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wip2, i just hope you are real and not trying some tricks to scam people. I wonder why you are not given people link to these schools to get the information themselves. It would also add to your credibility if you can provide this forum with link to those fees you quoted. There is nothing wrong in giving information or assisting others, but i believe in a transparency. So can you be a little bit more transparent with your information? - give us the links.

coolcore:
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I can assure you a cool visa to prison, no documentation or interview with one way ticket, all free of charge if you don't get lost now.

hadexman:
I can't give answer to your question. Reason because, it depends on what the applicant is applying for, some student or work permit and others might be medical, visit or holiday visa.

It's just that some Nigerians are getting it all wrong by applying for a visiting visa and hoping to find job and live permanently abroad.

I notice this visa stress happen mostly in Nigeria, i was lucky to accompany a friend of mine (He is a Nigerian) to Polish Embassy here, you wouldn't believe that there was few numbers of guys which i can count there.

His documents wasn't enough to prove that he will come back to SA and they still give him the opportunity to go bring more documents, at the end of the day, he was issued 1 month business visa.

So i will blame it on the Nigerian government.

I agree with some of your points there. If only the government can create a better environment for businesses to thrive, there would be jobs and so many people will not be leaving Nigeria to go and do odd jobs. in-fact if the climate is favorable I know a lot of Nigerians outside here who wouldn't mind returning home to start a bizness. But How can a serious minded person return to Nigeria, with the power situation, bad roads, lack of adequate securities. Where will he start from?

Honestly, if government get their act right, people would be pleading to come to Nigeria and not the way it is.

Najayi has given you the best advice there, but I doubt you would take it. But think about it, if you dont mind doing anything abroad which include farming and i guess watching toilets too, why not use the money to farm in Nigeria?

Please, be very careful of agents, I know your sister is a policewoman, but still be very careful.

If you lie about your age, it will be difficult for you to change it with the new passport. So think seriously about that.

Finally, if you must travel, i will advice you travel as a student. It is much better. Don't be lazy. Find many schools in those countries, apply to them, hopefully one of them will give you an admission, if you get admission, you can come here and get information on how to apply for your visa. You can achieve all these within 3 moths if you are not lazy.

All the best.

chidichris:
@freshmoney,
had it been that you were not a fool, u will still be a fool as i see foolishness as a thing of joy in your life.
what on earth did u find annoying or decieving in the statement of bakare?
is it wrong for someone to advice a sick president to resign and take care of his health? is it unconstitutional for the vice president to take over in the absence of the president? is it a right thing to do killing jonathan to stop him from taking over?
why on earth is it that nigeria has been floaded with idiots of unquantifiable degrees?
outside been a man of God, Tunde bakare is a learned man. he is well read and can stand the taste of time. since u know this man, how many times have u seen him partying with our corrupt leaders or even preaching support for our politicians? he is never been a made in aso rock pastor. this is a man who we all know even in the days of the millitary, have been saying it out no minding the consequences.
the normal thing to do whenever u see a topic on any thread, attack the topic or the poster with your points and not posting unrelated issues.

Another Gbam!!!

Outstrip:
The man is a serial cheater so he deserves to be out something. The both planned to be together forever. Her life took a different course because he asked her to marry him and she agreed. If he then says he will not keep his end of the bargain and forces her to leave then he should pay for her to start another life and also pay for the effects of what came with her marriage to him

Well said. Any evidence of him being a serial cheater? And have you found out the reason why he is asking for a divorce? or that doesnt matter?

ubiaa5:
i got married becoc i was in love and couldnt imagine life witout my hubby and istill feel dat way 8yrs after.one more question fhemmy n i will give u an e-knock.

Since fhemmy is running away from the e-knock, may i ask; is it not possible for you to love & stay with your hubby till the love do you part without getting married?

Accept their apology, walk out, find a nice place to spend the night, call my peep not to bother comming for the wedding and travel out of the town the following morning. Who cares whatever happen in to her and her peep in the church the following day.

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Ty,

Put up your pictures(s). let's see how you look. 'STRAIGHTFORWARD SOULS' dont do black-markets.

What

Dannyke:
Beloved, the 40% she knows nothing about how u spend raises questions. For you to succeed in your marriage transparency and openness must be total. U should let your wife have intimate understanding of how you run your finances fully. Note also that your body is more valuable than your money. If you give your body completely to your wife what then is money?Don't let something as fickle as money destroy your precious marriage.

I beg no to flow with you. Who wants a police as a wife. The wife should get real and give the guy some space. She is just being funny because she is not used to the man's financial independence. She should learn to trust the husband, and if she cant, there is nothing anybody can do about that.

