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Family / Re: Before You Marry A Military Man by nnamdibig(m): 1:17am On Mar 30, 2017
Marrying a military man is just like marry every other person.
All that you mentioned can still happen when you marry a banker or someone working with all these multinationals.

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Family / Re: Nigerian Man Pictured Bathing His Newborn Baby (photo) by nnamdibig(m): 5:51pm On Mar 28, 2017
Nothing new
Have done it countless times

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Family / Re: Four Signs That Your Marriage Will Not Last by nnamdibig(m): 5:48pm On Mar 28, 2017
There are no rules or signs to ensure a lasting marriage. All that you mentioned can be seen in some marriages yet it will last as long as both couples are alive.

Marriage no get rules cos we humans are different & complicated.
Family / Re: My Husband Called Me A Vagabond by nnamdibig(m): 9:09pm On Mar 27, 2017
Billyonaire:


What is the business of the mother in law on the plot of land that the new couple want for themselves. I mean some of these mothers in law do not know where their boundaries end. It is not love, to allow your mom to intrude into your private dealings with your own wife, it is actually a mental disorder. It is a possessive disorder. Parents should learn to give their children space once they are married. They had their time with their husbands, it is time for their kids to have their own moment. Times have changed, so traditions and customs need updates.



Ngwanu.

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Family / Re: My Husband Called Me A Vagabond by nnamdibig(m): 9:06pm On Mar 27, 2017
Codyt:

When you write English, pay attention. It's HIS not HER. Stop the lexical Impropriety!

Copied sir!!!!!!!

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Family / Re: Igbo People Translate This For Me And God Will Bless You by nnamdibig(m): 3:36pm On Mar 27, 2017
Mykelpato:
On the hunting day, we will capture owerri Bush meat

Is the bush meat grasscutter? Or bush rat
Family / Re: Help! I Can't Marry Her Because Of Our Religion! by nnamdibig(m): 10:52am On Mar 27, 2017
Pls how will being a Christian or being a Muslim affect your happiness?
You guys may have some challenges as regards to cultural differences but pls don't allow religion decide your life long happiness.


Religion don finish us in this part of the world.
Family / Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by nnamdibig(m): 1:26pm On Mar 26, 2017
ewizard1:

Wrong example!!! grin

Okay, let's relate your examples;
-Brushing your teeth after eating is the THANK YOU so it can be active when next you want to eat or for chewing the food well.

-Cleaning your bum bum is to tell it THANK YOU for making the poo pass through it!

Now, should the thank you to the MAIL be for giving him the daughter as a wife?


Lol,
May be my culture is different from your. In my part of the world, you are expected to greet elders when you wake up or after a meal(not that they must be the one that provided the meal). It's just a sign of respect.
Nothing more.

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Politics / Letter From Senator Hope Uzodinma to Nigerian Customs To Release 30 containers by nnamdibig(m): 10:08am On Mar 26, 2017
Letter of senator Hope Uzodinma putting pressure on Nigerian customs to release 30 containers of rice fraudulently imported through Tin Can island port Lagos state


https://m.facebook.com/ReportYourself/

Religion / Re: Church Refusing To Have Open Dedication For My Baby by nnamdibig(m): 7:29am On Mar 26, 2017
kingphilip:
I guess you're in the know of everything between her and the church

For clarity sake did the church know about the pregnancy before the marriage??

Why won't the church know? A church that strict should conduct pregnancy test before wedding.

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Family / Re: . by nnamdibig(m): 6:50am On Mar 26, 2017
OasisofRefuge:
Honestly we truly loved each other very much. We've known for 3 years, but he proposed last year Feb. He's my best friend. I can tell him evenything, with him, am just me. No forming because we know so much about each other.
I know he's been trying so hard, he's so eager to marry me just that things are not working as expected. The small business he's managing now, we joined hand and set it up together. He so much loved me, but he has no money to make it happened.
I had another suitor who is well to do. This guy is rich. My mum and everyone in the family wants him for me, but the thought of marrying someone else, scare hell out of me.
I am not getting any younger. Am in my late twenties and he's 30yrs, but he can't afford our marriage.
He kept pleading with me not to leave him. I don't want to let him go either, but how long am I going to wait?
We recently did an estimation of our traditional and white wedding. Everything almost 1million. I doubt how he can afford that money from the little things he's getting from the business. On my own part, I recently quite my job, but I just got something that can fetch me 20k in a month while am applying for jobs.

