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RomanceRe: Two Fat Lonely Girls by Nekai(f): 9:12pm On May 02, 2011
whiteroses:
^true but who keeps them as gf? only to bleep half the time undecided ladies berra loose those pot bellies and flabby arms
Lol @ topic. You may want to rewire your thinking on what makes a woman appealing to a man, because God forbid you gain ten pounds. You will be ready to jump off a bridge. Confidence in who you are is key no matter if a woman is fat/slim, light/dark, tall/short, long hair/short hair, ect,

For example I have a friend that was very overweight, around 280 pounds. She was always depressed and only losers would come around to date her, and she would go overboard in giving her all to guys that obviously didn't really care about her. Every heart break made her feel worse. She worked hard to lose weight and ended up losing 60 pounds, and even though she was still overweight by 'normal' standards, the weight loss boosted her confidence so much that she started dressing well and carrying herself as though she is a queen. Everywhere she went guys would approach her. She is now engaged to a wonderful handsome man that adores her.

The funny thing is that the weight loss didn't make her attractive. It was her attitude. She is more overweight than most of her friends that are still single and searching, but she feels better about herself. The key is to be confident in the positive attributes you have. Every girl has something about herself that could turn them into an insecure, needy woman.
RomanceRe: Can You Finance Your Ex's Wedding Ceremony? by Nekai(f): 8:21pm On May 02, 2011
Of course I would finance my ex's wedding. I would also finance thier honeymoon, the purchace of their first home, and the school fees for their children. tongue
RomanceRe: Kissing In Public Places by Nekai(f): 8:23am On May 02, 2011
What? There's nothing better than to share kisses in a public place. Next time you are out with her in a public place, give her a nice big hug and then give her the same kiss you give her in private. The fact that many eyes are on you two is an added bonus.

If you are a teenager under 18, forget everything I just said. In fact you shouldn't be sharing much kisses indoor either. lipsrsealed
FamilyRe: A Wailing Cry For Help! *Da Latest Gist* by Nekai(f): 8:10am On May 02, 2011
Amen! I'm so glad he made it easy for her. Thank God! cheesy cheesy cheesy

Rally around your cousin and support her, because on average a person will go back 7 times before leaving for good. Thank the Lord she hasn't slept with him because that bond makes it so much harder for a woman to leave.

Praise the Lord!!!
divalishis:
So I just want to thank everybody, who has been supportive with their words, personal experiences, the abuse site suggestions and all the advice.
These past few days, I have been researching a lot.
We as humans need to be careful about who we let into our lives, because these abusers are good at what they do, the result being millions of abused men and women out there. According to what I deduce from my reading, my cousin suffered verbal abuse, emotional abuse, sexual abuse and heaven knows what else.
[b]One thing I know is that, she was emotionally raw, open and vulnerable when she met T. Because then, she had just lost her first love whom she dated for years.[/b]Thank you to everyone and God bless!!!
I can relate. A rebound relationship that starts without healing is not a good thing because it's like you transfer the trust and care unto someone that you haven't got a chance to know well yet. It causes you to overlook obvious warning signs because of a false sense of security. Now it's important for her to build her self-confidence back up because she is probably emotionally back where she started after she lost her first love. Good luck to her! cheesy
FamilyRe: How Do I Get My Baby To Sleep Peacefully? by Nekai(f): 7:45am On May 02, 2011
XX01:
Finally, i got some answers. Seems like he could be reactin to some of the food i eat especially the proteins. I have to stop all diary products for a week and see if it helps the gas. Then slowly re-introduce them one by one to see which one is causin the excess gas.

Seems like the black circles under his eyes are my fault. When he wakes in the afternoon, he usually stays awake til 7pm wen i bathe him and then he sleeps. The doctor said he is too young to be awake that long so he needs extra help to sleep than at night. Usually he drops off when i breastfeed him and rock him gently. When he stopped falling off to sleep that way in the afternoon, i Thought he was ready to stay awake and play. So yesterday, i wore him in a baby sling and went about my day. He slept and woke up several times and this mornin, the circles are almost gone. Ignorance is a killer.

