₦airaland Forum

lilwetdick:
MGTOW is not becoming popular in Nigeria, nairaland isnt Nigeria, evn if there are MGTOW, they will be the losers, millions of nigerian men will still marry nigerian girls, so let be realistic

The only reason a Nigerian in the west will follow MGTOW is because of lack of game and small dating pool, many guys dont go out, they stay in their apartment all days and night without exploring, so it easy for them to take their anger of lack of sex and unite with other people who are also troubled minded people like them

Anything you say is true in your world. It’s your world.

There is no need of game over here. There is happiness, freedom and wealth.

And then you said lack of sex. Hmmmm. Mate you know how Nigerians girls are with money na. Even the most moral of them would get down if the price is right.

“Nasri I don’t know why you keep refusing to talk to me. You know I would do anything for you if you give me the chance.”

I don’t know if I am happy or sad that MGTOW is becoming popular in Nigeria.

Real MGTOW’s don’t even acknowledge the name. They just practice it. It’s more of a mindset. Peaceful mindset.

Been there and done that and the benefits are just endless.

LarryBee1k:
Women are children are loved unconditionally. But men are only loved only by their ability to provide something


I learn the above quote in hard way. I'm not even that old and already feeling like the whole world depend on me

A woman can never love a man. Only what he provides for her and how he makes her feel.

It’s always ME ME ME ME ME with women.

It’s ridiculous for anyone to hate women tbh. Just understand it’s in their hypergamy nature. Then decide if you want to deal or not.

Life is simple.

highcollide:
You don't even know me but you claim that I am broke and poor. Anybody who doesn't agree with your opinion is broke and poor.

That is all you have done in this thread. Make empty, baseless claims. You are not intelligent. You are an empty headed kid. For you to say that mgtow claims that women, rather than the system, are oppressing men, shows that you are proudly ignorant. You are not even intelligent to understand that self-preservation is the first law of nature. You're so daft you confuse "refusing to participate in the game" with "I hate my opponent". That was why I told the other guy not to waste his time engaging you.

God forbid that I will not come down to your level.

Wallow in your ignorance alone. Shalom.

You are absolutely right.

Don’t bring a child to this difficult Nigeria to suffer

“Some Women” don’t always love guys that love them.

They are always chasing for the ones that don’t really give a shit about them.

It’s in their nature.

Then, don’t commit suicide. You will still die.

Miscellaneous:
Go back and read my post. Anyway, I'll break it down for you since you clearly have comprehension issues.

School is referred to University mate. If the op reads my post, he will know I meant a uni since he already said he dropped out from the uni earlier

On the kids and family part of my post, I was referring to the fact that soon he will get married and those things can be debilitating factors to attending a uni

About your last sentences, we actually are saying the same thing that he should go to school now since he can afford it

Honestly, your post is useless and should be deleted so others can contribute positively.

Lmao.

School definition according to Wikipedia

“an institution for educating people.”

Also, I promise to donate N50,000 to Op’s University education if you can show me where he stated he is planning to get married in 4 years time. Are you deciding his future for him cause I don’t get it ??

Then, I find it hilarious you are actually on nairaland. Remember you said “Personally, I find it hard to relate with anyone who didn't attend ‘higher’ institution”.

Not sure you should be having anything to do with Seun’s business then.

Miscellaneous:
Well, Nigeria currently have no shortage of your kind. Young promising adults who are money-hungry and are caught in between roads - money or school. Considering the state of the country, several people will tell you to focus on your hustle and leave school alone at least for now and that is a wrong idea and I'll tell you why.

At age 25, most of your mates would have completed their nysc programme, probably started hustle like you're doing and earn equal or more than you. Even if they're unlucky, having a Bsc simply means they're not in your league if I'll be honest. If for anything, any serious minded acquaintance will find it easier to assist an educated mind. Simply put, the uneducated mind will have to be an entrepreneur, yahoo boy or a politician in order to make any significant sum in our present Nigeria. Needless to say, the job such person has to do is still well open to an educated mind. It stands to reason that the uneducated is already disadvantaged. It's not uncommon to see many people tell you to forget school after all, the wealthiest of men in our society are dropouts or didn't go to school. Though their words are seemingly innocuous, it's actually a free ticket to suffering. While they already have their certificate, they give you ill advice. The certificate is useless but theirs is safe in a locker and to further strengthen their point, they refer you to bill gates and other billionaires living in Nigeria, sorry USA. If for anything, you can actually hustle while in school and even secure a first class. It's doable and I'll be sincere with you, you can.Those who claim they haven't benefitted from schooling are the biggest losers. If you have ever had an interaction with an uneducated mind, you will understand the importance of schooling. Personally, I find it hard to relate with anyone who didn't attend higher institution. If you don't go to school, don't stress your kids about school... it's plain stupidity.

