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Hmmmmm



Someone called my attention to this thread and I decided to start reading all over again.



I bless the name of God for the grace given to me to man-up and began this thread.



I read it to a point that I started shedding tears.


To everyone that has deemed it fit to comment... express their annoyance towards my silliness.... insulted me.... corrected and guided me to reset my factory....I want to say a very big THANK YOU for your inputs.... it's all working for good in my life Right now.




Hmmmm... life has been cruel and I've learnt the bitter lessons of not waiting for my right time to choose a life partner....I hope God sees me through all this.



I've moved on...it hasn't been easy....but I thank God for his grace to move.


I'm still teaching and raising my kids all alone....I've also started my Bsc sandwich program..


I've come to realize what peace of mind is all about... I'm not rich...but I'm comfortable and contented with the little I'm earning...my kids are also doing well.


Internet never forgets....I hope Diye and Kiishi grows up responsibly to read all my input on here....I apologize for not being able to give them a responsible Dad...


I'm sorry for my epistle...I just want you all to know that... your comments up there has been the wheels propelling my success....I pray I end well against all odds IJN.


Thanks so much for everything sirs/mas.


Cc : Lizzyangel

Congratulations

I'm surprised at the notification I got on this thread.


. firstly....I reject the curse...I shall not die but live to declare the works of the lord.


Secondly.....I am not bjprodint and would never be her..my only monicker since 2012 joining Nairaland was lizzyangel..I deactivated the account and started using this newborn since the beginning of my predicaments.



I don't know your reason for bringing this up neither do I know you from Adam.....I just want you to be informed that I've moved on..learnt my lessons the bitter way ......used both the critics... scolding and insults gotten from here to propel the wheels of my dreams.


Kindly move on also and get over all this already..... your voice can be heard without you sending curses across too.



Shalom

If this story were to be truth..... I'd like to say the woman involved is an ingrate.
Na people like her they make men generalize on women.


She should put herself in the shoes of her husband and check how much it's going to hurt her.


Her baby daddy who was never there for 9yrs is now a saint all of sudden?



Aye le!

Peace of mind

I no run Helter skelter....I give glory to God.


Although....I never hammer

But I'm not giving up..... I'd surely get there and overcome all someday....

Hmmmmm

Very deep.


Thanks for sharing op

God bless my dad and all the RESPONSIBLE fathers out there... may you live long to eat the fruit of your làbour IJN.

On the food section

Shout out to

Egbon mi GboyegaD
Akposy
Cococandy
Blueraydick
Pestonn
Gloryhomemaker


Even though una no give us the finger licking food chop....lol....you guys really made my 2022 memorable.




Family section ....shout out to
Ahnie
Romanoff
Lusciouslyon
Mindlog
GboyegaD
Cococandy
Pocochantas
Ishilove
Oldinavie
Jabolo


You guys should keep up with the good work on there


Romance....shout out to
Kollins11 d bittered heartbroken guy
Infogenius
Dayleke baami Sir
Siofra...NL diva..


Others


Verywickedgoat
Slawormir
Orgasmgiver.....damn nasty!
.... politics nightmare
Folykaze...hmmmm.... thanks for everything




And to my G.O.A.T.....seun....the founder of Nairaland.....more grace....more achievements bro......omo Ogun kii sashe..omo Ogun kii shole....e bere gberu o.... Oluwa mbe funwa e tera mose o...ise ya!..... Omoh Ogun ise ya!!!


#smiles

Hmmmmm


The groom would have seen her behaving in such manner before the wedding day for him to have that courage to still stand by her against all odds.



I wish them a happy married life and also wish her speedy recovery from whatsoever might be troubling her.


Pathetic.

Op lemme advice you based on my personal experience...... insecurity can cause you harm than good.... to you.... you thought you cared and was checking out on your love not knowing you're diving into a wrong destination.....it will only get worse that even when she's heavily pregnant on nursing a baby you'd want to monitor her movements and you'd graduate into getting annoyed when you can't access her.... you'd start suspecting that she's cheating on you... from there to domestic violence then murder (God forbid)


As the posters above had said.... work on yourself as this act would repeat itself in your new relationship.....I salute the lady's level of maturity.....had I knew this much about iñsecurity...I wouldn't have ended up this way.


