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Lool he wants all the techy gadgets to play with and then is attracted to the following too

Remotes
Phones
Decoder
Stabilizer
Extension
Christmas light( he traced the lights to where we plugged it)
Infact anything thats bling bling or brings out light
Anything Paper

So I decided to give him one old spoilt chinko phone to slam on the ground as he desires, the lil dude later figured that it doesn't bring out light on the screen like ours so it doesnt catch his fancy again

Children of these days ehn

Obodo999:
So which Bible verse supports your argument?

The same one he tried to twist


“But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.” -1 Timothy 5:8 KJV

Ridwan440:
Ma'am, His case is a bit different, His is total change of identity/names. Even if he enrol for NIMC it will not come out because the platform has now been linked to BNV, and they will ask for his BVN at the point of enrollment and name on BNV must be same as the name on the NIMC card. May be he can go for drivers license.

I did change my surname and first name though I get your point maybe darkhorizon should leave his middle name but then legally(I may be wrong though) it should be possible to do a whole change of identity just state the reasons.

Drivers license first(thats if he doesnt have one in the old name already)
Bvn change next plus bank change next
Then national Id change next


The stress of this stuff can discourage one, if you are not determined you will just quit.

@darkhorizon you would have to go all the way, down to changing bvn, nimc ,international passport,driving license etc etc

Firstly I sought the advice of a lawyer,he said no issue with changing 2 names as long is not you are changing for criminal reasons, you just present your affidavit when presenting the docs you have in your former name.

When I was ready, another lawyer friend gave me a format to type, I took the typed affidavit and went to the commisioner of oaths office at IKeja high court, dont patronize those touts ooo. Its about 500naira to get it stamped. The lawyer services were free.

Next Newspaper publication, I got the services of someone on NL, sent my marriage cert and affidavit(because I was changing both surname and firstname) via watsap and voila the publication was out on guardian. Keep the newspaper its a document.

After that changed NIMC national ID,( I needed it to process BVN change it became a valid ID around that time I didnt have a passport had an expired old Driving license and NIMC was the cheapest option) the newspaper publication, Affidavit from a High court and marriage cert (I am female) and 500 remitta payment per name to be changed Paid and waited. Got ready in about 2 months they said waiting time is now longer.

After it got ready I proceeded to the bank with all the docs for bvn/acc details change. Some of those bank peeps may want to say you cant just change your first name any how blabla bla I didnt even bother to say anything I just gave him the affidavit and gave him the 'are you saying this is not valid' look.
It takes time with banks like gtb I had to do it twice, first one they processed only that of my account not the BVN own and you wont know since you really cant check your bvn details at home or something. Applied again with enough ranting and in 3 weeks my bvn changed. Then you go to all the banks you have accounts for upgrade.

If you have a passport I heard changing that one is costly to change.

The whole process took around 8months
Almost everything is stressfull in naija

You need lots of patience it was very stressful the BVN part is the most annoying.

I saw this post on a watsap group somedays back.

Its one thing to say couples can share financial responsibilities and chores which makes sense IMO. The bible is not against this

Its another thing to say 'The Bible did not say the man is the provider' this is wrong and not biblical. Biblically the man is the provider simple.

I dont fancy when people try to twist the Bible to suit their own view, you are entitled to your opinion dont misquote the Bible please.

Biblically the man provides for his household.

I dont get how family members will begin to have issues with wedding date? Is it not range dates you guys decide you present to the family and adjust as necessary.

Brides family will get agitated by frequent shifts but its not supposed to get up the threat level

Curse because of wedding in february instead of april?

Your mum doesnt want you to marry that girl thats all.

Besides february to april is just about 8weeks max.

You hold a wedding last week of february or first week of april its maximum 5 weeks.

You should be more concerned if you guys are meant for each other.

One thing I know is that our parents and parents inlaw will always try to blackmail us emotionally, ability to wriggle out of it without any incident is a true test of maturity translating to how prepared you are to get married.

