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Even the leaders too do Japa, Buhari to London, Tinubu to Paris etc.

BigDawsNet:
Why pikin does days dey go neighbor house to watch movie or cartoon?

Because dere parent couldn't provide them TV in dia own home...

The Nigeria Youth will always run away or japa from Nigeria until the government make home comfortable place to live and start a family...

Insecurities
Lack of electricity
Bad roads
Lack of jobs
Inflation
Lack of basic amenities...

If they decide not to tackle all these issues... Nigerians will keep running away

I was there live at the Imo State Grasshopper international handball stadium, owerri when it was commissioned by the then Military Administrator of Imo state Col. TK Zubairu. That should be 1996 or 97.

This guy funny oo, so it's no longer a red flag, it's red blanket now? 🤣🤣

dkidd:
I'm waiting for the "he's insecure" crew to come and defend their member... Oga no flag is as redder than this. She even went ahead to say its not a big deal. Another slap ontop the flag. Such disrespect!!! Bro this na red blanket ooo !!!

400 yrs, not 40

PlayMaker14:
Just imagine!!!

Nuwalege community, along the Airport Road gives way because of the presidential fleet plot.

Too much 40yr old whiskey in the system is not good.

Very important ooo!

LordIsaac:
She needs Jesus, not husband!

High beam is normal for night driving, I think what you mean is people using the fog lights which is meant for foggy and rain weather

The same useless club whose president asked African players not to play AFCON

Decolonized or recolonized, these coups are as result of the influence of the colonialists against Africans

StrongAlphMale:
The earlier Africa is recolonize, the better for us all.

This is pure wickedness

Saudi Arabia and Iran in one forum? That's like mixing water and oil, it won't work

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Saudi Arabia and Iran in one forum? That's like mixing water and oil, it won't work

As if you will take our advice, but let me still give it anyway.
You have 3 options here bro:
1. Get a side chic and make it obvious to her, forget about her existence, infact treat her like a stranger.
2. Marry a 2nd wife
3. Divorce her.
The choice is yours.

addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.

As if you will take our advice. Anyway let me still give it. You have 3 options here bro:
1. Get a side chic and make it obvious to her, forget about her existence, infact treat her like a stranger
2. Marry a 2nd wife
3. Divorce her
The choice is yours

YES, YES AND YES

Exactly, I was rejected at 4 for being too small. I came back the next year when I was 5 to enroll in primary school.

sketcherJ:
Hmmn am I the only one not getting it? He can’t start his primary school at the age of 4? Or maybe it was rare in the 80s?

The tale of you can’t start school unless your hand can touch the other hair or something? Lol

That's what I'm using, it's a nice gadget

AyodejiFelix:
I will recommend TECNO Spark 10 pro

Keep competing with men, e go soon clear for your eye.

IconicR:
So a man can cheat and go scort free while a woman who cheats deserves no mercy or forgiveness, how do you feel typing that?

Nonsense, we were all flogged, why didn't we die?

felong:
Flogging a human being is wrong. What if the child dies.

Destiny's child. If you know the story behind that picture, you will agree with me

Misplaced priorities. Nigeria doesn't have earthquake problem. What do they want to monitor?

2004 African best player Jay Jay Okocha was clearly the favorite that year, both by coaches and fans, unfortunately it was awarded to Eto'o fils

Exactly what I I told a lady today on fb and she want to kill herself

It's only in Nigeria that this nonsense is done. In other climes you are told the salary and benefits of the position you are applying for.

I went for an interview with a British establishment, the deputy high commissioner in that country was leading the interview team. The 1st thing I was told was the salary for the position for which I was being interviewed. So if it's OK with you the interview will start, if not no need to waste anyone's time. Eventually, I didn't succeed, yet they called me back to give me feedback on my performance and the answers they expected from me, incase of another time.
Nigeria is just exploiting people

You are a good man and Obidient, that's why you returned

10k in 2014

Drop a note for her anonymously or look for any other anonymous means to get the information to your friend. But make sure you have concrete evidence

That shouldn't worry you bro, we can help him sample the ekwe for free

hisexcellency34:
Please have mercy on his five wives. Who will be sampling their ekwe if Alhaji is in jail?

Iagos:
See Christian names o. I used to think that they're Muslims in south Sudan

That's why they separated, up north (Sudan 🇸🇩) are mainly Muslims, while down south (South Sudan) are mainly Christians

Congratulations bro, may God who did it for you, do same for me

So na man deserve to be beaten abi?

Flora2Sweet:
Just imagine... beating a woman like a man... that guy need Mending

LP I stand OBiDatti

Oga, if what you said is true, divorce her. Infact it's not even divorce, it's called ANULLMENT of marriage on false declaration

Reindeer games, starring Ben Affleck