Thanks guys for your help. P.S he sleeps in his cot which is beside my bed.
The spambot released my earlier post:

It could be normal colic and if it is then it's just a matter of waiting it out. It could also be that your baby has an allergy to something that you are eating. Dark circles usually go hand in hand with allergies/sensitivities. This website has a few suggestions concerning foods to avoid while breastfeeding:

http://www.babycenter.com/404_are-there-any-foods-i-should-avoid-while-breastfeeding_8906.bc

Occasionally a baby will be fussy at the bosom or gassy after you eat a particular food. If you notice a pattern, avoid that food for a few days. To test whether that food really was the cause, reintroduce it once and see if there's an effect. Mothers report that babies most often object to chocolate; spices (cinnamon, garlic, curry, chili pepper); citrus fruits and their juices, like oranges, lemons, limes, and grapefruit; strawberries; kiwifruit; pineapple; the gassy veggies (onion, cabbage, garlic, cauliflower, broccoli, cucumbers, and peppers); and fruits with a laxative effect, such as cherries and prunes.

If you think that something you're eating is causing problems for your baby, it's usually something you've eaten two to six hours before feeding. The most common culprits include cows' milk products, followed by soy, wheat, egg, nuts, and corn or corn syrup.

Talk to your baby's doctor before you omit any foods from your diet. If avoiding a food could cause a nutritional imbalance (for example, if you eliminate all dairy products), you may need to see a nutritionist for advice on substituting other foods or taking nutritional supplements. Continue taking your prenatal vitamin as long as your baby's fully breastfed to cover any gaps in your own diet.
Foreign AffairsRe: Osama Bin Laden Is Dead: His Body Is In US Custody! by Nekai(f): 4:31am On May 02, 2011
[quote author=Kilode?! link=topic=658129.msg8242752#msg8242752 date=1304306323]Hopefully this will now qualify Obama for American citizenship.[/quote]You are not right. grin

tunku:
Rejoice my friend. Rejoice. Osama declared his jihad by attacking Africans and Americans on African soil, Kenya! It is appropriate that a son of Kenya and America should be the one to bring him down. Poetic? hell yes.
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PoliticsRe: Bin Laden Dead?!?!?!?! by Nekai(op): 4:21am On May 02, 2011
OK, the Pakistani govt. was involved in the operation.
PoliticsRe: Bin Laden Dead?!?!?!?! by Nekai(op): 4:16am On May 02, 2011
It looks like they killed him in Pakistan. This isn't going to sit well with the Pakistani government. WWIII is looking more and more likely everyday.
PoliticsBin Laden Dead?!?!?!?! by Nekai(op): 3:44am On May 02, 2011
Obama to make announcement in a few minutes.
RomanceRe: NL auctions----> MzDArkskin sold to 190! by Nekai(f): 3:29am On May 02, 2011
Hello ayosmiles. wink

@Rokiatu grin
RomanceRe: NL auctions----> MzDArkskin sold to 190! by Nekai(f): 3:13am On May 02, 2011
ayosmiles:
@jomogbomo i suggest u get an assistant 2 stand in when uare not around so d auction can go smoothly. i volunteer sir
I oppose. He just wants to sample the merchandise.  lipsrsealed
Foreign AffairsRe: Gadhafi Son And Grandchildren Killed As Nato Targets The Libyan Leader's Home by Nekai(op): 2:28am On May 02, 2011
evil666:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hDt92tR2YnA&feature=player_embedded
This video speaks volumes and addresses the fact that there has been no formal inquiry into the validity of the claims of mass violence against unarmed civillians. There has also been no formal inquiry into the background or intention of these rebels.

Are you pretending to be ignorant of the fact that the Libyans calling for help could have been rebels? How did peaceful protesters turn into organized armed forces that were seizing control of eastern cities, in one week?

The hasty response to the conflict in Libya is suspect. Why not engage the leader in talks instead of jumping in and taking sides? http://somalilandpress.com/libya-rebels-execute-black-immigrants-while-forces-kidnap-others-20586

If both sides are commiting grave offenses what is the incentive for being on one side verses the other. Are you completely oblivious to the wide implications of attacking another country without concrete proof about what is going on and a knowledge of the major players on the rebel side?

