Generally men are ashamed of this kind of thing. Bring the matter amongst his work friends, his group members in Church, his university classmates.
I bet u, he will chase her away.

Lovilla:
My married sister kept complaining how thier house help is about to bring her marriage to the mud.

She said her husband is no longer giving her attention like before just few months the maid arrived.

The maid is taking over her marriage slowly, as her husband only eats food prepared by the house girl.

She has been crying all day.
She said she has tried everything possible to chase the girl away but her husband always kicks against it.

She is afraid of loosing her marriage.

Please, what must she do?

Look at what an insane human is gibberish if. Guys be careful who u marry or in this commenter”s case- what u marry.

cococandy:
When sick and old in-laws come to love with the family, the expectation is that the wife will be the one to provide care for the sick and old family member. So your wife should have the final say on who’s coming for extended say in my opinion.

Because let’s face it, your wife would have been the one to give your mom bed baths, bathroom care etc. now that her mom is coming, she’s still the one who will be expected to do that. Not you.

So it might not be the presence of your mom she didn’t want. She just didn’t want the extra responsibility which invariably falls on her. Before you ask why she can’t treat your mom the way she treats her mom, know that her mom will be willing to die for her but your mom won’t. That’s the difference

Bro your Mom”s spirit will never be happy if u agree. If u ever want peace in ur life, treat ur mother-in-law exactly the same way u treated ur mom. Rent a place for her.

Equity and fairness is what this is called.
This is a dire warning.

ozalogbo:
I am the first child of my mother, and I have two younger male siblings. I am doing well financially. My wife is the last of four children in her family. My dad died when I was still in the university, and this affected my mum.

However, as she aged, her health waned. She was a retired teacher. My brothers are not in the country. Both of them are in Europe. I wanted to have my mother stay with me in her later years because of her health and loneliness but my wife did not want it.

Whenever she was ill and I brought her home to be with us, my wife was usually hostile, especially if my mum had stayed beyond a week. She did not hid her disapproval, and this caused problems in the marriage. People advised that I should send my mum away and pay someone to live with her and take care of her. They said that marriage was between a man and his wife, not between a man, his wife, and his mother. I did and peace returned. Eventually my mum passed on after a few years.

Along the line, my father in law also died. And down the line, my mother in law's health began to deteriorate. We live in the same town. Among my wife's siblings she is the only one doing quite well. Now there are suggestions that the mother should come and live with us so that my wife can give her proper care. I believe that her living with us and seeing her grandchildren will help her. And indeed i have no problem accepting her, but when i remember the treatment my wife gave to my mum, there is a strong revulsion, in fact, anger in me. I shared with a friend, and he advised i forgive my wife, but the revulsion is so strong that i would feel cheated if i agreed.

What do you guys think. She reminded me then that marriage was between a man and his wife only. Shouldn't this also apply to my wife now?

Are u not stupid. You ask a lady for a nude, she sends u, and ur trying to say what exactly now?
Im a guy, but guy, u Bleep up.

Tombrown3:
I've had countless girls send me their nudes on WhatsApp, and some of these girls are considered "good girls" outside social media, which brings me to this question.

Is it advisable to have a serious commitment as marriage with any of these girls?

You know the truth. You can never tell a girl is loyal until u bring her in company of other correct guys and she doesn’t Bleep up.
I once had a fiancé. Church girl, she doesn’t give other guys her number. The day a particular Naija guy with American accent met her at work. Like play like play, fiancé started crushing, gave guy her number. Chat every nite.
I scattered the friendship and dumped her sorry ass.

thegroomspa:
Continue...

She went back to work, and later that day evening I started receiving a message on Whatsapp from her friend I once meet asking want happened between I and her friend...

On explaining things to her, she said there was nothing wrong that if I love her friend enough that shouldn't be an issue...

I was so angered that I stopped replying to her friend...

Then my girl started texting me on Whatsapp apologizing and at the same time swearing with her life that she can't sleep or do anything that her head and her heart are heavy...

I became afraid so she doesn't hurt herself, I then replied her and fixed a place to meet her after work...

We meet and I pointed out everything she burst to tears saying it wasn't true that it's not what I think and was swearing with her life...

I told her I forgave her...

