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DrummaBoy: Do u have any solid evidence that can be presented in court that rigging took place, instead of just making noise and disturbing peace? |
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You forgot to mention your Oro festivals where you behead unsuspecting victims. |
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Why is it that there was no looting and burning of houses in the South when Yaradua, a northerner, won in the most rigged election in 2007? This 'born to rule' mentality of these people caused by successive military regime by mostly northerners is really annoying. |
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Good point, I think the aim was the prestige these old professors are expected to hold. Younger lecturers might be easily induced to do something silly. |
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werepeLeri: They decided to sit at home while other ethnics were battling it out at the polls. |
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Chai! free ride. ![]() |
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See how he voted PU 24/11/03/047 Tinubu ’s Polling Unit, Lagos ACN-166 ADC-3 CPC-27 FRESH-4 NCP-1 PDP-140 |
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Ileke-IdI: Honestly, I do not think any Yoruba came out to vote. |
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Yorubas were busy eating ponmo and farting their as-ses out at home. |
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They were busy consuming large volumes of Amala powder and ponmo, while farting out their backsides at home. ![]() |
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OponuYorubas |
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~Bluetooth: In the poll where Tinubu voted ACN won. In what way was he helping Jonathan? PU 24/11/03/047 Tinubu ’s Polling Unit, Lagos ACN-166 ADC-3 CPC-27 FRESH-4 NCP-1 PDP-140 The truth remains that the votes GEJ got in the SW were Igbo votes. |
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Obiagu1: And some people come here to accuse Igbos of bigotry? |
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Obiagu1: Just wondering, what happened to the remaining 1.8 million registered voters in the state? ![]() Were they not aware of an election going on? ![]() |
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We all voted for a President who for the first time in Nigeria's post-ciivil war era treated us with the dignity we deserve as citizens of this country. It has nothing to do with tribal reasons, since he's even not Igbo. Anyone who has a problem with that can feel free to commit sui*cide. |
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Kobojunkie: And there are no such species from ngbatiland and awusaland? Stop this ridiculous hypocrisy. |
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Kobojunkie: You see thats the difference. You are Ibo, we are Igbos. And we come from different ethnic groups. |
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ndu_chucks: SAI Jonathan. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Kilode?!: His sins against Ndigbo are irredeemable. Not even if he wins this election. Thats why he gets none of our votes all along with the former SE running mates. |
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honeric01: How can they vote Utomi when he pulled out of the race before election day? |
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aloy-emeka: Ha ha ha ![]() |
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EzeUche: lol. |
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^^^ Why does anything Igbo give you diarrhea? |
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CPC has already lost in Plateau and Benue. Too late for Buhari's Almajiris. |
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ACN only won in Tinubu's polling unit. |
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Na wao! |
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dayokanu: The whole country runs on the wheels of tribalism. It's a shame we are only deceiving ourselves. |
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Ebira people, mostly living along the River Benue plain down and beyond the River Niger, are a tribe found in Kogi state in Okene, Okehi, Adavi and Ajaokuta local government areas and in some parts of Nassarawa and Edo states. The word Ebira means behaviour when translated literally with ethics and hospitality as compliments. The unique features of the Ebira culture with its ethnic aestheticism, are appreciated most in the event of traditional marriages. Victoria Mayaki sheds more light on this. When a man sees a lady he intends to marry, he discusses his intentions with her, who, if interested, tells him to bring his people to express his intentions to her parents. In respect to the Ebira tradition, the man does not walk to the parents of the woman to disclose his intentions; his parents or elders mostly the women do this by going to the lady’s parents to introduce themselves and also to inform them of their reason for coming to the house. After this is done, the parents of the lady then conduct a thorough investigation on the upbringing, background, family history and so on, of the intending groom to unravel any history of madness, terminal diseases or criminality in the man’s family. This is with a view to deciding whether or not to give their daughter’s hand in marriage to a family with a tainted reputation in the society. After the research, if their findings are appreciable, an approval is given to the man to visit the bride-to- be from time to time to further get to know themselves properly. A date is later picked for the formal introduction of both families and this is called “Ise Ewere” which literally means what has been in secret is now in the open. During the celebration, there is usually the presentation of gift items made by the family of the groom to the family of the bride. The gift items usually include; about 42 tubers of yam, dried fish or bush meat, 10 liters of palm oil, a bag of salt, assorted wines and kola nut. The groom may also decide to present two wrappers to his would-be bride but this is optional. On the day of introduction, it is not necessary that the man attends the occasion as his family members do the necessary things on his behalf. The bride’s family in turn, entertains the groom’s with food and drinks. The families interact with one another and formally introduce every member of both families. After this is done, the date for traditional marriage is then fixed. The tubers of yam and other items brought are distributed to neighbours and members of the extended family no matter how small. Much significance is given to this to ask for their prayers for a happy marriage as well as to ensure the acknowledgement of the community that the lady now has someone she intends to get married to. The amount to be collected as bride price is also agreed upon by the parents of the bride and it depends to a large extent, on the financial strength of the man. Apart from the bride price, there are other things like “ozemeiyi” that is “I am attracted to her” which a certain amount of money is attached to, and “otanuvogei” that is “joining hands together”. There is also “idoza” that is “farming price” paid to the bride’s family because Ebira people are predominantly farmers. In the olden days when every young man had to farm, the groom and his friends appoint a day to farm for the father of the bride but these days because most young men don’t farm any longer, they pay money instead. On the day of the traditional marriage, women in the man’s family are seen singing and dancing carrying tubers of yams on their heads to the lady’s house. The singing and dancing continues at their arrival at the lady’s house where the ceremony kicks off. Other items to be taken are cans of palm oil, groundnut oil, dried fish, some clothing materials in some boxes, jewelries and other things for adornment of the lady. The ceremony is usually colorful with display of dances by maiden groups mostly the bride’s friends and by women groups. A religious leader and the parents of the couple offer prayers for them to bless their marriage and a certificate is thereafter given to the couple by the religious leader to acknowledge their marriage. The lady is thereafter, escorted by her friends and other women to her husband’s house with her belongings. www.leadershipeditors.com/ns/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=25976:traditional-marriage-in-ebira-land&catid=65:life-and-culture&Itemid=196 |
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