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Romance › Re: . by Nazgul: 8:27pm On Jan 05, 2021

yinkaOdutuyo:
When you see wise people, by their fruit you'll know them. Bro you're wise and smart too.

Even if nairaland is the most useless forum in the world is still one of the top 100 relationship and lifestyle advice forum.

Since I have disvirgin her the truth is, she is like a bug to me and doesnt wanna stay away from me.

All she just want and her parent is marriage since when I have disvirgined her.

But when she was still a virgin she use to tell me that any man, that had sex with her on her wedding night will be her husband, but now is had no choice than to have me as her husband.

I secured my future with her and my expenses on her...

One more piece of advice. Virgins are very clingy to whoever disvirgined them especially if it's someone they love. There's this bond she'll have naturally with you whenever you're together. She'll want to be cuddled she'll want to experience those love fantasies she reads in romantic novels with you. She'll want you to spend time with her, take her out, gist her, make her happy...etc.

Many guys make the error of misinterpreting this stage with their newly disvirgined lover. They interpret it to mean that she's stock with them for life. That she can't leave them, so that start misbehaving, they deliberately torment her emotionally, they yell at her and tag her a nagging girl whenever she carves for attention. Quarrels becomes a roommate in the relationship.

With time she'll grow a tick shell and go cold towards you. She'll seek for what you failed to give her elsewhere. You'll be the one complaining how she has changed and how she isn't the person you met months or years ago. The truth about girls is that once their emotions towards you dies, it will be very hard to restore her back to that lovey dovy stage when you guys started. You'll become a philosopher over night begging for a love you murdered deliberately.

My advice show her love, and never get tired of her affection, never complain whenever she requests for something romantic from you, like feeding her, combing her hair...etc. never see her like someone you're doing a favor, never feel she's trapped with you for life cos you disvirgined her. Do this and you'll enjoy your marriage.

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Romance › Re: . by Nazgul: 7:20pm On Jan 05, 2021

Since you kept your word by marrying her, then I'll say you did the right thing. The economy isn't smiling, so everyone must protect his assets either by crook or by hook.

Virgin girls between the ages of 18-24 are are very terrible when it comes to keeping their words.
They easily get emotionally connected to people closer to them. Most of them are very curious, they want to explore their sexuality and know how it feels like. So despite their stand to remain a virgin till marriage, if you're very close to them, show them love, care affection.. etc, and you're very patient, you won't encounter much resistance when you eventually make your move because they themselves are emotionally confused, they want it and at the same time they want to keep it. She won't be able to stop you.

That's why sponsoring such girl in school is a very high risk investment cos most of them are innocent and naeiv. Guys won't let her rest,. They'll keep bothering her till she gets weary and eventually gives in to one, and from there her vagina would become public property. She'll dump you, when you try to remind her of her personal oath to keep herself till her wedding night she'll tell you it's her body she can give it to anyone she chooses. You'll become heartbroken and suicidal.

The only classes of virgins that you can actually take their word for no sex till marriage are the ones between the age bracket of 26 and above. Any girl that can keep her virginity till that age will marry as virgin. Cos she has scaled through the hurdles of Playboys with sweet mouth. There's nothing special she wants to explore anymore. She has seen that what all these guys are after is the hole between her legs and once they get it they're out. So sweet words don't move her. Investing in such girl wouldn't be bad cos she has attained enough emotional maturity to make her stand on what she wants for herself.

I have a friend like that, she graduated from the University as a virgin and married at the age of 28 as a virgin. Such girl will always remain loyal to you. You can easily sponsor here anywhere without any fear.

You did the right thing by disvirgining her to protect your investment. Happy married life.

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Romance › Re: What Do You Think About Men Who Keep Long Fingernails?? by Nazgul: 6:37pm On Jan 05, 2021

Keep long nails ke, me that used to chew my nails as a child back then, it was my mom that stopped me. long nails is quite irritating especially on a guy.

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Romance › Re: Sad Truth by Nazgul: 6:31pm On Jan 05, 2021

50% of the monkiers on this section are oldies who opened new account to troll and attack perceived enemies.

30% are extremely toxic and depressed kids who's only joy and satisfaction is coming here to express their anger, frustration, depression... etc.

