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AlphaMale666:
It's African mentality now. All Africans, especially Nigerians have 0% self esteem. That's why they think anything that has to do with the opposite sex must involve money. Almost all Nigerian males have zero confidence! That's why they always use money to try and get a girl they want. If a girl wants you, you don't need to spend one dime to have sex with her! One fvucking dime you dont have to spend! It's even her that'll be spending her money on you! African mentality is just too fvucked up

And are the same Nigerian girls helping matters with their “hookup culture” demeanor?

I am Assuming this moniker is a F?

Stop trying to be one sided and dismissing the hypergamous nature of most Nigerian women.

Elite boys all over this thread with mouth-watering replies

I love this

Funny thing is “some girls” will privately disagree with the OP cause they know these side hustles in Olosho gives them a lot of money and room to explore their sexual fantasies.

But the simp Op thinks he is winning female fans with his rant

**Walks out of this thread**

Jakumo:
I will never for the life of me fathom why people get hysterical over the outcome of football games.

There are only four possible outcomes to ANY football match.

1. Team A wins, while team B loses.

2. Team B wins, while team A loses.

3. The game is a draw, and neither team wins or loses.

4. The game is canceled or postponed due to coronavirus, World War 3, a gigantic asteroid impact, or lack of interest.


Given that one of the above four scenarios is CERTAIN to occur, it is simply baffling that otherwise rational people invest so much emotion into football games.

Personally, I wouldn't give a flying phuck if ALL football was canceled until hell freezes over because I have far more important considerations to dwell upon than how many times a football is kicked into a net by a bunch of running men in colorful uniforms. I'd rather watch paint dry, or watch grass grow than sit through the ordeal of watching a damn football match.

Bro it’s just banter and passion. Stick to politics.

seankafor:
Reading comments here can make one mentally psyched

The kind of negativity is second to none, Jesus Christ..
My sanity is more important please..
Is this how Nigerians are real life?

Can't you guys commend the prompt response to getting the train back to service..

Jees.. so fvcked up

You want Nigerians to Commend prompt response to a TERRORIST ATTACK that should be front page news for weeks in a developed country and there would be inquiries and proper investigation on how & what really happened, find names that may be responsible and shut down the rail service till an investigative committee comes up with suitable answers.

Oh wait the government wants me to call them Bandits over Terrorists.

If you don’t see negatives in this whole episode then you are not that intelligent.

CaveAdullam:
DAY 294, REDPILL 2021

1. Setting priorities right should be a most important factor in the lives of every man. Mixing what's relevant with what's irrelevant creates ugly contours difficult for him to maneuver.

A woman's top priority is a great man. A man's top priority should be his great work.

2. Equality here doesn't hold any ground because the female character is blessed by nature with beauty. All she needs do is to maintain it. Succinctly, a woman must be able to beautify her beauty and keep it fresh and reserve; her beauty is her tool! Men on the other hand must struggle through thick and thin in order to be able to rank high in the top hierarchy. He is blessed with ugliness and even the little beauty he has is washed away easily when he become exposed to the harshness of life.

3. To be realistic, women comprises the highest percentage of winners. Only few men win, but many women are attached to these few men, and whatever these men possesses, their spouses have easy accessibility to. Because of this, women don't feel bothered as there will always be a man to cater for them unlike men that hardly anyone will pay attention to.

4. What's good for the goose is not always good for gander and vice versa. Set your priority as a man and never use women as a yardstick to ascertain it because men and women are not the same.

Authority: put yourself first.

Men should read this every morning. Solves everything red pill. Easy life and happiness when you realize this.

Spot on.

pansophist:
Usually people give advice base on their own worldview, which is largely shaped by their generational period and gender. Because she is your mother doesn't mean she knows the best for you. Yes, she wants the best for you, but she does not know the best for you. Let that sink in.

Also, you should listen to advice from people who you admire their lifestyle. Not trying to be insulting, but if your mum that have spent at least 20 years on earth before birthing you could not figure it out financially and depends on you who was here when she was an adult, then listen to her, nod your head like a lizard, but do what's best for you.

