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michelin89:
Ahahahahah! Jokes apart, I believe it's left to the couple to decide. I mean here it's either we are too idealistic or too relativistic. Each one chooses what they want.

As far as I am concerned, I don't see marriage as something fun or exciting. It's just one of those things that happen. After the wedding, you are back to your everyday life, only that now from I you have become a WE.

Wish it's dat easy.

Am not a player, just feel marriage might be a bondage, once you get in, you start looking for the way out. When i hear of all these divorce cases, the question I ask is, who asked them to get married in the 1st place? I just want to live ever happily with my g/f till love do us part. thats all. BUT virtually all ladies want marriage.

but I will not be lying 'technically' cos I will be technically single again.

This will guarantee the marriage lasting forever. Instead of looking forward to divorce, we will be looking forward to the holiday. Thanking my stars you will soon be off my back for a while. and I will be able to do whatever I think am missing marrying you.

Please stop this acid scare. If you must kill me, kill me doing me non stop

Nooo, we must not know or bother to find out whatever happens during the holiday. remember we will be free and single again - whatever happens will not be cheating. If a girl should ask me if single or maried during the holiday, my answer will be single

You misunderstood the holiday. The one month holiday and the 1 year sabbatical will be spent separately. We will spend them as if we are single.

The purpose of the holiday is to take away the stress of marriage off you, free to be single a month in a year and a year in 7 yrs.

Fine!!! and the holiday?

GTay:
Scenario 2

This happened on apongbon bridge Lagos years ago.
There's this Mad man who is know for spitting into peoples vehicles. So whenever he approaches, everyone winds up at jet speed .
This day, my colleague missed him totally and before she could say Jack Robinson, he was by the window, Waiting to spit like a reptile
My colleague starts begging and offered him some money; he grabs it and says "aunty you don buy new motor "

Now how did a "mad man" know exactly what car she was using before . These guys ain't mad i tell u!

Damm!!! I know the man you are talking about. I made the mistake once, had to pay, since then, I drive thru d bridge winds up. I knew he wasn't mad, he was doing it deliberately. Hope he is no longer there.

ubiaa5:
OYO 4 U.

Just let me know when she turns 16, I will make you an offer you cant refuse, trust me, Am not in an hurry.

michelin89:
I am not speaking for myself.

As I have already said, I want it because of the power it gives.

Please I only want to be your b/f.

I dont want to marry. In fact you have scared the he.ll out of me, cos if I marry you you will use the power against me.

But then, if you will sign prenup with me, agree to one month marital holiday in a year and 1 year holiday every seven years. Then I will say 'I do' What about that?

ubiaa5:
did this realy happen? i know rev uma ukpai n two of his kids,i think he has 4 or5.

Yes. I heard it directly from him many years ago in Nigeria, think he was preaching on cost of followership/anointing. Ask his children.

michelin89:
We believe when we legitimate it before everyone, then we are free to do what we like.

It's just a crave for others approval.

Why do you need others approval? For what?

GTay:
[b]Rainy Season in Lagos
[/b]Corporate chick in a slick ride approaches ojuelegba under bridge, suddenly her car gets stuck in some mud.
An area boy shows up from nowhere, and heaves-the car over the muddy water.
The corporate chick says thank you but the young man inisists he wants payment. She frowns and starts to move the car!
The area boy becomes so furious he uses his hand to pack mud and pour it into the car straight on "Miss corporate baby" lol

Her mistake. She should have stopped the guy from helping or paid. No free lunch in Lagos

ubiaa5:
congrats jare,dont mind oam4j and fhemmy they r anti marriage crusaders.

Who says? Am only waiting for your daughter to mature. Let me know when she turns 16, as soon as she is 18, I will say 'I do'  (No condition attached)

But if you have a good sister, who will sign a prenup with me, agreed to 1 month holiday every year and 1 year holiday every seven years, I will say 'I do' 

slimes:
A good Marriage makes life easier to bear and the weight of problems is borne by the best of friends-couple.

Agreed. The question we have been asking is why cant these best of friends remain just best of friends? Must they say 'I do'

Akaraiwe:
@OAM4J
 Ibori kill ribadu?,what for?
   fill me in abeg
   Freshmoney, bros u see wetin we dey yarn, u for try video that scenario for your fone next time,make we send am give some friends for media,make people see how yeyeish our politicians can yeye reach!!!

What? Where have you been? There have been exchanges of serious hot words between the 2. both accusing each other of corruption. Right now Ibori case file is believed to be with Ribadu and it is believed that Ribadu is behind Ibori case in UK.

You can go through some of the following threads

www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-329921.0.html
www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-346084.0.html
www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-329300.0.html
www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-333925.0.html
www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-330223.0.html

Ribadu has no business coming back now. Ibori might kill him.  All the evidence the court need have been provided, that case should have long been dismissed.


