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Family › Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by nahzyla: 11:11am On Jul 28, 2018

How far gone is the pregnancy

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Family › Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by nahzyla: 7:00am On Jul 27, 2018

condomuser:
Only in Nigeria is where you find just the woman doing the cooking, in countries where things work both parties share the responsibilities and there is absolutely nothing wrong about that. This is the reason why life expectancy of Nigerian men is 53 yers old while life expectancy of men in developed countries is 83 yers old.

The Op is a Nigerian man that lives on Nigeria so I am giving him advice accordingly. Supposing he lives abroad I will tell him what pertains to foreign countries.

Family › Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by nahzyla: 3:05am On Jul 27, 2018

If a woman had started this thread to complain that her husband is saving his money instead of spending on the family all the hypocrites on this thread will come out to insult her and call her lazy and gold digger and ask her why she married the man for money. Then they will praise her husband for having saving habit instead of being wasteful.
Now the tables has turned they are still blaming the wife for saving.

Op I don't pity you, forget what your fellow men on the thread are saying they will always side the males in any argument so me I have learnt to support my fellow women and toss objectivity in the dustbin.

Mr man go and find a better job to help you be a better provider, don't wait for your wife to feed you, its your duty to provide while she takes care of home and kids.

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Family › Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by nahzyla: 3:00am On Jul 27, 2018

condomuser:
Where is it written in the constitution that it is his marital duties to pay his wife's bills ?
All this una local champions mentality.

Where is it written that only a woman must go to market and cook for the family? Yet you Nigeria men will never share kitchen work or house chores but you want a maga that will give you money.

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Family › Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by nahzyla: 10:10pm On Jul 26, 2018

What men need to realize is that the minute you decide that your wife is under obligation to provide for the family, you must also acknowledge that there is no longer any sole authority in the marriage, both of you are now co-leaders.

Op are you one of those men that like giving orders to your wife and acting like a king and throwing commands left and right and insisting that your word is law and your decisions must be final? If you are then don't expect her to join you in being a breadwinner, enjoy your dictatorship.

If on the other hand you assist her with all the chore including cooking then she is very wrong to expect you to be the sole breadwinner and she must start assisting you.

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Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by nahzyla: 2:25am On Jul 25, 2018

Bloomingbud:
Mamas help me, my left breast is on fire I'm in serious pain that my babies can't suck on it without me crying, It's been on and off for like a week now and my breast is not engorged. What do I do biko? Cos I can't feed with it again.

Probably a clogged vein in the breast. Check if ur LOs have white tongue, it also causes pain in nipples.

Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by nahzyla: 2:22am On Jul 25, 2018

goodfortun:
Hi mamas! Trust the day went great. Baby suddenly developed rash in the space between his butt cheeks i.e. bumbum. Not on the bum itself but that space. Someone prescribed tribotan but wanted to ask here too. Never happened before, no change of diaper or wipes. Thanks

Its probably diaper rash, just try to expose his bumbum to air more often and put sudocrem, I know it is effective for diaper rash and every other skin issues. I have heard of baby tribotan but I don't really know how good it is, sudocrem is my tried and trusted

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Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by nahzyla: 6:13pm On Jul 23, 2018

Sansa143:
Clears throat
Where my lagos mamas at
Dis one is for you

So things are cheap down here in the north,bin thinking about dis for a while.Incase your guys will need anything ranging from veges,tomatoes,beans,irish etc.I can help you guys do that.If u guys are interested,let me knw so we can discuss proper.Thanks

Abuja mums nko? Are we invited?

Romance › Re: Egg Saga: Why She Really Got Slapped by nahzyla: 3:48pm On Jul 20, 2018

Nobody in their right mind can hit another person for eggs and even if as some men are saying that it is because of her rudeness or lack of home training then the normal thing for any normal human being to do would be to break up with her she doesn't respect you and she threw your eggs away fine, then break up with her, don't hit her. I am very sure if your male room mate or friend threw your eggs away like that none of the men supporting that pastor would hit him. But since it's a woman they can come here and run their mouths about how it's OK to beat a woman cos she was rude and threw eggs away. You all are very lucky you live in a lawless country. Try this nonsense in an organized country and you will spend nothing less than two years in prison. No judge will accept your pathetic excuse of how she was rude or how she has no home training.
if she is not your type of woman then leave her, don't hit her.

Mor.ons
All of you supporting the guy for hitting her are mor.ons

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Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by nahzyla: 3:33pm On Jul 19, 2018

ThatIgalaChic:
Please who has review on either century washing machine or poly star washing machine. Please am about to order now I don't want to come and regret.
Thank you

We use polystar top loader at home and so far so good it hasn't given us any problems. We bought it last year June. We operate it with stabilizer sha.

Business › I Want To Buy. . . . . by nahzyla(op): 4:50pm On Jul 18, 2018

Drugs and eyedrops in Abuja wholesale. Who knows where I can buy at wholesale price? Thanks.

Health › Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by nahzyla: 6:31am On Jul 16, 2018

EmpresFIDEL
You better don't think of having children with that boy if you know what's good for you.

