₦airaland Forum

Carrywent:
Hello dear Nairalanders, please I need your help.
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I created this monica account just to hear your advices.
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There is this Guy I am dating, he is a disabled but not that serious. He uses wheelchair but hardworking. We both studied in the same secondary School. We were Besties, we latter turned lovers. He is an idealist, he is also independent. Before you ask his occupation. He was an author and letter turned musical producer. Like i said he is independent. He relocated to Lagos after he finished studying music production and established his own studio in Lagos.
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I love him so much. He also promised to marry me and which I have also agreed to. But we are waiting after my graduation then we keep off the marriage. The problem here is my parents those not agree in our relationship. And they are seriously fighting it. Please I need your advice

Enemyofpeace:
she no fine abeg. Her body odour sef na follow come, e no get part two

Earthbound:
Only fakers be loving when you have. When e red....



Entertainment industry na fake love dey pass. Most of them fake love Linda for her money and status. Take it all away and when e red them tuama. Shikena!

teemy:
Obowunmi translated means pussy lover. He is one of the top posters/sexcapade story tellers in the sexuality section.

NwaliE01:
The most Bias Government in Nigeria History.

Government of Northern Region of Nigeria.

Total Marginalzation of the South South and South East.

My Southern Nigerians are yet to realise that we not in this Government.

soberdrunk:
See better female friend, the only place my own female friends invite me to is their 'poverty stricken' female friends parties where they are looking for who to complete the bills.......


Ps-Life is truly easy for this guy, he has a strong retirement plan if music doesn't work......

Fe2018:
Now that I have your attention lol. I knooooow you all are probably slammed with these questions all the time but I thought I’d give it a shot.

I’m from America and I met this guy...he’s Nigerian of course...completely random...on a dating site (a complete random Christian dating site at that). Initially I didn’t realize where he was from until he asked if we could talk via Facebook. SO I was like of course...he gave me his name and though it was a common Nigerian name (I learned this AFTER getting to know him) I still didn’t realize he lived in Nigerian until I asked him where he was from and...bam! He’s in a whole other country.

So here I’ve been getting to know this guy...I’m really into him and he’s in another country. Of course as soon as I google international dating regarding someone in Nigerian NOTHING but red flags pop up (which is so unfair that an entire country has such a bad name when it comes to dating internationally) BUT I am 7 years older than him, he is still in college and it makes me wonder...could this be a scam? Is he going to eventually ask me for something?

My question is how in the world do you really know? Is there anyone currently dating internationally I can connect with? It would just be nice to have someone who can relate to my situation and also some insight on what to look for if one thought they were being scammed. All I’ve seen is they ask for money, they won’t talk to you on the phone or video chat and they use fake identies BUT that’s literally not the case as he doesn’t ask for money and we talk on the phone as video chat frequently. THE only odd thing he did was tell me he loved me VERY fast because he “wanted to make his intentions known” (that’s when I began my googling and found this site).

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Biingoo:
Traditional evangelist

erifeoluwasimi:
Prophetess Naomi at oba ile, the lady that dropped out of AAUA at 100level because she said she had a calling.... only to marry oniirisa.
I remember the time she was invited to our church ,and she prophecied that I was going to die during my first child bearing because that my destiny.i never attended the church again till now,CAC ATORISE. Now I'm a mum of two. Let me laugh abeg.

baliyubla:
You have 8 daughters (4 step), please tell us which has embraced Agriculture. The posh jobs are for your kids, while other women should embrace Agriculture abi. Aisha you too should leave your luxury make up business and go into Agriculture.

YorubaEmir:
Northocracy