Please let her go and work on your own self....if she's yours.... she'd definitely be back into your life..... when she do.... kindly tell her to change all her password to avoid you from gaining too much access to her and also control your level of iñsecurity.



Shalom bro.

Antimarraige:
stupid question, you can stay sad all your life if you want to ,some of us are happy with the way we live our lives. who are you trying to gaslight lol? Abi you miss road?

What has having fun and enjoying one's life got to do with family members? I take care of my family as I deem fit, na you know if all your family members don die finish, live your life how you want and let others live thiers too

With your dry bones body like eja panla, alara gbigbe, your own dry bones no fit rise again

Chai!


You too get bad mouth


See finishing lol



What if God intervenes like the days of Elijah?

Nairaland oooo....una no go kill pesin

brain54:
Hahahaha…

You Dey there Dey speak English.

You see ma.d man Dey roam for market you stay Dey ask am question.
Na wah to you o!

Hmmmm



He isn't mad to me........ he's just got some first-hand horrible experience with my gender which I'm quite inquisitive to know about.

The way he's going..... something needed to be done on his mindset...... the generalization isn't worth it...... I'm sure he's got many female around him.... mother.... sisters.....aunt's..,nieces and would have a daughter in the future.....




I'm just bothered àbout how wild he's growing daily with his comment that reeks of hatred towards the female gender.




Na im make me ask am.....I no sabi English biko..


Smiles

Kollins11:
Confused and useless gender.



If God can't satisfy this gender, then who da fvck am I to satisfy these useless daughters of jezebel? Reason I treat them exactly like a piece of trash.

Double wahala for guys wey dey take this useless daughters of jezebel serious.

I am extremely sorry to quote you Sir.....but I've been curious to ask you this.....after a while of reading your comments on Nairaland..... you always sound bittered towards the female gender......is it that you've been severally jilted or maltreated by the female gender or what could have turned you this way Sir?



I seriously wish you could share your story.....we might have to learn one or two things from it....but your generalization on the female gender is extreme that it hurts my heart reading your comments Sir.




I understand how corrupt the society is but I'm still confident to tell you that there are females out there that are still very responsible.



It depends on individual differences.



I'd be so glad to read your response Sir.


Thanks.

Wow!


A thread dated back to 2014 is making frontpage in 2022.....8years later.... there's hope for me in life....I believe.

guobe:
Are you not happy in your marriage.what is the issue.

It's well my brother.

bukatyne:
Why are you doing all these?

Why do you think you don't deserve better? Better here might not even be another man; it might be having peace on your own.

Why are you doing all these

I myself.....I don't understand..... I've got everything and every reason to be alone and have peace..... some said I have low self-esteem.... others said I'm charmed while few said I'm dumb.


But the fact is, I don't understand why I committed myself this much?

Maybe it's because I entered this institution as a teenager.... Maybe my mind ain't healthy or maybe I'm too churchy.... I'm stuck .....I just hope I'd survive All this and write a triumphant story.

Konjiboii:
It will still get worse,not until this women folk admit to drop their shoulders down and accept their roles and be submissive. I doubt we still have women out here that still maintain the proper African woman virtues. The powers that be have finally succeeded in enslaving all Africans mentally before the proper war begins.

The problem about Nairaland men is generalization...... you kept putting all the blame on women.....there are millions of ladies out there that still maintain proper African woman virtues as you disclaimed ...but what did they get in return? Abuses all around..... such ladies are tortured by men taking their choice of being an original african woman for granted.




I'm a living example of such women..... although I'm not legally married.....but there's nothing I haven't done for the past 10yrs to keep a home....I shoulder responsibilities, made huge sacrifices .... lost a child and almost died.,... yet my commitment and sacrifices are being rewarded with abuses..... despite the numerous abuses.....I stood my ground never to cheat despite having all that it takes to cheat.



All the reasons I read on daily basis why people divorce kept me thinks I deserve honorary award for all I've been doing.....many ladies are not ready to suffer with guys again cos your gender don't appreciate such ladies...... they now go for already made guys and can't endure little trouble cos of the people's stories they've heard and seen in the past. the major thing is..... finding a soulmate is the key in marriage....a committed spouse will remain committed.. come what may.... while a traitor will remain the same.