Again, I will use Iraq as an example of a war that was started by (what we now know to be) false allegations, killing thousands of U.S. soldiers and Iraqi civillians, and wasting billions of dollars.
Foreign AffairsRe: Gadhafi Son And Grandchildren Killed As Nato Targets The Libyan Leader's Home by Nekai(op): 12:49am On May 02, 2011
Kobojunkie:
So because the UN praised Ghaddafi a month before he(Ghaddafi) turned on his people, and started bombing and killing men, women and children, bombing them to kingdom come, simply for protesting his Government, it is NOT OK for the UN to hear the cries of the People calling for Protection[b]? [/b]
Refer to my previous posts, because I don't know how Gadhadi's 'own people' can start a heavily armed civil war and not expect him to react. Also, why is the international community obligated to protect radical armed rebels that are taking advantage of the current unrest in the middle east? This is a civil war.

pleep:
I wonder why some people feel the need to defend the united states and europes foriegn policy at every oppurtunity possible. Those same people can't stop criticizing African governments. Pathetic are westerners not human? Are humans not selfish?

You would have thought that history would have taught these people that. It's hard to belive ppl can be that silly.
I really wonder. African civilizations were fine for thousands of years. Maybe some people are unaware of their history, and what colonialism did to the entire continent. The U.S. is only a couple of hundred years old and yet they are supposed to be the genius of the world. Many western ideals are not designed for long term sustainability, which is why america is in crisis now.
RomanceRe: Will You Still Marry Her If She Won't Fully Change Her Last Name -No Hyphenation by Nekai(f): 12:21am On May 02, 2011
What's wrong with a hyphenated last name? For instance, if you marry a woman that is educated at the master's level, she has spent years conducting research. She has authored and contributed to many papers and studies. Hopefully she has been blessed enough to contribute to a peer-reviewed journal. Also she has labored on her master's thesis. Maybe she wants to hyphenate her name because she wants to make it easier to build her career on her educational foundation.

If you have a hyphenated last name you can legally present yourself as either last name.
Princek12:
you sound like a feminist. you will end up like Oprah, which is not too bad. You cannot fight nature. A man will always be the head, which is how God meant for it to be. So you can be envious of the power bestowed upon men by God.

Feminists like you always end up being single for ever or end up being baby mommas. The choice is yours.
If you believe that your position as head of household is based on the fact that your wife takes/doesn't take your last name than you have a strange concept of what marriage is.

N101:
Well, there's stupidity going on at a whole number of levels. Maturity is the thing that is really lacking.

[list]
* It is not compulsory for a woman to change her name. If marriage is based on a woman changing her name, better not get married if she chooses not to do so.

* A name change does not make a woman more committed. She could still cheat and lie on her spouse.

* If it is simple to dump a woman who chooses not to change her name, it says a lot about a person's lack of maturity - they are not ready for marriage.

* If someone thinks that, by paying a dowry for a traditional marriage they have rights to demand what they want - again, they are clueless as to what marriage is about. They should remain single for longer until they can get their head around "commitment".

* The love and commitment between two people far exceeds any name change. A lack of name change does not make a woman less committed or married.
[/list]

Marriage is not for children or the immature and it isn't like being boyfriend/girlfriend. Sadly many people are playing at being grown up and have no idea. Mark my words, be guaranteed anything you think you will be able to do now will go through the window when it comes to the reality of marriage.
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Foreign AffairsRe: Gadhafi Son And Grandchildren Killed As Nato Targets The Libyan Leader's Home by Nekai(op): 11:21pm On May 01, 2011
*Silence speaks volumes*
RomanceRe: Romance Section Chat Room III by Nekai(f): 11:05pm On May 01, 2011
REALITY101:
Celtic V Miami is the game I been waiting for lets she how this 2 elephants do em thing
angry
RomanceRe: Getting Married To A Man 18years Older? My Gawd! by Nekai(f): 7:58pm On May 01, 2011
Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]Hmm she's old enough to make that decision i believe, u know your friend & 27 no be kiddo![/color]
r231:
i think you should be happy for her and wish her luck
^Seconded.

marychi18:
She says d man was married for 12years  to a woman of abt his age.  D woman had fibroid which she refused to deal with even after she was given d money to perform d surgery twice. Now d woman has reached menopause and therefore no hope of her havin a child for d man.
Reason d woman wasn't perturbed by d childless marriage was prolly becos she's had a kid when she was a teenager and she is even a grandmum now!

