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thebosstrevor1:
Porn isn't a school and neither is it education, porn is business and sexual entertainment.

Porn does not teach anyone how to have sex or how to touch your partner.

Ehat porn teaches you, is to view women as sex objects, who you should bang and dumb.

Most porn addicts are chronic masturbators, who have an extreme and dysfunctional view of sex.

The highlighted is the real problem of porn, it tells people that they can never be satisfied, ro keep searching and searching to satisfy their unfulfilled sexual desire, which at the end brings emptiness.

You're expressing how you see it personally, that's your opinion. Others see it differently.

If you're close to wedding planners, you'll notice that they encourage young couples to watch porn so as to enhance their sexual lives.

Even during marital counseling, most marriage coaches would encourage you to watch it cos lack of sexual satisfaction is destroying most marriages today.

When porn becomes bad is when you're watching it as a teenager, then it can lead to masturbation or even make you become a rapist. That's why they call it adult movies. It's for adults not kids or teenagers.

Saneesk:
As in she might start to give me attitude when i profess my love to her

That one would depend on your packaging.

fineboynl:
she is doing her birthday but I told her I have no money for now to take her out. I will just buy her a shawarma if she doesn't like it. but she said she would prefer cake.

I want to know if 2k can get her the cake instead. thanks.

If you use it for cake, you'll definitely spend more cos she'll definitely invite her friends to share the cake with her and you'll need to get drinks for them which I think would further compound your current state cos that 2k won't reach anywhere.

My advice? Use that 2k to buy meat pie and fruit juice and host her personally in your house. Tell her you want this her birthday to be special, you want to spend it with her and no one else. Enjoy yourselves on low-key. Tell her sweet words of how beautiful she is, talk about a future with her. And believe me, she'll feel happier than if you had gotten her a cake.

Note: this suggestion will work effectively if the girl in question loves you unconditionally. If she doesn't it would be a mere waste of efforts, money, time and energy.

You guys wouldn't kill me in this Nairaland...

So reciprocating a girls advances has become simping?

If that's your logic, you can as well become a Rev. Father, at least you won't get to talk to women.

thebosstrevor1:
What are your reasons

Porn is like education, calling porn watchers simps is like calling those going to school simps.

There are so many couples who learn a lot from watching porn. In porn you'll know how and where exactly to touch your partner to make her cum.

Many guys these are only interested in humping their spouses till they ejaculate. Only very few actually pay attention to their partner's satisfaction. That's why many girls (married ones inclusive) seek sexual satisfaction elsewhere.

In porn you'll definitely learn a thing or two on how to fully satisfy your partner and make her your permanent sexual slave.

SweetBuns:
honestly, the kind of things and post that pop up here everyday convinces me that the NBS needs to make a count of the mentally stable peeps in this country

Lol.

@op I disagree with you.

Mine was a lizard, travelled home for the Christmas celebration years back, went hunting with my cousins and boom I threw a fairly big stone at a lizard and I got it, the stomach bursted and all the intestines spilled out.

It died after wiggling in pain for a couple of minutes. That was my first kill.

Nigeria isn't so bad bro, Just call your wife and tell her the truth. You owe her that.

Then see if you can raise some money over there before coming back home. Even if it's 500k, it's fairly manageable, you can use it to register at indomine factory or Nigerian breweries as distributor. Use a part of your room as a makeshift warehouse and supply customers based on request. You can source out customers from your church, environment... etc.

With time you'll find your feet. Just avoid womanizing with the little profits you make, and work hard to be a responsible husband and father.

Her life, her choice.

Respectedguy:
Hey guys

often I hear that the one who spends most in a relationship is the more invested party

Thing is, I have no needs or wants and I have a "do it myself syndrome" so I barely let people do stuff for me

I however would like to get women to spend more on me just for the fun of and to test the principle

how do I go about this? Asking upfront would make me feel like a loafer

Make her fall in love with you naturally.