And don't even think of abortion of SS foetus because there terrible consequences attached to having abortions and I am not even talking of the spiritual angle.
I don't know why people are suggesting abortions as of it is a small thing, as if it doesn't have consequences.
Have you heard of Ashermans syndrome? That is a complication that comes from having a foetus evacuated or aborted from the womb, it causes the internal part of the womb to gum together and seal off the womb thereby rendering the woman infertile. 30% of women who do evacuation abortion end up with Ashermans syndrome. And the more abortions a woman performs, the higher her risk of having Ashermans syndrome.
I work in the health field and I know these things. Some girls bleed to death when they try other means of abortion like using the pill instead of evacuation type,no matter the method you choose there is always big risk attached.

If you want to marry and adopt good but don't be so heartless to start bringing kids to this world to suffer cos of your love that will die off after years of marriage.
Until you have kids you will not understand the pain of seeing your child suffer, the pain of holding their weak tired body in your hands and then when the baby looks up to your face with pure love and trust and with no understanding of why they are going through everyday pains your guilty conscience will not even let your mind rest. The money you will spend on running helter skelter to hospitals could have been used to give the child a better life overall, better quality education, better clothes, live in a better house etc.

EmpresFIDEL think twice and leave the guy, sorry for your loss I understand it's not easy but take solace on the fact that love fades after years of marriage and boredom. You still care for each other but that hot fiery love is no longer there, go and look at old married couples of up to 10years to understand what am saying. So after the love dies you are left with nothing but the consequences of your bad decisions and regret for your actions.

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Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by nahzyla: 4:52pm On Jul 13, 2018

kelizosuy:
As the person advised it's good to make urs but if you have someone neat that you can get from,then no problem

enque:
yeah....making urs is better, except u trust the source u r buying from.

OK, thanks

but the stress Sha....... sad

Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by nahzyla: 3:45pm On Jul 13, 2018

Good day all. Can I give my 6month old already made raw pap and cook for him at home? Or is it better to make my own? Thanks.

Someone advised me to make mine that it's neater.

Celebrities › Re: CeeC At Leo Dasilva's 26th Birthday Dinner Party (Photo) by nahzyla: 9:41am On Jul 11, 2018

So Ceecee snatched Leo who is Alex ex boyfriend just like Alex snatched Tobi who is her ex boyfriend?

What a wawuuu

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Education › Re: Professor Grace Otinwa: I Kneel Down To Greet My Husband by nahzyla: 2:00pm On Jul 07, 2018

Pataricatering:
exactly ! They will be looking for co- breadwinner and submitter ! You can’t eat your cake and have it ! Once someone is financially independent you can’t lord it over them anymore !

Honestly the entitlement mentality some guys have is disgusting.

Education › Re: Professor Grace Otinwa: I Kneel Down To Greet My Husband by nahzyla: 8:19am On Jul 07, 2018

So men like submission? But they don't want to provide abi? Claiming a woman must have money and provide for the family like her husband but the husband can still lord over her and command and rule her??

Wonderful.

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Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by nahzyla: 7:06pm On Jul 06, 2018

booqee:
by three month, your baby will start sleeping all through the night. My baby sleeps around 10pm - 5am since 3 month with a little variation sometimes. You're almost there

Have you introduced her to solids? Mine doesn't sleep all through the night o, and he's almost six months. Maybe it's cos we are doing exclusive I dunno....

Travel › Re: My Experience Living In China For 4 Months - A Nairalander by nahzyla: 1:13pm On Jul 04, 2018

pally123:
E no hard na. Abi you no dey watch American film ni

Travel › Re: My Experience Living In China For 4 Months - A Nairalander by nahzyla: 12:12pm On Jul 04, 2018

ThePianoGuy:
which educated Nigeria don’t know about America? No dulling boss naija guys here sharp die. They even get fake American accent o

Hmmmm I see...

Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by nahzyla: 12:07pm On Jul 04, 2018

iwuoahsamuels:
Rash like between high thigh and waist and another small spot with pus on a 2weeks old.
Been using pampers diaper for new born, could it be he’s outgrown the size? I use about 15 dia
pers daily as I don’t let him sit in wee or poo so don’t get why he would have a diaper rash. What else could this be pls? What say u experienced Mummys
I’m applting aquaphor though and clean with warm water sometimes instead of always using wipes
Anything else I can do?

Use Sudocrem.

My boy had diaper rash some months ago and sudocrem cleared everything to clean skin in less than a week. It's very effective.

And after it clears please always apply Vaseline on groin before wearing him diaper. then make sure he isn't reacting to the Vaseline.

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Travel › Re: My Experience Living In China For 4 Months - A Nairalander by nahzyla: 12:02pm On Jul 04, 2018

ThePianoGuy:
if you are black just pretend to be an American here they will want to be your friend but if they know you are from Africa OYO is your case

What if they say you should tell them about America?

Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by nahzyla: 10:24pm On Jul 01, 2018

arbbiegold:
Dd came on 3rd June. Besides, we weren't given card na one yeye exercise book those things were written after I insisted I want record for evidence if I go else where. I'm not satisfied with their services, so I'm taking dd to Ifako Ijaye General Hospital tomorrow.

Its necessary to have that immunization card, pls make sure they give you. Its required documentation in some places for example if you want to travel abroad with your child they ask for it at the airport.

Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by nahzyla: 4:09pm On Jun 25, 2018

Jessie21:
Please mamas help me ooo
....Am 3weeks3days postpartum, the problem here is that i can't poo though i do feel the urge to poo but when i try pooing,it feels so big,dry and strong.What can i do
My ds has a swollen breast filled with breast milk,how do i reduce it

Three weeks! shocked

Pheewwww....
you have really tried for holding it ooo

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