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[quote author=Tudór link=topic=334235.msg4699752#msg4699752 date=1255098646]There's a thin line between moderation and obstructing freedom of speech/ideas. . . .prime example is the islam for muslims board.

BTW, if I should label a fraudulent pastor as a crook, is that considered personal insult?[/quote]This singular statement summarises the entire thread. A lot of those screaming for moderation are doing so primarily because the perceived antagonists do not share their world view.
why is abuzola's posts irritating? . . . , the dude is simply expressing his religious views to the best of his abilities and from time to time he tends to caution himself when ever his emotions get hold of him.

Those crying for moderation are simply calling for the obstruction of freedom of speech. IF u dont like what is being said. . . . .go to another thread or leave the forum.

[quote author=Tonye-t link=topic=334235.msg4699851#msg4699851 date=1255099245]
NO!, you were aborted there because the moderator took you as matured whereas[b] your posts tends childish, always aggressive, insultive, rude, arrogant, childish and fill of emotions sensitivites[/b] [/quote]I believe u called him all this simply because both of u do not share the same world view. perhaps if he was a theist of ur orientation, his "insults and aggression " might be permissible.

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uplawal:
@noetic,IGNORANT FOOL,IFA is infact 900%better and accurate compare to st paul christianity if u dnt know

has islam made u a better person or worse?

Pastor AIO:
well, unless you are holding a gun to their head. This is a tried and tested method that has proved quite effective over the centuries.

Repent from what? Abuzola is their master, he sets the standard. From what I can tell banom is just having fun ridiculing certain types. I've had more interesting and enlightening discussions with atheists on this forum than I've had with so called christians. No, I don't want them to repent away from making intelligent conversation.


The connection between intelligence and the ability to make generalization is another topic entirely that I would love to take up with you on another thread. But as regards this thread you should notice that I further specified at the end of the OP when I said, "At least the kind of religion that Nairalanders practice".


Now, what is the motivation that pushes people to act like that. Personally I've noted in my life that when somebody gets up from where he is to go and cause trouble somewhere else it is due to some form of Malaise that he is experiencing. Most practitioners of these religions behaving like this are suffering from a terrible malaise. What exactly is the nature of this malaise? I suspect it is actually an inner struggle to silence, not just contrary opinions of others but, more crucially, doubting voices and intimation within themselves.

I concur


Are you the one that initiated me in Ifa? How do you know?

This does not add up neither does it make sense. There is no one on this forum who would take part in a public debate as far as the topics on this forum are concerned.
Everyone is debating here because of the anonymity involved, . . . .several others are visiting because they enjoy the debates.
IF however u think the site is getting boring because of other people's penchant desire to debate issues in their own way. . . then please feel free to leave the forum.

FYI: I dont understand why christians need their own forum. This is a public forum for debates and everyone is entitled to their opinion no matter hoe extereme.
IF u cannot live with the opinion of others then u need to examine ur objectivity. One forum is ok for muslims, christians, atheists, religious and non-religious.

ur dogmatic beliefs about being a christian must be terrible. . . . . .I cant reconcile IFA with Christianity.

funkybaby:
moi?

my diction is good enough. i dont have to speak through my noise to prove a point.

hmmmmm. seems you are one of those naija guys that do it.

just so you know. you sound really silly while at it. dont do it again. sho gbo?

not at all. I have an exceptionally good oratory prowess. . , . why would I need a fake accent?
I know u are a repentant faker. . . . , good to know u have repented

funkybaby:
its inferiority complex

if only they know how stupid they sound while they are at it !

as if u dont do it

If I am hired. . .I will deliver the world cup. .simple.

Highest:
My name is Chika, I stay in portharcourt, I am seriously looking for a serious, caring n a loving woman that really wants to enjoy her relationship in every aspect n also wants a true luv, I am nice to be with, caring, honest and God fearing, the lucky lady can contact me on 08038358602 or chibytes@yahoo.com for more info about me n lets hook up for the fruitful relationship she will forever enjoy

this post testifies that u are not God-fearing. . . . so why would any sane woman want a DESPERADO like u?

manmustwac:
have u ever come across some people who will fake thier accents to sound british when talking to oyibo?

insecurity is the cause. . . . .cos black is black.

ibkaye:
I say that alot

As a joke though, maybe she was joking? 

that is a racist comment 

and these are the same women who want to be pampered?

why should anyone want to impress a woman?

nice one.

I remember goofing when asked "Am I fat?"

sweetpie23:
why are some African ashamed of their identity? at my school some African do not even like been friends with others Africans.

Africans do make terrible friends, u know? 
Given the option of being friends with an european (most of whom are very liberal to the things africans kill themselves for) is better than settling for an african . ,   . . . . . 

Its however all about the person not the race.

there is nothing on bbc. . . .whats ur source?

Akpangbon:
Kenyaboy


I think you are too sophisticated for this woman, hoenstly speaking, you are a fine boy, a classy dude, a big boy with all the swagger. I guess what you want the woman to be talking about are things like, how many cyclinder on your new Pontiac saloon car, or what type of Bentley you will be buying next, or what colour is the new Armani shirt in your closet or what is the best price for a D&G lether shoe or how much does a yatch cost and things like that. Maybe the woman couldnt flow with the above and she just finds it easier talking about her job, career and co, whats bad in that? Bro, you need to wake up and look for this woman and beg her, well, she is not even answering your call, thats good for yah. When you realise, please all you have to do is to let her know how much your love has scattered your brain into pieces.

is this a joke?

muhsin:
Another pip-squeak ranting. Say what you wanna say.

is this the best u can come up with?

sweetpie23:
Would you keep dating a woman who is unemployed and not going to school?

must there be pre-requisites for a date?

iice:
[color=#9900ff]^^ Explained my post.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Heh? From where in my post did you incur all this?
i no fit laugh sef lol[/color]

did ur previous post come ur head? . . . .if yes. . read it again

galatico:
I suggest you leave her my reason(s) are she doesn't care about you, she's selfish, selfwilled, definatly not a woman you'd like to marry, someone who is so crazy about her work, she's not ready for a long time relationship .

