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ZIMDRILL:
you nailed it

problem is people mix up with what used to be 100 year go and present day

most african women would say "can you look after me meaning she expect more to be look after than bring something on table too"

colonazation messed up out division of labour as family, before colonazation there was divison of labour in a family home, husband did the hunting looking after cattle etc and wives did the gathering for foods and vega etc, when the white came men and women were separated, man were forced to leave in a room intowns while wives were left in rural areas, it then becames sort of tradition way of living this went on for the rest of colonization periods. it become normal for husband working while wives were in rural areas, husband sending money and groceries etc hence the come phrase from our african women "i need an man who works and look after me" as during colonization men were forced into labour camps mines etc wives were not allowed etc


my point is looking after wife, is wrong phrase unless if your are flithy rich if your are not then both hubby and wife should provide for family a comfortable life, wives dont seat and wait for husband no your meant both to provide for each other through your roles not wait just wanting to be looked after like brolier chicken

So since women are now supposed to provide for the family instead of sitting like broiler chicken, do you also think men should cook for the family and wake up at night to care for baby like mothers do?
Do you think they should relinquish some of their authority to the wife since they are both co-providers?

revolt:
Truth is if any girl plays her game tight the average man will starve himself to pls her. Except he never liked her.

This isnt always the case.
Some men will not reciprocate kindness, they will keep demanding more and more when they see that the woman is eager to please them. Not becuase they never liked her but just so they can feel important/like big shots and feed their ego.

Some people are naturally ungrateful.

crackhaus:
Most of them know this but will rather preach belligerence so they can amass more members into the 'unhappy & dissatisfied women's club'.

Misery loves company...as the saying goes.

What does playing her game right entail?

EVILFOREST:
SIMPLY because Ladies want equal Rights.
So that means Equal Responsibilities as well.
That’s why many MEN now have potbellies because they need to measure up to their pregnant wives.

If you want women to contribute equally to your house then also share cooking and cleaning and child care equally with her.

cooldipo:
Cos they have no shame!

I agree.

Shy away from providing for their wives?
I am always reading online different topics where men claim a woman should be self sufficient before getting married instead of expecting her husband to take care of her.
Why?
Men these days fail to realize its their primary responsibility to provide, even if the wife has millions, for the fact that you expect her to submit to your authority and cook for you and clean and cater for children means you as the head should provide and protect your family.

If she decides to spend on her own instead then its your luck but that doesnt mean providing for the family is her primary duty. It also doesnt mean you shouldnt buy things for her or give her money for upkeep.

Even the bible says a man who cant provide for his family is worse than an infidel abi are wives not part of the family again?

All these recent talk about women independence in marriage is baffling and unfair.
You cant expect to rule over another person without doing any type of provision for them.

Why are so many so evil that they don't want their wives to progress?

cococandy:
There’s no else involved. That person is a liar and he’s manipulating you. Trying to pass the blame onto someone else to make himself seems less culpable. Smh

Truth.
The guy is alone jor. Nobody compelled him to do what he did.
I hate blackmail like kilode, if na me that guy try that nonsense with nothing will stop me from exposing him here, not even his fake threat to hurt himself.

Kenneth4u205:
you finding diamond and pearl in the river mud means your blessing ,finance and GLORY was stolen by the marine kingdom spirit .But it's a good dream since you taking back what was stolen from you by marine kingdom .Maybe your ancestor worshipped this spirit in the past or you slept with a lady with this spirit.The second dream .A known popular actor trying to kill you shows that you were created to be as popular as that actor .You suppose to be well known in life .Those people teaching you how to shoot guns are your guardian angels .

Thanks a lot.
this is deep.

The dream had many parts but the two parts I want to understand are:

I and my friends in the dream were sorting through some mud from bottom of a river to find diamonds because we heard there are diamonds in that river, in the process I found up to three pure, high quality and expensive diamonds and a lot of pearls but I hid the diamonds from my friends and only showed them the pearls. The pearls were so many I had to use the bottom part of my cloth to pack them properly.
I remember that some of my other friends like two of them also found diamonds like me. Funny thing is that I don't even know these friends in real life. they were unfamiliar faces but I recognized them as friends in the dream.