What should I do? Is like am making a mistake holding on
I felt I should return his ring. But will him be ok If I give up on him?
Can I have a happy life without him? I doubt
This is the only man I've met and so much loved. And the one who is not financially ok.
Can love grow if I marries someone else?
I don't want to wait anymore. I don't want pre marital s. e. x either. I want my own husband.
Am so confused. I feel like talking to someone.

You are in your late twenties and he is 30? Hmmmmm,
My granny once said that woman no dey wait for man. But man can wait for woman.
Are you sure he will not call you too old if he becomes rich
Use your teeth & count your tongue.

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Family / Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by nnamdibig(m): 6:44am On Mar 26, 2017
No it is not, and it is also not right to brush your teeth when you wake up or maybe after eating.
It is also not right to clean your bom bom after pooing.

Respect for elders no dey ur dictionary?

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Family / Re: My Husband Called Me A Vagabond by nnamdibig(m): 6:41am On Mar 26, 2017
ReneeNuttall:
This story is not complete, you didn't tell us why u refused going with ur hubby and his mum,since u are the one that initiated the idea of going to check the land....it seems u are not in good terms with ur mother in-law...pls am not justifying what ur husband said,in fact he was very wrong to av used dat word.

But then again,u ought to have know that men are emotionally attached to their mothers,while women to their dad,hence u shouldn't have denied going since the mom is going too.Also the way u replied him,wen u told him u are not going since the mom is accompanying him,might have made him get angry....just my thought though...keep praying and hoping for the best.

Gbagam

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Family / Re: My Husband Called Me A Vagabond by nnamdibig(m): 6:38am On Mar 26, 2017
You saw a land you want him to buy, he told her mum about it, you became uninterested, WHY?
He is wrong calling you such name but the root cause of the problem was the sudden change of mind when her mother was involved.
I always say that married couple should never allow argument get to the point of name calling or fight. One of you should just take a walk.

By the way, wetin your mother in law do you?

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Family / Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by nnamdibig(m): 6:31am On Mar 26, 2017
Majikals:
You are a lucky man finding such an honest spouse... She has confessed her errors before her maker and even you. Go ahead with your marriage with her cos she's a good woman. We have all made terrible errors at some point in life. Only a scarce few are bold enough to confess his /her deepest errors the way ur fiancee just did.
About the spiritual implications u are kinda worried about, if truly you are a Christian as u rightly said, I believe the Bible says he /she that confesses and believe is redeemed..You have nothing to fear



Listen to this advice. For the spiritual implications, I doubt if anything will go wrong because it's just that having such relationship is not socially & culturally acceptable in this part of the world. Some cultures accepts such(getting married to your cousin) so just see that her cousin as one of the guys he dated.

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Religion / Re: Church Refusing To Have Open Dedication For My Baby by nnamdibig(m): 6:19am On Mar 26, 2017
That your church na scam.
If you & your husband should make a donation of 10 Million Naira now, you guys will be cleared of all wrong doing. But where is the rational??

A church that wedded you when you are pregnant will not dedicated your child publicly That una pastor sef.

You better take your son where he will be accepted. After all church is for sinners.

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Family / Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by nnamdibig(m): 10:25pm On Mar 24, 2017
udumosam23:



I do not agree with you sir. Why are you all so selfish. Why not he try been accountable with the remaining?

Here is a man who receives more than 170 in a month. Gives his wife 30K and spends let's say 50-70k if it's even up to on other house items.

What does he do with the rest? Until you learn to be accountable to your wife, she'll continue to feel insecure and suspecius of you.

You have rights to spend your money the way you like no doubt, but just explain to her how, it is her rights.




He said he takes care of every other thing in the house both food and all other expenses. Then I ask what is the wife doing with 30k monthly?
Do you know that in some families, that the amount the husband gives to the wife for food and running the home? What if the man earns 100k??
I think saving is very important as young couple and saving a larger part of that money will help them in future.
Family / Re: She Faked Her Pregnancy For 4 Years by nnamdibig(m): 6:53pm On Mar 23, 2017
Daughter of eve
Politics / Harvard University Denies Dino Melaye Ever Studied There, Only Attended Seminar by nnamdibig(m): 3:02am On Mar 22, 2017
Harvard University Denies Senator Dino Melaye Ever Studied There, Only Attended A One-Week Seminar


Harvard University in Boston, United States, on Tuesday refuted a claim by Senator Dino Melaye that he was at any time educated at the prestigious Ivy League school, the Registrar’s Office immediately dismissing the suggestion as soon as an official cross-checked it.