I'm actually one of those who believe school is the ultimate in life so my ideas might be a bit skewed but they're what you need. I have seen people first hand begging to get certificate even when they're loaded with cash. I'll be honest with you I do lecture some in Engineering and believe me, they wish they had done it earlier. Its not easy with kids, family, business and all. The time of securing a Bsc is almost wearing off for you ... take heed.

Mate no disrespect you kept going in a circle. He went to school. He just didn’t complete “University”. School did not start from University.

For God sake he’s 25. Where on earth did he say he has kids and a family.


OP don’t be misguided. It’s never to late to get a degree.

Don’t put all your eggs in one basket. If you can sponsor yourself in school go and get that degree even if it’s part-time.

But make sure you keep that business you are presently doing.

Patluter:
there is this lady i have been seeing for sometime now, we've been dating for close to 8 months. Just of recent i recent, i noticed her demands for money is increasing. i am this kind of person who sees spending on a lady too oftens as waste of money and resouerces since we are not married.
however, despite her increase in demand for money and my beliefs, i still kept on honouring her request.

Long story short, i notice whenever she makes this request, i wont feel okkay until i give her, its is like my mind is compelling me to, i dont rest until i send her the money. Sometimes i wake up very early in the morning, thinking of how to send her the money.

Right now im questioning myself if im under a spell, and if i am how do i break free from it.
before im saying this, trust me, i have noticed abnoromalities in my spending routine towards her.
i give my mother money at least two to three times in a month, now i barely think of giving her anything, all i think of is satisfying her at any cost.
Please help and advice me

For you to acknowledge means you are not under a spell. So my advice is Keep sending her money whenever she asks. Don’t give your mother, just her only.

At some point you will naturally stop. I don’t know when, maybe someday.

Her prayers are working. You are, for now, a certified maga.

AverageAnnie:
This girl saw something beyond wealth in this man... Don't judge quickly,this might got to be the best decision in her life

Beyond his wealth??

Nobody is judging anything sweetheart

Diary of a simp Father and upcoming son.

To add that Number 5 is absolute nonsense too.

Logobenz:
bro it's not too late!
First it seems like you've got a good job.
I think you should focus on getting fixed assets more.
You'll start again,dust yourself and continue with life now.
Stop making investments into things you don't know about!I never do it.
If it's something I don't understand,Bleep it.I'm not doing it.
Life no be race!!!forget your mates.looking at people from the outside can be deceiving.
Grow at your pace and stop carrying women.it cost a lot to fund that passion.(from experience)
Goodluck mate

Well said... I wonder why people compare theirselves with other people in this short and fragile life. Smh.

morningstar55:
At 37,no certificate,no wife,no baby mama,no career,no property and no cash.
Just doing menial hustle and surving in one of these Abuja suburbs.
Neigbours keep telling me i'm not content.
For phork sake,how can a man be squeezing himself and madam with kids in a single room and still be happy?...if that is the definition of not being content,i'll rather remain single.
Thought of importing laptops(even if it's fairly used)on my own since it's part of the hustle,but no capital to start.
And if you do not have a space or an office address,no one will take you seriously.
Anyway sha...one thing is certain,we either make the money,or die in the battle field.
Being born in poverty doesn't mean i should die porverty.

God will bless you for not bringing a child into this world to suffer. You are the kind of people Nigeria needs for a change.

I hope oneday all your endeavors will pay bountifully.

Do some tests, yes including HIV.

Some people are just primed for stress in their lives. Walah go dey one corner, you go try as much as possible to inherit am.

Whether everything ends good or bad, it’s you that will dance to the music. Not nairalanders. Just you!

lukui:
I am presently reading a book its called the manipulated man by Esther villar if you can understand what i have read so far from this book, you will start to know how much I now hate women

you are thinking who wrote the book abi?

she is a woman!!!!!

The final chapter “What is Love” is where the truth is. It was cold and straight forward.

You really shouldn’t hate women bro. It’s how they operate. Nothing more or less.

Deepfeel:
I think we African men should just accept gender equality to end this long conflict between men and women let's share the responsibilities 50/50

I dont even have any issues with it. If its 50/50 no qualms. I make my own money, a lot of money at that. I WANT A WOMAN WHO MAKES A LOT OF MONEY TOO. Abi

Deepfeel:
In that case men earning little should go for ladies that earn higher so she can balance his weak salary right?