You have to manage them both with tact or else you are in for a long ride.
Much ado about nothing o jare.

Lool at mummy dont be silly

Lots of ill bred and ill mannered children out there, the parents will say they are expressing themselves.

I am against parents sexualizing their kids, girls used to wear dresses back then and use ribbons on their hair but then some of us use to wear pant, bath outside and run around the street at that age too and no body defiled the children.

Let children be children and dress them appropriately, dressing them appropriately is a form of training, heavy braids make up is not necessary abeg
Although wearing bumshort for children is not an excuse for paedophila tendencies but while would you want to wear a bumshort for a child?

The funniest part is kids of these days dont look their age at all.

Abeg someone should educate me


Why is everybody shouting pascal Dozies son, he chop moni?

What I know is those diamond staff may be jobless with time, all intercontinental peeps were gradually let go.

My maternal cousins are muslims, they all have one wife,the day we had this discussion one of them told me it doesn't make economic sense to marry more than one wife he's been married for 19years now. All of them have one wife only, even the females are still the only wife its a matter of principle not religion sometimes.

I was just smiling

lefulefu:
oh u mean dat type of dating? Its not old skool na. My guy who schooled in unijos told me dats how d hausas date. Dat if u movin with a hausa girl she will introduce u to her ppl as her boyfriend. And by the way is dat not how d whites date? Its only in the south dat a guy will be sneaking around moving with a girl.

OhoOokayy

lefulefu:
u mean the old skool method of someone arranging a wife for u. It certainly wont work in this 21st century. I have witnessed cases where parents unknownly arrange female monsters for their sons thinking they are good girls and in some cases where u tell a friend to look for a wife for u he will bring one of his ex for u and still be fuking her while u arranging to marry her. Getting hooked with someone u really know its the safest method.

Naa not the arrangee old school type

I mean the way courting is done properly, infact there would be less heartbreaks.

For e.g before before you cant just 'go out' with a girl like that, her whole clan will be aware, the papa will say bring my baby before so so time, you have to go knock at their door just to go on a date oo.
Infact if you think of all these 'unnecesary wahala' if you are not interested to wife the girl you wont even attempt wooing her.

Shey it someone that you had to take lots of permissions to go out lasan that will come and do washaman, even give you sex?

missyblissy:
It wont increase the body count if the lady has principles and respect for herself.

Op its a wonderful advice but the indomine generation and some slay queens with foolish thinking will not accept it at all.

Ladies, know this, sex can never and will never keep a man no matter how skilled you think you are in bed. I learn a lot from my experience and from people's experiences.


THINK WITH YOUR HEAD THIS TIME, NOT YOUR HEART OR PUSSY!!!!!

Preach it




I repeat SEX CAN NEVER AND WILL NEVER KEEP A MAN NO MATTER HOW SKILLED YOU THINK YOU ARE IN BED.

Repetition is for emphasis.

Mariangeles:
LADIES, ACCORDING TO MOST COMMENTS SO FAR, YOU CAN WITNESS THAT MOST GUYS ARE SELFISH BASTARDS AND ARE OUT TO USE Y'ALL !

THEY WANT TO EAT THEIR CAKE AND HAVE IT !
A CASE OF "WHY BUY THE COW WHEN YOU CAN GET THE MILK FOR FREE "

WISE UP !

SAY NO TO PREMARITAL SEX!

You sef see am

Loool

Some ladies are not smart at all.

Lool, I cant believe I agree with toks2008

What works and will still be the best is the old school method, thats part of what toks is saying. Not a popular opinion and 90percent wont even agree with you

Someone will come and squeeze 3 years out of the life of a lady.

I even wonder if some people see dating as a hobby or something.

It seems nobody wants to ask the main question.

wirinet:
The landlord is not following the law. The law says 6 months from the expiration of the tenancy, the landlord only gave 2 months. Even after the expiration of the 6 months, the law allows for extra 2 or 3 months.

Kindly post a link to your claim.