Senator’s posturing is also reflected on his LinkedIn account and has been previously showcased stated in (an interview with the media)(in media interviews).

The Harvard Kennedy School of Educational Leadership confirmed that Dino Melaye presented himself in November 2016 only for a one-week seminar in leadership.  Asked if that qualifies as academic achievement, the respondent said "No," adding that the seminar also doesn't qualify anyone to become a Harvard alumnus.

Following a motion by Senator Ali Ndume asking the Senate’s Ethics and Privileges Committee to investigate allegations that Melaye didn't properly graduate from Ahmadu Bello University in Zaria, Nigeria, Melaye had bragged that he has at least eight postgraduate degrees.

Mr. Melaye has been caught in a major certificate scandal in which Examination Officers at the Department of Geography, ABU, where Melaye took undergraduate classes, confirmed that he did not graduate from the institution.  They went further to say that the documents he presented to the National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) were manipulated between Melaye his then Head of Department, Prof. David Ogbonna.

The Examination Officers pointed out that Mr. Melaye was registered in the university as "Daniel Jonah O. Melaye," a name they said was neither in the graduation brochure of ABU when his set graduated, nor found in any other graduation document. In particular, the Exam officers pointed to how during his final year, the HOD added 2 course units to boost Melaye's CGPA.

Mr. Melaye had reportedly bribed university officials to produce fake transcripts, on the basis of which he attended a program at the University of Jos, the University of Abuja, and currently at ABU. Several of Melaye's classmates and comrades also disputed his claim that he was a Students' Union Government President at ABU, at best, they stated Melaye was a president of the National Association of Geography Students (NAGS) from where he was impeached for fraud.

Another claim that the Senator studied at the London School of Economics could not be verified as of the time of going to press.


http://saharareporters.com/2017/03/21/harvard-university-denies-senator-dino-melaye-ever-studied-there-only-attended-one-week

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Family / Re: What Hope Is There For The Common Nigerian Wife Married To A Cheating Partner? by nnamdibig(m): 5:35pm On Mar 21, 2017
I society that is quick to applaud a cheating husband.
Where did you get that??
Family / Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by nnamdibig(m): 9:38am On Mar 21, 2017
Dyt:


Why you mad Oga?

Be following your woman to every place if she demands money from you
All cos you don't want her add money

I do it
And I will say it over and over

Is it not you men?
We will ask for 100, you give 50 when we need 100
So it's better we ask of 300
So if you give 200
We will have extra

cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy




I just pity your husband.

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Family / Re: My Husband Just Told Me Something About His NYSC Days And It's Making Me Sad. by nnamdibig(m): 7:39pm On Mar 20, 2017
He told you out of his free will. It may be true it may not. If true just let him know you don't like the fact that it took him this long to tell you.
Secondly, what if there was no girl? What is he is just trying to make you jealous small??
You said he was not giving you space ba??
How him go take get space when he is also calling you most of the time??
Family / Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by nnamdibig(m): 10:48pm On Mar 19, 2017
The first step in solving this problem is to know what she is doing with the money you are giving her(since you buy foods, pay every other bill).
Any wife that wants to help her hubby(who earns 175kpm) should know that you guys should save at least 100k from that money but the way she is going, she is not even interested in that.
And for person say every woman adds money, there are extent you can do such not double of the amount. It's very wrong just deduction from her next allowance simple. Things are expensive now.

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Family / Re: asdsa by nnamdibig(m): 4:26pm On Mar 12, 2017
No matter how your MIL is, let her know your type of person. Let her know the things you tolerate & things you don't..... action speaks louder than voice so you don't have to speak for her to see all these. As for your baby that always carry una matter to mummy, she must stop it ASAP. She is already bringing in the third party(her mum) to your lives which am sure will never end well. You have seen how she is, make sure she also sees how you are so she can't decide whether to give her daughter to you or not. Marriage no be by force.

