple.

But many men want to date and marry supermodels with expensive beauty regimes and flashy lifestyles and then complain when they start asking for money.

They want their wives to contribute 50/50 when it comes to finances but expect 100% submission from her without questions. Yimu

Hello everyone,

please who knows where I can get eela leaf in abuja? Please help me and my baby, thanks.

Sorry Oga but you really ought to have selected your fiancee more carefully since you know you are the type that wants total submission without questions.
You should have gone to a very rural area, maybe a village to get a wife, or you should have gone and married a woman you are at least ten years older than, the one you can intimidate just by virtue of your years of seniority. I am not saying this to make light if your situation, believe me.

The way you sound it's like you cannot handle an intelligent or exposed woman because those ones will certainly question decisions you make if it affects them in any significant way. only a foolish or timid person will just nod and go with anything they are told without trying to critically analyse or weigh pros and cons.


If the woman has any type of intelligence she would ask you why you made so and so decisions, not necessarily to challenge you but because of various reasons like she wants to be sure you are not simply trying to make her miserable and she wants to be sure your decision would not cause a fatal error or deep regrets in future. She can only go with your deciding making without questioning if trivial or issues are involved, issues that are not so important and can be overlooked.

There is nothing like total submission. Sorry.
The Bible also tells men to love their wives but everyone with sense knows that Total love does not exist. There are times women will do things to annoy and frustrate their husband's, there are times he will resent her for her bad habits and he will feel dislike and even hatred for her depending on how bad she misbehave.

Forget total submission from a smart woman She can submit only sometimes and not every single time. It will be hard for you to accept this but it's truth. If you want to be a tyrant and try to enforce total submission then don't be surprised when she starts sneaking behind your back to go against what you say.

Please what could be the cause of this area of lightened skin on my baby's face?

there are some lightened spots on the other side too and he does not scratch him. Please help. Thanks.

Please I need suggestions for a good android phone of less than 40,0000 naira.

One with the latest Android OS and good camera quality.

Thanks.