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want to start at 26/27 because i would love 2 get married at 26, 2 think of it, itz just around da corner

I want to have kids when im 24/25. Get married 22/23. Yes i want some space before i start coughing out babies.


@Hot-Angel , u seem a bit confuse because those two statements negate or is it that u don't hv a plan as regarding that yet.

it is very simple, if u can't be faithful while single, be it man/woman u can't be faithful in marriage.
he/she that is not faithful in little things can never be faithful in greater things.

give my heart,mind strenght to Jesus christ and being dedicated to his work so as to secure eternity and also help the hopeless and the needy

l think the parents, the country and the child are to blame for the child's state.A good parent should make provision for the child before birth while a good country should be responsible for the well being of every citizen. the major fault anyway go to the child, recently l started reading biography of great men that had lived and those still living, l then stumble on the biography of Roman Abramovich (great chelsea).his dad dead when he was eighteen months old and his mom dead when he was 4 years old, but today he is the 11th richest man in the world. what do u hv to say to that? he had an escuse of saying l failure in life because l lost my parent at a tender age, but he refused to be a failure.
Let me come down home, l read a magazine, when a man was given his testimony, he said when he finished his secondary school education he couldn't further because there was nobody to sponsor him, so he started a call center at adeola odeku vI and right now he has 3 call centers at different location and he has a brown new car of his own and he has enroll for a part time course at Unilag.

So, it is only a failure that has escuses for not making it in life, when u get to heaven and u tell God that it was because of ur unfortunate state that made u fail , God will show u a success who was in a worse condition.

Hello fox2beer,
The DE form is still out, it will be on sale till september. the earlier u take it the better for u, so that it can be processed and sent to ur school.

hello kambo
l support what my2cent has said, that is just the truth. if possible u can go for the msc computer science but that is not the ultimate. let me give u some example of people l know. l meet a guy recently he studied building from unilag, but he is now a software developer using Oracle big time, the other guy studied chemstry from uniben and he is now a guru in Web design while the other guy is reading economics but a very good network engineer.
So, it is all about focus and determination. l will suggest u get a system and materials, also get to guys already on the field and also start preparing for certification. the utimate is practising and being good at it and doors of opportunity will open to u.

Best of God

l don't believe in luck , l believe in favour and mercy because nothing happen without the permission Of the almighty God.it is not he that willth nor he that runth, it is God that showth mercy. so instead of telling people Goodluck, l tell them 'best of God' because it is God that showth mercy.if the horse is prepare for the day of battle safety is of the Lord.

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@mamaput

if one will be sincere, it is very wrong.
if the guy drives u out of his house where do u go.u will hv to go home and nothing will happen .u can't hold him responsible because nobody is responsible for u marry him.
at least he should hv seen ur parent for acceptance even if he can pay the dairy which is even free most time nowadays.
what l will advice u to do now is for the two of u to visit ur parent and reconcile with them for ur own interest, because l am sure they will never be happy with u and possible u might also be happy at the long run because the guy will never respect and ur entire family so nobody will be able talk to him.
u might think l am too hard, but that is the truth

@ladyb,
The first things in any relationship, is for some basic things to be thrash out ie agreement, because two can't walk together except they agree before going into marriage and everything still depends on ur age.if age is not on ur side get marriage but before then, u and ur partner should agree on what time u want ur babies and u go for family planning. u can hv ur babies in an interval of three or more year depending on ur agreement

if u are in support of that topic, u will be need to develop the following point;

1. empolyment - availability of Industries, where graduate can work

2. Infrastructure - Good road, electricity, good water etc

3. improved standard of education with quality teachers and so on

l hope the people contributing will get serious and make meaningful contribution.

For me l don't use maggi and my food taste sweet. l just want to know ur opinion if it is a must for one to use magi for. yes/no give ur reason and specify which maggi u like best.

l do cook but l don't really enjoy it,that why l am ok with garri any day any time, just soak it with milk, sugar and groundnut and u are done.
l don't enjoy cooking because l can't just stare at the stove/electric cooker for 30 mins or moe doing nothing else, so l either go watch TV, play football or do other thing and most time before l return to check it it has gotten burn.l hv be label for food burning. anyway it has reduce with time, l can't remember the last time, l burnt food. Maybe 6 months back

these are the ffg l can cook very well

Rice, stew, Yam either boil or porrige, eba,beans, egusi soup,okra ,groundnut soup, vegetable, and l can also boil egg

I hv gone thru all the posts in this forum, l realse that everybody want to eat fat goat meat, mature eggs, big chicken part, sweet corn,coconut, apple, pawpaw etc. but nobody is ready to go to the farm. The last time a went to my villa, l saw a lot of hectare of land laying fallow, but when u get to the market u buy four tomatoes for 50 naira this make my heart quack. can u guys give praticals ways by which will can increase only productivity in this respect without involving the government,pls let leave them out of this.

They only tell people stories of how relevant HND holders are, but have never done anything to better or improve the lives of poly graduates. Go to govt parastatals like NNPC you will know that the govt are decieving us. They don't employ HND holders, they don't give scholarship to polytechnic undergraduates and all that. Its a pity!!



@Isheal
Thank u for that explicit analysis and at the same time try and upgrade urself go for either pgd or a bsc.