EXACTLY!!!! . . . . . but the ultimate decision to dump her is left to kenyaboy.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]She will not crack.  Her ex can't even make her crack.  She's goal oriented = career.  She has a lot going on in her life with regards to work.  She's not missing him as much as she should because work occupies a large part of her life.  And even if she's missing him, i doubt she will call him. [/color]

this sounds so sexist.

how does this help her in the long run? where does this place her future considering the african emphasis on family?
its not about missing or not missing . . .  . .it takes two to tangle. if her job comes before her man, then she does not deserve the guy in the first place. . . .she could as well start dating her boss. . . .they would get to talk about work very much.

Akpangbon:
Kenyaboy

You are very orieope. Dont you know you have to treat women specially? She talks about her work and co, so what? Maybe you are boring and dont ever raise a topic, all you want is to fu ck her? Why eont she talk about what she can talk about? Now she hasnt called you in 8 days, look you have lost this nice African woman, u have to look for another woamn who will only talk what you want her to talk about. instead of you to treat her like egg, you have thrown her to the floor and made it to break, in short, the next thing to break will be your pe.nis.

does a man who just wants to Bleep a woman gets bothered she aint talking about the future?
did he mention anything with regards to sex in his OP?

The girl in question has simply made her work her priority, but intends to keep a relationship. . .which is simply impossible. At least not with a rational and well meaning guy.
I dont see anything nice in chatting with anyone (male or female) who makes all discussions about them. . . not to talk of a well meaning relationship.
The lady in question has LOST big time. . .if this relationship hits the rock.

olabowale:
@Noetic: « #448 on: Today at 04:07:40 PM » Yes. Muslims and on earth, right now its 1.5 Billion people. It shows how much you know about anything!

from ur statements it is obvious that the guidance of allah is not worth a pint of salt.

allah has guided muslims to
a. paedophilia. . . . , ayotollah of iran confirms it.
b. terrorism . . . , allah delusively promised terrorists a place in his sexually infested paradise
c. amputation, beheading and ostracizing of defenceless people
d. killing of apostates and preaching of hatred

allah's guidiance is evil. . . . . I dont want it.

Kenyaboy:
Hallo Noetic.

actually i am in that difficult period where i have been snobbed and she is not talking at all. For 8days now. She isnt pickin fone, she isnt replying to text.

I can understand cos when u love or feel for someone . . . . . .our world tends to pause when there is no communication. But trust ur guts, u are better off standing ur grounds. . .for the sake of ur future.
FYI: IF u start make concessions now, u would end up a sad and unfulfilled divorcee.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]LMAO, while you're perambulating. . .Woman has moved on.[/color]

I dont think so.
Its normal for any career woman to have an over-bloated ego. . . . I only hope she does not loose this gentleman who is patiently willing to build a future with her. . . how many men can offer that?

izeek:
dude thats who she is and u either accept her for it or move on .

as much as its never fun to havesome1 talk about her and her alone,
u have to think tru if you want to feel second place to her job or not.

moreso, she might probably change as i understand the r/s is still new.
maybe by the time she begins to have deeper feeling for u, she will ask more about your personal life.

am also of the opinion that she though might be hanging on to her past r/s,
since u claim her to be organised and all she might not be having anything to do with him .\


onething though, a career lady is never submissive. i dont know how you see it, but is she is truely career focused
u will always come second in her scale of preference.

this is some of the ridiculous advices that couples get that eventually lead to failed marriages.

why tolerate what u cant live with?

izeek:
he cant stand his ground dude, the relationship is not all about him too.

have u ever considered she sees it just like he does?

wanting to have his way all the time?

what is ur idea of a relationship? . . . . . .sounds like a domineering game?

stand ur grounds.


the most important thing in life is to define what u want. . .which is exactly what u have done.
u want a relationship based on mutual assurance about the future of the relationship. . .she has a workaholic mentality and is unwilling to make amends or meet with u on a neutral ground.

its not advisable to just dump her, but u should not sulk up to her either. she needs to shift grounds just like u have.
u would be sitting on a time bomb if u end up sulking up to her.

muhsin:
Who Allah guides none can lead astray; and whom He leads astray none can lead aright.

is there anyone allah has ever guided right?

[quote author=the_seeker link=topic=321215.msg4692256#msg4692256 date=1255010195]noetic, your stupidity is phenomenal. Olabowale has answered this same question more than a zillion times and u keep repeating it like an slowpoke. U have deliberatly not quoted the verses so that your stupidity is not imediatly obvious[/quote]if revealing the lies of allah makes me stupid. . .then fine.
but i know that I am smarter than allah and mohammed put together

uplawal:
i think youre blind noetic,or is your religion not upsidedown?

does islam teach u to tell lies. . . .tell him the truth. . .u left xtianity cos of

olanajim:
neotic,
Have you ever buy something without giving up money? Just an example.

what has purchasing goods got to do with the topic?
It is a ridiculous african mentality that has been imported into the gospel. suggesting that all cannot be good except there are traces of evil and long suffering. . .this is a LIE.

uplawal:
@noetic,so u still denying it that Allah is not the creator, i just pity u o

pity ur self . . . . .naughty IGNORAMUS