₦airaland Forum

Debzempire:
I don't think it's within that yhur price range o...but if it is...redmi is a great phone.. I'm using note 8...and I want to buy note 9

Jodha...what Happened again?

Go for itel phones. Heard they're quite cheap.

Here's mine...

Her life, her business...

I'll blame the girl here...how can you be with someone for three years and not define exactly what it is you guys want from each other?

The guy is just being a guy, enjoying free food so he obviously wouldn't speak up as long as her coochie is readily available upon request.

Ladies be wise...

Stop getting worried over nothing...have you measured it to know the exact size in inches before calling it small?

For starters I'll advice you to quit masturbation, you're only harming yourself.

Don't take any form of penis enlargement drug or cream, such things come with terrible side effects.

Just go on with your normal life and eat good balanced diet. You'll be fine.

I feel sorry for her. God will see her through.

Loyalty ...sex is so cheap these day that even a married woman can easily give you a quickie. To have a faithful girl now is like using a spoon to fetch water in a bucket. Most beautiful girls have an unlimited number of toasters, and with time, she might just give in to one and begin to cheat on you...this scares most men a lot.

Finance... this also plays a very big role. A friend of mine wedded on the 19th of this month. I was among his committee of friends, I wouldn't want to exaggerate but on the average he spent over 3m. White and traditional.

Most men can't afford such luxury due to the present state of the economy.

Westernization. take it or leave it, Western Civilization has negatively influenced marriages in Nigeria. Hypocritical feminists are on the increase. Many women feel it's the sole responsibility of the man to provide for them while they do little or nothing to support his efforts.

Most men opt for baby mamas cos it's obvious that such orientation about marriages from the angle of the lady wouldn't be beneficial to them.

Materialism. Many relationships crumble due to this. And the few that survive till marriage crumble after few years of marriage. Marriage I believe should be more of sacrifice not about one party. When it becomes all about you and your needs, the guy becomes scared to commit. I once met a girl who told me that her ex gives her 150k monthly for her upkeep, and she went on to tell me that if I want her to consider my proposal I should add or double it. I was like wtf.

The problem wasn't even about the money but what's in it for me. Many girls are so blinded by their needs that they care less about what the provider of those needs stands to gain from them aside sex.

Let me stop here for now...

Zzor:
lefulefu, Descortes, pcguru1 come and buy for me

If you had called me out, I would have easily gotten it for you but since you didn't, I'll allow my comarade in arms to grant you your wish.

As long as they're happy, it's none of my business.

You're welcome...have fun.

Also never take any bashing here personal, whatever happens on Nairaland should stay on Nairaland. Most people here are catching cruise, don't let their opinion spoil your day or mood.

simpledoty:
You nor get sense

So you that slept with over 500 girls you get sense ba...better do it so that your life can move forward. It's like better suffering never catch you sef.

Missmossy:
Mine

You're beautiful and natural... keep it up.

MaxInDHouse:
My guy there is nothing like justice now until God's kingdom come!

But there are laws guiding every nation. Nigeria isn't an exception. When those laws get broken don't you think punishment should follow suit?

I can help you...

Get a male White cóck, white powder, 1 cane, rope, broom, sand, charcoal, beads and earthen pot.

Instructions...

Mix the powder and charcoal and rub it on your face, pour the sand on your head put the cóck and cane in the earthen pot and place it on your head, tie the rope round your body then hold the broom on your left hand.

Note you must be stark nàked.

Now with all these in place dance vigorously and sing this song while you head straight for the biggest market around your location. It must be in the mid night, preferably between 12-2am.

Locate the cross road of the market...then at the junction of the cross road. Dance and sing this song.

" I de go na so I come"
" I don come and I wan go"
" As I come I wan go"
" Make I go make I no come"
" I don taya na why I come"
" Make I no taya make I go"

Drop the earthen put there and flog the fowl to death with your cane, then use the broom to sweep the blood and feathers. You can keep money there as well then go home.

You'll be fine.

MaxInDHouse:
Won ò mòó mò!
It's just past mistakes!

So we shouldn't frown at the government granting amensty to repentant Boko Haram and bandits right?

Poverty is really terrible...see how difficult it is for this guy to let go of ordinary N500. Buhari it will Neve be well with you.

Jodha1:
I've missed so many that i regret till date...

The most painful one was when I was writing my WAEC ...I met this guy really cool.. handsome and smart unlike some other guys....he was caring and everything...but he had a bad attitude of speaking his dialect (Igbo) even though he knew I didn't understand...
He'll walk me a long distance to my place...and trek back... during breaks when i didn't have the strength to go back home... he'll leave everything and stay with me till it's time...

He was really handsome..so girls do flock around him..but he'll Ignore them all and focus on me...but somehow it didn't work out...

Why didn't it work out...what Happened?

Legitdimple:
you are always welcome,meanwhile you can have this with me.

Don't you think 3 whole eggs is too much? I mean considering the amount of calories they carry...

lefulefu:
Sorry if i am putting this in the wrong section but then i couldnt see any section to put this topic.I tried sending money to someone"s account in nigeria but they are saying i cant transfer money to nigeria at the moment.So is anybody outside nigeria experiencing this??
I am using a transferapp called transferwise.It used to work in the past but i am surprised that today i made use of it its saying that i cant send money to nigeria at the moment.Biko if anybody who works in the bank or is also outside nigeria pls give me a tip on what could be the issue
Thank you.