RETWEET.

lilmax:
men make money, then marry women who are higher or below them financially

women make money, then marry men who are twice higher than them financially ,will never consider those who make what they make or below


hustle guys

I agree. Hustle for myself and please myself. Hustle cause I want to be the best version of myself.

Deepfeel:
In that case men earning little should go for ladies that earn higher so she can balance his weak salary right?

Haha this reply is a deepfeel indeed

Bonapart:
even if them win 100-0 is not our concern. Our business is to at least draw this game and we will be fine

One of the 3rd best teams right?

CsRockefeller:
For the first time yesterday, we spoke about sex and found out that she isn't a virgin.

It broke my heart, she got dis-virgin at 19, we are supposed to meet on Saturday and officially kick off our relationship but I don't think I want to continue anymore.

She looked to good and is a dedicated member of Winners not to be a virgin.

I have not had sex though done d other stuff but I look forward to getting married to one.

You have already made up your mind. Never seen a man so confused.

dingbang:
No go dey do pass yourself.


You only live once and I can see that you are stupidly punishing yourself. Go out there, have fun, meet people, fall in love, do mad things, enjoy life.

Op dont follow this misleading advice. It’s all good till you do mad things and get aids.

You are not punishing yourself. It’s only a problem when you think it’s a problem.

You are even lucky that you can enjoy your own company, some people can’t then get into trouble looking for company that culminates to heartbreaks and sniper fanfare.

Do what you love doing. Yolo.

greymiles:
Op add graphic photos

Classic post

I just weak

Lala right now

AwkaetitiBabe:
@Op Breathe in and out. Sincerely it's not easy being a man. It's a good thing you get attention but you need to channel that attention to favor you. I'm not religious but I believe in prayers.

Pray for a divine connection or help. You just need to discover your purpose and I'm sure things will get better.

Kindly Drop the thoughts of death

I am confused. The op is a man?

NdiaraIGBO:
You kill them all with your stupid multiple births (having more than 1 or 2 children in this day and age).
And you are good at ambushing the weak souls with s..x

God will not forgive anybody that bring in children they can’t take care of.

This madness has been going on for too long in This country and people wonder why we are in this mess.

franchasng:
Romantic love is not enough reason to marry anybody in 2019 and beyond, time have changed, things have changed, money is the petrol that fuel every aspect of human life now.

Guys, if u are financially okay to a good extent, I will advice u, don't go into marriage. Anybody pushing to get married should donate at least 5million free gift support to you.

Ladies, marrying without a job of your own or a viable business or handwork is an abomination today!

Stop giving birth to children without financial plans for their well being.

It is not a crime to stay single for life!

You are a smart man.

heskeyw:
I am on 5 whatsapp betting groups. All of them shared the same correct score 2-4. I thought it was a coincidence only to check bet9ja and saw 8odd for the correct score. It later came down to 2odd few minutes before the match

I wish I took it

Still concerned about that 2 - 4 result today.

Regiomontanus:
1) People are not morally upright. Even those that are morally upright are only morally upright when it is convenient and nothing is at stake. Some are only morally upright on social media or the cameras are on and the public is watching but they are shitty people offline and behind closed doors. People are selfish, mean, full of vanity and greedy when shit hits the fan. When shit hits the fan, you discover we are all cruel opportunist.

2) Stupidity is a thing.

3) Nigerians are like the leaders they hate and accuse of causing their problems.

4) Nigeria is never going to change and there will never be a revolution because people are too cowardly to fight for their freedom and transparency and accountability from their government. They want these things easily and on a platter of gold and/or have left it in the hands of god. Truth is, these things can't come without effort and blood but we love our lives so much and lack the unity to achieve these things.

5) Despite the fact that resources are scarce compared to population, people still keep breeding like rats. Even when they know they can't take care of a child, they still give birth to many children. The act of giving birth to children that you cannot take care of and the act of giving birth to children when resources are scarce compared to population are the main causes of poverty, suffering and crime and this fact is so overlooked because of the sentiment/compassion that arises when we look at the beautiful face of a baby and the vanity of thinking that it's a must and it's a grear achievement when we give birth to our biological children.

Many are too stupid and/or sentimental to reason this.

6) Not everyone cares about facts and evidence. Their feelings are all that matters. Stupidity, right?

7) Man can solve 99.99% of his problems if he can address his intellectual and moral faults but many can't.

Everything you said will be underrated and dismissed. I want you to know personally that everything you listed has always been on my mind. I am happy I have found someone that thinks like me. God bless you.

Out of your points, the one of giving birth to kids you can’t take care of is a sin. Nothing will change cause many are deluded.