10% are on ghost mode. They don't really care, they post like once in a week or month, whatever goes on here isn't really their concern.

10% are the serious ones who take this section very seriously, engage in rational, logical and productive discussions. Sadly their number is so few to make any reasonable impact. This is why this section has become a shadow of itself like you rightfully pointed out.

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Romance › Re: What Should I Do? I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating by Nazgul: 1:36pm On Jan 05, 2021

You should have cut her off from the moment she started giving you a cold audience. her body language was very visible that she clearly wasn't into you, but you kept on pushing and pushing and forcing her. This is where most guys get it wrong. When a girl doesn't reciprocate your efforts just let her be.

Going through her phone and even saving the audio messages as evidence is childish to me.

Evidence of what exactly? You don't own her, neither have you paid her bride price, meaning she has every right to date or have sex with whoever she wants to. Just let her go and move on.

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Romance › Re: What Would You Do If You Discover That The Kids Are Not Yours? by Nazgul: 1:20pm On Jan 05, 2021

Op don't say that again. You'll commit suicide when you're still agile and potent.

For me, it will hurt me not doubt, I'll take sometime, travel out of that environment to cool off, when I've gotten over the heartbreak I'll remarry and run a DNA test on my kids immediately after birth.

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Romance › Re: Why Do Some Ladies Joke With Serious Issues? by Nazgul: 1:08pm On Jan 05, 2021

My brother it's all a game. A mind game.

Most ladies do it (especially the much younger ones) cos they love the attention, care, comittment, finances... etc they benefit from these guys hence their decision to deceitfully pile them up, and torture them emotionally from time to time.

Others will tell you outrightly that they're with someone like the ones you met, cos they're not prepared to remain faithful to only you. They've not fully made up their mind on who to choose from the numerous admirers falling "head over heels" for them. So whenever it becomes obvious that she has cheated, she can easily defend herself by telling you that you were aware of her relationship but choose to date her anyway. And that defence will definitely silence any kind or form of protest you planned on making thereby leaving you with no option than to endure her promiscuous lifestyle.

You did the right thing by cutting off all ties with them. Life is too short to waste on deceitful people, any girl you choose to share your life and emotions with, must reciprocate by proving to you that that you've become a part of her life, and not keeping you on the fence to extort and torture you emotionally.

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Celebrities › Re: Djinee: 'If Pastors Don't Make New Year Prophecies, Does It Make Them Less?' by Nazgul: 12:18pm On Jan 05, 2021*

The only problem I have with these prophesies is that why do they differ from one another?

Why will 10 different pastors make a prophesy from God concerning Nigeria in the new year and it will all be different from each other.

When God has a plan for a country, what he reveals to pastor A should be the same thing pastor B, C, D...etc, should see. When everyone starts releasing different prophesies claiming it's from God, the whole prophecy stuff becomes a laughing stock.

And sadly that's what we're experiencing in Nigeria today.

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Romance › Re: Help A Brokeass Nigg£r by Nazgul: 12:17pm On Jan 05, 2021

scofield114:
i hv got this sexxy girl to Bleep tomorrow but unfortunately i dont have any money to sponsor it no money for transport no money for hotel room nd no money to give the girls pls help me im so Hot any amount will do just qoute me if u will hellp

You're broke and the only thing that bothers you is how to satisfy your sexual urge...na wa o.

Not that I'm judging you, but if I were you, I'll stay off women for now and plan my life. Plan how to become useful to myself and everyone around me so that I won't become a disappointment to them.

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Crime › Re: Man Beheaded & Gouged Out The Eyes Of His Neighbour In Bauchi (Graphic Pics) by Nazgul: 12:12pm On Jan 05, 2021

kingsolomonjnr01:
but eh dey work oh.
my friend way do am get money like mad now but the problem be say em no get rest of mind

You've already proven that it doesn't work. Not having rest of mind should not be a dividend of money made from hard work. Only illegal money can make you have sleepless nights.

