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stupidity:
ol. Fine girl, I swear I’m tired already.


Na politics section worse pass.

Then “ashawo beer parlor” thread in sexuality section.

Countless times I have given my life to Christ and desist from visiting that demonic section, mentions from the thread still make me visit there to do eye service.

Devil is a liar.


See as you fine btw

Only you gather three people finessssss.

After doing much math-ass-tical calculations, From the way you are sitting I can tell there’s a very bright future “behind” you. Devil is liar again.

Immediately I opened your profile to check your photo, my phone froze for some minutes, even the phone sef gan deh admire you. I had to reboot it.

God be praised.

I have saved ya profile pic to my phone lol

Kakamorufu:
well. I just had to update y'all what later happened in the end.

this it's been 3 years now.

So, a month after this post was made, we stopped talking to each other.
Turns out she got a dude at the state where she was serving.

well, my mum and my aunt wanted me to still try my best.
But the signs were there already. She might not make a good wife because a small distance between us, she might be acting funny again.

well she got married to that guy last year

I am expecting a baby from my girlfriend.

God bless

Dodged a bullet. I just come here to read stories about women. You will have problems in this life if you don’t understand women.

Thanks for the update. Please be wiser.

MGTOW

Life itself is a risk

tactius:
Been a long time since you last exercised....then start with a 30 minute walk and build it up from there.

Reduce the football for now. You are not fit. And it is going to take time to get back to being fit.

Check that BP too by the way.

Retweet.

greatnaija01:
wow.... but honestly speaking.... THIS IS A SAD STORY..... 8 timesss?? This is terrible... YES ITS A GREAT NEWS HE GRADUATED.... but his age is no longer employable.... so IS IT REALLY WORTH IT?

The terrible mentality in Nigeria 10 years ago that UNIVERSITY degree is needed before one can secure a bright future has been exposed as a lie.

I hope he uses what he has learned to start business or travel abroad.

He probably wanted to prove a point. Accomplishment.

Somebody actually said Lets hear the dog side of the story

jojothegreat:
Why can’t CBN just give the 201 million of us, One million naira each.. make we take arrange life?

Because of inflation bro. That would render our curreny useless. Read more.

Baba calm down.

If she is on med which she surely would be on, her viral load would be low which would make infection less likely.

Between, she doesnt have AIDS.

Warship:
If First Class and Second Class Upper are signs of true intellectual proficiency, Nigeria would have being a Technologically Advanced Country Today.

Lol the guy post doesn’t even relate with the topic.

But you said what I wanted to say so case closed.

Pre cum May contain little sperm. Congrats bro.

Martinez39:
I explained to funmisticqueen what MGTOW movement is and how it originated but she still prefer to live in denial for selfish reasons. Notice how every female on this thread are strawmanning and shaming MGTOW guys and praising men that marry and provide for their women. You won't get their motive for doing this until you contemplate who stands to benefit more if every man tried to fit into their narrative of who a real man is. That's why I tell guys to be the ones who define what makes them real men not women or else they end up becoming women's fools. These women know that men don't owe them anything and that they should try to be independent but because life is hard, challenging, filled with ups and downs, they start favouring the narrative that men are supposed to provide despite calling themselves feminists. The cognitive dissonance is too much.

I am sure wetdick is rejoicing and filling fulfilled given that females on this thread are supporting him. This is what gives him his sense of being. Shameless beta.

Cc. Ubunja, kollinzgee, JOHNNYSPUTE

You are intelligent.

wetdick:
you got western friends, here i live in nigeria and all these MGTOW in Nigeria is bullshit.

Your opinion. Well respected.

For me, If i see anyone practising MGTOW in Nigeria, i would respect a different man defying society norms by doing his own thing, his own way.

Case settled.

wetdick:
i guess you are talking about the western men, Not in Nigeria and Africa that i know, which African man will have money and not flaunt it with women. western MGTOW are men who hate rejections, do not have games or basically those heart broken by women.

Pls there is nothing like MGTOW in Nigeria, just men who dont have money, virgins or cant toast a woman, simple as abc.

Lol mate, your generalization.

I got “Western” friends and they decided to adopt MGTOW cause they are sick shitless of spending hard earned cash on entitled women. It’s straight forward and I won’t go deeper on this.

