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10mobile:
I'm not happy with those who talk ill of our Nigerian girls because our girls are the most sexy and beautiful all over the world.

For example, look at this photo and tell me what else you want our girls to bring to the table. Be honest as a Nigerian man.

Ladies don't comment. Just watch.

Nothing is more disgusting than a big boobs without the support of a powerful bra.

Let this one get naked and you'll burn that table just to get rid of the feeling of disgust that follows.

Check out BackBullet.

It's been turned into water and a boatload of sugar.

This:

https://www.nairaland.com/7939242/why-women-leave-husbands-abroad

Every sentence is dumber than the last. The more you read, the dumber it gets. At a point you'll assume it CAN'T possibly get dumber, then BAAAM! poster raises the dumbness to power 10.

It's a poorly reasoned pile of rubbish.

Basically, he reasons that Nigerian women leave the husband that sponsored them abroad because the husbands are not "alpha" enough.

What a load of BULLSHXT!

Context:

In the UK, 42% of all marriages end in divorce. And the wife initiates the divorce 62% of the time.

At 50% divorce rate, the stats look even grimmer in the US. In the US, a whooping 70% of the divorce are initiated by the wife.

Put another way:

An overwhelming majority of all divorces in the West are initiated by the wife.

The dumb post would have us believe that ALL these men were not "Alpha" enough.

Keep in mind that these men are generally more handsome, richer and have more status than their African immigrant counterparts. Yet, even their marriages did not survive.

Why?

Because Western society is a gynocentric society. These countries allow women to brutally take advantage of men when it comes to marriage and divorce.

For instance, you'd be legally mandated to split with a woman the value of a house you bought before you even met her.

There are states in the US where the husband is mandated to pay LIFETIME alimony to his ex-wife.

Alimony anywhere is basically free money.

As long as there is free money to be had, divorce rate in the West will remain high.

Who doesn't like free money?

NOW, take an average Nigerian woman with her greedy mentality to such countries.
What do you suppose would happen?

If your Nigerian wife leaves you, here's what she gets;

1. Enough alimony/spousal support to afford a decent life.
2. Child support if you have any.
3. HALF of all your savings and other asset.
4. In some cases, you also pay for her divorce lawyer. In other words, you pay to get bleeped and then you pay a monthly subscription for the privilege of getting bleeped.

She gets ALL that money and she doesn't have to do a thing.

Again, who doesn't like free money?

There is the added benefit of posturing as a "struggling but strong and independent single mother" on social media while using your child support and alimony to live a soft life.

Another dumb thing about the post:

He stated that a small 17-year old boy could slap you at work and your only response would be "yes, sir".

He said that's because Western society regards black men as second class citizen or such and that does not allow them to be "Alpha" enough.

So dumb!

Ask the author of that dumb thread this because I cannot abide that degree of dumb:

What calibre of men does he think are capable of sponsoring a whole family abroad?

These are likely skilled workers or accomplished entrepreneurs. Either way, that scenario is highly unlikely.

NOW, in the unlikely event that it does happen. You as a black man got slapped by a 17-year old white kid.

Guess what?

You are in a sane society. Physical assault, no matter the victim, gets punished. You can rest assured that the stupid kid would be punished.

He may not get as severe a punishment as the black man would if the situation was reversed, but he'd be punished nonetheless.

They have "juvies" for a reason. That's basically a prison for minors.

Also, you don't have to waste your mental bandwidth planning to "treat his Bleep up" or expend your energy to beat him yourself.


So many dumb points in that post but I'll stop here.

Do a DNA test on your kid(s).

To men:

Only fools don't check their /GF/wife's phone.

Privacy is a USELESS excuse. If you can grab her by the pussy, you can grab her phone. ALSO, you should be EXTREMELY concerned if she thinks her phone is more PRIVATE than her literal private parts.

Accusations of jealousy or insecurity is NONSENSE. Even if you are jealous and insecure, your partner should GLADLY do her part to alleviate your jealousy or insecurity.

ALWAYS CHECK HER PHONE.

Do it at random intervals. But do it consistently. Be sure she doesn't have another phone either.

OP, good of you to trust your instincts.

Dumb man saying dumb sh1t.

The FG is an agency of the Nigerian People. It literally represents 200 million people with all the powers that come with it.

For clarification, the FG has control of the Military. That includes Army, Navy and the Airforce. It also has the power to seek military aids from its foreign allies.

Yet, the group of idiots in charge would NOT even put a name to identified criminals.

PUBLIC ENEMIES are being protected by the people in power.

Can we stone him now?

The solution is simple.

Fixate on one of her friends.

Specifically, one that looks like your GF but better in some way. Maybe, bigger boobs or ass than your girl.

