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[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=669813.msg8343251#msg8343251 date=1305705466]whats the big deal about sleepin with another chick? but instead, the black woman  make big deal outter it.  [/quote]When your white chick has a baby for your gardener we will celebrate with you.

190:
A REAL WOMAN CHEATS ON HER BOYFRIEND AND A REAL BOYFRIEND NEVER COMPLAINS ABOUT IT ( Penguine dictionary pg 22, chapter 190 )

Blazay:
[size=20pt]NA WHO KNOW MAN DEY KILL AM!!!! [/size]


No. I would not.
For such a man can kill you.
I prefer an 'open' cheat to a 'closet' cheat.
With someone I do not know. . . not with someone living in my HOME. . . OR ON MY PAYROLL!

I don't like SNAKES OR PIGS!

Arnold is both combined.

No, I would not be a hypocrite either. . . you have a choice.
Stay or leave!
So do I.

True!

[quote author=omo_to_dun link=topic=669813.msg8343075#msg8343075 date=1305703630]No honey, she wouldn't. She is a Kennedy; ergo, she is rich! She already moved out of the house; now that's class. Some other broke woman would have thrown the guy out.[/quote]I would still sue. She had to leave her career as an award winning journalist because he decided to run for governor. The network said that it would be a conflict of interest. She said in an interview that she wanted to make a name for herself and not depend on her family, so it was important for her to work hard. When several women came forward accusing him of being sexually innapropriate with them she stood by his side and publicly defended him instead of walking away. Little did she know that at that time the housekeeper's young child was really for her husband. I'm sure this played a part in getting elected. Also, why throw him out? Her husband and the housekeeper have been carousing in that house for 2 decades right under her nose, I'm sure she wants a fresh start.

"I wouldn't be standing here if this man weren't an A-plus human being. I wouldn't be taking my time, I wouldn't have left my job that I love, I wouldn't be doing any of this if I didn't believe in this man." And her praises of him continues on.

http://www.cnn.com/2003/ALLPOLITICS/10/03/shriver/

This is what she said about him when the allegations came out in 2003, not knowing that he was hiding this huge secret from her.

MzDarkSkin:
[color=indigo]"For better or for worse" eh? Well if they can 'weather the storm' and stay together through thick and thin, kudos!
If not then it's an unfortunate way to end such a long marriage but it wouldn't do them any good to force the issue. I just feel sorry for the children.  

I am not sure how I would react though. Seeing that child and the other woman and being oblivious to the facts for years would probably be like a forum of mockery and the ultimate type of betrayal to me granted I am sure the wife and the mistress have had talks like "girls" and the mistress knew of their problems. Then only for the wife to be the last one to realize the woman she confided or put trust in, is the other woman. It's really messed up.

should she proceed with the divorce i hope she sues for alimony and emotional distress .[/color]

Uh oh, you said the magic words that may cause some men on here to come to his defense, and start calling us women heartless gold-diggers.  

I'm with you though. To top it off he boldly decided to run for governor knowing that he has this huge secret. It seems he used his wife by keeping the secret from her until he left office. I wouldn't even look back.

Ruuuuun like the wind.

Would You Stay With Arnold?

25 years of marriage, and 4 kids later, she finds out her husband Arnold cheated on her 14 years ago and secretly fathered a child (that just so happens to be the same age as her youngest son). The other woman is none only than their very own former housekeeper, who only left in january of this year after working on staff for the family for 20 years. This is a woman that she trusted, even allowing the child in question to play with her children over the years, not even knowing that her children were playing with their half-sibling.

If you were Maria would you stay in the marriage?

http://www.cnn.com/2011/US/05/17/california.schwarzenegger/index.html?hpt=T2

Maybe it's just your minds way to work through the separation. If you two were really close it would be kind of wierd if you didn't dream of her every once in a while. Maybe you should ask her to lunch or something as friends. You most likely miss the idea of her more than you miss her and seeing her may cause you to realize that.

If you want her back, go for it!

Awww, how cute! He looks confused like, "What's happening to me?"

Natasha, you saved me the trouble. Here is a link summarizing the different methods that are being studied, none of which are available for your doctor to prescribe.

http://malecontraceptives.org/methods/index.php

Update-

"A mother has reportedly lost custody of her eight-year-old daughter after she injected her with Botox in preparation for a beauty pageant."

http://www.smh.com.au/world/botox-furore-costs-pageant-mum-custody-20110517-1eqcb.html

Sorry, I have no advice to give you. Just virtual hugs and actual prayers. Maybe the wise words of the previous posters will strike the right chord, or maybe there is another person out there with a similar story that can give you hope.

Don't put your eggs in one basket, especially since it's showing some small holes already.

PupetMasta:
About 2 yrs ago, My doctor recommended a drug for an illness I had. One of its side effect was that it renders sperm cells useless, so I could not impregnate a girl if I wanted to. It was quite an expensive drug. Maybe the guy was talking about a drug like this.