Thirdly, telling you to get married is not a bad advice, but you don't have to listen to it. Marriage by nature, marriage is an institution that improves your current situation, not to make it worse. Unless the girl you'll marry will somehow make your life better, e.g, is equally educated, financially stable, or God help you, have a foreign passport and loves you, then by all means, get married to her.

But if you'll marry now a lady that doesn't equally compliments you financially, and you start doing the financial lifting of her and God forbid, her family, and after performing all the expensive marriage rites, you'll either bring her to UAE, or be sending cash while she stays in Nigeria (and God help you if she is not loyal), then don't get married. I'm not against lifting people, but have strong leg first, not when you're trying to survive.

I'm not saying you shouldn't marry a woman who you'll lift financially, but at your situation, it's suicidal. It's like giving someone the only seed you have, instead of planting it first, let it germinate, and you can give as much fruit as you want. Only get marry if you are strong, that your wife's money won't bother you. Not now. Please.

About land. I can't help but say, are you mad? Don't try that nonsense. After buying, then you'll begin constructing, and may God help you if your family are not trustworthy. But even if they are, how does it improves your situation? Why not work on being strong? That should be your only priority. Be strong financially first. And when you're wealthy enough, you'll even buy a house in London, no problem. And if you have actually traveled around, buying a land and building a house in Nigeria will turn you off.

If I were you, I'll just get an admission and move to Europe. There are lots of schools in places like Poland where the tuition fee is less than one million naira. Move to Europe, and money won't be a problem. Even if you have only primary school cert, if you're not lazy, you'll make so much money in Europe. Some of the dumbest douchbag that I know makes at least 1500 euros doing menial jobs in places like Germany or Netherlands, and Poland is just an hour drive from Berlin.

Forgive your mum, for she doesn't know what she is doing. This historical quote that Jesus said on the cross of calvary is how you should approach your mum. She doesn't know better. And if you make the mistake and refuse to develop your finances and make other people happy instead, you'll regret it. Not a threat, but a fact. And it's more painful because you're the cause of your own agony. You wont have the luxury to blame anyone. And they would see you as stupid, and what you will hear is, "you've been abroad since, what did you achieve"? Doesn't matter if you suspend your goal to help them. That's hell. You've been advised.

Gerrard59, Tensazangetsu20, Raalsalghul. Thanks very much. Your advice make sense. I hope the op listen to it.

This guy. Intelligent.

Bigredmachine:
arsenal can still lose or draw this match o... nothing is impossible

Yes Arsenal can also go on to secure to win. Nothing is impossible

Whatever you do don’t borrow from loan apps in Nigeria.

I have warned you. Better your bank than loan apps.

Cheers.

In my own opinion I don’t think you should quit.

In fact marry her and do whatever you want.

A new iPhone is also out. Upgrade her phone and then obviously increase her weekly footballer wages to 50k.

bigtt76:
SOme people don't know when to use sarcasm or understand when one is used.

The security personnel who put together the pamphlet apparently tried to warn corp members against traveling without permission especially when going through those routes mentioned by using the sarcasm of informing relatives and prepping them to paying ransom ...this is wrongly used.

The people who flagged the clause forgot to think that was sarcasm used before rushing to social media to chase clout ...wrong!

Sarcasm for a very big and sensitive issue like safety and security?

You are a big illiterate. You don’t have sense no disrespect. Your IQ is also very low.

Baselm:
I hope this is a handwork of mischief makers, if it is true, it is pathetic. I would want to believe it is not truly written in NYSC handbook

You are very stupid. Can’t you read!

The country you are serving won’t even give a f u I

Now Your Suffering Continues = NYSC

BLOODYSPERM:
Redpill Nugget 244

Simps got the money bag.

Simps spend the money on alcohol, smokes and women.

Women love simps because simps don't value their blood and sweat.

Simps lack integrity and are ready to jeopardize their lives for p^ssy.

Who will literally scale the fence for a used p^ssy? Simps.