Tell the person to open a dollar/euro/pound account, then use Western Union to make the transfer, the recipient will go to the bank with the necessary information and the bank will pay the hard currency directly into his account. He can then withdraw it and take to the black market for exchange.

If you pay directly into his account banks will transact at 350 or 360 against the original rate which is 460-470.

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I regret not being close enough to God.

I pray to draw closer to him come 2021.

Uzomacharles:
So sad for my dude....

He's chilling with chilled water

Poor guy, he probably invited one out and she ended up bringing her hungry friends. Anyways it will be recorded for him in heaven that at one point in his life he fed some bunch of hungry girls.

JOACHINpedro:
I thought you were a lady

I might be...you never can tell.

Juliusmomoh:
To god be the glory..

It's a loan o...not free money. You'll be auto debited once the time frame elapsis.

krissy111:
I wasn't drunk tho. I was tipsy. I remember everything else that happened, its only the words he spoke to lure me to the room that I can't recall. I accept part of the blame. Next time, will drink in solitude.

And I have chat evidence. He has been apologizing since last night

Is anyone threatening you...why are you modifying all your posts?

krissy111:
I wasn't drunk tho. I was tipsy. I remember everything else that happened, its only the words he spoke to lure me to the room that I can't recall. I accept part of the blame. Next time, will drink in solitude.

And I have chat evidence. He has been apologizing since last night

My dear that's all you need...stop replying that guy. He knows nothing about the law.

Please talk more with him on the chat, tell him your neck where he chocked you still hurts, make him admit to all the charges you'll level against him.

Send me a pm if you want to follow this case and I'll link you to a human rights lawyer.

With this alone, I can guarantee you that he'll spend nothing less than 10years in jail.

Godoverevery:
Can you please read what you wrote again....they both fought right and one died.....first of all have never seen or heard of two drunk people fighting....let me clearify this been tipsy is different from been drunk so the instant you are giving is totally no brainer.

Do some research yourself on Ronaldo rape case maybe you understand my point better.

Once a crime is committed, and you're charged, the job of the court is to prove whether you're indeed guilty as charged or not.

In this case, the guy obviously raped her, and admitted to it so the issue of alcohol can't even come into play since he has already admitted to the crime.

If there wasn't any evidence of him admitting to it on chats, then his lawyer can easily claim that they were both drunk, the guy in question will even deny seeing her sef.

But when you have him begging her or bragging on chats, how do you explain that to the jury?

Even admitted to injuring her, cos she'll tell him that her neck, hands and body is still hurting badly. And he's reply shows that he knows exactly what she's talking about. How do you explain that?

Drunk or not he committed the act of rape and would be punished.

Leave the Ronaldo case...I don't know much about it, but what I know is that the girl doesn't have chat evidence of him admitting to whatever it is she claims transpired between them. If she did he would be arrested and jailed.

Why do you think police use this line "you have the right to remain silent cos anything you say or do can be used against you in court"

They know exactly what it means cos in court exhibit would be properly scrutinized and if found guilty the culprit would be jailed

Escabado:
I meet a girl not up 2 days ago and she is asking me for 15k to make her hair . i invited her to my place she refused and said is too early for her to come my place . Now guys advice me on what to do . And she needs the money urgently

Tell her to ask her parents na... isn't that supposed to be their responsibility?

Op please look for a human rights lawyer...after making the guy admit it on chat.

He'll guide you on the next step to take. Please don't let this issue slide. You'll get Justice I strongly believe that.

Godoverevery:
Am not a lawyer but one thing i no for sure is the alcohol will be the opposition defence.....I will keep on telling you this her testimony would be doubted.
All they need to establish is they both drank and were drunk.....case close.

Ok...seems you don't get the magnitude of the crime here so I'll explain it to you in lay man's terms.

You and your friends go to a bar to drink, in the course of the drinking you get drunk and a flight begins, you stab your friend with a broken bottle on the neck and he dies instantly.

You get arrested and charged with murder!

Now according to your theory, your lawyer would say that you were both drunk so the charge of murder should be dropped against you?

That you can't remember what exactly happened because you were under the influence of alcohol.

My brother if that's the defence your lawyer has for you with all the glaring evidence of you stabbing your friend's neck you'll rot in jail.

Stop watching too much Hollywood movies. The law is the law. If you break it you'll be punished regardless of whether you were influenced by drugs, alcohol or any other thing.

Godoverevery:
lol....so the guy won't also have a lawyer!??
she will be cross examined and the alcohol will be used against her......infact she will even break down during cross examination from the lawyer.

Oga... drinking alcohol isn't a crime in Nigeria as long as you're above 18, besides the crime here is rape.

How can you use drinking against someone who was raped, when your client has already admitted to the horrible act. And rape in Nigeria consistution is 25 years. And your best defence to get your client off the hook is that she was drunk? Not even that they're lovers...

Honestly I hope you didn't study law cos you'll make a very terrible lawyer.