Here's what you'll do:

1. Pick the girl. Let's call her Blessing.

2. On a Sunday like this, call your GF and tell her to invite Blessing that you're cooking Jollof Rice.

3. When they come, focus your attention on Blessing. Ask about her work/studies.

4. Ask Blessing about her boyfriend.

5. Make comments like "fine girl like you must have a lot of guys disturbing you for relationship", "your future husband is very lucky" etc

6. Call your GF at random times JUST to ask AFTER Blessing. For instance, ask your GF whether she knows who Blessing is dating. Ask your GF whether she knows what Blessing earns or how well she's doing in school if Blessing is a student.

7. Occasionally mention to yourgirlfriend how Blessing used to be "your type". When she asks "am I not your type?". Tell her she's your type NOW. Blessing was your type in the past.

8. Call your GF and ask her to "greet Blessing for you".

9. Call your GF to invite her to lunch/dinner at your place. But also tell her to invite Blessing when she's coming.

10. IF your GF uploads a picture of herself with Blessing, give your GF a little complement then GUSH over Blessing. Start complementing individual parts of Blessing from head to toe.

This strategy will achieve 1 or more of 4 Whicresults:

1. Your GF gets sense and stop inviting her friends to your place.

2. Blessing gets uncomfortable around you and she doesn't come to your place.

3. Blessing falls for you and you get yourself an additional pussy.

4. Your GF leaves you.

Whichever one it is, the nonsense STOPS.

Back to the topic.

I will not call them "necessary". Unless you want kids.

That being said, women are emotional vampires. Every interaction you have with them will leave you drained.

The longer you are exposed to them, the more you are drained. You don't even have to be in a relationship with them for that to happen. It just does.

Minimize your interaction with female acquaintances. Give succinct response and move along.

If you don't have a relationship with them and they are not your colleagues, don't allow them to drain you.

In relationship, set STRICT rules with DEFINITE repercussions.

For instance:

You nag/complain, you LEAVE.

Something is bothering you but rather than talking it out, you start acting like a witch. You LEAVE.

Bliss52:
Men and Women can be evil.

Not the same.

The evil that men do manifests in ways that can be LEGALLY punished. On the other hand, women inflict pains and do evil deeds that are RARELY illegal.

For instance, a man who beats his wife can be charged with assault and jailed.

A woman who f.ucks the gateman of her husband on her matrimonial bed would act like nothing happened after being sent out. That's if the husband has the guts.

This is the way.

Useless criminals doing eye service

Franzinni:
That is why I so much hate the Nigerian psych... In developed nations they can find a person from a single finger print but in Nigeria they can't trace the movement of money with all the PhD holders in our financial sector... It's an unmistakable SHAME!!!

Nigeria is a sh.it show. Nothing works.

It's why successful, skilled professionals in Nigeria would gladly sell of their assets just to start from square one in a functioning society.

Japa is not all about hustle or whatever.

People also Japa to live in a society where they wouldn't be kidnapped and security agents would be looking like morons.

Very bad.

Here's some things you can do to protect yourself in the future:

1. NEVER allow a third party into your business transactions. ALWAYS insist on dealing directly with whoever wants to hire you. Internalise the fact that you are NOT an employee. You are self-employed. Set rules and insist on them. The rubbish about their "boys" picking you needs to stop TODAY.

2. ALWAYS take pictures of the vehicles that come to pick you up. Be very obvious about this. ALSO, be sure that the plate number and VINs are included in the pictures.

3. FORWARD the pictures to a relative/friend with a brief explanation of why you're doing so.

4. NEVER ignore your intuition. Intuition/gut is your subconscious picking up cues that you'd typically ignore. Your subconscious picked up the fact that something was amiss but you RATIONALIZED it away. NEVER do that again.

5. CONSIDER taking on an apprentice and have him come with you to sites.

BONUS POINT:

You should begin to insist that prospective clients give accurate description of their sites. Let them also provide pictures. You could chuck it up to needing it to help you assess the project.

Back to OPAY/PALMPAY, they are criminal enterprises. Anyone could open an unverified account with a fake name and use it for full transactions.

WHAT YOU CAN DO ABOUT THE KIDNAPPERS
If you have the money to spare, you could still do something about the kidnappers.

For example:

1. You have the number of "Chief Donatus" who called you from Jiji. That number is likely linked to an NIN. A court order would compel his service provider to release the details.

2. Same thing could be done about the OPAY/PALMPAY number used to receive the ransom.

3. Another court order could also compel OPAY/PALMPAY to reveal transactions carried out by the number used to collect the ransom. This will show where the money was transferred.

4. POST both numbers on Nairaland, Facebook and whatever social media you use. Share links to this thread too.

In a society that works, these things would have been done without you financing them. But this is Nigeria.

Finally, sorry about the trauma you went through.

GloriousGbola:
If you are really trying to prove a point then you should also Google wealthiest self made women billionaires.





