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Very confused oba |
Do.Not.Marry.Her until you see a genuine change (I highly doubt it). That being said, demand for a DNA test. Stop all forms of financial assistance until you do a DNA test from your own reliable doctor/center (so that she won't be able to tamper with the result). If she refuses, move on. If the child is really yours, she will come looking for you in the future. mickool: |
1) Do DNA 2) Confirm that she is really in Italy 3) Do not marry her 4) If the child is yours, carter for your child, but do not be manipulated 5) Next time use protection |
Parents sef no owe their pikin anything. Lots of parents that do not care about their children. For those of us that has caring parents, please be grateful. Nobody owes you anything (parents inclusive) in this world. We need to be more grateful and stop this entitlement nonsense. As tearoses said, this is one of the reasons peeps in the abroad (@ home sef), distance themselves from their relatives. Fesomu, please change. Call your uncle and genuinely show appreciation. Assist him whenever you can. Who knows, he might even hook you up with juicy employment or business. cococandy: |
robedu, You don try. You need to send him packing ASAP...before you do: Call a family meeting to let them know everything that happened. Those peeps will tell you that you shld keep helping that blood is thicker blah blah blah. Tell them to help him if they are that concerned...just watch how they will start grumbling. The purpose of the meeting is to let your family know so in case your brother harms you. After the meeting, kick him out and change your locks. Like someone said earlier, the moment you stop enabling him, he will hurt you...so please be wise and act swiftly. |
Lol In a way, I don't blame her though. She's in an industry that values the physical over the intellectual...so she has to look the part for her market to sell. Still better than her going for brazilian butt lift or implants. Her foreign colleagues also do all sort of ish. Truly sad that women subject themselves to all sort of ish to be termed 'sexy'. We women should take pride in what God gave us. If una have small boobs and butt, wear clothes that accentuates your features. francotorti: |
3 gbosa! mamawin: |
She's wearing butt pad though. Look closely at the fourth pose. It's nobody's business if you pad your butt or boobs, but don't deny it...better just stay silent. |
Your fiancée did what was best for her. You have an unforgiving spirit and like to oppress those deemed under you. So because of allegedly stealing a piece of cloth, you want the person to be lynched? Why not go after the politicians milking this country dry? Or your liver never reach? S.M.H. You are not yet matured for marriage. |
Why did you wait this long to demand for your car? Or you were demanding but she still didn't return it? At this point, your mil (and wife) already see you as a weakling. Only drastic steps can get you that car back. The best and swift thing to do is have her arrested. Yes it's harsh, but wicked people don't deserve mercy. The longer you delay, the less money you will get from the sale. So act NOW. If your wife disagrees, she does not want your progress. If care is not taken, she can leave you when things gets really tough for you. My opinion JCKA23: |
![]() Ritualists are real! If you go do runs, go and get 'cooked' to avoid stories that touch. |
EllaNkay, if you're going to help, help at a distance They will not appreciate whatever you do, so don't bend over backwards for them. They still have a sense of entitlement. Also try to not let her stay/live with you. If you must, collect her CV and submit to relevant positions. Even though we shouldn't repay evil with evil, one has to be wise when dealing with evil people. |
You have to go back unless you have other source(s) of income. That being said, try asking for few things i.e. increase in pay, break time, etc. Try not to be greedy though. Still keep in mind that you need other sources of income so that you can leave that place. Abuse in the work place is rampant in Nigeria. lenposh: |
Not in all cases o...if you google am, you go fear. Look at the ones that became models or beauty queens. Mehn, berra ask for original birth certificate and baby pictures. ![]() rawpadgin: |
![]() Parental methods differ from one family to the other. Personally, everything is wrong with the child. The mother is trying too hard to turn her into an adult: 1) A child that young should have nothing to do with using attachment to do braids that tiny. 2) That shorts (and i use the word loosely...looks more like underwear) is highly inappropriate to wear out in public (or to take pictures and post)...by any age bracket. No matter how much you want to agree or disagree; you are addressed the way you dress. Train up your child in the way s/he should go, and when s/he's grown, s/he won't depart from it. Decent dressing habit starts from early childhood. Anyway, na her child. She should be ready to bear any consequences that might result from her actions or inaction. |
![]() Those things were made for women that had mastectomy. |
Nigerians can be funny sometimes. Even if the links were directed to his blog, should it matter? Clicking on a link that directs one to informative content should not be a problem. Also, whats the big deal in clicking and helping someone else's hustle? S.M.H Back to the topic, one has to screen every tv show, books etc before allowing access to children. It's been known (and proven) that 'catching them while young' is the most effective way to spread any agenda. |
onyekachee, also, if the roomie already moved out, please tell your friend to change the locks pending the time the issue gets resolved. Below are some tips: 1) If the roomie wants to bring in her own friend, your friend has to vet her before she moves in 2) Your friend looks for a roomie herself...no matter how long that takes. Again, please tell her to change the locks. |
There are still lessons to learn from that story. When you stay in an abusive marriage/relationship, more often than not, the trauma has/have negative effect on the child(ren). |
WOMEN (and some men), this is the result of staying in abusive marriage. The guy is truly demented. How can you watch while the person you love (or claim to love) sleeps on a cold bare ground while you sleep comfortably in a bed? Or disrespect her in public? We women too should have self respect. |
Any family member or close friends can send in names. Here's what my parents did: dad gave us our official first names, mum gave us our official middle names. Official refers to the names on the birth certificate. I believe the above method is fair. |
There is NO justification for ràpe. That being said, the girl was very foolish. The guy should also be in jail. |
Yes, he can start gym @ jss1...if not, then martial arts class. GloryIsaac: |
GloryIsaac, if he does not confide in you, sign him up for martial arts or enroll him in a gym/boxing ring. The above suggestions will help in building and boosting his self esteem and confidence. |
I have observed that if the bride and groom have different ideas about the wedding/traditional ceremony, that marriage is doomed from the beginning. snowytee, you guys need to agree about finances. Trust me, na she go shout if una start to drink garri after wedding o. If she insists, be ready to move on (yes that sounds harsh). Because if you succumb (without guaranteed outside help), the likelihood of regretting it is very high. If you can't persuade your fiancée, it doesn't bode well for your marriage. Stick to your original budget. If she still says no, biko tell her that you will have to move on. If she truly loves you, she will be willing to reach a compromise. Many men fell for that trap and they still regret their decisions. Some have even started to take out the frustration on the wife. If at this point, she'll rather do a 'notice me' ceremony rather than plan with you on how to build a house (or other investments), then FLEE. She might end up being a type of wife that will buy expensive aso ebi just to appear rich. Even if you have the money, it is not advisable to spend it on a days' event. Rather, pour it on something that has healthy ROI. Please, be wise. |


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