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Loool she should have just kept quiet sha.

millionboi2:
he was angered already........if u are not with big tummy,some idiots girls without home training will take u for as ride.

How you still found a way to blame the lady amazes me, so the Oga take it easy is enough for all that.

Did you watch the video at all?


He's a shame.

See the police thats suppose to protect the citizens

Thankful the whole video is there if not they would have said the lady was running her mouth.


See the way he's slapping a human being.

Hope they can sue him

Good move.
He still has not accepted or denied anything though

Now let him sue for defamation if he's innocent.

Congrats mr Lewstherin.

One of the few male posters in Family section I look forward to their posts.

paraltero:
If my relative is accused of rape, I'll keep this same energy. You think I'd change my mind because it's my relative? Or that l'd want to be associated with a possible rapist?

You mentioned Neymar. Neymar cleared his name by himself! What has Mr. Biodun been doing since Ese Walters came out with her accusations? Each time, he doesn't even put it as an accusation on his person (which is what it is) but as an accusation on the Church (which it's not. There are different accusations in the direction of his church organization but that's a separate matter). This man is using the church and silence to defend himself each time, instead of providing proof of his innocence. See, if this was the first accusation, I might be more disposed to giving the benefit of the doubt. It's not the first or the second. It's the third! If your neighbor is accused of armed robbery by three different, unrelated people, wouldn't you start getting suspicious?

By the way, it is the height of insensitivity to insist that victims of rape should just "move on". It's the height of disrespect to them and their right to take time to heal from this injury to their mental and physical and emotional health. But It's easy for you to say because you're not a victim of rape. It's only a man who has never been robbed that says armed robbers are not a big deal.

You head dey there.


He should stop seeing it as an attack on the church.

He never defended himself during Ese's saga and still not now.

Let him give a press conference or even have an interview negating all Busola said. Someone that collected mic from the wifes mouth when trying to talk about the incident.

Is it not one pastor kemi olunloyo wrote bad things about and she got arrested because he felt a need to defend himself from her talk talk.

Peeps hiding under the church to wreak havoc.

paraltero:
If my relative is accused of rape, I'll keep this same energy. You think I'd change my mind because it's my relative? Or that l'd want to be associated with a possible rapist?

You mentioned Neymar. Neymar cleared his name by himself! What has Mr. Biodun been doing since Ese Walters came out with her accusations? Each time, he doesn't even put it as an accusation on his person (which is what it is) but as an accusation on the Church (which it's not. There are different accusations in the direction of his church organization but that's a separate matter). This man is using the church and silence to defend himself each time, instead of providing proof of his innocence. See, if this was the first accusation, I might be more disposed to giving the benefit of the doubt. It's not the first or the second. It's the third! If your neighbor is accused of armed robbery by three different, unrelated people, wouldn't you start getting suspicious?

By the way, it is the height of insensitivity to insist that victims of rape should just "move on". It's the height of disrespect to them and their right to take time to heal from this injury to their mental and physical and emotional health. But It's easy for you to say because you're not a victim of rape. It's only a man who has never been robbed that says armed robbers are not a big deal.

You head i

ajalekoko1777:
May I use this medium to ask what offence(s) the COZA pastor has committed. The alleged allegation to him has a pastor. Are we Nigerians not expected to ask ourselves why the issue is just coming up now that he raped a lady while she was a teenager. My view to this matter is that if has not been a famous person, I believe the alleged allegation would not have revealed by said lady. If the pastor is poor then she wouldn't have raised this issue up. To be candid all allegations has to me are feeble which can never stand in any court of law in Nigeria. I read through that several ladies too have came out with there own allegations. Well am not in any way supporting or againsting the pastor has an accused person. But all things been equal. COZA pastor I don't know him nor be his church member but we Nigerians should have a second taught on the matter, anybody like COZA pastor if his poor, sane or not in famous, I know the person would have not come out to engaged lawyer or connived with bad people to send a disclaimer out against the pastor. whether he raped her or other, the truth everyone must know is that they all enjoyed the pleasure of having sex with him if at all it happened. Let be watchful of our words and re-think deeply before we could send out or assumed the cooked lies to be truth. Thank you all.