This month made it the 7th month and i have not bleeped her since we met...I initiated it to ease up a little bit...we've made love twice now...

But I still feel insecure when ever am around her and don't trust her...

I feel like quitting...




Am so pained...

Is this one mad.

TheAlchemist:
A child calls you father for more than 4 years and you still went to do a DNA test... I dont understand.

Guy ur smart.
I pity the man that married u in the first place.
Just imagine this lady. Ur husband wanted both of u to buy land, u said no. U want it for urself(selfishness).
He ate ur 200k, which could have been agency fee. U left ur marriage because of that.
It’s either ur a demon or something is wrong with u.
Because u are not capable of love.

Fahvvy:
How do you forgive him?
By forgiving him na ...

Marriage is not relationship o that you can brezz in and out as you wish ...
Marriage will test and stretch you farther than anything else will ..

On a more serious note...
It's clear and glaring that you don't consider yourself as a team? ...

Let's look at your write up ...

I have always helped him in his house projects,might not be much 100k,50k,20k when need be,I never siphoned my money to myself,as a young lady I envisioned my pretty little family on my head,(3 children, handsome husband and pretty wife with a fine car living happily)

Now to the main problem,I think it all started when he told me he has seen a genuine plot of land that "we" should buy it together,I told him no,I want the land all by myself I have money to pay for it,( just want to have something tangible for myself alone) he said no problem.He sent me an account number of the seller I sent 600k to the seller."we" did the necessary documents and everyone was happy.

So even when "two have become one" you still act as if you guys are not a team ...

The only time the word "we" appeared there, it was because it was suggested by your hubby ...

So while he sees you guys as a team, you see yourself as competitors ...

Until you change your mindset, it's best you don't go back ...

I'm not trying to excuse your hubby's actions, however, if you intend to go back with this mindset of unforgiveness, disunity and distrust, just be prepared for everyday quarrel ...

And that too will affect your kids ...

God Bless you brother....

Doyou2019:


Vote kini?? Olorun maje.
Yours truly is OBIdient for life!
We Yorubas are wide awake with you folks on the other end of the South.
They don't call Obi a national project for nothing, my brother.
We die here!!!

Ephesians 5:22-23. Your husband is your lord na. Why is that too hard to obey. Alot of women will be single for a longgggggg time.

nlfpmod:
As shared by Helen Chioma, a Twitter user:



https://twitter.com/Helenchiomaking/status/1549864872623718402?t=dRAzBHebXSgKKmtve7Kr5w&s=08

So many little kids on this forum.
NOW LISTEN, WHEN A LADY USES CUM instead of COME, She is asking for somethng else. Be wise.

DamnnNiggarr:
My Bossom childhood friend was financially down and needed financial assistance because his landlord was suffocating him with his constant nagging. So he contacted me as his old guy and and told me the situation on ground and requested for financial assistance from me. I didn't hesitate in sending him the money which he summed up with the one he had and cleared his house rent.

So, this afternoon, his wife texted me, and in her text, she thanked me for the assistance and requested to pay me a visit and and help me with some of my chores since my wife is in Bayelsa. From the very moment I set my eyes on that text, I haven't been myself knowing fully well that one thing may lead to another during her visit/stay.

That my guy is so dear to me and we treat each other with utmost respect so for this reason, I wouldn't like to loose that respect and trust. This woman is anticipating my response, according to her.

Please house, how do I discourage her from visiting me in my wife's absence without it looking as if I'm avoiding her? What does she want? Who has been in this type of situation and how did you resolve the issue without creating enmity?

How far Gee, Im coming in June 22nd to vancouver.
How far Accomodation. I wont mind sharing with you. Im Chino, coming for MBA in UCW.
chino.igwe@yahoo.com

legionISproteus:
Your job should be able to let you afford rent. Start with a smaller accommodation bro

You listen to Inspiration FM and just post here...This was said exactly on Paperview ...

PrinceOfLagos:


https://dailypost.ng/2022/05/16/2023-why-my-wife-will-never-forget-amaechi-gov-el-rufai/

You listen to Inspiration FM and just post here......

PrinceOfLagos:


https://dailypost.ng/2022/05/16/2023-why-my-wife-will-never-forget-amaechi-gov-el-rufai/

Las las, na man go marry u. U will still kneel down and serve him food. Except u no wan marry born pikin. Feminist my ass.