He says he's been taking it for months. I don't think the doctor would have prescribed it for that long.

natasha:
erm actually, as a health researcher in England, i CAN categorically tell you for a fact that MALE PILLS do NOT exist. Research is been carried out at present by pharmaceutical companies to develop hormonal methods for men as the only form of protection men can self administer are Vasectomy or/and Condoms.
see the link below for my evidence. your friend is playing with her life because she's having unprotected intercourse with a pathologically liar, a guy who may as well be bleeping a whole bunch of other girls. She should tread with caution.

http://www.nhs.uk/conditions/male-contraceptive-pill/Pages/Introduction.aspx

Thanks! The link has been emailed to her. This article is from february of this year so I hope she takes heed.

The day these pills are available the world will know. It wouldn't be hidden under a rock.

[size=22pt]The nerve of that woman impregnating herself without her poor husband's consent![/size]

Kpolli, u must be a skin-tight jeans type of guy.

wasobia:
IF NURSES IN AMERICA ONLY WORK 40HRS WEEKLY LIKE THEIR MATES IN NIGERIA (MY CONCENTRATION IS LAGOS STATE), NURSES WILL NEVER BE APPEALLING TO ANYONE BECAUSE NIGERIAN NURSES WILL SURELY BE FAR BETTER THAN THE US NURSES WITH ALL THEIR BRAGADO.


REMEMBER IN AMERICA, CHECKS COMES IN ONCE WHILE BILLS GOES OUT TWICE.

MY WIFE IS A MATRON IN ONE OF LAGOS MAJOR HOSPITAL WITH OVER 10 YRS OF EXPERIENCE AND SHE MAKES GOOD MONEY THAT IS OK FOR HER, DRESS WELL, RIDES A GOOD CAR AND STILL HAVE TIME FOR HER FAMILY WHICH IS A RARE COMMODITY FOR US NURSES.

THE MOST IMPORTANT THING I BELIEVE IS CONTENTMENT WHICH IS A VERY SCARCE COMMODITY AMONG US NURSES IRRESPECTIVE OF WHERE EVER YOU LIVE ON THE SURFACE OF THE EARTH.

True.

Besides the underwear issue, I think the girl is not right in the head. People who complain this much are never happy in spite of their surroundings or situation. She throws around serious insults like water, all over some clothes? Move on.

Team Bulls! Lebron is going down.

Hotie Tima:
yeah is his trying to get his head straight when he gets bck here u will see o whole new reality coz his been slap into reality

My Celtics are too.

@annita19- Sorry about those LAL.

190:
hes in nigeria

Ohhh.

MzDarkSkin:
[color=indigo]yeah seriously. [/color]

X 3

You've had ample time to recover from your team's loss the other day.

Where you dey?

Why would a pharmaceutical company spend millions of dollars devoloping a medication, go through years of clinical trials, and jump through the other various hoops to make it available to the public and not market it?

If anyone can point me to a source where this male contraceptive pill is available (much less able to be covered by insurance as he claims), I will call her right now and offer her my full apology.

Looool!

[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=667649.msg8324013#msg8324013 date=1305446185]ignorance is worse than leprosy just because you think male birth control pills don't exist does not make it true. so before you sow the seed of breakup in your friend, make sure it is for the right reason[/quote]Am I living in the twilight zone?

ogugua88:
Is she wrong for thinking it? It's never been seen lol. It's still being researched. If it hit the markets, it would've made headlines.

Exactly!

M M M:
nekai
pls tell me d truth?
Did your BF did dis 2 u?
Dat your BF is a bloody lair n a womanizer.

Hahaha, I may have believed a guys lie or two back in the day, but I was never this stu.pid!

deniyor:
are we supposed to believe the story?

I could't make a story like this up if I tried.

MRbrownJAY:
^^^i´ll ask my wife to call my daughter directly and ask her what she need then send MY DAUGHTER to buy her own pad/tampon!

Maybe one day you will have to buy for your daughter if your wife is out of town!

While talking with a friend of mine the other night she revealed that her boyfriend has not been spending the night at her place as usual for the past two weeks becasue [size=18pt]"His birth control pills he's been taking ran out and he has to get his money together before he can buy some more."[/size] I laughed because I thought she was joking, but she was dead serious. I actually hesitated and questioned my own intelligence for a few minutes before catching myself. I told her I am 99.999% sure that no such thing exists and she needed to get rid of this loser because he is a bloody liar.

She not only still believes he has told her the truth, she is on a mission to search for the pill container so that she can look up the drug. She doesn't want to believe that he has spent the last 4 months lying to her about 'being on the pill" (LOL), when no such thing exists.

Here are some facts this boyfriend of hers states: He takes one pill every other day, his insurance covered the cost but he doesn't have insurance anymore so he will have to pay out of pocket, he can't use condoms because without the pills he doesn't want to 'risk it'.

After I spent 3 hours trying to convince her that he is a lying sack of shit, she tells me that she would find it hard to let him (this jobless guy) go even if he lied about this. I told her that I wanted to reach through the phone and slap the silly from her head.

Kingsleyinfo:
But the funny thing is that alot of people never learn, and thats the major thing.

"I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together."
— Marilyn Monroe

Siena:

That's her indeed. 10 months old, and full of mischief. How time flies.

Awwww!

This is so sickening.

Did u also see part 2 Madnes!!!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8-xtDktW-o&feature=related