₦airaland Forum

biobash:
Did you defer your admission?

Techcrunchng:
My man, money first and all these nonsense stops, are u happy with your current financial situation? If yes; that means what she said is true, but if no; that means she definitely found a richer guy and she formulated an excuse which will make you feel wrong. Don't blame her though, just forget her and double up your hustle my man because nobody loves a broke niga. Don't let any girl stop your ambition.

lilwetdick:
i am not asking about whether you gave her cash or not....you claim you didnt give her attention then i went on to mention some stuff, then you wrote these statement i highlighted..there is something interesting about you, i believe you are Fronting,(even though you claim not to give attention and focus on her during your relationship, your attitude says otherwise, it seems you were emotionally invested in the relationship). if you dont have feelings for an ex, so why inviting her anywhere or wanting to check up on her.

on men being exploited by women, it is because most men allow that including you. everybody is selfish, people that know their self worth are selffish, so i dont see it as a man or woman trait, i see it as a human trait.

you last paragaph sound like some man trying to save men after being exploited but then again, you said you wont be exploited but you have already been exploited emotionally that is why you cant forget her even after 1 year,

FatherBona:
she's moved on ten years ago, you dey Nairaland dey talk respect.
Wake up bro
Smash that Bestie and get it over with
Thank me later

dairykidd:
This is for u

lilwetdick:
if she didnt had an impact in you, why wanting to see her again

if you say you work hard, you are not the only person working hard in nigeria and still giving attention to their gfs or wives... on the issue of pleasing likewise you wont want a boring gf, likewise she wont want a boring bf, pleasing comes from both side not only the man to the female alone

i think your problem lies in thinking to impact on an ex means cash..let me be raw with you...making a ex remember you can be in different ways other than cash, your sexual signature skills that no man can do to her but only you, the advice you gave to her, the litle thing like kiss you gave to her in public that made her blush, the stuff you guys did together, fun activities and talks you had, pillow fun and real fights and make ups etc, this are the little memorable a girl can have for you anytime she remembers you.it doesnt has to be only cash...stop quantifying your manhood with cash alone

lilwetdick:
she didnt even miss him, it shows the op was not even able to impact anything meaningful or memorable in her life, no footprint was left..that is why she moved on so fast

if she has said yes lets get together, he would have agree and dance everylasting galala to her beats, he will become everything she dreams off, even wanting to outshine the new man in her life in simping

lilwetdick:
she didnt even miss him, it shows the op was not even able to impact anything meaningful or memorable in her life, no footprint was left..that is why she moved on so fast

if she has said yes lets get together, he would have agree and dance everylasting galala to her beats, he will become everything she dreams off, even wanting to outshine the new man in her life in simping

AntiBrutus:
Lol alfas online...
____ offline.

He is only crying because she has moved on. If he were the one to get over it faster, he will be telling us how miserable she is without him. It is always like that after "breakup". Seeing an ex live happily when you expected them to be miserable could hurt.

Don't be surprised, if she had honoured his date and gotten back with him, he would most likely not treat her right.

OP will be fine.

AstroG:
Nwanne,hapu umunwanyi, jee chuba Ego


When you have Money,all these gibberish she's speaking will stop
OR

Don't you knw that MONEY STOPS NONESENSE ??

juininho:
Your knowledge of redpill is rusty bro.
In all cases, a woman will dump you if you give her the attention she asks for. Or treats exactly as she wants. If you live for hundred years, you will find this true.

Your break-up with her is due to other things. Your frame was probably weak.

In fact, your frame is weak because you are attempting to obtain a date with an ex. What! Past is past. You should have 10 gals already!

I can conclude that you only focused on her during the affair. Which is why you have no woman now


I will tell you: Women always have options. Which is why she got a new bf so fast. They have hundreds of options on their WhatsApp, Facebook. Guys crying hi, hi . Hello baby. She has probably hooked one new fool.

Cmon, you are not truly familiar with the redpill. You reek of blue pill and beta mentality.

maybachmusic:
Nonsense youth


No wonder you keep yourself busy over nonsense krest drinking scandals

After rape. Next will be bbnaija



While the politicians eat your future and keep you divided over tribal and religious lines

Nigeria has no future

Shlthole

ayayamedia:
This Keita think he is modric. They'll break ur leg and ur eyes will sharpen!

Realist5:
You are a liar. As at January 15, this year, one of your topics stated that you wanted a relationship that will lead to marriage. How comes again you're here saying you got married and have a baby already and someone is disturbing your wife? You have already lost your worth with this kind of lies.

windofjustice:
I don't really like kids because I see them as a burden and disturbance. Maybe I can take care of someone's kid for only a short while but not when it's a long term commitment like having kids in the family and caring for them full-time. For this reason I don't intend to have my own kids. I would gladly marry a lady who can't have children or who doesn't want children.

Regiomontanus:
Lol. The ego.

ecstasy357:
That manipulation is what MGTOW wishes to bring to the attention of all men.

Very true at bolded part

ecstasy357:
I'm sorry to say but you are soooooooo short sighted.

The driving force behind MGTOW is not money or the lack of it but female manipulation.

Women will always play the victim even if they are the ones that fired the gun.

lilwetdick:
when A nigerian man decide to stay on his own and not chase women, it is because they are not Buoyant, if they were buoyant, they will love to show off to the world that they have arrived, it is a common nigerian stuff

MGTOW, does not relate to any part of african culture, it is foreign and unafrican..simple as abc, most people just copy anything foreign to look cool, they might just be hiding their low pay, their inabilty to get women and not being able to bang because of the present economy situation that has made women desperate for cash...

the reality is that many dont have the resources that is why they are celibate, if they did have cash, they wont be complaining..as you wrote not every one is financial buoyant to marry and i agree with that, if you dont have money dont marry because money makes marriage sweet.

being communal does not mean poor, china is also a communal society and rich

lilwetdick:
i am not generalising, i am saying the facts, african culture is different from western culture, we are communal in nature, the expectations from our parent is to marry and let them see their grand kids...in nigeria, people are getting poor daily, men cant marry becaue of lack of fund, the women have understood that for them to survive they have to sell something but the men dont understand that, that is why they whine, if they understand, the sex has been transactional from ages and upgrade then life will be easy, our fore fathers never fell in love but their women respected them because they were able to lead and provide for them, reality of life is that in african culture, there is nothing like love, marriage is all about service and leadership

lilwetdick:
if there is no need for game, but why are PUA teachers all westerners teaching people games, the most popular PUAs are all whites

from life experience, people(men and women) will be loyal to you as long as they benefit something from you, once the benefit finishes, they leave to the next, if you understand that, you will be able to control people rather than get angry.

lilwetdick:
All these Nigerian boys that call themselves MGTOW, it is because they dont have cash and lack game, let them have cash and see how they behave infront of women, at the end of the day, it is still the women they were avoiding that will still end up finishing their money, then they will run back to MGTOW when broke and start complaining