Jennyclay:
Honestly, don't mind those poverty stricken broke men.. Broke men have plenty wahala oo! God forbid if I ever date any of them.

aaah, broke men wahala opoor!!

See mumugirl o.
So If a man buys u a car, u use the car to be carrying another man. And have sex with another man inside the car. U say The man shouldn’t collect it back? Ya must be mad.

orohbiro:
You bought her gift then she break ur heart or u guys have quarrel or she rejected ur proposer u went ahead to collect your gift u are a weak man not a strong man.
In fact u not a gentle man u are not qualify to be a man in the ist place.
If u are doing that u should stop it is embarrassing

Shut up jare. Dis he mention name?

mastermaestro:


Very very unprofessional, I am telling you.

Acts 5:28-29 isnt even talking about blood transfusion.
It was the pple that crucified Jesus that were afraid that Jesus Blood might come to hunt them.
Are u people alright like dis?

grandstar:
Pecoleee345
The wife did not make the decision. Her husband did. She was simply obeying his decision. I am a Jehovah's Witness.

Now imagine it was the wife that needed blood and the husband "rejected"? Was it the husband that made the decision or the wife? This is the same wife that rejected blood transfusion for her husband, knowing fully well the implication?


No Witness wants to die. We are simply following scriptural injunctions to abstain from blood.

We are urged to obey Caeser and we do our utmost in that regard. All Jehovah's Witness working in the headquarters and branches globally are all vaccinated. All our members have been advised to get vaccinated,but not imposed. At the end, it's a personal decision.

We are just only opening our doors to our meetings this April. All our meetings till now have been on Zoom.

However, in the area of blood vaccinations, we will obey God as ruler, rather than man (Read Acts 5:28-29)

To learn why we reject blood transfusion, please visit this link https://www.jw.org/en/bible-teachings/questions/bible-about-blood-transfusion/

You can listen to it as an audio if you prefer.

Oga shut up. You dont have the right. Yu dont even have the right to kill yourself.
The doctors have all right to save you.

ableguy:

Which Europe?
Una go just open mouth waa dey talk wetin u no know, abi dem tell you say Jehovah's witnesses in Europe don't refuse blood transfusions and in some cases may not survive?
Or you don't know everyone have the right to choose a particular kind of treatment? In fact one can even outrightly reject treatment, it's his right and will be respected.
Maybe because people don't sue organizations here that's why everybody do as they like and this is one good case to head to court.
Abi u think say I don't have the right to sue you for issuing a particular kind of treatment that I abhor?

The stupid thing about the JW doctrine is,,: when this same pple go abroad, they cant tell the doctor not to use another person Blood. They dare not. Is only in Nigeria JW they do this nonsense.

Kobojunkiee:
Apart from the law, right and wrong becomes subjective. Following her belief, she is probably convinced she is righteous in her decision. Throwing such things as tradition and norms at others only holds meaning if they also subscribe to the same set of norms and traditions that you do.

As for who owns the man, the man owned his own self...and he chose ti sign it away to the JW ideology.

This is indeed a sad situation but their isn't anything that can be done at this point. The woman was rightly her husband’s guardian by law and she choose to uphold their religious belief over whatever standard others may have or belief in. There is really nothing to that can be rightly done about that.

U dont have sense brother.

Kobojunkiee:
The woman was married to the man at the time of his death, so there is technically nothing wrong with what she did.

Being in charge of the bills does not give one legal guardianship so the in-laws are wrong in assuming they should have been consulted on the matter. So the in-laws should probably work on accepting their loss and moving on from this.

U mean Tesla?
U mean " Met someone like that"?

moralex:
meet someone like that too, doesn't know who Elon musk is and Tasla

Guyyyyyyyyyyyy You are a HERO. Never allow a looser outsmart u. Guys be WARNED.

nurez305:
The first red flag was when she started ignoring my calls.

I went to her house to know what is going on and I met a guy there but he excuse us immediately, later she went to take her bath and drop the phone on the sofa. I was with her phone when the text message from that guy that left enter with only "OK" . then I open the message and I saw the previous conversation between them.

