₦airaland Forum

Samhyme:
Recently I noticed that I am becoming too aroused sexually. Just talking to a lady makes my joystick becomes excited, even while alone or in public, the same thing happen without thinking about sex or lusting. What could be the cause or is it normal?

Techfave:
Hello guys, please I need enlightenment on this



My sister got married Last Year, she was pregnant already when she married, the man she married is over 40 years old, my sister got her husband through a religion organization, when the leader of the organization insisted that she must marry that man..

Now my concerns about is that this man she got married too is not financially okay, My mum always send money to my sister..


When my sister was about to give birth my mum finance nearly all the hospital Bill, the funniest thing is that my mum also borrowed the money somewhere..

My question is that,

Is is okay for my mum to send money to my sister after she is married??

Is it okay for the leader of a religion organization to dictate to my sister to marry this man??

Please I need enlightenment on this issues

Rashduct4luv:
They can't meet! Never ever!

Abeymills:
Buhari u have made life hell on earth for me n my family God will surely judge u n all those cows on nairaland supporting u

Fountainofyouth:
Honestly this is sad, from all your write up, the problem started when you lost your job, meaning all was fine before then, meaning you enticed her with money when you both started dating, meaning there was never real love in the first place just love for material and financial gain, well,since she is still interested in the marriage, give her more time that she needs, do your part by calling and seeing her not just sending your mum to go there, make steps too towards getting her back cos it's obvious you both still want to be together, all the best.

P.S To all those guys that says "make money first then women will flow your way" this is the end result.

kayone6237:
Please house don't mind my construction but I will go straight to the point.

My wife always reports me to anybody that can help me spiritually and physically. What I mean by reporting is that, she always tarnishes my image everywhere, she has reported me to my Inlaw, her siblings, to the extent that I have amounted to nothing.

She reported me to my former pastor and now to my present pastor that I am a smoker of which I am not.

Anytime I go out of the house just to stroll or catch fun with my friends, the next thing is for her to tell me that I have smoked.

I am contemplating divorce because I don't see anything good about her anymore. I have corrected her several times but she won't listen.

I am saying this because it is my heart beat. I need a mature mind to give me candid advice.

Every contribution will be highly appreciated.

Ramanto:
I'm not convinced I can marry her but her mum is getting me a job now. Should I decline the offer please? I seriously need your contributions. I need the job, but I don't want to be indebted to the family

Ify05:
Toke was at Rita Dominic's birthday party and she looked amazing in her Leather see-through little black dress.


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StrikeBack:
There is nothing like spiritual life in Nigeria.
We are all deceiving ourselves with our emotions and feelings.. A country filled with spiritual life and churches everywhere also doubles as the most useless and wicked country.

God help us

So many people are profiting from this our gullibility

mokkalu1:
Make una calm down jare. Maybe Oyakhilome didn't follow all these instructions. I'll marry anyone I want who agrees to marry me. That's all!

chukwuibuipob:
diz obowunmi Eru aya mama is above 30 oo..How old she be wen she dey dance for Obesere Asakasa in the late 90?

Livecamp09:
Please I have this serious issue and it making me feel uncomfortable. Each time I approach a lady who I really like, I feel happy about that but when the lady start giving me her attention and love, I do feel disgusted and irritated and instantly my feeling towards her diminish and fades away. Please what could be the cause of this, I don't know what to do help me.

Livecamp09:
Please I have this serious issue and it making me feel uncomfortable. Each time I approach a lady who I really like, I feel happy about that but when the lady start giving me her attention and love, I do feel disgusted and irritated and instantly my feeling towards her diminish and fades away. Please what could be the cause of this, I don't know what to do help me.

Glory147:
Dear Nairalanders, Please I Need Your Opinion About A Crucial And Disturbing Matter.

Seven (7) Years Ago, I Had A Dream Where A Man Walked Up To Me And Showed Me A Group Of People In Bondage. This Man Told Me That I Was Destined To Save This People From Bondage But There Is Something I Must Not Do. The Man Said I Must Not Have Sex With Any Woman Until I Am Married.

At The Initial Stage, This Instruction Was Easy For Me To Keep But Presently, There Is A Strong Pressure On Me.

I'm In A Relationship And I Have Asked My GirlFriend For Sex Because I Want To Act Normal Like Every Other Guy But She Keeps Denying Me The Upportuinity To Have Sex With Her. And When Ever She Agrees For Us To Have Sex, Something Just Happens And We End Up Quarreling. My Relationship Is Actually Not Working And I'm Loosing Control Of Myself.

To Make Matters Worse, My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian, And I Never Knew Until We Had A Heated Argument "Can You Imagine What Fate Brought To Me "

I Don't Know If It's This Dream That Is Affecting Me But Staying For Over 27 Years And Still A Virgin Is Killing Me. I Really Don't Know What To Do.

Sirpaul:
The biggest lesson I learned this year is to not force anything;
conversations, friendships, relationships, attention, love.
Anything forced is just not worth fighting for, whatever flows,
flows, what crashes, crashes. It is what it is.

Hello........