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Romance › Re: Something Happened in my house recently by Nazgul: 12:09pm On Jan 05, 2021

seanwilliam:
the bolded should be after conducting DNA o

Lol...you're right. cheesy

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Crime › Re: Man Beheaded & Gouged Out The Eyes Of His Neighbour In Bauchi (Graphic Pics) by Nazgul: 8:16am On Jan 05, 2021

I don't know who decieved the African man into believing that killing his fellow human being and harvesting certain organs from the corpse will make him rich.

If wealth was that easy, those performing such rituals would have done it for themselves and become billionaires. In fact Africans would have been the richest people on this planet.

What is actually wrong with the black man?

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Romance › Re: Most Nigerian Women Are The Worst On Earth Right Now by Nazgul: 8:16am On Jan 05, 2021

shantti:
Bro its not about cheating its about paternity fraud,making a man raise a child that isnt his, that thing kills more than north koreas dictator leader

I'm not disputing you. I'm saying men impregnate women and still bring the child home to their wives. I gave a case study with my aunt who's husband brought a son home and she had no option than to accept him.

Paternity fraud is done by both men and women. The men do theirs openly and easily get away with it because we're the dominant gender here in Africa, that's why a man a man can easily impregnate his maid or anyone and the woman will be forced to accept him and the child cos as a woman she's supposed to be submissive to the man.

But in the case of the woman, she has to do her's secretly, and if her little secret is discovered, all hell will be let loose.

My point is both genders are guilty. One does his openly the other does hers secretly, there's no justification to cheating on your spouse.

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Romance › Re: Most Nigerian Women Are The Worst On Earth Right Now by Nazgul: 7:58am On Jan 05, 2021

Godoverevery:
bro read what shortty wrote and you understand why will call most Nigerian fish brain and won't stop bashing them.

No matter the evil a woman perform is always the men fault.

Ignore certain gibberish on this forum. So many people here are just looking for comfort from the loneliness, rejection and failures of life. If you try to engage them logically, they'll dump their frustration on you.

Just drop your opinion and mingle with sane people here, ignore the emotionally battered ones, and you'll enjoy your stay here. That's what I've learnt to do.

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Romance › Re: "Tunde Thomas And I Are Friends For Over 20 Years", Fcmb's MD, Nuru Adams Speak by Nazgul: 6:51am On Jan 05, 2021*

lefulefu:
So that means the late husband probably knew his wife had a sugar daddy she was currently dating when he married her

The man is probably trying to save his already battered reputation.

He betrayed the trust the husband had for him. Only heartless savages screw their friends wife?

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Romance › Re: Something Happened in my house recently by Nazgul: 6:42am On Jan 05, 2021

The rule of the thumb is never spend foolishly on any girl who isn't your mother, wife, sister or daughter cos it will end in premium tears.

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Politics › Re: Lai Mohammed: We Celebrated Christmas, New Year Without 'Rain Of Bombs' by Nazgul: 4:35am On Jan 05, 2021

What exactly is this man trying to say?

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Education › Re: UNIBEN To Resume Academic Activities January 30th, 2021 by Nazgul: 4:28am On Jan 05, 2021

Gradually things are going back to normal. Covid 19 is now a thing of the past in Africa and ASUU has finally called off it's 9 months old strike.

No doubt 2021 will be a good year.

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Romance › Re: Most Nigerian Women Are The Worst On Earth Right Now by Nazgul: 3:11am On Jan 05, 2021

StacyO:
Drops jaw again.

Stacy what is it?

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Romance › Re: DNA Test indeed by Nazgul: 7:46pm On Jan 04, 2021

Liliantalks:
When u break hearts of women who really care for you , that’s ur punishment

And women don't break men's heart. Is that what you're saying?

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Politics › Re: Amotekun Arrests 120 Suspects In ‘Operation Clean Up’ Exercise In Ondo by Nazgul: 7:07pm On Jan 04, 2021

Thumbs up to them

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Romance › Re: Most Nigerian Women Are The Worst On Earth Right Now by Nazgul: 7:06pm On Jan 04, 2021

stupidmod2:
now that u said this, did d woman husband deserve wat she did to him? best we stop comparing other people's life

You didn't get what I wrote.

