₦airaland Forum

No issues for 5 years? Did both of you go for medical test? If you have not done so, why not do that first before taking a decision? But your husband seems to have made up his mind about replacing you. From the look of it, he has been seeking solace from your sister and friend. Now he wants to finally replace you. Its up to you now to decide if you want to save your marriage or not. It is absurd for your husband to add insult to injury by asking you to decide who should replace you. If on the long run you decide you can not continue, get divorce and move on with your life.

For some time now, the performance of Students in the WAEC Exams have been very poor. It has deteriorated from year to year. The earlier something is done about it the better. Parents need to create time for their children. If they can not assist their children with their school work, they should engage teachers to give them extra lessons at home. Also they must create time to look through their school, & lesson work, to ensure they are doing well. Ensure they give less time to watching of films, playing PS3, going on internet, playing music with earpiece attached to their ears, etc. Our Schools should also update their teaching methods. They should have compulsory extra lessons after school. They should discourage cheating during exams. Invite parents whose children are not performing well at school, & see how the school & the parents can unite efforts to help these children improve. On the long run, these children will do well, complete their education, gain employment, & raise their own family. They will not remain with their parents forever. So the earlier parents address the issue of mass failure in exams, the better for their children, also the better for Society. We dont need more armed robbers in the Society.

Wole Soyinka, the anti-corruption crusader, has done so much for Nigeria, for which we are grateful. We will definitly miss him when he takes his exit from public life. We need more people like him in Nigeria, especially the youths. Let our youths rise up to the challenge & continue from where late Gani Fawenhimin, late Beko Kuti, Wole Soyinka, etc. left off.

The cleansing process for Nigeria is on, until all the rotten eggs are removed from power. God must do it for us.

The cleansing process for Nigeria is on, until all the rotten eggs are removed from power. God must do it for us.

Merry Xmas to all Nairalanders. You are one happy family. Keep it up. Happy Celebration.

You have heard it all faraday62 from chaircover, soft girl, & others. The devil you know is better than the one you dont know. Your wife may have lied because she did not want to loose you. Dont rush. Still watch the situation before you take any decision so you dont regret letting her go. We all make mistakes. Do not dwell too much on her own mistakes, & end up making a mistake you will regret. Good luck.

The news that Atiku doctored opinion polls does not surprise me in the least. What do you expect from a criminal. In his anxiety to become president, he is making so many mistakes, & thus he has succeeded in losing support. Who wants a criminal for president. God is at work.

I wish the Ikemba, God's protection & speedy recovery. Nairalanders please the man needs our prayers now, & not condemnation.

By all means you can marry this woman. Just because she made a mistake does not mean she is a bad person. She has acquired some experience which should assist her. However please do not rush into marriage. You should study yourselves, know your likes & dislikes, know you actually want to be together the rest of your lives. This is very important. Then like Ujujoan rightly said, legally adopt the child. Good luck.

A man who batters his wife is shameless & should be sanctioned. The woman is the weaker sex & should be treated as such. However its not the case in Nigeria, & Africa. The fact that the man paid bride price makes the woman the man's property, according to tradition. But even then, an enlightened & intelligent man should know that the woman is his companion, & should treat her with care. But unfortunately, some men who claim to be traditionalists, batter their wives at the slightest opportunity, just to show they are in charge. Society stigmatises a woman who is divorced. Family members will always appeal to the woman to be patient. Church is against divorce. Going to report to the police is a waste of time. This is for our women. Play your role well in your marital home. By that I mean do not give your husbands the slightest opportunity to beat you, if he is the type that beats. Try, I know it is not easy. If in spite of your effort to maintain peace he beats you, once, twice, please report the matter to his parents. If beating persists report to your parents. If still no change, please get a divorce. You must ensure you are alive to take care of your kids, if any, but even if none move on with your life. Should anything happen to you (God forbid), the man will bring in another woman the following day. So please women be wise.

An empty barrel makes the loudest noise. If Atiku wants arrest so much, let him report to the U.S where they are anxiously waiting to pick him up for money laundery. How can he reason well when all he ever thinks of is money & women. Moni-miss-road. Woman wrapper.

GEJ should exercise a lot of caution now. Ibb is maradona. He is out of the race & is like a wounded lion; dangerous. God will continue to shatter his evil plans. GEJ should realise that he is dinning with the devil, & so he should use an extremely long stick.

GEJ should exercise a lot of caution now. Ibb is maradona. He is out of the race & is like a wounded lion; dangerous. God will continue to shatter his evil plans. GEJ should realise that he is dinning with the devil, & so he should use an extremely long stick.

GEJ should exercise a lot of caution now. Ibb is maradona. He is out of the race & is like a wounded lion; dangerous. God will continue to shatter his evil plans. GEJ should realise that he is dinning with the devil, & so he should use an extremely long stick.

GEJ should exercise a lot of caution now. Ibb is maradona. He is out of the race & is like a wounded lion; dangerous. God will continue to shatter his evil plans. GEJ should realise that he is dinning with the devil, & so he should use an extremely long stick.