Hotstepper u try oooooooo, u be sharpwoman ooooooooo

crash - sleep e.g l want go crash that mean l want to go to bed
clear/ tubor/ peel out -- to leave a place
nine eleven -- for the bad guys that doesn't come regularly
jack ---- read
efiwe -- brilliant student
power house -- library
tfc - tasty fried chicken
Cr - chicken republic
ma put - resturant etc
l know u will be begin to wonder that which school is this
is either it is apelehin primary sch or igbola high school located behind aso rock

Anyway, Ladies shouldn't be look for man to marry instead they should be waitin and preparing themselve for the man that will approach and they hv the right to choose the best for themselves because every beautiful and focus lady deserves the best and nothing more.
As far as she is not a fool, why should she marry a poor and a hopeless man who doesn't hv a future and his not focus.
Nairaland ladies pls never u marry a poor and a hopeless man. if u do u will hv urself to blame because u will be his excuse for not succeeded and he will turn u into a punching bag just to prove to u that he is a man but an irresponsible man.
N.B money shouldn't be the basic for choosing a man but a man u think understands u, love u and has a bright future and above all a man that fear God because the fear of God is the beginning of wisdom and it is only a man with wisdom that has a future
Man + wisdom = bright future

Yea, l agree with that state, wedding is a one day businees. If u can understand that u will know that it is not a do or die affair.wedding is a ceremony and ends after the reception of the night party if included while marriage is a life time ceremony of understanding each other, building and raising of the home etc.
So while spending much on marriage to the extend of borrowing to meet up to standard, is there anything like standard and leaving little or nothing for the marriage.

For me, l will spent little or nothing on my wedding because manner will fall from heaven, the rice, salt,spagetti will come from Dangote, Tomato,pepper will come from obasanjo farm, the venue will be Km 46 lagos Ibadan express way (RCCG) While pastor to anchor the service will be pastor Adeboye.
What a wedding!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

That is a very good question because for every move there is a mover. for every motion there is a force.
This another that devil has used in influencing and misleading pple to hell without knowing. a lot of us are influence with
1. what will hear, the bad news, the situation of the country etc and before u know it u begin to think in that light
2. The movie will watch, a lot of atrocity a cause after watching one movie or the other and l have seen movie changing life positively eg the fighting temptation the last they sang carries a very heavy message .
3. the songs will listens to etc

For me, what influences me include people around me,bible, songs,tapes, cds and books from spirit fill pastor like Bishop Oyedepo, Pastor Chris. Dr Myles Munroe etc and most especialy God

heb 11:6 But without faith it is impossible to please and be satisfactory to Him. For whoever would come near to God must [necessarily] believe that God exists and that He is the rewarder of those who earnestly and diligently seek Him [out].

l appreciate ur contribute and l hv learnt a lot from ur post.
Personally, l don't see christianity as a religion, religion is from the word religious that is doing thing in accordance to a set rules. For example u must pray at a particular time, u must at a certain place to prayer, the worhip building must be built in this direction etc. And that was whyJesus told the samaritian women that very soon pple will not worshipping God at the mountain again, but those that must worship God must will him in spirit and in truth.
and l also believe in the guy that say it is a state of existence.because when u come to christ everything about u changes, ur citizenship,UR PASSWORD, ur password,ur license, ur account . u become a small g GOD and u fellowship with God, u live like christ. ur password become ' what will Jesus do" wwjd. It is a way of life because christ came to show us the way back to the kingdom and that is why is his the truth, the way and the life no one cometh to the father except thru him

l respect both characters because they understood God in their only different way and situation.
l will go for Joseph, because he was a man with great dreams who knew his place and destination and was never ready to trade with his future.He would hv sleep with potiphar"s wife and beg God for forgiveness but he never did that.That is what u call "the fear of God" not because u fear the consequence of the sin but because he respect and love God. that was why Favour followed him all around. The bible say when a man ways pleases God , his enemy will be at peace with him and that was why whenever he went whether in the pit, prison, potiphar's house or the palace he was highly favoured.
another thing l learnt was that to every life there are lives that are attached to it. if that person falls, it will take God grace for the others behind not to fall. If he hadn't accomplished his dream and purpose, his family and the whole Isreal will have dead of hunger during the famine. another example is Adam because he sinned all his seeds also sinned.
l love the kind of heart Joseph had, even with all they did to him, he still forgave them and accomodated them and the ultimate was how he use his God given talent to become the first not egyptian prime minister. He just a wonderful person.

shile - l am an OND graduate as well, so l am speaking from exprience. my advice is for u to go for the 100 level, don't let anybody deceive u with pratical or nigeria need more polythenic graduate, all that is story, at the end of the day it still boils down to self development because if u look at both curiculum they are both outdated.
If u go for the HNd and u eventually confront the monster called discrimination u will be force to either take a pgd or a DE. so l will advice u go for the unversity and save ur time and effort. This is Nigeria, everybody knows the right thing it is just that they find it difficult to implement. l don't know why a Bsc should be higher or well paid than HND.

l am an OND graduate from Yabatech, l finished with upper credit. l applied for the 2005/2006 DE admission to Uniben but nothing came out of it. l have reapply for the 2006/2007 session. l just need help from anybody that has contact there that can help me with the admission. l friend with lower G.P to mine got admitted last year. l know that they are about entering second semester, l just want to start the process early because l don't want to go back for HND. THANKS FOR UR HELP.