Who will betray his brother for an abused p^ssy? Simps.

Who will go to the land of the dead in order to prove a point for the sake of a misused p^ssy? Simps.

Simps just keep giving quality attention for an over used p^ssy. Damn it!

Real men don't see p^ssy as scores because it doesn't count.

H0es help simps count their money.

Why look stupid for the sake of p^ssy?

Why abandon your dreams for the sake of p^ssy?

You once told me you want to become a great leader, but how come p^ssy has now become the order of your day?

P^ssy come and go, why then rubbish your mental, emotional and financial life over it?

Does it mean you lack reputation amongst men?

Oh, yeah, I know you want to f^ck, but how many f^cks do you think it will take for you to get to your destination?

Does the p^ssy worth the miles?

You get confused and angry and sadistic all day long just because of the p^ssy that broke your heart. No bro!

Stand up! Stand up!

Bro, life worth more than f^cks and drugs.

Do business bro. Do books bro. Do codes bro. Do creation bro.

P^ssy come and go unlike the strong reputation you've built over the years.

If you value your dreams and achievements over p^ssy, p^ssy will find you. Take note: P^ssy don't find empty men.

Simps are not empty men, they just hang p^ssy on a pedestal they ought to have hanged their medals of honour. P^ssy is now their honour and glory.

Don't be like the simps bro. Don't allow women and people to manipulate you.

Don't go extra mile In order to prove a point to any man. They don't worth it.

Only prove a point to yourself that amidst all odds you can make it.

Let God bless you and let the gods direct you.

Authority: You first.

Love this

zikter:
Once again base on his presentation, he is thinking if he starts the job, he will no longer be interested in nysc which is quite dangerous. I don't know the place he got the 80k job, but it is certainly not an organized place that will offer him an opportunity to grow. Any reasonable place here even apart from multinationals will demand for your nysc certificate as part of the your documentation process. Without it, it is harder to advance your career. Well, I still insist the 80k he is thinking of is not really worth to distract him from completing his nysc. Also completing his nysc will not stop him from relocating to anywhere he wishes. If he work the two together, good for him, though I still think he doesn't have that luxury.

Another poorly backed review without a valid proof, oh well the typical Nigerian style of reasoning

“I don't know the place he got the 80k job, but it is certainly not an organized place that will offer him an opportunity to grow.”

Yah the employers didn’t include NYSC in their conditions for employment already makes them “not organized” and won’t offer him an opportunity to grow.

Because of NYSC?

Don’t quote me again bro.

zikter:
it is not multinational jargon. People are getting opportunities in those companies even as of now. I repeat if he wishes to be a career person in Nigeria, he should get his nysc certificate. The 80k which is not really much should not blind him, he should look at the bigger picture

Agreed. People.

Very interested to know the percentage of these people? Maybe the Nigerian bad unemployment rate is actually a scam and exaggerated as these multinational lots are swallowing them in from what you have said.

Mate, not everyone will work with multinational companies.

We barely know anything about the OP but for him to bring this topic to a public forum shows he’s probably in serious need and desperate. Asking him to defer a salary job that is more than the minimum wage in sh*t hole Nigeria is a crazy thing to do.

The OP should keep the job and try to work out how to do the NYSC while he’s still employed over there.

Then after that probably get a better job or visa and leave if he wants.

zikter:
OP, the popular advice here is the job, but be very careful, this is a delicate situation. consider your age, if you are close to surpassing the age limit for nysc, then go for nysc. NYSC certificate is a requirement for many job opportunities if you wish to be a career person. Even if you are in your early twenties, many of the good openings in multinationals require nysc completion to start as a graduate trainee. For me 80k job is not really worth it to forego nysc. The money is too small compare to the benefits the nysc may certificate offer in future.

Very easy to type these multinational jargons on the internet in comparison to the reality facing this f ucked up country.

OP keep the job and try to work the NYSC.

Better still fight to get a VISA like I did. Nigeria is not worth it.