D man already ended d marriage before he even met my friend so u see,

i just hope dis ends well.
I would be more concerned about the fact that he divorced his wife of many years only because she couldn't give him a child. (I hope she has independantly verified that this was the true reason for the split) Fibroids don't prevent pregnancy in the vast majority of cases. Maybe he is infertile. Even if he isn't infertile, who's to say that she marries him and can't produce a child for whatever reason. If they are getting married out of love then he won't care, but if he is looking for a baby making factory he will resent her. As long as she is taking all this in consideration, which I'm sure she most likely is, then there isn't a problem. The age is a non-factor here. Personally, I don't believe infertility is grounds for divorce, but to each her own. Be happy for her because at 27 she really is old enough to weigh the pros and cons for herself.
Foreign AffairsRe: Gadhafi Son And Grandchildren Killed As Nato Targets The Libyan Leader's Home by Nekai(op): 4:29pm On May 01, 2011
One month before the uprising in Libya started, the U. N. Human Rights Council produced a report praising Gadhafi.
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/03/06/weekinreview/06libya.html
Foreign AffairsRe: Gadhafi Son And Grandchildren Killed As Nato Targets The Libyan Leader's Home by Nekai(op): 3:29pm On May 01, 2011
[quote author=na2day! link=topic=657693.msg8239054#msg8239054 date=1304253284]So now NATO have resorted to bombing children to win the illegal war in Libya? A bunch of 'criminals' got guns and attacked the internationally recognised government and we call them 'rebels', can you imagine what would happen here if everyone in my town got shotguns and marched on parliament demanding the resignation of the 'royal' family (business) and the current government? The first thing you would see would be armed police and troops on the street and the 'rebels' from my town would be called criminals or terrorists and shot on sight! Nato isnt protecting civilians, no civilians were being attacked in this strike except the grandchildren that were killed. The pilot that dropped the bomb should be ashamed and the politicians that got us into this mess should be tried for war crimes. I hope Gaddafi wins. I'm disgusted by our actions. What about Bahrain, Yemen and Syria then NATO?[/quote]My point exactly.
Foreign AffairsRe: Gadhafi Son And Grandchildren Killed As Nato Targets The Libyan Leader's Home by Nekai(op): 1:31pm On May 01, 2011
He isn't hiding in bunkers. He was still living in his same compound in the capital with his family, and they had an open line of communication with him. And of course Libya isn't in the top 10 for oil exports to the USA. Neither was Iraq before they invented a reason to take over that country. If their sole reason for being there is to help Libyans, why them and not Rawanda or Darfur. Better yet, why did they intervene in Libya before Ivory Coast when the conflict in the Ivory Coast began first?

I am not going to down play the seriousness of a rape allegation, and it unfortunate that the lady had to endure such horrors at the hands of Gaddafi's troops. Now, if this human rights violation by Gaddafi's soldiers are grounds to bomb his home, then look at these cases of rape by the hands of U.S. soldiers and tell me what should be done. http://rwor.org/a/053/iraqrape-en.html http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2007/feb/23/usa.iraq http://www.aztlan.net/iraqi_women_raped.htm

Also, a cease-fire has to be done on both sides. How can he halt his assault on the armed rebel forces when both sides haven't made an agreement to stop fighting? Like you I also smh at the way some people on NL think. And to the person who is oblivious to the fact that the media can indeed create believable illusions, you must not have been around when Iraq was invaded after public opinion was swayed into believing it held non-existant weapons of mass destruction.
Foreign AffairsRe: Gadhafi Son And Grandchildren Killed As Nato Targets The Libyan Leader's Home by Nekai(op): 10:31am On May 01, 2011
aguiyi:
people are still very blind to see that most western nation are running a budget deficit,going almost bankrupt and requesting for a bail out by the day. the only way out of their present situation is recolonization of africa whether by fire or by force. thats what they are doing.

i wonder what some people would have said if MEND had attempted toppling our govt with the backing of the west in the name of resources control and marginalization.
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Foreign AffairsRe: Gadhafi Son And Grandchildren Killed As Nato Targets The Libyan Leader's Home by Nekai(op): 7:54am On May 01, 2011
[quote author=Rhino.5dm link=topic=657693.msg8237933#msg8237933 date=1304231270]Are you trying to justify gaddaffi's hold on to power or what?,

Those his children that died are called colletral damage. Is their lives more than thousand innnocent civilians the lunatic kill on daily basis?

Gaddiffi need to be flush down with everthing he has. Good example to for any dictator still leaving in the stone age.

Deal with it, a taste of your own venon.[/quote]Tell me, what do you think Obama or any other leader would do right now if scores of frustrated citizens started buying up weaponry and organizing an armed effort to overthrow him? Exactly the same thing Gadhafi is doing.