Badb0y4lyf:
She’s this MFM churchy kinda woman , my problem is a do’s and don’t are too much. We started having prolem when I first moved in and started closing the main at 10.30pm she said she wrote it in her agreement so I had to adjust to that timing cos I’m a chilling guy later I can’t wash my car in the compost my friend can’t come to visit she be thinking Dey wanna come rob and spying on her I cant even talk or play music she complains and it was too much so we didn’t really get along I can’t beg her cos right now we don’t talk I don’t greet her I just need a way to circumvent this and me not being on the losing end.

Lool

You dont greet her
You dont talk
You cant beg her

And you want to find a way for you not to lose? Like you want to live there free for sometime right?

Issorait oo

The landlord is smart, you have your 6months notice so I dont get what the whole hullabo is about.

Its like people think the 6months notice means after your rent expires or they think the 6months notice is rent free?

You want to sue him after he gave you a 6month notice? You cant use the 6months to plan your exit.

If it were some landlords they will wait till your rent expire and if you dont renew immediately they will give you 7days notice saying you are a tenant at will.

Some tenants are always looking for how to cause trouble

You need to go to Yaba to know how these people harass women, their own get grade. The worst I ve seen in any market in Lagos.
If you like wear mary Amaka you will still be harassed, you cant even pass peacefully touching and dragging you.

Been like that for years, until someone sues one of them for harassment before they know its wrong.

Just one example thats all

All these nonsense will stop.

Congratulations

innovestor:
the moment i wrote i knew a question like this would arise.

Its called sacrifice because its hard, but it's meant for a greater good. It's been a sinusoidal wave though i wish more of the wave lengths could be on the +ve side of the chart and not the other side.

This is my philosophical and scientific response to your question.

I wanted to ask same , I remembered I read it back then.

This your response na wa

I would say they are just transferring aggression to you.

Its so sad to see what they have to go through to fend for their kids but then theres no shame in legal hustle thankfully you still have what a lot of people dont which is a sponsor.

Just avoid whatever triggers the beatings, try and have sometime to read at school.

This too shall pass

Its well

I have said it nairalanders dont read or maybe they lack comprehension I just dont get it

The commercial manager of terragon group apologized he said a team member posted that in error and wont have acess to the handle again.

People are already saying the person who tweeted has apologised, hes a yoruba man etc etc.

How hard is it to understand that the person who apologised was not the one who tweeted.

Nawa oo


As for that guy good riddance. Very unprofessional stuff. I am very certain he has lost his job, hopefully Guinness wont terminate their contract with the company.

Mtchew

You need to know the exact destination/ route of the bus you are entering to prevent unnecesary trekking. Its not just enough to know where you are going.

Oshodi, oshodi oke, oshodi isale, Bolade oshodi.

Eko idumota, downdown eko/eyineyo eko

Apongbon cms/ marina cms

Orile bode thomas, orile costain

Badagry roundabout, Badagry oja

Iyanaiba okoko, iyanaba igboelerin inside.


One has to know the difference in the routes sometimes

230 people? that sample size is quite small

I had to scroll back to check the pictures again when I saw the bad belle comments.

The woman is beautiful

carammel:
The op sounds like he is trolling anyway. .

In the event that this is true, the only thing that caught my attention is that "her mother said you should stop beating her daughter", but you won't stop because even the girl knows she deserves the beatings humor me please.

Una go dey alright lasslass.

Honestly I think say na only me see the bolded

I am beginning to think this is spiritual because I cant wrap my head around it.

You dont have money or a job and you turned down two jobs? Madam you need to pray hard for him.

ehissi:
Its like E don tey whey you go market, that is a 6million Naira list. The bride price(s), lady okada, generator and other cash gifts is already more than a million.

Them never buy wine, drink, pot, bra, canopy or even bring money to cook food.

If you go market, with that list no carry 6million go, you go cry come back.......

Not all topics should make front page, this is one of them. The poster has gotten the needed info after 6 posts.