People should cultivate the habit of courting, & in the process study themselves before getting married. Above all, they should be prayerful. There is nothing like a small thief or a big thief. A thief small or big is a thief. If we do the right thing, we will never find ourselves in that predicament. The craze for wealth & comfort is driving couples into illegal acts. People no longer fear God. But the fear of God is the beginning of wisdom. If you wait on God, you will have abundant wealth from Him. Like a post said, birds of the same feather flock together. So a spouse with a partner who is a criminal will want to protect the partner so the so-called enjoyment continues, forgetting that everyday for the thief, but one fateful day for the owner. Please let us learn from others mistakes & save ourselves unnecessary agony.

We thank God for His mercies. He never fails as long as we trust in Him. He is a miracle-worker. Congratulations to you & your family.

Atiku certainly needs to be taught a lesson and silenced. Who does he think he is? A thief, a love peddler who has wives & girlfriends all over the globe. He wants to come back to carte away all that is left in Nigeria. But do you blame him? We allow corrupt persons to contest election when they should be behind bars. His days are numbered. Ibb & Atiku can never go unpunished. He-goat, shameless woman wrapper.

Congratulations Mr. & Mrs. Sienna on the safe delivery of Baby Sienna. Welcome Baby Sienna. God protect & bless Mr. & Mrs. Sienna, & Baby Sienna. May she be a source of joy to you both always. Once more Congratulations.

Parents you have heard it all. Please be on the alert, & above all be prayerful.

What a loss to the Nation! Pa Enahoro was one of those who fought for Nigeria's Independence. He was a true Nigerian, a statesman, an icon. Please let us bury the hatchet & give our last respect to this great & illustrious son of Nigeria. There is no one who is free from mistakes. May his soul rest in perfect peace, Amen. I commiserate with his family.

Why would your partner be mad at you if you explained that you are going to work? Except there is no trust. Such a relationship is starting on a wrong footing. You explain to your partner again that you have to go to work. If you do not have a job, you can not play your role when you eventually get married. So if your partner is mad at you for working, please ignore him/her and continue with your work.

What a question. You mean you plan to leave all your money with your pet, if you fail to have kids, when you die? It is absurd. So what will bingo do with the money? Feed, pay house rent, pay electricity bill, go to school, etc. And who will the money be given to after your demise? To bingo? It means the money will end up in the waste bin because bingo will play with it & tear it into shreds. And if you put the money in someone's custody, u don bless am plenti, plenti, that one will be eternally grateful to you. Bingo will not even feed from the money because the one in charge will take care of himself/herself. The sensible thing to do will be to give the money to your relations, an ophanage, old peoples' home, etc. You can give bingo to a friend who loves it. That is the best thing you can do for it.

Hi johndoe200, your post dated December 03, 2010 states "Sorry to have to correct you, I am a Nigerian. I can see from your post that you are either a semi illiterate or a blind fanatic (I bet you are a "born again" Christian). Look you go on about Nigerian Culture and Christianity on the assumption that everyone agrees that these are intrinsically superior to the cultures of other people. Well sorry, I don't agree. I am not canvassing the introduction of polyandy in Nigeria, but I can appreciate that for those people and in those places where this is their culture, there is nothing that makes them the epitome of evil on earth. Nor do I believe that God (theirs or yours) has or will punish them for their culture." Looking at your posts johndoe200, you are in support of polyandy. So why say you are not canvassing the introduction of polyandy in Nigeria? The fact remains that God MUST punish anyone who goes contrary to his laws, & you can not change that. And for the records, it does not portray you in good light to pour insults on fellow Nairalanders. Responding to your aspersions cast on my person will only make me a worst offender. We are in a forum here, not a battle field. All the best.

The whole system is rotten from top to bottom. Is it because Sanusi accused the Law Makers that Bankole now remembers that Cbn does not remit monies into the treasury? What effort did he make to compell Cbn & the other Goverment Agencies to remit monies into the treasury? Of course he did nothin about it because all of them are sharing the national cake. And that is why he remarked that he is not a saint, & he does not want to be one. God must clean up this Country. It is time.

If you're based in Benin, then this is for you. We need 144 people for immediate employment. Both graduates and non-graduates. Vacancies also exist for full time and part time workers. For detailed information, visit us at shop 22, trade fair, Benin City, Edo State. Please note that this is going to be on a first come first serve basis. Shalom.

If you're based in Benin, then this is for you. We need 144 people for immediate employment. Both graduates and non-graduates. Vacancies also exist for full time and part time workers. For detailed information, visit us at shop 22, trade fair, Benin City, Edo State. Please note that this is going to be on a first come first serve basis. Shalom.

Some people are heartless. He definitly has the habit of marrying & abandoning women. Nemesis will catch up with him. Meanwhile the lady should give the problem to God. She should also report the matter to the Nigerian Embassy & the German Authorities to help her. With fervent prayers backed up with action, she must solve the problem. The stupid man needs to be taught a lesson he will not forget in a hurry.