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Family / Re: The Husband You Didn’t Know You Married by nnamdibig(m): 7:08pm On Mar 08, 2017
Pls tell us about what women like pls
Marriage is not all about men.
Women like & deserve all that you mentioned.

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Family / Re: Is It Compulsory You Thank Your Parent After Every Meal..... by nnamdibig(m): 6:51pm On Mar 08, 2017
Is it compulsory you respect your parents?
Make una no dey ask silly question abeg
Family / Man Spends $50,000 On Over 100 Procedures To transform Into A 'genderless' ALIEN by nnamdibig(m): 9:16pm On Mar 02, 2017
A man has spent $50,000 (£40,000) on plastic surgery to become an alien - and could soon have his Instruments removed.

Vinny Ohh, 22, from Los Angeles in California, has had over 110 procedures to transform into a 'genderless' extra-terrestrial.

The make-up artist believes he's neither male nor female and so his extreme look is a way to mirror how he feels inside.


He started with lip fillers at the age of 17, before having two rhinoplasties, multiple cheeks and brow bone fillers and more.

The part-time model also wears large blackened contact lenses, alien like talons and unusual hair dye colours.

Now he plans to fork out another $160,000 (£130,000) on surgery to have his Instruments, nipples and bellybutton removed.



Vinny said: 'I want to be a sexless alien being, I want my outside to reflect how I feel on the inside.

'The overall image I want to do is an alien. I want to be a hybrid, not male or female.

'I've wanted to be sexless and genderless since I was 17, I've been going to doctors to see if it's possible but had no luck.

'I don't want people to think I'm trying to change into a woman. I could live without sexual organs so why should I have a penis or a vagina.

'I don't see why I shouldn't have my genitals completely removed and have nothing down there.

'So far, I've had $50,000 in skincare and procedures including two rhinoplasties, facial fillers in my lips, cheeks and brow bone all to look extra-terrestrial.

'I do kind of look like a Martian, I have a really big head, no eyebrows and I've just been connecting with that.

'When people ask me how I'd label myself, I tell them an "extra-terrestrial, hot mess, self-obsessed" it's becoming my slogan.'

Vinny started cosmetic procedures after feeling like an outcast while growing up.


He became an LGBT+ activist and feels like his look now represents his beliefs that 'people shouldn't be labelled.'

Vinny said: 'Over the years, I've realised I'm not gay, bi, trans or any of these things, I just want to be me.

'I do it to inspire the world in a certain way, I want people to stop labelling others or putting them in boxes.'

When out in public he draws much attention, which he believes is down to some of his unusual standout features and dress sense.

Vinny added: 'My large black contact lenses are a necessity, it's like my pearl necklaces, I wear them to walk around everywhere I can.

'They make my eyes look super massive, some people call it demonic but I think it looks beautiful like an animal.

Also, my make-up is focussed around looking sex-less, I play with colour a lot, there's no shade I wouldn't experiment with.'

Vinny has found the public are split on his look, with some adoring his unusual appearance and others hurling abuse or trying to physically hurt him.

He said: 'Some people absolutely love me see me as a celebration and give a lot of compliments.

'I don't look real and people love it. Some people have said they want their kids to be like me and that I'm an inspiration for children who don't feel like they belong.

'Other times I've had shopping carts chucked at me or I've been considered a sexual object by men and woman, I'm used to not fitting in.



35 whole body and face laser treatment

12 cheek fillers

2 brow fillers

15 lip fillers

10 fillers for random wrinkles

5 botox sessions

5 nose procedures

1 botox under eye

5 facial peels

20 cryo facial freezing


'Even when I was 16, I was wearing full body suits and eight inch platforms going outside in the day, so it feels very normal to me.'

Vinny is set to appear on The Plastics of Hollywood, a show that will house real life plastic surgery addicts together in attempts to nurture their talent.

He said: 'My goal is to change everyone's mind about human dolls.

'I'm trying to wake people up to show them that gender roles in society do not matter and show them that we need to be better human beings and nicer to one another.'

The TV show, which is set to be released in America, will follow a talent agency that tries to help them achieve Hollywood Fame without relying on their looks.

Marcela Iglesias, producer and presenter, said: 'Vinny is an alien new generation of new people who want to look different, in 15 years, hundreds of people will want to look like him.

