Mariangeles:
All I can say is Mr B would soon come to create a thread on nairaland about how his wife does not love him and is cold towards him

Can you please expatiate on this?

uruba23:

I said one is dominant the other is redundant..which means one stay at the friend zone but still very much under consideration.

uruba23:

Well unfortunately that is the reality you don't put all your egg in one basket else desperation sets in..You do lose your mind if she elope some even commit suicide...meanwhile it is just one party doing all the loving ....my red and yellow girlfriend is more of my soul mate at least that is how I see her, but if she choose to go for someone else I won't break down I would simply wish her the very best not because I am not crazy about her but life has thought me many lessons sometimes things happens for a reason and OP friend need not trouble himself much.Yes she might have all the alluring qualities but would she be happy living with you,are your soul tie together.Enough of my epistles ....Happy Sunday.

What if the two women stay till the end?

unbranded13:
Karma at work...he should go n settle with his ex-babes

uruba23:

Hi there ...Don't understand the competition .Tell your friend they are many fish in the ocean.

He's close to 40, and the lady seems to tick all the boxes for him. Hopefully he'd come out strong.

bukatyne:
Is this a story or real life?

The girl must be made of gold for two men to fight tooth and nail to get her.

Yeah. My friend is still recovering.

How 'You did not insist' cost my friend his relationship, hence a proposal ring lying fallow in his wardrobe. 


Dramatis personae:
Girl: Ms A
My friend: Mr A
Girl's other boyfriend: Mr B

It was a lovely morning as the clouds basked in the euphoria of another day, overseeing the madness of Lagosians as they went to work. The day also marked the best last quarter of 2019 for Mr A. 

He saw Ms A on her way to work. The moment she caught his attention was the same moment he gravitated towards her as he hoped for a better avenue to develop a seemingly possible relationship...or so he thought.

Mr A, a natural charmer, got along well with Ms A. As with most relationships, it was pertinent to develop a bond. Whilst doing so, dark clouds were forming over this blooming flower of love my friend held. Mr B lurked in the shadows! And he would prove to be a thorn in Mr A's neck. 

Mr B, a devout worshipper, is a typical woman's dream: sensible, industrious, got his shit together with just a few falling--we have all baggage, right? So noone is perfect.

Mr B has been in a relationship with Ms A for about 5 years (within that time frame, Ms A has rejected his marriage proposal twice)
As Mr A was building his ammunition for his romantic love, Mr B was also on the same streak. Ms A hadn't hidden anything from both parties. Mr A and Mr B knew they were competitors. (Channel 171 on @DStv) 


Ms A and Mr A were getting along really great as it appeared she was leaving Mr B...but he wouldn't go down without a fight. He started planning his THIRD proposal. Mr A was planning his first proposal alongside other plans like moving houses and those basic stuff. 

One day in December 2019, Mr A chipped in the idea of proposal, and place but Ms A didn't show up for no genuine reason--at least from Mr A's PoV.

Come January 2020, Mr A refired his ammunition of proposal (not actual proposal though) but Ms A said, "I need a week to be sure." 

Within that week, Ms A cut off communication with Mr A. All efforts to get to her proved abortive. Suddenly, the dark clouds rained horror.
Prior to the one-week hiatus of Ms A, she had 'broken' off with Mr B who had then landed in the hospital due to HBP. 

Man was distraught. We all felt his pain.

In the wake of his collapse and hospitalisation, Mr B's mum had to do something to save her son; she invited Ms A for a discussion which Ms A acceded to. 

Ms A walked into a proposal party setup by Mr B's mum.


"To save him another embarrassment, I had to collect it", she told Mr A, "I'd return it", she concluded. Mr A was 'assured' as the night sank into the realm of possibilities. 

That weekend, Mr A's WhatsApp brought him a devastating, nerve shattering discovery. Ms A, proudly rocking her ring, was dancing at a party with Mr B. Still calm, Mr A reached out to Ms A.
"I thought I blocked you on WhatsApp", she said.
"What!?"
"Didn't want you to see it." 


Slightly rattled, Mr A made his own proposal move.

Ms A rejected!

"But this wasn't the discussion", Mr A quizzed.
"If you had proposed earlier, I would have accepted." Mr A reminded Ms A of the proposed party where he wanted to propose but she failed to show up.