AmericanDad:
Ur a big fool. So u rather not do NYSC and believe uv gotten a mere 80k job...so stupid of u. U wont know the importance of NYSC until something bogus and mouth watery comes. I repeat no good firm would take a graduate u has not done NYSC

Importance of NYSC… haha your commander-in-chief doesn’t even have one… Does he?

With all the hype Is NYSC required to hold a political position in the country?

Importance of a scheme that throws graduate back into the saturated job market after one year??


And between, Where on earth did I suggest the Op not to do his service you r*tard who can’t even read simple writing.

Now go to Jobberman and co and continue to look for those jobs you are talking about cause that is the only thing your trained employee brain can do.

AmericanDad:
Stupid people advising OP to go for the 80k job. Dont u know NYSC is a requirement that must be fulfilled in other to get a better paying job? No company except mushroom firms would let u work without having done ur NYSC.

You are the stupid one who isn’t aware of the difficult challenges in getting a stable job in Nigeria least the imaginary “better paying job” you are referring to.

If only I took the advice of keeping that job than wasting one year doing Bleep all.

Op you better keep that job and try to work the NYSC.

ShedrachU:
And the job didn't require you present your NYSC certificate?

Why do you people always overate this NYSC THING

WHICH YEYE CERTIFICATE

horlahwaley:
I dont know why men do not apply logic and usually seeks for love in a very complicated places. You didnt know fine, now that you know. Why dont you just leave quietly since it will be disturbing your peace of mind na. Omoh no girl is worth giving you unnecessary headache and disturbing peace of mind jare.

You really saved the OP from a roasting. I was already typing….

Well written.

Raydos:
Buhari wasn't born president, it all started from somewhere, A typical Nigeria carries this lavish lifestyle mentality and that's just what reflects in his government!!

That's not too hard to understand!!


And by the way, thanks for calling me dumb!

Reflects in his government?? Lol wow.

Chai people like this fool above will come and contest for election in some years.

Nigeria is truly finished

Hassanmaye:
Lol in your statement is like you are trying to show how the oyinbos are Saint or Angels, they are barbaric, they have done worst abeg, why do you hate Africa and Nigeria most especially?

Can you imagine this ridiculous question this young man is asking me?

Do you live in Africa, Nigeria precisely?

Kindly respond. Cheers

Hassanmaye:
Europeans and white men passed this barbaric stage before their So called civilisations after exploiting Africa, world war ii, world war 1, crusade, slave trade, and many more, they are barbaric they have killed more than 1billion people.

Was this the question I asked you? The items you wrote above qualifies why the black race is > the white race?

What are you on about?!?!

DSC7:
Lolsss,,,

It will expire 2029.....

Nothing dey overs if ur made here.......


Everytin dey Naija......

Everything is where? Poverty capital of the world?? Country where nothing works?

What gives you peace and happiness in this sh*t hole? I really want to know bro.

Hassanmaye:
So you believe me and you are of lesser intellect compared to the White Man despite our exploitation?

GIVE ME ONE EXAMPLE TO COUNTER WHY THE WHITES ARE NOT THE LEADING PACK.

Just one.

I am waiting. Thanks.

Hassanmaye:
So you believe me and you are of lesser intellect compared to the White Man despite our exploitation?

YES!!!

What sort of blind question is this?

WHAT OTHER PROOF DO YOU WANT?

DSC7:
Change that mentality of always wanting to japa......

You see this country, it must be great again....

As of last year i was supposed to be overs but i cancelled the flight based on reasons best known to me.....

No where is safe... Bro the matter deep but as e be i no fit run leave my country for Fulanis to takeover.... GOD forbid....

Is the ticket still valid? Can I use it to run away? Let me know

Snake was trying to bite someone and they killed it. Blog post

swizzy2k:
Your stay in school is 6 years sha depending on the years of study , uam,, they will graduate 2015/2016 set this month. Hope it is not uniagric.

No blog

AkeNathan:
Visit your school, go to your faculty, head to your department on a Monday morning and discuss with your Head of Department ( HoD ).

Thanks.