Plus You really make it seem like sex is a huge commodity that needs a lot of money to be gotten. I find that low.

While I don’t have a problem with having a wife and starting a family, going MGTOW is a lucrative thing that should be adopted in Men in their building phase in life.

Seriously it would save you so much time and money that you could use to build your life.

A better life means a better life for your wife and children if you choose to.

wetdick:
I heard they said they also have MGTOW in Nigeria. Wait until mummy and daddy hear you are going your own way. Dey will be looking like you like so this slowpoke doesnt want us to have grandkids.

Make una continueing deceiving yourself with fanancy western ideas for weak men. Wait till all these fools have money and see how they wont allow nkechi down the street to hear word.

I am not MGTOW yet but many lads that I know that are going their own way are doing really fine with their lives and have “money”, the major factor of the movement in the first place. Keep money. Invest money in reasonable things. Freedom.

Not every man becomes a sex puppet when they have cash. You really need to wake up to see how life is changing rapidly. People are more disciplined than you think. People are investing their finances in profitable businesses over lavishing it on stupid things.

Weak Men? These MGTOW guys are doing it their own way. Not tied down by the over demanding and paratistic nature of “some women”. These people are building their lives and following their dreams. They have the time and freedom to do just that. How are they weak? Lmao.

Your over generalization is really absurd.

skukimania:
I have heard you my brother. Just send me the I/V when the time comes. I promise not to make jest of you then because i'll understand.

Lol i didn’t say I won’t marry yet na. I am glad to be in a position to choose. I will surely invite you if it happens. Anything can happen but I doubt marriage.

skukimania:
Don't worry. By the time you meet the woman that will arrest your heart, you will change this ringing tone of yours.
OK, bye.

Sis, modern times has exposed all feminine antics.

If a woman is acting all caring and loving these days to me, I already agree it’s probably cause she likes me and why wouldn’t she like me? When she has a lot to benefit from a single hardworking lad.

If a man with this kind of knowledge decides he is not going to get married, how else can you convince him otherwise?

I have impacted to a few with being single. I know if I was with “some women”, her overly selfish nature would have hampered that.


Maybe unwanted pregnancies and emotional fanfare would be the final arrest?

Debramaye:
reasonable comments like this lights a spark of hope in my heart for my country Nigeria

That comment is actually gold. You should watch the “Rat Race” videos on YouTube.

We have been brainwashed with many redundant things in this life, especially in Nigeria.

Nicoddemus:
Most people are saying they don't wanna get married. That's just a total self denial of primitive human existence. God himself in his higher wisdom made woman to be a helpmate to the man and for companionship with the understanding of the critical needs and basic desire of the man he created. Yet some on nairaland derives pleasure trying to subvert natural Principe. Anywhere na forming sha. If you have met the wrong person or encountered difficulties in your don't let is twist your understanding of marriage and why you get married. As for me i believe in love....( calm down am not naive). I want to love and be loved. Companionship. And to groom healthy children.

Right, right, you said it clearly: “As for me” Good luck with your marriage.

Now Can you leave others to decide how they want to live their lives?


I strongly advise if you are still struggling to water the seed, don’t follow the stupid society norms to get married. “Some” of these people are actually sad and want to bring you to their state.

Many men in the US are leaving the work force early cause they realize how easy, cheap and less stress life is when you are single (MGTOW). It gives you freedom to do anything. You can be anywhere when you want. Save up a lot of cash in the long run and do what makes you happy. You are the key to your happiness after all.

However, if you got the money and especially with a woman you can relate with, then you can get married.

solasoulmusic:
Well my point is what are you gonna do about it? And if their starving How have you helped ? How about you set up sex education clinics and preach condom use rather than open a message board and lament youtube is free

God will provide for everyone of them more than opening a thread to devalue them will but for his mercy it could have been you or me in that position now how would you feel. If you can’t take action don’t complain. You and I know lack of education is the reason.