The main issue is, Fatoyinbos team were the one that started it, started running rumors about Busola how she was sleeping with pastors blablabla that Timi should check the DNA of his children.

Accusations have been running so she came out with her own truth, according to her she has kept quiet all these years and even during ese walters case she didnt even talk but the accusations are affecting her so she had to come out.

Let Fatoyinbo sue if he feels shes not telling the truth, its that simple.

xperiencelove:
Many people didn't watch the full clips before commenting everywhere. What really triggered Timi was how Biodun is bragging everywhere among his loyalists that he has had intercourse with the woman before he got married.
Meanwhile, Timi got to know many people are aware of the saga through chats and messages he receives from friends and colleagues to the extent some adviced him to get a DNA test for his children.

At least this shows you watched the video not lots of ignorant comments here.

Fatoyinbos team was the one that started it, with threats rumours etc etc. Now wifey decided to bring the whole story out (which I am sure they never expected) they are crying fowl and the rape apologists are blabbing nonsense.

They threw the first stone, Busola came out to defend herself by bringing out the story, all that is left is for fatoyinbo to defend himself if he's truly innocent.

People are saying Busola accused him, shes defending herself from the damage Fatoyinbos team has been doing by telling her own truth. Let Fatoyinbo tell his own truth (if theres any) Will his wife say she cant remember the sleep in the guest room/sleep in the master room incident.

Sebi he threatened to sue, let him sue them if he dares.

For someone that has such history I doubt he will, is he the only new generation pastor in Nigeria how can lots of people be saying bad things about you alone.

Its the same men that always blame the woman thats also blaming this guy.

I personally have a friend( a guy) that was raped, people never believed when I told them the story. It was a messsy case, the guy was a virgin,she drugged his drink and helped herself( how this happened I still cant explain) she admitted what she did, the lady got pregnant and till date the guy has sworn never to have anything to do with her.

Rape apologists everywhere.

Well its the right thing to do.

Lots of peeps should watch the video, got to watch just 2 parts. To the place where he insisted she should sleep in the guest room.

Busola mentioned that she wasnt even going to talk initially, she had kept quiet all through the Ese walters saga, but when he husband made some posts without even mentioning either fatoyinbos name or her name, they began to receive messages like, she had an affair with Fatoyinbo, timi should check the DNA of his children etc etc. They were pratically being bullied by Fatoyinbos team ( those that knew the story) spreading damaging rumours about her and she was like she has been quiet for very long why then bullying me and she decided to come out.

Now if you ask me the story is true.

That Fatoyinbo guy no pure at all.

Ese walters nko

I am almost certain he still indulges in molesting girls, women, from church. The same grace preaching he told Ese walters was the same message he preached on the alter during the midweek service after raping her early monday morning.

I doubt he preaches against sexual sins.

Lool at having low sperm count and rejecting pregnancy, who does that?

I sha know a fling or one night stand or whatever can result in pregnancy.

Let him take responsibility.

First He didnt know her from anywhere
Then he said it was just a fling


I kinda like the OP sha

I never knew kidnapping was so rampant, infact I thought its only foreigners or only known figures/ rich people that get kidnapped till I heared the chilling experience of a lady kidnapped somewhere in the south south traveling interstate in a public bus one of these transport companies, their driver tried reversing when he saw they were not army men, they were shot at as they reversed, those that didnt get shot were taken into the bush and their family called for ransom.

gbosaa:
4 years, 5 years!! Whatever age, you child is your responsibility. If they take something off the shelves, collect them and put them back or pay for them. If you can’t control them when they are in such an environment, don’t take them there.

You seem not to get the point of the person you quoted, the pregnant woman was carrying a child in her arms and had another 4 year old child walking who took the doll.

So imagine the scenerio.

As a rule I dont fancy going to greet new mothers and then carrying a newly born, I greet from far when I say it people look at me strangely, ordinary cold you can easily transfer to the babe.