Second part I want to understand is,
I was being chased on a long road by one popular Nigerian actor, he was chasing me with a gun with intent to shoot and kill but fortunately for me he missed when he finally shot.
Somehow I ended up with his gun in my hands and I decided to act fast and shoot him first but I was finding it difficult to cock the gun and get it to shoot bullets, the first two times I pulled the trigger the gun shot blanks but the third time some people who had gathered around us were shouting instructions to me to help me shoot properly, one man among them asked me to set the gun to zero(I know there's nothing like this in real life, but the gun had a meter where you could actually set it to zero) and fire and when I did that I was just about to pull the trigger again when I heard a voice from real life that woke me up.

What do you think it means, this dream? You can help with scientific/psychological or spiritual explanations, all views are welcome.
Thanks.

Chasers am so sorry about how things turned out.

That being said, post the persons details here, the one causing trouble on your friends blog, I can assure you he wont do anything to hurt himself. People like that are hard-hearted and manipulative and know how to con others into doing what they want.
He has seen that you are soft hearted and meek thats why he used threats of hurting himself to make you comply.
When he was spoiling somebodys blog he didnt show mercy now he wants you to pity him and hide his identity.
That guy wont hurt himself, post his details to deter other trouble makers.

[quote author=Trendytessy post=71059772][/quote]Anusol cures pile whether painful or not.

Modified

That is exactly what UBA did to me.
I tried buying credit from their mobile banking app but the app kept telling me transaction not completed, I didn't know the mofos were debuting me for all the ten times I tried to recharge while they kept telling me that transaction didn't go through.

They have collected my 10,000 now. I called customer care and one snotty woman told me to wait four working days for transaction to be reversed.

Men love your wives biko, una Sabi demand submission but at the same time we read many stories of men maltreating or cheating or beating wives.

Love your wives.

igben:
contact me i go run am 4 u my fee is just 3k. 07062519677

Op be careful of who you pay money to. Be vigilant. Sorry about your phone.

Liftedhands:
See a doctor to rule out any underlying cause. Give ors and try raw pap.

For my son flat coke stops any purge, i just shake the bottle well release the gas and give him a cup. Dazzalll

Thanks, I later found out that he was reacting to the brand of cerelac I was giving him.
He's doing fine now thank God. I appreciate ur help

ifyalways:
Up your hygiene level in the house. Clean and mop everywhere as many times as you can.

He is stooling because he drools + itchy gums and puts everything including dirty hands, bibs,remote, in his mouth.

Thanks a lot ma'am

JennyJuggs:
Oh lawd!!!

Its been so long I ate dodo. Its so expensive were I am. Out of anger I stopped haggling with plantain sellers. They act like it is gold they are selling.

Thats what I thought when I saw the pix, just look at the sheer number of dodo on that plate.
Wow. Abi the guy has a plantain farm?

Hi all, what can I give to relieve a baby that is stooling due to teething, he poos like four times a day. It'd worrying, tho he eats ogi well but I feel the stooling is too much. He is seven and half months.
Thanks

I am very happy Miracle broke up with Nina. His method of doing it comes across as insensitive and selfish but I am just happy he left her so that those starry eyed sentimental Nigerians that voted them for romance will have sense.

They left more intelligent and entertaining people to vote those fornicating everyday in the house because they were hoping for some kind of fairytale romance story. Hope they will have sense not to use sentiments in voting next time now that reality has given them backhand slap.

Enmas078:
There would be crisis at the women's planet, they would be plagued with jealousy, envy etc...

The men would start violent wars and kill themselves in less than ten years. Thereby wiping the entire male gender from existence.

chasers:
Photo Alart

First Person to guess what cooking, 500 Mtn free Airtime

#C4_kitchen

Fruit dey inside, I already know that one.

booqee:
this one doesn't look yeye to me oh.. If ee no come be yeye nko? Looks delish

Tainks a lot

My yeye lunch.
Indomi and dodo and egg and zobo.

Come, Hansel abi wetin be your name, this thread was very nice and peaceful before you came.
Abeg stop causing trouble here and go back to where you came from.

datascience:
Lol.

Thats a good thing. Lol

Let them post.


Between, its not even a competition. Who good don good

Yeah, but I would have liked to see how the person will be boasting and lying that they cooked the food and how others will be praising them not knowing any better.