I'm not pro Gadhafi or anti-American, I'm merely presenting evidence that supports my belief that the people backing the rebels are not doing so for altristic purposes.
Foreign AffairsRe: Gadhafi Son And Grandchildren Killed As Nato Targets The Libyan Leader's Home by Nekai(op): 7:19am On May 01, 2011
Nekai:
This guy may not be a saint, but let his own people decide what needs to be done. We have heard of various Gaddafi crimes, but who are these rebels that are based in eastern libya? http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/03/19/extremists-among-libya-rebels_n_837894.html
Here's another one in which NATO itself states that Gaddafi is fighting against organized militas.
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/04/01/world/africa/01civilians.html

Here is a breakdown of how it all started:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2011_Libyan_civil_war  Note, that the rebel coalition is stationed in the eastern libyan city of Benghazi. http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/africaandindianocean/libya/8365432/Libya-WikiLeaks-cables-warn-of-extremist-beliefs.html
Foreign AffairsRe: Gadhafi Son And Grandchildren Killed As Nato Targets The Libyan Leader's Home by Nekai(op): 6:48am On May 01, 2011
Kobojunkie:
^^^um . . . . . Do you have adult ADHD or something? The topic is NATO attack on Libya that one side claims may have cost the life of Ghaddafi's child. You have made [b]some outrageous claims [/b]of this situation and the question is based on your own claims there. It would behoove you to spend more time actually doing research to learn more of the situation, rather than running off everywhere as if that somehow makes true claims you make of this and the situation without evidence.
Ok, smart behind, make use of the 'Insert Quote' button and list my outrageous claims so that I may present more of my evidence.
Foreign AffairsRe: Gadhafi Son And Grandchildren Killed As Nato Targets The Libyan Leader's Home by Nekai(op): 6:10am On May 01, 2011
Since I don't know any children that he killed, I cannot answer the question.

It's so ironic. As retaliation for the attack on the naval base at Pearl Harbor, in which 2400 members of the U.S. military were killed, the U.S. forced 110,000 Japanese and Japanese-American civillians (2/3 of which were U.S. citizens) into internment camps, and unleashed an atomic bomb which killed 250,000 innocent Japanese civilians. tongue

The vast majority of Americans cheered when these things occured. Why? Because most people are just sheep, being blindly led and influenced by propaganda.
Foreign AffairsRe: Gadhafi Son And Grandchildren Killed As Nato Targets The Libyan Leader's Home by Nekai(op): 5:37am On May 01, 2011
What children? Tell me, do you have access to unbiased, first hand reports of the situation on the ground in Libya? My outrage is that places like Rawanda and Ivory Coast were ignored, while oil-rich Libya and Iraq were targeted.

Libya is still a member of the African Union, which opposed the no-fly zone imposed on the leader. This organization, which is monitoring the situation, has proposed a roadmap to ending the conflict (which Gadhafi accepted), which would include an immediate cease-fire, followed by a democratic election. Of course this was pushed aside. NATO wants to kill him and erect their own puppet into power.
http://www.africareview.com/News/-/979180/1133620/-/hpvc0rz/-/index.html

This guy may not be a saint, but let his own people decide what needs to be done. We have heard of various Gaddafi crimes, but who are these rebels that are based in eastern libya? http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/03/19/extremists-among-libya-rebels_n_837894.html
Foreign AffairsRe: Gadhafi Son And Grandchildren Killed As Nato Targets The Libyan Leader's Home by Nekai(op): 4:46am On May 01, 2011
What is the justification in stepping in another country's civil war? These are not protesters, they are organized rebel forces.
RomanceRe: Pls I Need U All To Look Into This by Nekai(f): 4:35am On May 01, 2011
RomanceRe: Question About A Nigerian Guy: ? by Nekai(f): 4:25am On May 01, 2011
Unlike american men, they actually go the extra mile to seek out a lady. tongue
PoliticsRe: Obama Considers Visiting Nigeria by Nekai(f): 4:22am On May 01, 2011
Personally I believe Obama is a great man. However, Nigeria should be careful 'courting' the U.S. during this period in time, which is being marked down in history as being characterized by a blood-thirsty lust for African oil.
Foreign AffairsRe: Gadhafi Son And Grandchildren Killed As Nato Targets The Libyan Leader's Home by Nekai(op): 4:14am On May 01, 2011
Everfrank:
Bloody murderers.
Agreed!

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