"Ba gunyan ninu odo, ti a sebe ninu epo epa....eni toma yo a yo"

Poverty

Kobojunkie:
What Kdrama was that?

Korean drama

vivaciousvivi:
Hi sis
I had to give them out to others in need of it
Just the cabinet remains

Hunn?hunn?!

I'm pained ..... but God understand best.

Take a very good care of yourself and family ma'am.... may God be with you till we meet again.


Bye for now ma.

vivaciousvivi:
No, I have left.
Just the cabinet is available and it's with the neighbours next door

I guess right then.

I really feel sorry for not making it..

How about those things you told to bring bags for?(I don't want to want to mention it online)


If they are also with the neighbor....I can go for it and also buy the cabinet in return..... I believe at the appointed time.....I'd surely meet you in person.

I wish you best of luck in all your endeavors o'er there ma'am.

lalasticlala:
Number 2. That's me. No time for church politics and gossips. Worship and go home.

Welcome back Mr Lalasticlala.... it's been long we saw you on here.....where have you been sir?

vivaciousvivi:
Hello,
Just the kitchen cabinet with marble top

Are you still around ni?

I thought you already left?

Can I still come over if you're around?

Misplaced priorities.

vivaciousvivi:
Haba! No issues na
Just that you would have really benefited especially for the kitchen stuff which I ended up giving a young couple. So there was still gain at the end. Hope your dad is feeling better now?
Cheers

Thanks so much for your understanding.... you can't understand how pained I was but God understands better.


To the glory of God he's 80% back on his feet.

Shalom

Kingpele:
Wow...the solution to all this nonsense is to have a working refineries that can atleast produce the daily needs of the citizens because I feel is madness and wickedness to the highest level to export crude oil and then import the end products...this is why we should vote out APC and prevent PDP from winning the presidency next year..this two parties are real disaster and badluck to our polity ...if u want to borrow money use it to build good refineries but no they will rather borrow money they will share among themselves..

Truthfully you're point..... BUT do you realize that Nigeria's problem is not about political party but the people involved?


Our "leaders are corrupt to the extent that....they don't mind dinning with the devil to remain politically relevant"


No matter whom you vote for ( APC ,PDP LABOUR PARTY) you'd be surprised to see the same people insulting one another during campaign defecting to the newest ruling party and they corrupt the new candidate thereby diverting all his/her goodwill for the country cos "a single tree can never make a forest"



Change begins from the family through schools to the society cos "charity begins at home"

vivaciousvivi:
Did u by any chance know a teacher referred to as Mr. Lo wo le? Cos of one paralyzed hand? Very wicked man. He made up for the deficiency by making the other hand extra painful with his strokes.

Lol

Good evening ma'am.... I'm sorry for the other day I was 99.9% ready until my dad issue arrived......I felt so pained as I couldn't meet you....I believe God understand everything.

Forgive my shortcomings ma.


How's your end ma?

dayleke:
Lol

Eku ojo meta sir.

I hope you and yours are doing okay?

Thanks for EVERYTHING.

Life ain't balance aswear!


Eni lori...koni fila....enito ni fila,...kori ori de si.

To God be the glory... he's responding to all the treatments so far...only that h hasn't stand on his feet by himself......wish is my major concern... I'd post the names of the prescribed drugs we've been using when I'm through typing it.


I don't know if there is a therapy or an exercise we can help with to enable him stand on his feet.

He's always complaining of heat despite the cold weather...we had to put the fans on always for him....I hope this is safe?

Good evening to the health practitioners in the house.


Kindly help me with prescription and ways of curing stroke.

A very dear person of mine had an attack 3days ago where he slumped in the bathroom..... this caused his left hand and leg to paralyze..... we've spent a lot on drugs and herbs.... yet he can't still stand on his feet.... we've been carrying him to do daily tasks.


This is saddening my heart and I don't want to show how worried I am cos I'm the only one not crying yet giving others some courage that all will be well.... .. it's hurting me seeing him In this state.


Doctors and nurses in the house, please enlighten me on what to do and what not to do..... people have been coming with different stories and ideas .....I don't have any one except God.

Save him please.

dominique
Sissy3
Mynd44
lalasticlala
Seun


Please push this thread to frontpage for a wider view.

Thanks

Congratulations op.

May God grant you your heart desires So you can unite with her.

Hello.