'We're in an era where there's people who want to look like lizards, those who implant horns into their skulls and people with full-face tattoos like the guy in Suicide Squad who are working.

'We want to be the first agency who will treat these human dolls, alien dolls and cartoons as a normal part of the society that we're living in now.

'We have all these people, the freaks, weirdos and we want to make society understand them.'  


Genital removal

Nipple removal

Belly button removal

Forehead realignment

Ear pinning

Nose job

Eye lid revision

Jaw implants

Cheek implants 




http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4274396/Man-spends-50-000-transform-genderless-ALIEN.html
Religion / Re: 8 Signs That A Church Doesnt Get Grace - Paul Ellis by nnamdibig(m): 7:54am On Jan 29, 2017
They preach an eye for an eye instead of turning the other cheek
Family / Re: Is It Wrong For My Husband To Wash My Panties? by nnamdibig(m): 8:34pm On Jan 15, 2017
sisisioge:
Ummmm, they don't like washing the undies babes. It is what they were taught by their "mothers" and the society. In fact, they feel they have stretched enough to wash your cloths. Biko, take it like that. Don't allow trivia things like that becomes spanners in your wheels. Wash your undies if he doesn't want to...Or, pick out his the next time you wash just to make a statement cool

When we become mothers or MILs,I bet we won't want our sons washing any girl's undies grin... maybe not...

Suprised that a lady will say this. For Crying out loud what's wrong in washing your wife's undies? Especially when she is sick or pregnant? How then can you truely show her that you love her apart from buying gifts & sex?
You won't was pants but you go use mouth lick what the pant is covering......hypocrisy from high heavens.

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Investment / Re: Who Has Been Matched For Payment After MMM Opened? by nnamdibig(m): 4:36pm On Jan 13, 2017
Gflat:
Giving yourself hope wouldn't revive the ponzi scheme you indulged in with a 100% accuracy. You were gullible once don't be myopic now.

IMAGINE: MMM is back but we want to pay the poor ones first (those with 50k and below) grin

Nigerians are the most irrational set of lazy heads who depends on free cash for survival.

Try to make them see the fact about MMM being a ponzi (scam) scheme then they come at you with their myopic and wretched people mentality like:

"is it your money?"

" Why do people get angry while others are making it?"

Mr, you are not making it, in fact you are dumber than you were because before you indulged into MMM your brain was working around the clock trying to figure out means to an end but now you are relaxed with the hope that "I will get Gh/Ph (I don't even care what it is called) by the end of the month.

Is that not the stupidest thing ever? shocked


Please show me without making references to your uncle who we know doesn't have a reputation or your ghost friend who we don't give a Bleep about.

Can you Show me One person who got wealthy through ponzi schemes.

Please don't make references to that bald headed guilder of whatever you guys call it and I hope your brain is working well enough for you to know the difference between riches and wealth.


After waiting carefully for 1hour nobody could answer that question they were only abusing grin


MMM participants are even dumber than I thought. I mean you can't even mention just one person? I Mean just one To reply them is even doing me somehow how will I reply broke no ambition MMM people grin

Funny thing is pastors even encourage their church while imam are encouraging their members to indulge in this! Talk about reaping where you didn't sow shocked

See that first guy to quoted my comment, his likes are much more than mine because he is the MMM warrior and people supported his myopic comment even though it seemed like a kindergarten kid typing. He obviously wasn't thinking before he typed that because his brain has been flushed down the toilet along with his sense of money grin

Jesus fücking Christ! grin


You need help ....The level of hatred in you need deliverance

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Family / Re: How Much Is Cooking Gas In Your Area by nnamdibig(m): 4:22pm On Jan 13, 2017
YesNo:


i called the gas station to find out the new price and i expressed my shock when the dude told me it was 5k for 12kg. he told me to hurry & come get it cos they were waiting for confirmation to change the price to 8k. na so i run with my gas can like Mr Bolt.

I really pity the Nigerian students. How will they cope with all this expensive food and cooking prices.

Change my dear ...... CHANGE

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Family / Re: How Much Is Cooking Gas In Your Area by nnamdibig(m): 11:23am On Jan 13, 2017
Bought 12.5kg 3 months ago at #4500 but I bought it #8000 just yesterday

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