The guy said : when you know your boy-friend is coming to your house today, why did you invite me also to come

My fucking GF replied : he is not my boyfriend, he is only a friend


After reading that, I started sweating inside their house after I have spent on the idiot.

I bought her the phone,
Pay her school fee,
Give her money whenever she ask
When her father died, I paid her trip to and fro and also give her change to hold to her village.


I felt like a loser and was very heartbroken. I summon courage and told her to return back my phone after telling her what I saw in her inbox, she accuse me of checking her messages without her consent and she refuse to give me the phone.

I threten her that if she refuse to return my phone that I won't take it lively with her. She reported me to police and they set a trap for me, she told me to come to somewhere to collect the phone, on getting there, I was arrested and the police force me to write a statement that I will never disturb her because of this phone again. I did and they told me to call one of my relatives to come and bail me and be my witness. I did that and I was granted bail and told us to come the next day.

The next day, the police woman try to settle the issue between us and she said we should not fight each other again and continue our relationship. And the police officer told her to delete all the threat messages I sent to her which he did.


NOW IS MY TURN TO REVENGE
After about 2months that will depart, she taught I have forgotten everything she does to me not knowing that I'm only waiting for the best time to strike her back. I went to area command to hire police, the man charged me 30k and told me not to worried that what she does was very bad. I lead the way to her house and she was shocked to see me again, she quickly call her mum and to tell her, we arrested her in her shop then and the police put an allegation on her that she hire tug to beat me up because I requested for my phone from her. She started crying that is a lie. The police ask for the receipt of the phone from her and she told them that I bought it for her, they collected the phone and detained her until her family show.

I later tell the police to allow her to go but I need to collect the phone. The man said it is important I do that.... After everything, I collected the phone and leave them in the station.


Foolish olosho

If this story is real. Just say these prayers now:
Father Lord, I come to You today. I know I’m a sinner. Help me not to sin anymore. Be my Lord & personal savior. In Jesus Name. Amen.

Then Block her number. Then delete it. And never fornicate again. Don’t even hug a lady.

L1TTLE:
I've been dating her for over three months now, first day I saw her I didn't like her or anything, I just did some biz with her, had a short Convo and left, so along the line we got familiar and we exchanged contacts, went on a casual date, then she painted herself as a God fearing girl, who don't want anything with guys, then I asked her how come her relationship status isn't single on fb, she said she put that to deter guys, I was wondering what she's doing with me since I'm also a guy then she gave me a shocker, that immediately she saw me she knew God want us to be a thing.

Honestly I'm not a God guy, I'm not religious at all, but I have good morals, I have been single for long so I decided to give it a go and we started dating.

not long after that she came to my place, and one thing led to the other and we had sex, it was a very foolish mistake I made because we agreed not to indulge, at least for like three months, and barely two weeks into the relationship we had sex, then I started noticing changes, first she became possessive, like she always wants to know what I am doing, who I am with, where I am at, and I hate that, I don't like feeling like someone owns me but she would always throw a tantrum when I point that out.

Things started going bad for me, financially I was failing here and there, it was a clusterfvck, bad luck everywhere, but I didn't think she was the cause because like I said, I'm not religious, I just believed it's just trying times they come and go, but it started shortly after the sex, I'm just stating it because it's significant.

Second, she calls herself a goddess, at first I thought it was this self appraisal thing girls do, I discovered it's not self appraisal at all, her birth name is some kind of deity where she's from, at this point I started wondering what I got myself into like she's all over me, I can't breathe, I sat her down and tried to talk to her that maybe we should breakup, she started crying and guilt tripped me into having sex with her, and since then whenever she comes around it's always sex, like I'm tired of it now, I will resist and she'll do things, touch me in places and I'll be aroused in seconds, for someone who claimed she's not into sex, she's a vixen on bed, I feel like I don't even know her anymore, lastly I have terrible nightmares now, and it's always sexual, that wasn't the case before I met her, right now I can't think of a way to free myself from her shackles, I just want to undo everything, make everybody dey him dey.

So she can’t post his pic on his bday.?
It’s funny cos u Jenny will still open ur legs to a man whether u like it or not. Continue with ur useless feminist.