You guys can call me whatever I will not be bullied into adopting the negative energy here

God will provide because everyone other source requires a sacrifice his is just love

Lol you are the only person dragging yourself into your illusion of negativity. The people above clearly stated reasons why you should really be financially ready before giving birth to avoid unnecessary troubles raising them. You are “Forcing God” into the topic. Surely God wouldn’t be pleased with some of the madness going on in Nigeria? Surely God is sick and tired of you guys forcing him to take care of a baby he wants you to be ready for before bringing them?


Sometimes I think Nigerians are just primed for stress. It’s already in our DNA. If you are not ready to take care of a child, please just don’t.

This thread is underrated. Sort of threads I want to see on Nairaland!

SolutionMee:


You're a scam.

I'm more interested in why Bill Gate dropped out of Harvard college. I can't do that. I can't sacrifice a formal education for a wishful dream like Microsoft. When his mates finally graduated, he attended their graduation ceremony and was highly humiliated. Silly Gate.

At the same time, we're more interested in the reason why you dropped out of motherhood to chase a failed political career. You're nothing but a man in a woman's body. You think like a man but act like a woman.

Confusion is your middle name.

Nice sarcasm.

Bill Gate could just buy the school and graduation if he wants lol

Emmzy201:
My birthday was yesterday 21st of January which was supposed to be a very happy day for me ended up in me being depressed right now
I met this girl at a mall seven months ago and it was love at first sight, she was the first girl I would ever love and give my whole heart to, she acted really nice and very caring and I also made sure she never lacked anything and we've never had any arguments till now. This girl told me she was a virgin and would like to remain one till marriage and I have always respected her decision, I have not even thought of going down there at all since we started dating and was even happy to have found a good wife material.
Fast-forward to yesterday which was my birthday, I received many mails from friends and family congratulating me and I saw this particular strange mail. I wanted to open it then but left it and replied other mails. I later checked the mail and what I saw almost made me die of heart attack.
The mail contained nude pictures, pictures of her having s*x with a guy that his face was blurred and screenshots of s*x chats of my supposed girlfriend. This was the girl that was supposed to help me out in organizing the party and she took an excuse from me to see someone, she was even the first person to wake me up with an SMS and a call. I didn't know how I found myself on the floor crying. How will I be able to handle depression that's eating me up quickly.
I need advice in other not to do something silly to myself or the girl, even sniper now looks attractive, am on the verge of running crazy now.
Ignore my typos and other mistakes please

Everything here is about you mate. Did you bother to find out if she was on the same plane with you? Love you the same way you love her? Ask about her previous relationships or if she isn’t over a Bleep buddy?

Acting nice isn’t a sign the person likes you back the way you do.

I will never understand these selfies in crisis

funmisticqueen:
i have never seen a wealthy, masculine man from a non dysfunctional family background join MGTOW. It is only poor/ middleclass fustrated men that have time for such.

I disagree on this. Again its a fact drawn from your own angle of life. I have seen and met many many rich and masculine men that have embraced MGTOW. Many many at that.

And MGTOW isn't a job. Its just a decision. Following it, i certainly have enough cash in reserves deciding to focus on my life than chasing women, cause lets face it most women are all about the cash.

I saw a post in another thread of a guy mocking you to be ugly. You are pretty to me.

I don't hate women between. Infact i have many female friends. I think life is all about balance.

BMaretraitors:
No white men are not running away from white women because of gold digging. They are running away because white women are tired of being seen as soft and want to compete with men. These men want traditional women. The only mgtw complaining of gold digging are black men

Are you for real? Maybe you should read the origins of MGTOW then we will have this conversation.

Mate even some white men are running away from women cause of these gold digging antics.

Go on YouTube & Reddit and read about MGTOW

Hilarious this topic was in 2007 but look at the sad irony in 2019.

Just live your life as you please. Not everyone is suppose to like you after all. If you are liked by everyone, you are not growing and not a competition.

Everyone loves the average bunny.

Doctorfitz:
Hahahaha. Exactly my brother. Women are trained to understand the meaning of "SELF " men on the other hand are trained to understand " US"...They always know when to draw the line, manipulate u and get what "SELF" wants. This explains my earlier comment. So by the time a man becomes aware of "SELF", u hear things like "nothing goes for nothing " and all which eventually annoys the other gender and status quo.

Wow I just learnt something today. Glad I learnt this early