As for El Rufai, he will be in Nigeria by 27th December. http://www.pointblanknews.com/os2552.html

Fhemmmy:
At least she is being honest, that she is marrying just to get her going going on.

Agreed. Just that she made the SEX thing look like its only for having children.

I will get married for SEX if I dont believe in SEX before/outside marriage. SEX is good you know, hey! am suppose to still be a virgin o lol

Fhemmy leave the guy alone, 3 months to the wedding he is already stressed out, now you dey ask about prenup. Those who are truly in love don't sign prenup, have you forgotten that love is blind or let me sound spiritual, love covereth multitude of wrongs.

I beg bro r231, Congratulations jare, make you email my cake.

mikeansy:
You must know something the Code of Conduct Bureau and Justice Constance Momoh of the Code of Conduct Tribunal do not know. The government agencies who hold the records in issues of this nature have confirmed Ribadu declared his assets.

For El-Rufai he is being accused of 32billion pounds mis-appropriation. Aliyu Moddibbo was used to hatch this baseless allegation but during the few times Remi Babalola spent conducting the affairs of the FCT. He confirmed the money is actually in FCT account.

so I don't know what other things you mean El-Rufai has been accussed of. But the fact remains that every week Aondoakaa keeps making uo baseless acccusations while defending corrupt ex-Governors with  proven cases of corruption.

Thank you mikeansy.

It is only in Nigeria, people are declared guilty before the facts are established. It is only in Nigeria people are taken to court and jailed while investigations are not yet concluded. Same with Obj, he stole $16b later the story changed, he only spent $8b and then the story changed again that only $4b was disbursed.

I am not defending anyone, but I prefer the police or efcc to do a thorough job before coming to press or before declaring somebody wanted and before they are taking to court. like someone said, in Nigeria once accused, you are declared guilty until proven innocent.

SeanT21:
I want to have children and I do not believe in SEX before marriage.

Sorry, not trying to digress, Are you saying the reason why you will have s.ex is because you want children? or you also want s.ex for its pleasure?

Wouldn't have mind if your response has been. 'I want to have sex and I do not believe in SEX before/outside marriage'

Lord have mercy

^^^You mean they do 3some 2 wives 1 husband

[quote author=Paroh_frey link=topic=361727.msg5049948#msg5049948 date=1259947169]A rouge President or a sick President. Which one is ideal for Nigeria?[/quote]Both rogue and sick president should be forced to resign or impeached!!! They are both useless to the collective good and progress of a nation.

Are you satsified now walakolobo Paroh_frey?

violent:
Its easy, they prob have a time table

Monday- Iya Basira
Tuesday- Iya Folusho

Rules: Quiet sex, whoever screams or make any gesture to wake the kids up will be disqualified for two weeks!

Interesting, So what will be going on in the mind of Iya Basira, when Iya Folusho is in action? Mind you she is in the same room, possibly in the same bed.

Dis Guy:
Tell fashola to fix Ajegunle we dey pay tax too but nothing!!

Abi na only lekki be lagos now?

According to Tinubu, Ajegunle is beyond redemption. The only thing that can be done in Aj is to demolish all the houses and invite the modern Lagosians to rebuild it, as it was done in Maroko. But Aj people are not ready. If you are ready, let Fasola know.

Can somebody please answer the question 'how they do it?' am sure they are not doing 3some or something like that. Cant just imagine one wife sleeping and the other in hot action. Gosh!!! How do they do it - in one room?

I continue to siddon dey look, enjoying my palmwine (sorry am not fasting yet, am waiting for majority of my family members to ask my doctor if I can fast or not)


What will be news to me will be 1 of these 3


1. Yar'adua returns home and he has resume duty - (hopefully)

2. Yar'adua has resigned, VP (or whoever) now takes over - (wishfully)

3. yar'adua has gone to be with his maker - (fearfully, hope it wont come to this)

Please choose your spouse over your children. You can always start all over with your spouse and have more children that will make you forget your loss. But with children around, you will never get over the lost of your husband and the children's father.


I heard this story about a popular evangelist in Nigeria - Dr Uma Ukpai. He once had an accident, their car fell into the river, only him could swim and he could only save one person. He saved his wife and lost 3 children, today they have many more children.

That story touched me.

Sorry. It will be well. Its a phase, it will soon go. Please be strong, your mum will need your strength, cos right now you are one of the best reasons she is not giving up. Take her out, make her happy, think of special things you can do together and let her know that happiness is still for people like her. All the best. I really pray you will look back after Christmas and be glad it came.

Most women will never encourage their husband to take a second wife for all reasons. even when they are infertile, they will rather accept adoption than encourage second wife.

Very funny

Eko for show!!!

This is Lagos!!! I miss Lagos.