Reason why people dont allow other to carry new babies. Nigerians will say you are overprotective, you dont want them to touch your baby blablabla, at the end of the day its the parents that will bear the brunt.

Never liked her dress sense, always wondered who her stylist was even as the first lady back then, sometimes everything will be so blingbling bling and you will be wondering. The only good thing about this particular dress is that its modest.

Purest23:
Hey Mr man enough of the self denier stuff. If your don't know you better investigate and ask questions.

I'm a bini by tribe and I've live all my life here.
The said girl lived in my area then (her family house) Uwuigbe Street, Off Sapele road.

The girl was pointed by the Oba in Kings Square (Ring Road) during one of his coronation days as a part of a traditional rite.

She was taken right from that day and never went back home.

He married her afterwards by sending reps to the family and some months later, they came and marry the younger sister too. I don't know why and here you don't ask much question but simply take things as they are (always royal) to the core.

I wondered why the information never saw the light of day even with the sophistication of our social media now, but wow! At least people are talking about it now.

So my friend dig around and find the truth for yourself and stop wallowing in denial.

This happened and I witnessed it.

Interesting

Thank God ooo

Smh at
'Nigerian bush country where no one goes to church by bus or taxi'

Most ke?

Most pastor wives I know never even admired that position, it just happened.

It seems a lot of people dont even know what it takes to be a pastors wife.

solmusdesigns:



Thinking with his oversized nose, its men like Reno Omokirikiri that washes their wives panties at home after doing housechores and now use their Free time to Make mouth online..... we all knew how patience Jonathan used to control all of them like houseboy back then when Jonathan was taking his ussual nap.

Love is all about giving your control, vulnerability and life to your wife and vice versa... only a stupid Man eats what his wife cooks without watching her prepare it, or sleeps in the night with his two eyes closed not minding his wife been awake and alone together, and thinks a woman doesnt have control over his life and death, Even all the strongest men in the bible were controlled by women at a point.

A man is only alive because his wife hasnt killed him, when she wants you dead you are dead... again she doesnt want to control you if you didnt get controlled, if not you would be controlled

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P.S; I am not talking about manipulative Control for Selfish gain, Domination or abuse of control

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If I had not experienced something like this I would say its a lie.

It was as if they didnt even wash this one I am talking about at all.

I poured hypo, the thing didnt even shake, last last I employed someone to help me use that chemical they use to clean tiles, before the stuff cleared, even the plumber I hired said he didnt believe the place will clear off.

whizpa:
Didn't believe in this crap until a few years ago.. Ya know?! being a Christian, one is supposed to shun all these cultural and spiritual immorality.

Quick story for those who doubt or are contemplating this ritual...

So.. My uncle being a well travelled dude came back to the village he grew up to marry his long time girlfriend.. Though he met stiff opposition from his mum.. He insisted he MUST marry her or no one else. It took a while before his mum will come to terms with it but there were conditions.. And one of the conditions was for her to partake this ritual or something similar.

Years later, He lost his job and things became really difficult for them, so he had to leave Abuja. He moved back home to Delta state but things didn't get better. The wife became the bread winner and to be honest, she never complained about her husband's lack of employment. But something was off.

She was making too much money from her little kiosk. The husband knew it but was probably too scared to ask her. His mum who lived some distance away had been monitoring her and even confronted her many times both at the kiosk and at home. But she never replies her. She keeps quiet and let her rant.

One day, The husband summoned the courage to ask her. She denied at first but later confessed to cheating when she realized that she couldn't keep up with the lies. My uncle called his mum and some 'Family Elders' to discuss the disturbing facts he had just learnt. They quickly reminded him of the tradition, of how he shouldn't eat whatever she cooks or share from the proceeds of her infidelity.

My uncle laughed it off just like Mynd44 did. He claimed Jesus forgives and He has chosen to forgive his wife. He said his only reason for calling them was so they could call her to order.

