₦airaland Forum

honeric01:
This is not about pity, it's about understand, the few % sticking to their man's not doing that to pity him (i guess). i still maintain that some marriages are just too rooted to be scattered by a lack of d.ick

but we have them, don't we? forget about the %

honeric01:
i picked all the options, just the gospel truth

honeric01:
And then what does he do with his life if he allows his comforter leave? suicide or forever live in self pity?

honeric01:
i still maintains that there are women out there who would stick to their husband, i am also being real here. some women or men didn't go into a relationship because of the sex, i hope you know that?

ubiaa5:
u guys wish all u want, but there is no leave,except it goes both ways u leave 4 one mths i do too.

SA Lady:
I want to get married because I want to have a lifetime companion. I want a witness on my side as I walk the path of life, and compatibility counts in this regard. However let us not be naive over the fact that there is a very very thin line beween love and hate. This now brings me to the issue of a marriage contract. Let us not forget the fact that as we grow along with our partners (married or single) we invest time, energy, collective decisions are made which people would not otherwise make as individuals, hence the contract. I will sign that contract in a heart beat.

I've always been a firm believer in the notion that Love is not relative but absolute, hence I wouldnt need a piece of paper to prove it, but experience gave me a hard slap right across my face. He moved to a different city (career move) and it all went pear shaped. It was a mutual agreement and I cited to him that I wouldnt want to be that women who's standing in the way of his dreams and that for as long as he is with me he is free to be. I didnt want him to resent chosing me over his life in the end. This was something I could easily understand because I know myself once I feel like I am being bound to something I cant function properly. I mean afterall what could possibly end our love it was ABSOLUTE. Well guess what? it all crumbled before my eyes and I couldnt save even the most beautiful and simple momets we had, not a thing.

We loved each other enough to let go when the time came. When we both agreed to end things it was painful to watch us fight about which property is to be sold since we had acquired and invested in a number of properties together and this was a business decision. I couldnt believe the deppression that came with it and at some point I thought perhaps things could have been better if people agreed on contracts which we both didnt believe in while busy thinking ours is untouchable.

Be careful there is danger in absolute love. Should the end come and I repeat, should the end come you lose all the way. Its been two years and its like I gave absolutely to him and there isnt any day I wake and not thank God for having revealed the love I had for another person within me. If I ever get over this and find it in me to love again I will definitely do the marriage thing with a contract.

Tamita:
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puskin:
Becomerich will soon burst-in here with his wonder MAPS.

We Stand by Our Story - ThisDay

Contrary to claims made by Special Adviser to the President on National Assembly Matters, Senator Mohammed Abba-Aji, on his role in scuttling President Umaru Musa Yar’Adua’s vacation letter to the leadership of the National Assembly, THISDAY hereby states categorically that it is standing by its story.
We have three posers for Abba-Aji, who did his best to deny a story he knew to be correct in every material particular.
One, as the man responsible for the legislative agenda of the President and his relationship with the National Assembly, what advice did he give to the President before his previous and present medical trips to Saudi Arabia, knowing very well the constitutional provisions on the President’s health, travels and vacation?
Two, what is Abba-Aji’s position on the constitutional provision on the President’s travels and the need to write to the leadership of the National Assembly so that the Vice-President can properly become the Acting President? We ask Abba-Aji to come out clearly and make his position known.
Three, did Abba-Aji at anytime last year tell the President that since former President Olusegun Obasanjo never wrote to the National Assembly anytime he was going on vacation or attending to his health, Yar’Adua should follow the same line and not write to the National Assembly? Did he or did he not also canvass this position with other top Presidency officials?
Yesterday, Abba-Aji was moving from office to office, from the Vice-President to the Senate President and to the Speaker of the House of Representatives seeking to persuade them that he never advised the President not to write a vacation letter. What was that about? What was he trying to achieve? Is he shifting loyalty because of the President’s absence through ill-health?
We challenge Abba-Aji to come out publicly to explain his positions on all these issues and disclose the motives behind his actions for the benefit of all Nigerians.