Also surprising that you a black man does not know about cj walker.

America and maybe the worlds first female millionaire. A person who made it there in spite of being born a slave.

You live in Nigeria where we all saw Linda ikeji become a billionaire in real time. From her camry to her murano to range rover to banana island.

Stop this nonsense and focus on yourself.

This is you



Just substitute lowest man with best woman.

Stop acting dumb.

The post is titled Top 10 Richest Women in the World. With ZERO qualifiers.

Whatever point you think I'm trying to prove already proves itself.

Facts.

Most people who can afford to buy real estates at these choking prices would rather leave the country.

What men think for better, for worse is

VS

What it REALLY is.

Where is he going with less than $1000?

Check the USD/NGN exchange rate and let me know if you are still thinking about marriage.

The 50K is not even the problem. It's the drugs.

Only a fool takes drugs to Bleep. Least of all, to Bleep a hookup girl.

A hookup girl has likely bleeped a bigger dick than yours. She has bleeped a more skillful fu.cker than you. She has bleeped a person that lasts longer than you.

No amount of drugs will change any of that.

The only thing you need to care about is YOUR satisfaction. Even if that happens in just 2 secs.

Taking dangerous drugs and mysterious agbo to Bleep a hookup girl is just dumb.

This is funny.

The man has no fear of the gods. Also, when did the gods start home delivery like Jumia?

Anyway, jail the rapist. Rape is one of those crimes that shouldn't happen in 2023. Sex is super cheap EVERYWHERE. Masturbation is another option.

Fountainofyouth:
How old are these women for you to compare them with feminists that didn't even exist in their time?

Why not call out self made billionaires like Kim Kardashian, Taylor Swift and so many other young female billionaires of today who are presently championing feminism at their prime, you lily livered orangutan that knows nothing except to yap spittle about feminists and ladies generally that aren't the cause of the downfall of your country thanks to the old brainless hags called leaders.

Du.mb girl.

Here's a link to one of the first written works on Feminism:
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Declaration_of_the_Rights_of_Woman_and_of_the_Female_Citizen

It was written in 1791.

That you heard about Feminism in 2020 does not mean that's when it started.

ALSO, 5 minutes of googling would have prevented you from embarrassing yourself on a public forum.

Your data is not meant for lurking on the Instagram page of Kim Kardashian and Taylor Swift alone.

By the way, you need to grow up and grow sense. The post is about the Top 10 Richest Women in the World. Not rich women.

NSNO:
What exactly are you trying to prove?
You sound like the white man in Jim crow America who believed that the reason blacks were still poor despite the fact that they were no longer slaves was because they were inferior to the white men.

The business game is rigged, even if a woman and a man have the same business acumen, their chances of success are very different.

WTF did I just read?

If the game is so rigged, how come there are female billionaires whose ONLY job is "Philanthropy"?

ALSO, you have no idea what you are talking about. You are chronically disconnected from reality.

The West is falling over themselves to affirm any female action.

A woman with half the business acumen of Elon Musk would be twice as rich as he currently is. Your claim might have been true 100 years ago, but it holds no water TODAY.

HeatSeeker:
🙂 Well...

It can be argued that they EARNED it by virtue of their relationship with the men who originally generated the wealth. For example, the now ex-wife of Bezoz "suffered" with him and was "by his side" when he was hustling to get Amazon up to where if is now today 😁

You mean Mackenzie is "self made"?

Royaltyy:
None of them hustle their money all by themselves.... Men are really trying

I was shocked when I saw this.

Richest women in the world and NOT a single one of them EARNED it.

Strong and independent women in the mud.

Anyway, I don't want to see any feminist in my vicinity ever again.

1. Francoise Bettencourt Meyers

Francoise is the richest woman in the world with a net worth of $80.5B.

Her source of wealth is linked to shares in the cosmetics giant L'Oreal. Francoise inherited these from her mother Liliane Bettencourt.

Liliane got the wealth from her father Eugene Schueller who founded L'Oréal. Francoise later collected it from Liliane.

The richest woman in the world inherited her wealth from a man.

Fun fact:

After her mother gave the man she was dating about $1.3B, Francoise took her to court to declare her own mother mentally unstable.

2. Julia Koch

Has a net worth of $59B. Her source of wealth is from 42% ownership of Koch Industries.

She inherited her wealth from her husband David Koch after his death in 2019.

The second richest woman in the world also got her wealth from a man.

3. Alice Walton

Alice Walton has a net worth of $56.7B. Her source of wealth is from shares in Walmart.

She inherited her shares from her father Sam Walton who was a co-founder of WalMart.

The third richest woman in the world inherited her wealth from a man.

4. Jacqueline Mars

Jacqueline Mars has a net worth of $38.3B. Her wealth is traced to shares owned in Mars Inc, a pet and candy giant.

