₦airaland Forum

Tallesty1:
Gbam! Treat others they way you want to be treated fixes everything.

In fact we(u and i) should get married already.



Are you strong enough to chase out my gf?

She has brown belt on kunfu and beats me all the time

bukatyne:
What do you people think?

I have to say NL pre-2010 was something

edwife:
Lol I don't buy the 'equality' thing because everyone has his own interpretation.For me i will rather talk about flexibility or rather flexible fairness.

Partners should contribute to their shared life in different ways and in different degrees and over time the balance fluctuates.

There are two things involve here; trusting that your partner is doing all he or she can, and making sure that you are doing all that you can.It is as simple as that.

chuckvinz:
To be honest guys, nobody buys a house cash in the States, that's where i live too, but what they do is make a payment plan , which you might end up paying for 10 or 5 yrs. so wizkid is no different from everyother individual that pays a certain amount of money everymonth for the house. That's what you all should understand. He might not have paid fully for the house , but yes he might be the owner. Trust me the way we pay for house cash in Nigeria, that shit don't work there.

Richiy:
The worst thing about that most of them are doing it to gain approval from some sort of vain, flashy, arrogant boys that will still dump your sorry a.ss after a few months of knacking and spending. Then your a.ss truly becomes sorry for real

If most ladies will consider themselves, they wouldn't dabble into the almost diabolical things they do for self worth

MRBrownJ:
as any "corruption" in this world, there are 2 guilty people involved (the one offering and the one accepting). the more women keep on blaming just one side, the longer this issue will never come any closer to being resolved.

see as all you women are talking of men dying young due to infidelity while disregarding all these wives and mistresses dying of AIDS etc, thanks to these cheating men. whatever these men will catch, mummy will get it too.
all you women who knowingly stay with a cheating man are bound to catch whatever that man gets... and let me not even start with these same disrespectful men who beat/kill desperate low self esteem women like yourselves, who think they MUST accept whatever these men are doing and STAY MARRIED AT ALL COST.

thotianna:
I should copy this and send to her on whatsapp.

spiralwedge:
The pic on your profile rather made me laugh hard

spiralwedge:
If I were in your shoes or in the op's pastor's shoes, I will never have peace unless I buy back a new phone, regardless whatever the person says.

I am especially disappointed in the pastor, because upon loosing the phone he still collected his phone back. He is a fake pastor.

Finally, the op is stupid for giving him his phone back despite losing op's.

ilawanson44:
Hmmm! I doubt it o....one day, she may look for "human target" and husby is likely to be victim

Nitefury:
Bonsoir Jeune femme

ilawanson44:
Jesuzzzzz! You are very wicked! U see babe wey dey rant with her mouth alone and you are telling the OP to recommend martial art for her? So his teeth will disappear within few year of marriage

shamecurls:
[size=18pt]A ya ma tan ga![/size]

tomiobj:
Goan watch d film of avengers first and ull know its not

Toks2008:
So i am advising every Nigerian parent to ask their son(s) this vital question before spending a dime on his tertiary education and beg him to tell you the truth...

"Are you ready to go to school and acquire a degree to become self reliant financially or are you nursing the thought of going to school and latter come out to start Y+ or other illegal business"?


Be observant to the way he answers and make up your mind.

Odiegwu.

lovaleenny:
What will you do? Shout and scream at the man?invite everyone into the home who will beg you?d man sef go beg...den you will do shakara for one month or more and probably say you will leave him and he should stop seeing the girl...den everyone one will beg you not to leave the home for anoda woman and dt men cheat all the time and you'll believe and move on with your life. If yua lucky he won't do it to your face if you aren't.
.well?

Truth is i will do nothing...coz no matter the tantrums,and d outbursts that will ensue it will not take back the disrespect,disloyalty,infidelity and the fact that he chose the sidechick over you...so I'll do nothing,say nothing,react to nothing,not gonna call anybody and I'll move on with my life before i let one misely man called "horseband" give me sleepless nights over his own transgressions. If my silence doesn't make him have a rethink then it'll be time to plan my exit.

Honestly live is too short to allow someone hold the key to your happiness and peace of mind abeg

Cammo:
It's a risk I would never take. Child training is parents responsibility, so let her parents train her first. That student probably has a fellow student boyfriend she's spending your money on. You might just end up training another man's daughter for free.

You're a lady, you won't understand

Cammo:
It has always been the case, my dear. It's ok to have a young wife who's also a student but training a girl and hoping to marry her after graduation is a silly investment. That girl would dump your sorry ass later for another guy. I'm not just talking from a one-off experience. It's a different case altogether if she's orphaned; I'd know I'm sponsoring her education for the sake of humanity. Let the parents/guardian do the training themselves. She's their responsibility

Cammo:
I have a girlfriend that I plan to marry. She's a 100 Level student in UNILAG but is having difficulties paying her up school fees. Her mom, a widow, is doing her best but it's not enough. Since I'm a graduate and now working, I feel like helping out. It's an obligation I earnestly wish to take but my friends keep telling me that she would eventually dump my sorry ass for another guy before graduation, and there's nothing I can do. Very confused. I love her and I know she loves me too.
Please advice.