Abba-Aji Denies Scuttling Yar’Adua’s Letter

Special Adviser to the President on National Assembly Matters, Senator Mohammed Abba-Aji, has denied knowledge of any letter written by President Umaru Musa Yar’Adua to the leadership of the National Assembly on his medical vacation in Saudi Arabia.
THISDAY had reported yesterday that before Yar’Adua left the country for medical treatment in Saudi Arabia, he indeed wrote, signed and sent a letter of vacation to the National Assembly.
However, the Special Adviser to the President reportedly advised him against the letter because of the delicate political nature of the issue, believing that the President’s return to his seat after vacation might not be automatic as the National Assembly could stop him.
But in his reaction yesterday, Abba-Aji said the report was false, insisting that Yar’Adua did not convey any such letter through his office to the National Assembly.
Abba-Aji, in a one-page letter to THISDAY signed by the Head, Press and Public Relations Department of his office, Mr. Charles Akpan, stated: “The Office of the Special Adviser to the President on National Assembly Matters would want to categorically refute the content of your Headline News titled ‘How Abba-Aji Scuttled Yar’Adua’s vacation Letter’ of Monday, December 7, 2009.
“The Special Adviser would want to make clear that at no time did the President convey his desire to go on vacation through a letter routed from his Office to the National Assembly.
“He would also want to refute the content of the story especially, in relation to himself.  Conse-quently, the Special Adviser demand (sic) a retraction of the story.  He also expect (sic) the retraction to be given the same prominence as the Headline news.”
In another statement, entitled: “Re: How Abba-Aji Scuttled Yar’ Adua’s Vacation Letter,” widely circulated yesterday in Abuja and signed by Abba-Aji, he said: “My attention has been drawn to the above-stated banner headline on the front page of Monday, December 7, 2009 edition of THISDAY Newspapers.
“The report went ahead to state that I deliberately withheld an official communication from His Excellency, President Umaru Musa Yar’Adua to the President of the Senate and to the Speaker of the House of Representatives informing the leadership of the National Assembly of his decision to proceed on vacation to Saudi Arabia.
“Without beating about the bush, I wish to state unequivocally that the report was false in its entirety as I took no delivery of such communication neither personally nor by proxy. 
“It is therefore unfair for any person or group to erroneously state that I took delivery of such a sensitive official communication from Mr. President but failed to deliver such to its destinations, as contained in the THISDAY report.
“More worrisome to me was the fact that the writer of that report failed to contact me to confirm the authenticity of such report before going to press.
“It is surprising that a national newspaper could go to town with a report of that gravity without bothering to seek confirmation from me. Strangely enough, the writer claimed to have filed his report from Sokoto. But the last time I visited Sokoto was in 2007, over two years ago.
“I hereby state that the report as contained in the said edition of THISDAY newspaper emanated from the restless imagination of the writer apparently for reasons best known to him.
“I therefore vehemently reject all insinuations and far-fetched political manoeuvrings attributed to my person by the writer of that report.
“It is my official duty to deliver official communications from Mr. President to the National Assembly. But in the case in question, there was no such communication from The Presidency.”

Godmother:
Oh sorry, I am thinking so much about this that I actually forgot to post the problem. \
I know that generally all tribes cheat, but is it true that yorubs cheat the most?

Sweet T:
This is another reason why they say "JUST SAY NO TO DRUGS"!

ubiaa5:
u guys are killing me gd nite.

Fhemmmy:
yes oh, cos the only ones that seems to be enjoying the marriage are the women.
I wish i cld propose sabbatical leave off a marriage every 2 - 3 years, say for like 3 months . . . . .

Fhemmmy:
I think married couple need to get time off after every few years.
We do get sabbatical leave after some years of work, so something like that will help too in marriages

Fhemmmy:
Regardless of the transparency, a man is incomplete when he has no money and a real man in him steps out when he start making good money.
So u never know a man till he is in charge of good money.

ubiaa5:
No u have to take it further n make that commitment to cement the union n make things official.

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NordicRace:
Primitive nigerian negros.

Blacks are the scum of the earth.

MrCrackles:
Unfortunate humanbeing or animal or whatever, you will trek to your village this Xmas i swear down. . .
You thieving pinheaded mofo!