She inherited her wealth from her grandfather Frank C. Mars who founded Mars Inc in 1911.

The fourth richest woman in the world also got her wealth from a man.

5. Miriam Adelson

Miriam has a net worth of $35B. She got her wealth from shares owned in Las Vegas Sands, the largest casino operators in the world.

Miriam inherited shares in Las Vegas Sands after the death of her husband Sheldon Adelson in 2021.

The fifth richest woman in the world got her wealth from a man.

6. Rafaela Aponte-Diamant

Rafaela has a net worth of $31.2B. Her wealth is tied to 50% ownership of Mediterranean Shipping Company (MSC), the largest shipping line in the world.

According to the official MSC website (MSc.com), the company was founded by Gianluigi Aponte, a former ship captain.

Also, the top management of the company provided on the website include Gianluigi Aponte, Diego Aponte and Soren Toft. But no mention of Rafaela Aponte-Diamant.

However, Forbes assigned 50% ownership of the company to Rafaela as a "co-founder". Forbes subsequently dubbed her the richest "self-made" woman in the world.

in other words, the sixth richest woman in the world got her wealth from a man.

7. Susanne Klatten

Susanne has a net worth of $27.4B. She got her wealth from 19% ownership of BMW and 50.1% ownership of Altana.

Her father Herbert Quandt was a German industrialist who saved BMW at the brink of bankruptcy. Quandt is also the founder of Altana.

Susanne inherited her shares from him.

The seventh richest woman in the world got her wealth from a man.

8.Gina Rinehart

Has a net worth of $27B. Her wealth can be traced to Hancock Prospecting Group, a mining and agriculture company.

She inherited the business from her father Lang Hancock who founded the company in 1955.

The eighth richest woman in the world got her wealth from a man.

9. Mackenzie Scott

Mackenzie Scott has a net worth of $24.4B. She is the ex-wife of Amazon Founder Jeff Bezos.

Her fortune can be traced to 4% ownership of Amazon she inherited from Jeff Bezos as part of her divorce settlement.

The ninth richest woman in the world also got her wealth from a man.

10. Iris Fontbona

Iris Fontbona has a net worth of $23.1B. Her wealth can be traced to Antofogasta PLC.

Iris inherited Antofogasta PLC from her husband Andronico Luksic Abaroa after his death in 2005.

The tenth richest woman in the world got her wealth from a man.

Takeaway:

10/10 richest women in the world got their wealth from a man.

Put another way, a shocking 100% of the top 10 richest women in the world have their fortunes tied to a man.

What that means?

Without a man in the picture, some of these women would be nothing but school teachers, housewives, a barista or a provision store owner. Others would be working 9 to 5.

What do you think?

P.S. Never take a feminist serious. EVER!

This is a sick joke from Tinubu.

Who are the "vulnerable groups"?

What can #20K do for anyone in this insane economy?

Also, I'm pretty sure that money would not even get to anyone.

Fix the economy through the enactment of sound and sustainable economic policy. Not comical, misguided and misdirected welfare schemes that are so weak Tinubu's 71-year old bladder looks like titanium compared to it.

Capitalist institutions should NOT be allowed to develop AIs. Especially monopolistic behemoths like Google.

When advancements in AI intersects with advancements in robotics as is currently the case, humans will soon be slaves to machine overlords.

Not in the way we are already slaves to phones and social media, either. Like slave slave. Like picking cotton under a hot sun slave.


The TV show Person of Interest clearly shows a definitive picture of the dystopia that awaits humanity WHEN AI goes rogue.

She did nothing wrong. She's establishing what's important to her in a relationship from the get go.

No pretence.


It's the ones that act like angels but are secretly demons you need to look out for.

Now:

The girl has told you she's a gold digger. Ask your white friend if he's interested in a gold digger. Let him know the gold digger will leach him dry.

Having said that, I like people who define the TANGIBLES they want in a relationship.

A lady could want a 6.6 ft man who owns 2 yacht and a private jet and ALSO looks like Brad Pitt. Nothing wrong there.

In the same vein, a man is free to look for a woman who's 21, virgin, beautiful and not tattooed or perforated in strange places and ALSO not fat and lazy. Nothing wrong there either.

Defining the relationship from the beginning is KEY.

Tinubu is a fool for removing fuel subsidy so abruptly.

Why remove a fuel subsidy that benefits ALL Nigerians just to replace it with a conditional cash transfer that'll be brazenly embezzled?

Best thing to do would have been to phase out the subsidy. Removing it at once has had a JARRING effect on an economy that was already in shambles.

We've "heard" about HUGE monetary savings due to subsidy removal but we are YET to see REAL benefits. Instead, we've seen the economy plummet further.

Plus, none of the "audio" refineries have a definite operational date.

Removing the fuel subsidy is a BLUNDER of calamitous proportion.