₦airaland Forum

kernel001:
We're four men from my parents, no girl. But we've never fought each other for once. It starts with you, your handling of your kids. The younger one, can't talk back to the elderly, rather the issue should be reported to you, and you most be seen to be fair to both parties.

The day my last brother, got provoked by the third, the last one being tall and big, angrily wanted to fight the third, and my Mum got the call, on getting back, she started flogging the last one, for attempt to fight his big brother, instead of reporting him. They were both in the university as at that point

My Mum has never talk back to my Mum, and hardly, will my Dad shout on her. I've seen my Dad quarrel with mine Mum twice in 35 years. They don't have friends outside themselves.

Mariangeles:
Put yourself in her husband's shoes for a minute...

That's right !
It's embarrassing!

Tokziby:
Small pikin everywhere from the first comment to the last...

What u just explained exist virtually in all women, forget whether u are in a relationship now or married. Women are like Television, they may have different manufacturers but they are wired the same way. Either u buy flat screen or orobo tv, whether u use ur TV with ordinary antenna or cable tv they will all show u something, some u will like and some na to just manage... That's just a tip of the ice berg. I laugh in roman numeral hahahahah this children will not kill someone.

Have u ever heard of a saying that, a woman will offend u but u will accept the blame plus ending up to apologizing to her. That's women trickery for u and every woman is born with her own form of trickery.

Example, The lady u love does something wrong but didn't want to apologize, then it causes a heated argument and the woman hits u first(be it a slap or punch) but she immediately starts to cry, and saying "u see what u made me do now, u made me hit u" while she continue to sob. . Abeg Bros, what will u do?? You'll definitely hug her and start to pacify her like a baby saying sorry dear, sorry i made u hit me.

You are talking about the only human being that had a one on one talk with the Devil himself and convinced man to eat the forbidden fruit... someone that single handedly humbled SAMSON wey dey kill lion with bare hands. someone that made Bill Clinton lied on national tv and still came bak to eat his words. The people that made a president mumu himself and to talk about oza room on national tv.


Guys one very good advice, have it at the back of ur mind that the lady u date today either for 1 day or 100 years, will never exhibit her full potential/behavior until she pack enter ur house as wife. If all men could discover the entire behavior of their wives before marriage, there can never be anything called divorce. Hence, u that is forming sharp and hard guy today, saying ur girl is gentle and quiet, and that u have a total control of her and u are 100% sure that she can never misbehave, i have one bad news for u... YOU AINT SEEN NOTHING YET!!!

Just know this, women are carved from our crooked rib, if u try to straighten them, them go break and if try to bend them the more, them go scatter. Hence, na to just manage them like that and accept them with their faults as no one is perfect. But if them try to destroy ur life, abeg u know what to do...

kevwemike:
Good morning house pls did any one knows how I can register for National Health Insurance Scheme pls tell me the procedures. Thanks

Imogenn:
He’s really into God from what I can see. He works in the ushering department in church but I think hes just living a double lifestyle which he can’t let go of, if that makes sense.

stupidity:
Please y’all pardon my moniker. As your input will be greatly appreciated

I and my fiancé been together for four years now. Sure there’s ups and down but as usual, we get to settle it within 24hours and get back to as it were.


We already plan on making it happen mid next year.

But the issue I’m facing right now is “I’m not sure I can live 247 under the same roof with a woman! Not just her but women in general. Sure I want to get married and have kids.

I hate headaches, I hate nagging from women. I do all my possible best to make everyone around me happy and smiling I pay my/our bills. I don’t default on responsibilities. But as you all know, women are bound to come up with unnecessary dramas. Have experienced it from her whereby I’m forced to distance myself for a while

Also I have an anger issue I’m trying to curb for years now, gradually it’s working good for me, this has resulted in me hitting her few times. Seriously I hate to see this happen before and after marriage.

After all this experience I’m here thinking and wondering if I can comfortably live under the same roof 24/7 with a woman. Like I said, I sure want to get married and have kids.

The plan is to have her move into my house. I already have a house of my own and a car, which I want to give her too and the kids once they start coming. While I move to another state and get a rented apartment for myself. I’ll visit on weekends. Sometimes stay weeks or months. I don’t work for anyone as I have people working for me. So there will be enough time to visit her and the kids and spend weeks or even months with them. Of course that’s when the kids start coming.


Has anyone done this before? Does it make sense?

Please don’t feel offended by this post, I’m not shying away from responsibilities, I stated my reasons for this mindset up there.

Ugosample:
what is this one saying?

I'm all for calling the cops for genuine reason, but From my experience, most of those calls are frivolous

they just wan show power

as mgbeke wey don land Europe

I know their type a plenty

deolumike:
This is quite shameful.

Here we blame every little thing on patriarchy but see how women are abusing little privileges they get in a society that is designed against "patriarchy"


For many women, their greatest undoing will be lack of capacity to be accountable to good reasoning.

priceaction:
Seun, the owner of this site, his family own and run the school. His junior brother is their maths teacher. My son has been disturbing me that he wants to go there. I hope I will make his dream comes through next year.

Tellemall:
All Nigerians love is money. They can kill their own family for money. It's all over Nigerian news. That 19 year old man who killed a little boy, his objective was money.

That is why they're angry at the OP because he values more than money from his friend. Just look at how all the responses are about money. His friend took dear things from him that cost money and he didn't mind but look at how everybody is telling him that he's now after the friends money. Was the friend not after his money and now he's gotten what he wanted the ingrate refuses to just say hi properly.

Nigerian society is demented. Everything is about money. Nigerians called women who.ores but Linda Ikeji is acceptable because of her money. Dangote is an illiterate and they castigate their presidents illiteracy but it is acceptable because one is a billionaire. Lebanese use Nigerians like Shiiit and they don't care since the Lebanese have money. Then they run to the UK where the pounds are the law so they worship white people.

Livefreeordieha:
something like below bro..����

ImaIma1:
He said she disrespected him and he didn't beat her up perse but he hit her... married woman with kids. If her husband hits her, can her brother have the mouth to condemn the act?

ImaIma1:
I still saw one that happened recently. The brother hit his younger sister who is married with three kids. Infact her first child is 12. I felt so sad and disappointed.