Fast forward about 8 months later He got separated from his wife, citing the same issue of infidelity. Just about a month after they got separated. He fell sick and died days after. A few weeks later. His wife also fell sick and died not too long after. Same fate befell their son just under a year later..

Unbeknownst to many young ladies, these traditions/rituals are bestowed upon them, especially those who marry into royal families. Some women are even aware but are too greedy to say NO. Be warned, if any man speaks to you about these nonsense tradition, then he doesn't love you. He's just protecting his investment. Only cowards and foolish men will partake of this..

Be guided. Don't say "I'm a Christian, I'm covered by the blood of Jesus". Or You're a Muslim, Allah will protect you.
Our archaic traditions are still being practiced by people who refuse to grow with time. When you partake of their ritual or tradition. Then you best start believing what they believe in.

Cheers!

Very sane comment.

Also when people want to marry outside their culture they should ask questions. I would never advise anyone to partake in rituals of such, if not for any reason but just because it diabolical.

The part that got me is where even the man dies she cant remarry until one ritual is done again. In christainity its till death do us part.

Lots of factors to consider, speed of the vehicle, type of road, etc etc
Follow your instinct

But if its something like a train is coming and you are trapped on the rail track in a keke or car or whatever jump out. This one doesnt need advise.

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Lalakas:
Most of these doctors always feel insulted when you ask ' what's the name of this injection you want to give me?', at a very tender age, i read about some of these urgly experiences people have with doctors and drugs/injections.

I don't ever take changes with my life, I ask them what's the name of the injection please? Even for my kids I ask before they are being administered and I also ask whats the result of my kids test and mine too.

Always ask them and when the drugs dont sound familiar pls pulse them. Take your phone and search.

Eveb when I put to bed, my hospital place the drugs, injections and the card beside me, it's their way, the doctor will write out all the drugs and the pharmacy will provide everything from day one. I took the card, read all the drugs and seach for their names and know their use. It helps me use my drugs better sef.


Please get wisdom, get understanding, don't let thrm play with your life.

This is the main thing, if for any reason you will not tell me what drug or injection you want to give me, I will just bounce. A doctor once told me I have the right to ask what drug/injection I am about to be given and I must be answered.

If you feel offended then I am sorry, experience has taught me.

bukatyne:
I thought I loved to do chores till I got a job and I realized my OCD was as a result of joblessness

You are very right about the emotional blackmail. I also think fear of oga migrating to the maid and men who insist their wives do everything themselves is another factor.

I couldnt help but laugh at the bolded

Chores are stressful simple thats the fact a lot dont want to understand, when you have a flexible job or you work from home you wont feel it but When you are already stressed at work or spend 3 hours in lagos traffic coming back to another level of stress is not easy.

I had it easy as I worked around home just few months ago, now that I have to work at the main office not finding it easy. Lagos is one kain place sha.

Omode o mo ogun o npe ni efo.

I have been hearing about this ekiti issue for sometime now, even had to tell a church member whose daughter got admission to warn her daughter.

This is not supposed to be an issue.

kaydeefilms:
Nairalanders I need help, my brother in-law is getting married and I was levied to pay a certain amount as support for his wedding because he had spent most of his funds for planning and the bride’s family had various outrageous demands he had to meet. The issues is I have several commitments like, I have my parents and siblings to take care of, coupled with the fact that my son will be starting school this month (which I postponed because of low funds) and my wife just graduated from the university(yet to go on NYSC and has no job, I foot all the bills in the house and all her expenses) I am about to tell my in-laws that I don’t have the said amount to give (I was levied #40,000) I want to give them (#10,000). And this will further inconvenience myself and my small nuclear family. What should I do? I need your advices

Nawa ooo, give what you can afford please and tell your wife to talk to her people.

Which kain wahala is this.

avast01:
It takes great foresight not to start what you can't finish.
It seems your resources are limited and entirely budgeted for your child. Best focus them on your child then.
From time to time, you can try to extend such kindness to the other child, as much as you can.

This is someone that understands what the real problem is.

Resources are limited shikena thats the genesis of this whole brouhaha.