You can easily achieve this by

1. having interests in what she loves, could be music, dancing, movies... etc. Spend time together with her talking about her likes, make her see you as in interesting person, if she's a working class she'll definitely spend on you. Buy you gifts, hang out with you, loan you money...etc.

2. Good sex, if you're good in bed, she'll definitely wouldn't want to loose you. And you can easily use it to manipulate her into assisting you in solving your financial problem.

Playboys use this trick a lot to hook up with rich girls, they use the girl's parents money to set up themselves then flee.

3. If she's naturally a giver. Some girls are naturally generous, once you're friends with them, they can easily spend on you. If she falls into this category, then sooner or later you'll start seeing her financial efforts towards you.

Vidodino:
Any time I am trying to hook up to some girls it will just collapse I have try so many time it doesn't work for me, age is not my on side again please what should I do now

Stop being nervous and just be yourself, see the girls like your sister, relative, best friend...etc. Alsoso try to find out why your hookups aren't working out.

It could be that the problem might just be from you. Are you possessive, hot tempered, jealous, insecure...etc.

Go to Burkina Faso and profess your undying love for him na, he's not on Nairaland, and I don't think anyone here has his contact.

Havesomesense:
In other words, you are saying every girl is a prostitute, nothing like true love .
No problem, we go dey pay for sex but y'all should not expect faithfulness .

Read what I wrote slowly, you'll understand it much better

Funkyswagzz:
Naija and free stuff is like 5&6

My brother it's so annoying...and to think this guys will be the first to bash girls and call them gold diggers is even more terrible.

The op is clearly catching cruise...

For women, sex is like a gift. You don't give out a gift just for the sake of giving, the recipient must have done something that would make you feel he/she deserves it.

Same goes for women. They offer sex as compensation for something you've done or will do for them, could be money, love, favours, protection... etc.

You must successfully convince her that you're ready to either love her, provide financial assistance to her, help her with a job...etc. the sex she would offer you would be her gratitude for what you've done, (are doing and will do) for her.

No girl will offer you her body for nothing, not even a prostitute.

Eating his leftovers while growing up.

TheSourcerer:
happy new year buddy

Same to you. I wish you the best this year has to offer... stay safe.

Qrash:
it hard to see a stable Airtel subscribers here. am in deep problem.

Chat up your friends on your WhatsApp contact you can trust who use Airtel, tell them of your plight they might help out.

TheSourcerer:
to be honest nothing new about the year ,its just a continuation of 2020.

It can be if you want it to be.

Qrash:
so today I wanted to recharge 500 from my account to my greatest surprise I saw your recharge of 5,000 successful your account has been debited 5,000 balance 38.89. Lord am in trouble.
anything I can still do ? it's Airtel.

today is one of the worst day in my life.
that money was meant for food fa. me and mom don enter.

Eyah sorry...just contact your friends around you who want to renew their subscription, you can sell it to them and recover back your money.

Believe her at your own peril. She obviously has a much better option.

MJBOLT:

lala is 3 years

At least he's being paid... some have spent more than him. I guess the forum is addictive.

One word... joblessness!

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Noodles and fried Chicken prepared by me.

Happy New year.

Truvel:
Some Girls Are Devil In Human Skin. If U Av Any As A Gf Or As A Wife, I Would Advise Dat U Divorce Her.
A Girl Had A Fight With Anoda Girl. After D Fight, D Fair Girl Used A Razor Blade To Design D Other Girl's Face. If U Were To Judge, What Would Be Ur Judgement? Or If D Victim Happens To Be Ur Sister, What Would U Do?

My brother guys do worse to each other during fights.

They use bottle, knife, gun, cutlass...etc.

I feel it has to do with their mindset not gender. A demon will always be a demon regardless of whether it's a male or female.

Run a Google search on the company. If nothing sensible comes out, then know it's either gnld or probably ritualist.

Why don't you just get married?

HIV is real, STDs are real...