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Romance › Re: Guys, Stop Searching For The Perfect woman... See This (picture) by Nazgul: 5:10pm On Jan 04, 2021

illicit:
If she got ass I may not care about the rest, because I love to enter from d back, I don't have to see her face

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Romance › Re: Guys I Want To Travel Out Of Naija. by Nazgul: 1:47pm On Jan 04, 2021*

GuyWise101:
Nna mehnnnnnnnnn

Guy please I want to travel out but I don't know which country to go and what to do to make cash.

I am 24 and 3m in my account so I want to travel to a foriegn country to make more cash.

Please advice me on the best country to travel to.

3m is peanuts if that's what you want to use to relocate permanently out of Nigeria. Visa and flight ticket will finish that money you've not even added miscellaneous...no thanks to our depreciating naira.

To leave Nigeria you must have a plan. The reason why so many Nigerians resort to drugs in Europe and end up being jailed and deported is because they left without any plans on how to survive over there. They felt that once they get there, things will fall into place. Sadly life doesn't work that way.

Plan your life here in Nigeria, which country do you have in mind?

How easy is it for immigrants to get employed over there?

How's the standard of living over there for immigrants?

What's your reason for going there, is it to school, to learn a skill... etc?

How much will you need to survive there for at least 6months before getting on your feet?

Do you have anyone there that can accommodate you pending you'll be able to survive on your own?

If things don't go exactly how you planned it, do you have a backup plan to fall back on?

Please don't be in a hurry to leave this country or else you'll be hurriedly deported back here with nothing.

Take your time.

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Romance › Re: Most Nigerian Women Are The Worst On Earth Right Now by Nazgul: 10:26am On Jan 04, 2021

Godoverevery:
This case isn't about cheating but wickedness bro........ that highest of wickedness having a man train kids that aiin't his.

And this my question to you why are the follow not coming out to condemn this act
My dad is doctor and he told about 13yrs ago that most men in Nigeria are training bastards.....this a fact,you can ask any doctor.

We're saying the same thing. See this matter from an unbiased view, then you'll understand where I'm coming from much better.

An African man feels he can easily cheat cos polygamy is widely accepted here in Africa. So he cheats on his wife and has a baby, the wife hears about it, gets angry, heart broken, betrayed...etc. after intervention from family members, their pastor, friends...the wife swallows her pains and accepts back her husband.

A married woman can't easily cheat openly here in Africa. So she does it secretly and conceives. Knowing fully well of the consequences of her actions, she decides to keep it to herself. She delivers and her husband accepts the child as his.

After a while the act gets blown up, the man discovers that the kids aren't his. He's heart broken, sad, suicidal... etc.

Everyone crucifies the woman and call her all manner of degoratory names.

In your opinion don't you think the man is as guilty as the woman?

My mum's younger sister's husband brought in a son into their house and told her that the boy belongs to him. Can you imagine?

Is there any difference between what he did to her and what most women are doing to their husbands?

Like I said in my previous post. It has nothing to do with gender it's all about your discipline, dignity and principles.

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Romance › Re: Most Nigerian Women Are The Worst On Earth Right Now by Nazgul: 10:00am On Jan 04, 2021

Godoverevery:
bro you are just comparing two different things.
Men who impregnate other ladies don't put the burdens on there wife.... some religion permit men to do that which is no crime just because you are Christian doesn't give any right to condemn another who believe in having kids with different women.

Can a woman have a children for another man under your roof..... have you spend your time money life on them and later tell you they ain't yours?

I'm not supporting the woman's attitude in anyway. All I'm saying is that cheating has nothing to do with gender. It's all about your discipline, principle and personality.

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Crime › Re: Man Beats And Butchers His Baby Mama Over Food In Imo (Graphic Pics) by Nazgul: 9:37am On Jan 04, 2021

tyup:

Well in my own opinion, was the Husband at fault?? I don't think so n until we hear the Husband part of the story Never you trust women. plus her swollen lips can only mean one thing; She mis yarn and talks alot

But come to think of it why always Ipobs? ehn

That's a case of attempted murder. Regardless of whatever she said to him, he had no right to brutalize her that way.

In a country where things work, that guy would be in jail for that act.

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Romance › Re: Closed by Nazgul: 9:34am On Jan 04, 2021

Latidoh1:
Wow. How did you know this? Can I meet you one on one

Send me a pm, we can always chat...

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