"Yeah, but you did not insist that I come."

"What!?"

"I said I was busy and you said okay, you should have insisted." 


All emotions rolled into one. Mr A had lost Ms A to Mr B because he failed to insist that she should attend a beach party.

End of story! 

Oh, Mr A is in bad shape though but everything is surmountable with grit and love. His proposal ring is still waiting...

When man was active on Nairaland...

Ejadike:
which device is that?

Redmi 4X

Really happy my brother introduced me to the phone. The phone is great. I use at work and home to control the projector, TV, Dstv, AC etc
Crazy camera, game speed etc. Quality of sound? 10/10.

They have people that they're in serious relationships with, which might count as marriage to them. Call it 'side relationship' or whatsoever.

Untreatable 'super gonorrhea' case could be 'tip of the iceberg'

The medical community is sounding the alarm after a man in the U.K. has become the first patient with a type of gonorrhea infection that is not responding to the antibiotics commonly used to cure it.
Doctors are calling it the “worst-ever” case of the sexually transmitted disease, which hits approximately 78 million men and women every year.

According to the BBC, the unidentified man had a regular partner but picked up the disease earlier this year after a sexual encounter with a woman in South East Asia.
"This is the first time a case has displayed such high-level resistance to both of these drugs and to most other commonly used antibiotics," said Dr. Gwenda Hughes, from Public Health England, to the BBC.

For years now, doctors and scientists have been warning that the bacteria that cause gonorrhea are becoming more resistant to antibiotics.
"The bacteria that cause gonorrhoea are particularly smart. Every time we use a new class of antibiotics to treat the infection, the bacteria evolve to resist them," said Dr. Teodora Wi, Medical Officer, Human Reproduction, at World Health Organization (WHO).

Based on data pulled from 77 countries, WHO has found widespread resistance to older and cheaper antibiotics. Some countries – particularly high-income ones, where surveillance is best – are finding cases of the infection that are untreatable by all known antibiotics.

"These cases may just be the tip of the iceberg, since systems to diagnose and report untreatable infections are lacking in lower-income countries, where gonorrhea is actually more common," Dr. Wi said in a report last year.
The WHO lists decreasing condom use, increased urbanization and travel, poor infection detection rates and inadequate or failed treatment as contributors to the increase.

If left untreated, gonorrhea can lead to pelvic inflammatory disease, ectopic pregnancy, stillbirths, severe eye infections in babies and infertility in both men and women.

In the United States, there are approximately 300,000 reported cases of gonorrhea each year. But because infected people often have no symptoms, the actual number of cases is likely closer to 600,000, according to Reuters.

Source: http://www.foxnews.com/health/2018/04/02/untreatable-super-gonorrhea-case-could-be-tip-iceberg.amp.html?__twitter_impression=true

Lol

And someone still believes Nigeria as a nation will grow.

fonefreak:
being popular is not success.

Really?
I agree with you.

Even if dude gets evicted today, he has made it...and probably several steps ahead of the pained dude. Refocus your energy and be more positive.

It's cheap

A recent research shows that there's what we call brain plasticity which means brain can 'grow'.
Get her to read life books and watch British movies (many people find them boring, you know why now).
You can bring up debate topics, teach her analysis and evaluation. She will come good. It takes though.

Why take his picture then? I believe he has an ID on him. Come on Nigerians, we should be smarter than this. Someone could have called the number (s) behind his ID or the nearest hospital. How does his display over social media help his loved ones? Safe to say then that many of us are not emotionally intelligent.

Jijeoma:
How those drivers take dey do am They always survive

Modern cars are designed to protect the driver first. Not really surprised he survived.

Stress symptoms

Accurate information...

You need to understand that you can't stop kids of these days. Sit the dude down and let him see dangers of porn.

Madness.
Pastor ran out of ideas but found a way of engaging his people just like teachers do to kids.
Somewhere in their Bible, it's written that we do not war against the flesh or physical entities but they're too blind and dull to comprehend.

For the umpteenth time, there's nothing like church marriage in the Bible. The famous wedding Jesus attended was a traditional wedding likewise other prophets before him.
Court, traditional or sky wedding is valid in the sight of God

A fidget spinner will be sufficient.

Anything goes on front page

You can't

He's killing himself