Fhemmmy:
I find it so hard to blv that all these people saying they will stay with the man cos of love.
Love is never enough

I think staying for pity sake is more like it. But I can bet my last cent that 99% of these women will have a guy somewhere doing the thing.

I know it wont happen to me, I will advice any man in that situation to let the woman go except he likes to be pitied.

FL Gators:
Why? Thinking of dating one?

Well yoruba men do practice polygamist a lot. Its that trait. But do they all cheat? no

The hausas are more polygamous. many muslim yorubas are polygamous. But cheating does not belong to any particular tribe. A cheat is a cheat & has no tribal mark.

denny4ril:
wat do u mean kini big deal with drinking gaari? may be Bill Clinton too drinks gaari, abi?

well, he has failed us all and trying to show that he is part of us. na wa ooo!

What WTF is wrong with garri? Is Clinton a Nigerian? Each time I leave naija, I have to pack some garri with me. My peep in naija know I love garri, so they always send it to me. what is wrong with that? Who told you only the poor drink garri? I enjoy drinking garri with some fried meat/chicken than drinking oats or flakes cos I am a Nigerian.

KnowAll:
Since the death of Gani, does anybody notice that this chap has upped his antics and attack on the establishment. I beleive he is one of the true crusaders for the down and trodden. Keep it up Bakare.

We all know the roles rable rousing preachers play in changing societies, Martin Luther King's " I have a dream cannot be further from the truth " nor Desmond Tutu's " Rainbow Ntion" be ignored, the more sincere and fearless men of God we have the better it will be for society at large.

Thumbs up for Bakare.

Gbam!!!

Sorry poster, just saw this. https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=360312.msg5033214#msg5033214

are you referring to the same native doctor's daughter?

[quote author=mr.official link=topic=362502.msg5064200#msg5064200 date=1260186065]N50k ? Tell the girl's mum that you will give her 100k to stop disturbing. [/quote]abeg the guy no get nada. if he has 100k the girl's mum wouldn't offer him 50k.

BTW Poster, Give me the girl and the mother's phone numbers. I need to help you speak to them.

babapupa:
It's a tough job, somebody got to do it.


We'll get there, it's just a matter of time.


Eko o ni baje,

Nothing good comes easy or cheap.

Those against his move, can you suggest alternatives.

ochukoccna:
Obasanjo, drinking cornflakes? Oats? That unrefined man!

I beg. that man has eaten dinner in white house (where you have the most refined dinner table) than any Nigerian I know. But then its eating what you like and the way you are comfortable to eat it that matters. And again who give a Bleep if he eats garri or not or if he is refined or not?

now you are showing me some true colours

But dont forget, this is happening in a Nigerian court. The guy is a lawyer and the woman cant even afford a good lawyer. like I said before, she will be lucky to get 2m from him. Dont also forget the guy is well connected. These are things that speak in Naija.

Am not saying he is right, may be is the men solidarity thing too.

^^^ i wonder too. looks more like oats and flakes to me than garri. but then who cares?

^^^ k, just wanna know its not the women solidarity thing.

foyeks2001:
I knew his marriage wasnt gonna last
anyway I wish her all the best

How did you know? You be w----, or did he break up with you for her or are you interested in him?

chaircover:
Finally Nigerian women are now hitting men where it hurts the most . . . . . their pocket & their good name.

I don’t know the in’s and out’s of this saga but if the women feels that this amount is a fair divorce settlement, then good on her & I wish her good luck.

Are you sure it's the man's fault or you just want to support your own, kind of women solidarity?

Ogaga4Luv:
[size=13pt]Fhemmmy so you didn't tell me you're mama's pet. . .

OAM4J chose one out your parents.[/size]

Must I?

I love/prefer each of them for different reasons.

What's the big deal about this. To even imagine it's in the home page 

She will be lucky to get 2m. In Nigeria?

What was she thinking, when she was a month or two pregnant? She had better not try it.

tureal:
been married is the best thing that has ever happen to me,,,, am not sure am missing any thing by been married but rather loving every moment of my marriege,, ,, don't no way maybe when i wakeup in the morning and see my daughter aka tupretty,,  the smily on my face lighteen,,, or maybe because my wife his the most loving and caring supportive wife ever,, ,, infact my friends envy me cos been married those not stop me from hanging out with them or have some boys outing

Congrats.

But reading through this thread, marriage looks scary. Wonder if it worths the whole stress.

Those who started the thread are not even around any more to give us update, i wonder whatever could have happened to their marriage/believes.

[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=361931.msg5056825#msg5056825 date=1260051820]Which of the Marital Rights was she denied? [/quote][quote author=Aloy~Emeka link=topic=361931.msg5057966#msg5057966 date=1260082607]The right to acquire and use dildos.[/quote]lol