Jennyclay:
She has every right to keep her relationship anonymous and if you're not cool with it, then end the relationship and Stop being obsessed.

If she start posting your pictures now and you break her heart, don't you know she will be a laughing stock.

He never makes sense truly. Fernandez the senseless/

crossbreedwears:
You never make any sense in your comments

All ur coments are just DUMB. Pls who are u? how did u get to be soooooooooo dumb.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Did you discuss with her?
A car dropped her and you quickly concluded that she's cheating..
Well-done..keep concluding and bringing your issues here..

Is that what you are supposed to do? instead of sitting her down and tell her how you feel you are seeking advice from a section that reeks of MISOGYNY?

Mercy Aigbe people.

AlphaMale666:
This is to the single guys out there who like wooing married women. Avoid Nigerian Married women with your life!

How can a married woman be forcing me to rapour with her because I'm her husband's friend. Which kind stupid nonsense be that!? And because I don't rapour with her she now badmouth me with her husband till I'm no longer friends with him.

Avoid Nigerian Married Women With Your Life! They will mess your life up with nonsense drama.

Ok, so u contradicted urself. U say God can do it but He won’t. So ur now Gods assistant that knows what he will do and what he won’t? Uncle way no wise.

immortalcrown:
This is not a miracle by God. Either the fire did not affect where the Bible was kept or the Bible is fortified with fetish things.

God does not perform this kind of miracle. The Bible, though containing the word of God, is a bunch of paper made by humans. God is not irrational. He will not make humans flammable and make Bible non-flammable. He has the power to do it but He is not as foolish as human to do it. A man can do it to brag about his power. God will not save the Bible and allow the car to get burnt. God is not irrational and wicked like a man. The biblical statement that the word of God shall not pass away does not mean the holy Bible is non-flammable. When some houses containing copies of the Bible get burnt, the bible copies also get burnt depending on how the copies are kept in the houses.

If you set your Bible on fire, the back covers and the edge will definitely get burnt. The Bible will not get completely burnt because the pages are air-tight. Burning is difficult or impossible without air. Only a very old Bible with deformed edges and loose binding may get completely burnt. Dictionaries and other thick books are not different. The only way to make a thick book burn completely is by socking the book in an inflammable liquid.

Your are a woman. Your not a man. And im sure ur an OLOSHO.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
My appreciation goes to all real men out there not the kids who come online to bash women and call them names..

The guy is a great person who knows the importance of a woman in his life and my greatest joy is that he didn't follow the advice of wannabe redpillers who always say women are worthless (for the use of words)

It's a great day let's learn to appreciate our partners in a relationship..
Blessings..

Exactly how dumb are u Fernandez?
U must be very very dumb.
Self-Defence, and u use Machete to Hack someone plenty times

If ur sharp u will know she has settled her way out.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Great one.. justice
I am glad she hacked the guy to death if he truly wanted to rape her..

This is clearly a case of self defense so good riddance..you have to defend yourself at all cost..

I don't see any reason why you will want to rape a lady for what?
I am really glad justice prevailed..it's high time women start defending themselves from these bunch of weaklings since no one is really concerned..

Aunty, let’s say u have a daughter, and a thief enters ur house and is about to rape ur daughter, and u remember u have a gun in ur room, will u bring out the gun and shoot him, or will ube praying.??
Answer? As there are physical enemies,so are they spiritual enemies.

NOETHNICITY:
I always laugh when I hear christians pray against thier enemies
Where is the forgiving spirit they alws yap about? We used to live close to one MFM church in Ketu. It's alws about 'fire and death' they spill aaaaallllllllllllll through the night depriving us of precious night rest.

Brother isright,if armed robbers enter ur house, and u have a gun, they kill ur first son, and they’re about to kill ur second son, will u shoot the armed robber? Or Willy be praying for his salvation?
Answer

Kingosytex:
He's right. We all are sons and daughters of the Most High, Christ admonished us to pray for even our enemies.

Jesus himself told his followers to pray for his enemies. “You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you,” (Matthew 5:43-44). He didn’t suggest we like them or ignore them but through our prayers, we bring them to the throne of God and bless them. And when we do, Matthew 5:45-48 says that we will be “... children of Your father in heaven.” In other words, obeying this commandment marks us as people related to God Almighty.